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Nyascobar1414:
Guys popping this pills fr......

Actually..

Being an MGTOW man makes you free from simping..
You cant be a married, family man without simping.. Be it a virgin or non-virgin.


Marriage was meant for simps..

As a man if you stay committed to your job, you gain money at the end of the day. If you stay committed to a woman, you gain nothing..
Marriage was meant and programmed for simps...




Somehow, I'm regretting for knowing these truths(RP)..

Women dont fvkñ love, so how does a sane man sacrifice his sweat for such being

Mehhn, I'm fvked up.


I think SOZINN,Mezee is strictly MGTOW, from their writeups, they seem to not give a living fvk whether the society burns or not.

@bolded...It's always fun and good to spew out such from your mouth till the rooster comes home to roost.

Ironically, same you complain of bribery and corruption. Same you complain of insecurity. Same you complain of individual deceit. Same you complain of bad governance. Same you will plead for your life and those of your loved ones when forced to the guillotine for an unjust cause.

Yet you don't see that these people "don't give an fvck whether society burns or not".

Don't want to even border myself with your other write-up.

The joke is on you, my friend.

1. God's time is the best.

2. The patient's dog eats the fattest bone.

3. It shall be well. Keep pushing.

4. Delay is not denial.

5. Calm down. It is not your turn yet.

6. No matter how much you earn save.

Not that saving money is a bad idea. But people don't understand what savings mean. You save your excess. You don't save when you have needs and bills to settle. It is stupid to deprive yourself of your basic needs and have savings. Best is an investment because in cases of inflation which happens annually or biennial you can still have some good income flow. (Investment is not guaranteed, pick your poison).

Inflation reduces the value of your savings. By the way, who told you you'll live to see another year? You must think long-term anyways but wisdom should direct you.

7. Any good you do, your reward is in heaven.

8. Your problem can only be solved by fasting and prayer.

9. Be patient. A miracle is coming your way. Keep working.

PS: Mere looking at this advice they are innocent and innocuous. But if decide to go deep and analyze each one layer by layer, you get to know that they are advised that appeals to your poor state and makes you either inert or procrastinate. They are just hope and coping mechanisms. They are rigid advice that can even breed laziness, gaslighting, and manipulation.

Life is too complex. There is no God's time, any time can be God's time when everything is present and just clicks. But there can't be any time in life when all things will fall on our palms. Hence, you must become flexible, maneuver, and manipulate your way to success.

Patience only makes sense in terms of a process. Example: when food is cooking. When a seed is growing. This is patience (but we shouldn't also forget that we can hasten this process. Instead of kerosene, use gas; instead of a normal soil environment use artificial conditions).

No miracle. Prayer and fasting don't work!

The right conditions + right resources + right connections + skills + hard work = success. Even chance/luck is dependent on these factors. It's not prayer that makes these factors come together, else, only religious people would have been successful.

The world is too complex. Don't stick to a rigid rule in expectation of a (particular) success. You must be flexible and prepared to learn the hard way and adapt to ever-changing conditions. Except the rule is a basic rule of life that ensures prosperity on a broad scale.

Thanks.

For those interested in leadership.

https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1597848872008941568?t=_lPs8gXA7isL3Jh-P_p5tA&s=19

Seems modern women have taken over the world. Their acts are circulated over social media space. The daily encounter proves social media facts: these women are becoming more prideful and arrogant. Probably they can continue without caution. Yeah.

Who the hell gave women such leeway? If it is like that, men should follow suit. Men should not care. Men can be careless.

But can men be careless like women: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1597848872008941568?t=_lPs8gXA7isL3Jh-P_p5tA&s=19

It is not that women decide to love the wrong men because he's wrong. But women fall for the selective bias and the halo effect when selecting a mate.

How can these women be helped? What about men that fall for the wrong women?

You can have more insight here:

https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1597443409706635264?t=3U1LTQblolKGWnv8qUdAYA&s=19

crystalmoon:
another banger
Cave I would like to ask a question
You are somebody I admire the role model I follow I started reading some of your old post and I realized you were a Christian
How did you transit from been a Christian to a care giver
And what books can you recommend for a brother that is about to become 20

If I get you correctly:

1. Learn a scalable skill, computer skill preferable. Start latest December 2022.

2. You don't need to believe in a God/god or become a Christian or religious person to be a good person. But the concept of God is valuable in our lives and society. All you need do is to decipher and understand the significant lessons behind religious metaphors, proverbs, and allegories.

3. Make a declaration today that you'll pursue facts and truth and nothing but wisdom, knowledge, and understanding. You'll start experiencing a change in your life.

4. All books are vital. One is not more important than the other. But so far, you can ignite yourself with these:

A. The Bible.
B. The Quran.
C. Counte of Monte Cristo by Alexander Dumas.
D. Mastery by Robert Greene.
E. Rationale male series by Rollo Tomassi.
F. Endurance by Alfred ***
G. When breathe becomes air by ***

Important mention:
@tellyoursonthis on Twitter.
@BabaCave on Twitter.
Jordan Peterson also got good content on YouTube.

5. Take your growth as a do-or-die affair and you'll experience a positive change.

6. Write daily and improve on your use of English.

Thanks.

You are not weak. Maybe time is your weakness.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1597167050887397376?t=HG1Yu4dfFmokeMlWHuOehw&s=19

YoobaNesan:
Thanks man.
Always enjoy your quota.
More ink to your pen.

There is a thread relating to this here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1597167050887397376?t=HG1Yu4dfFmokeMlWHuOehw&s=19

Where do we find ourselves in time?

How are we limited by time?

You have it here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1597167050887397376?t=HG1Yu4dfFmokeMlWHuOehw&s=19

1. Place of birth is a core factor that highly determines the progress of a child. A child may be dull and slow, but if there is the right environment for that child, the child can be catered to become a well-to-do adult in the future.

2. Family background is another core factor. Born into a poor family sets the child backward and far from the playing field of life. That child may end up hearing the game but will never witness it, even if the child does, the goalpost will always be far from him.

3. In the Nigerian music industry, if you observe well, most of the artists that you hear on the radio and different exquisite platforms have good parents that sponsored them to the limelight without them crawling in the dark in search of the mic and the podium. Some parents had good connections and linked their children to quality music brands and records.

4. No matter your talent and skill, coming from a poor home will easily make you sink out of your dream; hopes are drained. You may even become scared of your dreams, there will be constant recalibrations of your ambitions just to trim them down to the level your poverty and penury can entertain.

5. Being born poor is a crime against humanity! But are you going to stop the last joy of the poor parents - which are children? The essence of marriage is reproduction, reproduction is the aim of the mating process. Every offspring as a result of that union must be able to survive. Poor parents don't care. Only after procreation did they start running helter-skelter in search of materials to cater to the kids.

6. Reproduction is an instinct. Only mass castration can stop poor people from giving birth.

So, the goal is not to stop poor people from reproducing but to create a prosperous and sustainable economic system and networks of economic growth that can satisfy the basic needs of the growing population.

7. It is a pity that the majority of the young Nigerian population will never see the light. It is pathetic. But many do believe they will be successful and appear in the Forbes list because they have a strong belief in God and religion. They ignore the weightier matter of the land and choose to chase illusions because they are ignorant.

8. The few that (will) succeed will taint their hands in social vices and (some) tinctures of evil. Ascending to the top from a poor society is a road filled with dried blood, decayed flesh, and dried bones.

Except you choose to be contented with your meager income. Outright ruthlessness, wickedness, arrogance, and transgression of law are the order of the day in a poor and failed state when ascending to the top.

9. Those that are aware: activists, businessmen, and intellectuals can't fight back because they have their interests, money, and pride to protect. There is always a quid pro quo of the greater good for their temporal desires. Not only that, if they become rebellious they will be exterminated by those who have a larger armory and power over them: political leaders.

But can they destroy these multitudes of peasants if the peasants are ready and willing to strike and take over their land? Fear is what these tiny sets of oppressors used to conquer the masses.

10. The psychological implications of this societal decay and menace: you'll come to a stage when you will start questioning your sanity. You'll begin to ask yourself if you're the one taking the wrong decision and making the wrong steps. You just have to quickly snap back to reality and to the conclusion that beyond you, the problem is on a grand scale.

11. The majority of Nigerian and African children will never see the light due to the persistence of failed African leaders and governments. They can only murmur for too long and be comforted by the promises written in religious books; the peasants rather be pacified by the promise of a golden home in paradise than send their enemies to the guillotine.

12. To survive and make a little headway, one must be flexible and adaptable. Maybe he can find a niche convenient till his end of days. Or, save his way to a better geographical area or continent where things work and citizens are proud to fight for their country and be called heroes and patriots.

Thanks.

Cc. YoobaNesan.

"Biko make una tell me where to download movies o"

Fzmovies want to kill me with redirecting. I'm done with them.

Thanks.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1596889913391075333?t=MAvhDJQ_UbBwfpLkmXVmYQ&s=19

Have you read something nice today?

https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1596889913391075333?t=MAvhDJQ_UbBwfpLkmXVmYQ&s=19

Circumstances like this are difficult to handle, not because you don't know what to do straight up but because your conscience will keep probing you once you take any drastic action. It's not their fault for the epileptic power supply.

To solve this problem:

1. Go blank or ghost mode: refuse them when they come to charge.

However, the downside is that hate will start brewing in their hearts. You'll become overly cautious of every one of your moves because you don't want to step on toes and cause unnecessary anger. The wicked neighbors may end up causing damage to the generator.

Another downside is that you don't know when you'll need help. A friend close by is better than a brother far off. There are cases of emergency you'll need their assistance which they'll deprive you of. It's 50/50..." do me I do you...God nor go vex". Except you know that you can do all on your own and will never need any form of assistance from your neighbors now and in the future.

2. Pretend that the generator is bad and solicit help. If they help you, fine. If they don't, go ghost mode. "Once you repair your generator, they'll never come close".

3. Or, before you go buy fuel, ask for little funds around. With this method, only those that contributed will come for charging.

4. Give them a specific time you'll allow their gadgets to get charged and simply explain the reason.

5. If the above proved impossible, you'll need to find another peaceful residence.

Thanks.

Betgold84:
3 azuls for you.

"Where the azul dey make I come collect."

Lol.

"Excelxpress.

I don dey mama nkechi bar...i wan dey order o".

Excelxpress:
For this no 10…

Please send me your acc number let me buy you beer and pepper soup for today World Cup abeg ! Only married men will understand this .

"Oya naw send me the address."

"Make I naka you DM"

Thanks.

seanwilliam:
hmm
To get engagement on Twitter especially from Nigerians is not that hard.

pretend to be wizkid fc, create a controversial topic ( e.g you can say wizkid new album is the best album from Africa , better than whatever burna boy has done ..) and ensure you blindly support whatever post that involves wizkid.. ( wizkid has the most die hard fan base on Twitter in Nigeria ).. at end of every post, ask them( wizkid fc) to follow you.. on average , depends on how much engagement u get , u should get atleast 100 followers per topic. . use that to your advantage. This trick works 100% especially any day wizkid is trending. And wizkid trends atleast 2 times per week.

It also works for Beyoncé (beyhives) and Peter obi ( obedients ) fans too.


Also ensure your comments on trending topics oppose context of discourse. E.g if the topic says love is a beautiful thing , comment love is a scam. Just create unnecessary negativity.

If all these don’t work for you, buy spammed Twitter logs.

Hope this helps sir.
Cc: caveadullam

Thanks. Social media algorithm is so designed in a way that if your content isn't among the normal platitudes it will hardly be discovered. And sometimes you content is deboosted.

The true reality of social media content: give them what they want. Just as you have said.

Thanks.

Someoneschild2:
Nothing is free.
Understand this and have peace!

True.

1. Mothers are the only group of women who have a genuine love for a man. She's there in the dark. She's there in his sorrows. She's there in his pains and agony.

2. The reason is not that "the mother" is inherently different from other women, but by reproductive right, she's a god(ess) to her son, and her son sees her so. Being a mother is the only time a woman can "absorb" a man's agonies without disgust.

3. Except the mother is narcissistic, she cannot weather the storm effectively with her son, just more petrol to fire.

4. Of course, when the push becomes too much, even a mother that shows genuine love can become "frustrated" because she's incapable of fully comprehending and giving tactical solutions to the failings of the masculine.

5. Even in that genuine love state, her counseling is more emotional, less risky, and less pragmatic. The mother in her attempt to protect her son in his dark days ends up weakening him which was not her intention.

6. Humans are transaction beings. Selfishness is rooted in our psyche. The essence of this genuine love is to secure his attention and love when she becomes old, however, not transactional in the sense that "he must help me now before I help him". Remember: the mother is a goddess to the son. God himself is transactional.

7. Sisters are the next on the line to mothers. Sisters treat their brothers as would-be wives. Helping him to soften the ground as per their ability. Where mothers are goddesses; sisters are watchers.

8. Wives, fiancees, and girlfriends can go far as bearing with a man in his dark hours, full of sorrows and sudden nightmares. However, it is for a time; transactional to the core with a pretense of love.

9. Mothers and sisters love from within to without. Wives... love from without to within. The latter will begin to shift from the man as the day gets gloomy. They can only bear till it gets dark.

10. Here is the difference between wives and mothers: mothers stay when it is getting dark and is dark. Wives leave when it becomes dark or even when it begins.

11. The wives... that stay behind are those that truly love him or met him and loved him in the dark. The dark carries an air of mystery, if that mystery follows adventures you get women hooked - the reason women are attached to jerks.

12. But why do wives and girlfriends start to leave when things get dark when on the same note women are attracted to men that have an atmosphere of darkness? The simple answer: love of adventure. Husbands are not adventurous while jerks are.

13. In women's thoughts, the mystery surrounding husbands in the dark is that of fear and loss of protection and provision. The mystery surrounding jerks is an adventure for a new thing, or probably redemption. Simply put: women already know their husbands but don't know jerks.

14. Motherly love tends to shield the male. It is less risky. That's why sons and daughters love their mothers more than their fathers. Because fathers don't give a hoot about weakness and fragility.

15. From a young age, the father starts preparing the sons for the tough world and these actions seem like hate. Only when the son has become what the good father intend can he be able to appreciate this strong masculine hand that never gave him two shoulders to cry long. The mother wants to fully protect the son, the father wants the son to own his protection by fighting his enemies.

16. It is for this reason a good family is important for every man. As the father sets him up for battle, the mother comforts him with a smile and hope. Every child that misses this love suffers more when he/she eventually enters the battlefield.

17. Friends are a mix of the love of a mother and a wife. You are not sure until you pass from dark to light and see who stays or remains loyal. With women and friends, you must select wisely.

18. Above all, have a love for your family regardless of the pain they must have caused you. They are your last resort when the world turns on you. Be wise though.


DAY 331, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Respect father. Love mother. Be kind to sisters. Encourage brothers. Vet that woman. Know your friend.

PS: Something nice for you Hedgefunds, Calibrator, Reminderz, YoobaNesan, virginboy01 et al

What you don't need in a woman. And what you shouldn't become.

1. The chances of achieving your goal become impossible or ultra slim.

2. As a father you will hardly have time for yourself because you are bothered about family bills.

3. Your only joy as a father is that your kids are healthy, intelligent, and becoming responsible.

4. As a father, the love your family has for you is predicated on the magnitude of your food storage and the depth of your pocket.

5. As a father when things go sour, the respect from nuclear and extended family plummets.

6. As a mother, you must serve your husband and children. You don't have time for vacations or rest.

7. As a father you will have at least one child that will behave in such a manner that it is as if he/she hates the family and wants to ruin the family name intentionally.

8. As a father only loyalty to your vows will keep you from infidelity because your wife will become boring by the day. Ditto for the mother.

9. The flames that run the marriage don't burn on their own. To keep the marriage fresh and the union alive the husband and wife must fan the flames.

10. As a father you'll one day be shocked and remain long-standing with mouth wide open, eyes gazing far when you are being asked "what have you done for me that you are using to boast".

11. As a mother you'll be expected to lead and provide even though it is not within your jurisdiction.

Marriage is a dreadful but enjoyable journey and must only be engaged by men and women who will be accountable and deliberate enough to hold to their specific marriage vows. Because marriage is the building block of civilization. The man and woman must be buoyant in the financial, physical, and spiritual angles (not religious) with no emotional baggage.

Thanks.

Luminouz, where are thou?

Calibrator,?

Nerostealth01?

CAPSLOCKED?

Lordcassy?

Pukkalolo, I sight you.

Saviolamemphis?

Dierich5?

Smartb0y?

Someoneschild2?

et al.

Stay well bros.

Gerrard59:
Actually, what she said makes a whole lot of sense. She is one of the few young women who has sense on TwitterNG. Regarding the five points, that is the reason men should develop a capitalist mindset. Any man who has money understands that these sexually free women are for the highest bidder and the time spent with her is just his. Afterwards, she is for the next person. Na mumu man go expect fidelity from those girls. Take your share and move on. Why try to change the status quo? In fact, his hope/prayer should be that more girls indulge in such so that the supply pool increases while the demand is static. If I am on that Twitter thread, I will book ladies from there, satisfy my sexual urge and fantasies and move on. You will never see me complaining.

The interesting thing about this una red-pill is that I have written extensively on Nairaland that nothing like love exists. I don't believe it exists. Also, I have stated that the only logical reason for a man to get married while living in Nigeria is to ensure his children grow up in a two-parent household. I have read academic studies on hypergamy and related themes such as assortative mating, gender pay gap etc. But I strike a balance. It is akin to me complaining that people marry every Saturday without realising that the vast majority of Nigerians are conservative and would desire to marry someday. Imagine spending time being angry that many Nigerians are getting married? For instance, one of L69's posts is about that man's friends who have stable marriages? Where the man does not cheat, and wives assist when necessary (abi Nigerian women no dey epp their families again)? People can't just tar every woman with a bad brush, ditto for those Ulxma dem type feminists who believe everything associated with men is bad yet hobnob around tech bros.

Dear uncle Gerrard,

there is nothing you have said that's antithetical to the purpose of this thread. Greater blame on you if haven't gone through the thread or grabbed a deep, thorough, and expatiating understanding of the red pill elsewhere.

Before this time, that's before this thread came into existence, I have shown slight antagonism towards the redpill until I took time to understand it better. Of course, humans have a knack to defend their cherished beliefs, so no doubt seeing what you are doing here and sundry while there is a paroxysm of laughter right here concerning my former stance and beliefs.

I hope you can see how your former post I responded to is weightless, of which you agreed to the pictorial evidence I dropped. Meanwhile, you didn't rebut any of the evidence I gave in reaction to the claim you made - "well-to-do men don't bemoan about women".

Brokeshaming is a regular tool in the arsenal of the mobs that rise against the redpill. But social media activities are not operated clandestine, anybody can run through the handle of many manosphere/redpill accounts and judge them. There are so many of them except you want to pretend that you haven't heard of them or come across them. By the way, in the red pill, men are encouraged to develop themselves and become useful and productive. Or, do you want them to be denied useful knowledge that can help them and others and that is useful for the present and future even in their lowly state?

There is no denying that in every subject as in those subjects peculiar to humans and their nature, extremism is present. But you can only identify extremism if you have first understood the core principles that govern the subject.

We don't have a king or god here. There is no permanent and eternal belief right here. All we do is compare notes, and engaged in eye-opening and compelling debates while holding on to topics in the subjects that continually prove themselves true until we get a newer and better one.

Thanks.

SOZINN:
Chief this guy you quoted and that Labadi is the same person. He just created another moniker to complement and agree with himself, he couldn't even be creative with it. One is 69 the other is 59

Maybe I misconstrued him for another Gerrard I do come across sometimes.

Thanks man.

How are you?

Gerrard59:
One thing I have noticed in sexual relationships or affairs is that the men who complain a lot about how women are so "sexually free" are never financially buoyant. They are always poor! I am yet to meet a man who bemoans sexual freedom for women that is well-to-do.

"Well-to-do men don't "bemoans" because they are the exact SIMPS we are talking about.

The onus is for you to tell us if he should bemoan:

1. when he is being pillaged by the divorce/family court.

2. When he is being friend-zoned.

3. When he sacrificed his life for the woman and got dumped.

4. When he becomes a victim of paternity fraud.

5. When he has sponsored the girl through a tertiary institution and ends up dumping him.

Quick note: a foolish man will first judge truth from a place of wealth and abundance. The wise man will decipher the message on the ground from the messenger. The same foolish men fall for the authority bias - something is true if it is spoken by those that have high status.

What will you say concerning the woman below?

Have a nice day.

1. On a general note, people favor beautiful men and women - the halo effect. They allocate good things and behavior to them. If competence and skills are similar between two males or females, looks automatically become the distinguishing factor. In most cases, looks are favored above competence, ill behavior, and integrity.

2. If people hate you because of your looks you wouldn't have had them gravitate toward you for camaraderie. Your physique and beauty are social proof. Attaching themselves to you make them share in that same love and attention you receive.

3. You might think people hate you because of your looks, wait till you get physically disabled and unfit...you'll experience hate pro max. Observe well, parents treat their most attractive kids better than their less attractive siblings. Go to motor parks and slumps, you'll see that nobody cares about the ugly man; ugly women only leverage their sexuality for social acceptance.

4. Humans proclaim "don't judge a book by its cover" but it is the same humans that judge other humans by their looks before their character and personality. Add wealth or occupy a totem pole in society and you'll be given a leeway for life. You'll get them hooked with your looks and physique; if you are wealthy, you have them under your control; good looks and wealth; you become their idol.

5. Humans play on the spectrum of morality, immorality, and amorality, even God. Love and hate reside in us which is contingent on the presence or absence of our desires.

6. The people that hate you because of your looks do so because your looks make them extinct in the presence of others or a larger audience. They lack love, care, and attention.

7. Instinctually, you are an obstacle to all that they can gain. Such behavior elicits competition and rivalry. In the wild and animal kingdom, there is an immediate physical fight while in the human world jealousy breeds until it compounds to physical harm, browbeating, shame, or even neglect.

8. Since you have noticed this, the best you can do for yourself is:

A. Take residence in a private area.

B. Spend most time with rich and beautiful people and immaculate minds like yours.

C. Increase the level of your introversion.

D. Ghost people most time.

E. Don't allow them to catch you less busy, always be working or pretend to do so when you sight them coming as it will make them not spend much time with you.

F. Don't create too much time for them, just a few seconds of chit chats and you can call it a day.

9. They will harm you because you pose as a threat, and they will do so directly or by proxy. They are wicked manipulators and deceptive sycophants. Beware of them.

Thanks.