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And please do not take your life.... I beg you, that is pure wickedness, think of the pain u will cause ur kids, your parents, family, even ur husband...
TRUST ME ALL THESE WILL PASS JUST LIKE A BAD DAY, IT ISN'T FOREVER...

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

I'm sorry to say this, but you are a very Wicked & God forsaken woman... I can imagine the pain and trauma that man is going through right now. It's like I'm the person coz I'm feeling his pain.
And don't you ever say you love your husband, You don't love him, if you do, that love will out weigh that urge of sex & your loyalty will prevail. You don't live him, you are just used to him.
BUT I RESPECT YOUR COURAGE TO SAY THE TRUTH, THE FIRST STEP OF REDEMPTION IS SAYING THE TRUTH & FEELING REMORSEFUL....

I pray God overlook your foolishness & save your marriage by touching the heart of your husband to be merciful that is if your heart actually feel remorse.. & if he forgives you pls show him how sorry you are and resign From that work, or ask for a transfer out of there if possible..... U will overcome,... I'm sorry once again.

LuciferKoran:
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This guy is guilty abeg.



*spits

I pray you and your family members at large don't die for what you are innocent of... Then you will know the true pain of false accusation.....

1) Y'all attacking the op are just senseless attention seeking bigots.

2)He wrote the truth as it is right from the beginning without sentiment or bias, Although I am not a fan of Polygamy,(I.e CHOICE) due to personal reasons which he outrightly said.

3) and lastly those who said that was in the old testaments, Jesus Christ never came to earth to do away with the laws(I.e Old testament) or tell us to forget it like tinx written in it doesn't count. He said so himself in Matthew 5:17-20. read in as many translations as possible.

And lastly op Thank you for the eye opener to many who has already Condemned themselves bcoz they found their self in this situation which ignoramus individuals see as a sin, which God hasn't till now...

How many them dey catch and how many them dey show to media The policemen are the real thieves.

FTC again. No big deal.

Shut up your mouth joor. Even for 1billion dollar, for real? With this wrinkle body

Meanwhile FTC!!!! no big deal.

Ok

K

Your mother might have over reacted for slapping her, there are more mature ways to handle such. Although Temperament differs... Your wife on the other hand she has no regards for you nor your family, she stepped out of place to slap your mum.... My question to you is
If her own mother /father slapped her, would she trow the slap back If not, let the divorce stay that way until she realize her mistake and make amends in ways possible, if she really want her home back she would do the needful... But if she will slap her own mum/ dad back instantly like she did to your mum, accept her in and follow her to beg your mum, as it is her temperament.....

But even the bible says the only way it is advisable to set your wife packing is only a crime of UNFAITHFULNESS which she isn't guilty of...

Note:
Never Speak Or take Decision when Angry(u will regret it).
Never Make Promises when Excited(might make the impossible).

Dem nor dey use the way body dey itch person scratch am against the wall, Else u go Scratch ur body Injure...
#thinkAboutThis

Hmmm

Tanx

Ok

Ok

Mr man, just don't be swift to end it, give her space and give her attitude if she will notice and come to apologize....... We all are just assuming what she might not be or blind towards what she is......

If she apologized, then set your rules straight with her abt & forget love first to be playing a fool to apologize even when she is wrong.

If she doesn't apologize, I'm sorry to say, the relationship would not last, as it is one sided.. Then you can do what is on your mind before posting this online....

I won't tell you to quit or not, na you wen wear shoe know where e dey hurt u.

NwaAmaikpe:


Is it not the same Apostle Johnson Suleiman
Those confused souls won't humiliate themselves if they ever saw these photos.


Suleiman is a certified fake

FAKE OR NO FAKE, LET GOD BE THE JUDGE OF THAT. BEFORE YOU BLINDLY AND WILLING BRING DESTRUCTION AND JUDGEMENTS UPON YOU AND YOUR HOUSE HOLD...... I'm not saying the apostle is fake, but even if he is, keep shut because you don't know his relationship with God, before you be the sacrificial lamb

Sorry to ask, but how many of you saying 450k, 150k and all those exorbitant amount has actually got married? Maybe all of you are still single and would remain like that except you erase that mentality off your head..... BROTHER PLEASE HAVE A STEADY SOURCE OF INCOME OR INVESTMENT AND GET MARRIED..... THE ROMAN EMPIRE WASN'T BUILT IN A DAY......

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