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KanwuliaExtra:
Oh yes! They stay fresh. Make sure you sautee your veggies with olive oil , butter or any oil of your choice, so they are semi-cooked and firm.
DO NOT FRERZE, because the veggies in fried rice can become annoyingly soggy.

Keep fried rice in the COLDEST Part of your fridge.✅

Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks

Nemesis0147:
Good day fam...

I have an elder sister,our only sister to be precise.
Now the problem is that she talk to us boys anyhow and hardly apologize when she offends you,,,,she can keep malice with you for 2years even when she is at fault......because she is the eldest and the only girl.....maybe sha.

The one that happened of recent was we had an occasion last month which me and my junior brother took care of the all the expenses....she didn’t call me when I went back to my base.
Only for her to call me after 3 days with insults because someone told her something which was not true and she didn’t bother to hear from me before throwing insults at me....no respect whatsoever!!

I didn’t reply her,,,I just locked up so we haven’t spoken since then......this Xmas period,I just feel like crediting her because I have her account number but I’m still pained because she don’t give me that respect.....I’m the first son by the way and she is the first daughter.....

Should I lock up or just credit her?
Don’t tell me to call her because I won’t.....


NB:she is married and their okay so the money might not be anything to her but I just feel like showing love.

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

Zonefree:
Prayers without work is vain. Channel this energy to educate your fellow hustlers to reduce hand for waka waka.



Oshimmiri no dey drown person wey em never see em legs.

Goldmaxx:
Nigerian law and Supreme Court canceled all those rubbish village and tribal custom. Times are changing and the parent better equipped takes custody of the children.
Besides even if the lady takes the children, she'll still be receiving upkeep money from the father unless she's very rich or are family is.

Airforce1:
Ok so I created a thread to congratulate myself on the smooth delivery of my third child with my girl friend. Some sadists jumped on it and be preaching marriage while some were tryna be disrespectful on a thread that I didn't tag there father ..ok

I want to ask you holier than thou oloshi people How many of you are happy and ain't cheating on your husband or wives In your marriages?

Are you even happy in your marriages ?

My girl friend is enjoying what you holier than thou so called married men and women were lacking in your marriages .

Experienced:
We urgently need a Male Driver in Our Office In Ibeju Lekki Lagos For Immediate Employment

The Driver must be living within Ajah/Ibeju Lekki axis or close by location

Interested person should get in touch with us or send his CV to 080–519–968–82.

Psiyohos:
My landlady started selling eggs in crate because of me, na so I hold brake,
One night my crate of eggs mysteriously fell down and wasted
So until I rent a better place.
Take me as I am

Psiyohos:
Concoction Rice

Rice: ( I usually buy 1/2 paint at thr beginning of the month, as I mostly eat Spaghetti)

Tomato and pepper - 200
Eggs (2 ) 150

I added crayfish and curry (1 sachet)

Psiyohos:
New Grounded beans.

At Ilepo Market lagos.

The last one lasted for about 6months

Southboy:
Because her getting pregnant was a mistake, I'm not even sure I'm responsible but that's a story for another day.

Also I have some1 I want to marry that is currently stayhying with me.

Experienced:
We urgently need a Male Driver in Our Office In Ibeju Lekki Lagos For Immediate Employment

The Driver must be living within Ajah/Ibeju Lekki axis or close by location

Interested person should get in touch with us or send his CV to 080–519–968–82.

ccjoe:
Some lady came over to my place to sleep over last month. As usual things went down that i couldn't help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn't use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn't seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of November.

I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry whom i am truly in love with.
Welcome to reality were people are more scared of pregnancy than STDS


This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her making me to cheat on my girl. I even confronted her immediately to apologize for making me cheat on my girl and she outrightly refused(imagine). That moment I realized she was the cocky type.

Now I am rambling and rambling because I don't genuinely love this girl. As a matter of fact, She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. She's not my type, she's indecent and a cheat. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this situation?

ccjoe:
Some lady came over to my place to sleep over last month. As usual things went down that i couldn't help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn't use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn't seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of November.

I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry whom i am truly in love with.
Welcome to reality were people are more scared of pregnancy than STDS


This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her making me to cheat on my girl. I even confronted her immediately to apologize for making me cheat on my girl and she outrightly refused(imagine). That moment I realized she was the cocky type.

Now I am rambling and rambling because I don't genuinely love this girl. As a matter of fact, She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. She's not my type, she's indecent and a cheat. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this situation?

Wellspringbunny:
Our eldest daughter 22 years old disowned us because we didn't like the man she was dating the guy is not Nigerian which is not a problem but he has a bad reputation he is a Gold digger and gigolo he has 7 children by 6 women people from his country in our community have warned us and told us to tell our daughter to run for her life we have talked to her to no avail she left the house and disowned us. she got married yesterday Saturday without our knowledge. We didn't know that she was getting married it was my husband that saw the wedding footage on tiktok , he showed me the footage we are heartbroken we have lost sleep and appetites ,there is nothing we can do to stop her we don't have her contact nor her adress she has even stopped talking to her immediate younger sister because she advised her to quit the relationship. she went to her sister old house she heard them arguing about money he use her credit card without her consent so my youngest daughter warned and told her to send him packing she agreed only for her to blocked her till date, she has changed house . We hope that she will not end up like his other baby mamas, I need advice from other parents in the house what advice would you give my husband and I? Please note we are not in Nigeria we lives abroad

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Grab my weed to read
Hard work and consistency i agree plus the money dey steadily

Because without the money that dream and goal can't be realized and actualized

Some of us get this kind dream that year but hunger change the whole thing

Nunam:
How is this possible considering the size of the baby and the bucket?
They should investigate this.

Meanwhile I'm student, haven't Cook for the past days due to lack of kero.
I needed help from any good Samaritan to buy even 1 litre.
Combining hustle and studies has been hectic for me.
I got $6 on my fiverr account but no exchanger is willing exchange for me because of the small amount.

Righteousness2:
Regina appreciates her Sin Partner is what the headline should be.

If you are a lady and you are the 2nd, 3rd, and so on woman in the home.
Listen! As long as the First legally married wife is alive, you are a home breaker, home robber, Husband snatcher and adultererr.

If Heaven Matters to you, you must leave that home, go back to your father's house and wait for your own husband.

In the same vein, if you are a man and you are multiplying women in the name of wives, you are an Adulterer.

If Heaven matters to you, you must settle the 2nd , 3rd and so on women and send them back to their Father's House. Your first wife is the wife GOD recongnizes. Except in a case where she is late.

EnterpriseLADY:
We are located on the island, precisely around Ajah main axis. However, if like you said have persons who are ready to buy from us. And you get your commission. You are selling to them at N32,000 but we do not have logistics haulage trucks to get them across to anyone, except they come do a pickup from us and make payments


[qquote author=Success2021post=118188165]Hello
I have many buyers of rice in different states can i connect tgem to you based on commission?
If yes how much is my commission?
Thanks alot

Miracood2:
I dedicate my FTC and STC to my dear wife who was delivered of a twin yesterday

Timmade007:
Baba, u took the full bottle or half??

Just the drink or with milk??

Candidlady:
Tales by moonlight

One of victor's alternate


Modified: so this thread made FP … smh

pocohantas:
I love that you are an all-rounder. Local, foreign, pastries, you full ground.

Whenever I try to fry puff puff, not buns, it comes out in weird shapes. Rhombus and trapezium shaped. Ste-rope suggested I thicken my batter, but I am sorry, I am done. I won’t allow FIVE NAIRA puffpuff spoil my kitchen credibility.

Zonefree:
Nice one.


Burna boy's ex girlfriend called him Mummy's Boy cos Burna refused to be manipulated. When a woman failed to have her ways with a man, she calls him all sort of names.


Go Burna
Go Mummy's Boy
Go Africa Giant.