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Dskillful:
Please don't mind my errors but I need help because I am really confused...

To cut the story short, I dated a girl for 2 years which her family and mine are fully aware, she's an Igbo girl and I am from Rivers State.

2018 I wanted to get married to her all of a sudden her parents refused, they started talking about tribal differences, I told them even my mum is an Igbo woman but they don't want to to listen. It got worst when the Rev. Fr said no they should not allow her marry me because they are Catholic. I felt very bad, but how will I do, I moved on with my life.

That same year they gave her out in marriage to one guy who based abroad, I congratulated her without any grudges. They got married and this year the man died but they have a son, the man has been buried but I still love her and she is willing to come back to me, infact as it stands we are more than lovers.

But I am giving her space so that she will mourn her husband very well and I don't want people to feel I prayed for the man to die so that I can take her back, because she said nothing will stop her this time. My problem now is should I let her go or marry her because I love her so much 100%?

francis5051:
Thunder fire Buhari... oya nairaland you can now ban me for insulting the brain dead president

Curious345:
Repent, quit fornication.

Lousy man, get a life..

Your ewuuuism is top Notch

daviesmania:
Good evening people!
There's this babe I've been seeing in the last eight months. She's so pretty, romantic and above all she's so silly satisfying on bed. But the only problem is that she throws up immediately after sex and this is so annoying. We've tried every strategy to stop it but is not working.
We're thinking of visiting the hospital but I believe I can also get some help here.
The unfortunate thing is that if this doesn't stop, then I might have to walk. Please help us if u can.... But my real question here is, Is this like an illness?

Quiny32323:
DW did a bad job in the documentary because that's not the reality on ground, in as much as there are pockets of frustrated edo and some agbor boys disturbing themselves in casavana tuno near napoli of which if u bring police dem go still jakpa. There is no room for that madness in europe even the lawyer admitted that these are not mafias na hungry guys wey no get level wey just use that madness dey cure their craze. 4 Germano dem dey low key just dey drink n smoke 2geda under hiding level oo. Germo police wey never allow u smoke weed in peace go allow u do cultism for their country Netherlands no get ur time na camera go find you abi you want try local gangs wey dey dash bullet like say na water( dem try am 2months ago na so dey spray them bullet, one even lost his life. Murder case is cheaper than attempted murder in Netherlands so make dem use their brain)

Abeg if u get any uncle wey lost for Europe, send message go casavana tuno if them no see am there know say hm don die. Na the only african country in europe be that.

Adeniyisam02:
Good day Nairalanders. Pardon my poor grammar.

I work with one of the fairly big school in Ogun state. The proprietor died some few years ago and his son took over the leadership of the school. He started well and brought new ideas to run the school.
However, one of the teachers in the school, a woman got too close to the man and took control of his life. She is called his PA and is now the one controlling anything he does. If she wants any staff to be punished, na so he go be. People like me are thinking this cannot be just ordinary has even my boss wife can't complain.
You will say I should leave the school and look for another place if am not comfortable with the system, but I am just pitying my boss and the future of the school. I learnt the dead proprietor was a very good man who has done many wonderful things in the life of many people.

It has even gotten to the extend that this woman(a married woman o) has been given a flat on the school compound, near the school hostel. Even all the students know that this woman is the oga for the school.

This thing is beyond me. I want to assist my boss, but I don't know how. Please what can I do?

Matured advice please.

Nadaken:
Na bicycle he ride he no negotiate ransom for killer bandits as a cleric

ashewoboy:
What is your take? should a wife wait for her husband to come back from work or wherever he is before she eats or she should eat alone?

Share your take.

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

ChiefSosa:
Lala joined the group chat.....Happily

Martins9756:
bi arigisegi ba segi, afi ori arare GBE, gbogbo epe ti o se loni, kori fun e gegebi ero inu re.