₦airaland Forum

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ikeseeholdings1:
Toyin never cares about the man`s wife happiness...who cares about the Guy happiness?. No one knows what the Guy was going through in his marriage,had something happened to the Guy now and the truth about his marriage was revealed,everyone will be shouting God. i have come to realize one thing in this life,live your daily life like there will be no tomorrow,do what makes you happy and don't care about people,s opinion.
When i got married to My wife,i made a vow never to have something to do with a married woman,but after 13years of My marriage,i discovered that My wife has been sleeping with married men. What do you want me to do now?

Toyin's business is the guy, she has no business with the woman.
She will only be in the wrong if she started the relationship while the man was still with his estranged wife.

vickydevoka:
1. tonyin is too old for dis guy
2. most Nigerians are sapiosexual offline.
3. dick has nothing to do with love rather personal interest

What has age got to do with it?
Its 2021, fu...ck off with the age nonsense, as long as both of them are not underaged or minors!

So if the guy said they are no longer together, what is the fuss here?

Relationships and marriages are not by force. If one of those involved leaves for whatever reason, life should go on, judgement should be reserved and people should move on.

Only issue i have here is if you start a relationship with someone else while still involved with another, but if that is not the case, should'nt be a problem.

He should go ahead and get a divorce while they are separated or no longer together.

He hasnt done anything wrong if he left the relationship before he started anything with Toyin!

Handicap! Lol

Make i go buy popcorn, season film yi ma lagbara!

Lock him away forever.

Xenry:
By Sleeping, Playing Games, Reading, Taking a walk, Musics or Praying. Try and be watching emmanuel tv, your life go change.

Emmanuel TV ko, Josiah TV ni!

Even, TB Joshua, owner of Emmanuel TV dey vex!


Mtchewwwww.

slimjohn2k5:
Hello guys I will like to advise us on job change
because I was so frustrated with my recent job, after going for interview with another it took them time to reach back and told me to resign from my current job to process my new job.
After resigning, 3days before I went to the new company I was called that I will be trained for 2yrs which was the second red flag.

The first red flag is that all the top officers of the company were women which I was uncomfortable with.

I got there yesterday to pick up work tool and all I saw was a turn off
1. IT guy asked me to turn on my data to set up the laptop they will give me
2. We will be working from home till Corona clears out. No power (Gen) support, I asked for data and the hr guy said I will reach out to Admin.
3. No pension, hmo, housing scheme, transportation, I was already boiling inside of me
4. He said I am resuming as a contract staff and they will make me full staff at their convenient time. That I just heard that day.
4. I will work one year before I am entitled to leave. I will be under supervision for 2yrs and cannot leave the company within that period
5. Most annoying part is that he said it is a Christian company I nearly slap the guy.

These and many other red flags I saw.

So guys do not resign from your previous job before taking another offer. If the new offer is not good enough turn it down and continue with the old job till a better one comes.

Ok.

Deceitful vagabonds.

Lol.

Alhamdullilah.

Gang90:
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

Kill yourself!

Oku ori ire oo.

Ok.

E don be.

But you be fool if you believe this is real.

Jollylolly:
This is a welcome development, this administration is performing excellently well in improving our infrastructure, but there is serious need to work on our security challenges because FDI can not be achieved if the infrastructure is there and security challenge remains the problem,they wont feel safe at all to come invest in Nigeria

Looool... Excellently well?

Only if they know, only if the gullible folks know.

How old is Oritsefemi?

Eko Oni Baje!

Eko ti baje tan

Awon Ashiere gbogbo

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Lol.

Madness!

Do they even have to tell this nepotistic man to consider and be fair to other regions?
Buhari is a disaster on all fronts.
A very ordinary human being not a leader, a big simpleton.

Sule fraudulent and adulterous pastor!

Will our people listen? No!

Lol!

Palapala... Social media na there them dey wash dirty linens now, all private matters, nah there them dey settle am...
Hian!

Good stuff.

Make them brain reset.

Live and let live, let gay people live their lives!

If you disagree with my post, fu..ck you, your mum and daddy

Waste of time.
Fu..cking idio..tas frittering away scarce resources of fruitless endeavours.

sapien:
Good evening, Romancelanders. It's quite a lengthy read, so bear with me.

This lady and I have been dating for the past 4 years, and I am planning on making it official later this year, though Covid-19 made my finances quite complicated recently, but things are getting back in shape.

Recently, specifically over 2 weeks ago, she suddenly stopped picking my calls. Prior to that, we haven't seen each other since September last year. She always comes up with one excuses or the other every weekend whenever I tell her to come over to my place or if I want to go over to her place to see her. I always have busy schedules during the midweek, so we usually have only weekends to see each other.

I have gone to see her mother and her siblings last year. They accepted me as a prospective in-law. The mum said she queried her daughter and she told her that I was the one she would like to spend the rest of her life with, hence the mum's invitation. Her mum usually calls me from time to time, and I do talk to her, too.

Couple of days back, I had to call the mum to report her daughter to her regarding the uncharacteristic change in her daughter's behaviour, and how, despite living in the same city, we haven't seen each other in 4 months, and how she has refused picking my calls in more than 2 weeks.

She promised to talk to her and ask her what the problem was and get back to me. I waited for some couple of days, but when I didn't see the mum's call, I had to call her back. I had to ask her to give her daughter her phone so I could talk to her and ask her some salient questions regarding our relationship. She kept saying there is no problem and that I didn't offend her, and our relationship is still standing strong. I asked if she was going through some personal issues that she could share with me and we might find a solution; she said she was perfectly okay. We settled our issues right there and then, and she promised to call back the second day.

I waited for the second day and I did not see her call. I had no choice than to call her back. Ladies and gentlemen, this girl didn't pick my calls. When she eventually picked after multiple missed calls, she was talking to someone else, while my airtime was burning out. I became enraged. I had to call the mum the second day to tell her I was no longer interested in the daughter, that she was probably seeing someone else, and she didn't have the guts to tell me.

The mum swore that her daughter is not seeing someone else, as far as she knows, and that she hasn't brought anyone to meet her. The mum is a Deeper Lifer, and from my interactions with her, she doesn't condone two-timing. She promised to talk to her daughter, that maybe we should give ourselves more time, like taking a break for a couple of months.

I am not usually this patient, and never condoned negligence and disregard in my previous relationships. However, this girl had been special to me, prior to her negligence. She was quite dedicated to me during the course of our 4-year-old relationship. She was never demanding, and was contented and altruistic, too. She helped me many times in the past, financially, whenever I was broke, and I always repaid her back, too. She was a wife material, and loved by my family as well.

The questions are;

1. Do I disregard the mum's advice?

2. Do I still give this girl another chance after her blatant negligence?

Mods, you might do well by moving this piece to the front page.

Ok.

Another lesson for you blockheads who are constantly at loggerheads over these guys in PDP or APC.

If you die, you die for nothing.

The bastar....ds you all curse and fight each other over because of party affiliation are all bedfellows.

Grow a brain and focus on what is important, not useless and meaningless partisan politics.

Ok.

Buhari olofo!

You can all go to hell, nothing will happen even if i appoint a cow to be the next IGR of police or minister of state for budget and planning!

What a useless man, the worst president in the wretched history of Nigeria.

Everybody wey get brain know say Sule fu...ck Otobo!

No be today!