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Well, one of them should preside over the affairs of the entrance to the market and the other can preside over the affairs of the exit to the market.

It shall not be well with APC!

Enikuuureeee all of you under or supporting that party and PDP too

Bastar......ds!

APC is a curse to Nigeria and Nigerians.

Mbaka should carry his cross

Those who dine with the devil................

A lesson for all!

Lol.... Polystar has been around for a decade?

Omo i fear.... This girl don go!

Quite unfortunate.
May their souls rest in peace.

udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

The insults, unacceptable so i am with you on that but everything else, you need to do better as a man.

Inshaa Allah!

It will still end in tears, piping hot tears!

Very good.

WENE Mighty!

Xenry:
I live comfortably and I cook comfortably, so do I still need a girlfriend?
By the way, rate my cooking. The food is a combination of yam and beans.

You need deliverance, till then you should not go near any kitchen again!

Onijekuje

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

She is INSANE for begging you for your forgiveness because of her body count.

To conclude, both of you are mad.

It shall not be well with Remi Tinubu, fu...cking egregious human being who thinks politics is all that matters!

Brainless twerp.

I am surprised that Zimbabwe and Venezuela rank worse than Nigeria.

Lol at the comments on this thread.

Some of ya all will learn or accept the reality eventually.

Allah Akbar!

Auhusubillahi!

When are the directors of these kidnapping movies going to end the charade?

Happy Birthday Big Man!
Best wishes.

Buratai o, Oluwo o, enikuuure gbogbo!

Go to hell with your food Miyetti Allah
Enikuuure!

Ok.

Make them go chop their food.

johnlegend01:
Nnamdi Kanu of Arsenal against Chelsea and Aston Villa back in the days. He was sublime in those two games.

Nnamdi Kanu? Are you insane?!

No be only Nnamdi Kanu, nah Chukwuemeka Ofonagoro!

Dunderhead.

Shellsploit:
Ask her who slept with her before u met her.
Shes trying to manipulate you into owing the pregnancy.
Lalasticlala sef...

You cant be so sure she is trying to manipulate him.

Typical.

Making spurious claims and promises they wont keep.

Promising what they cant deliver...... Useless + incompetent government and rudderless MDAs!

Nah one randy and despicable man go fu...ck the baby shark mama!

Akeem Adeyemi, it shall not be well with you and Tinubu!

Ok.

Won ku ori ire.