₦airaland Forum

izaray: @Poster, dn't u tink they are polite girls, ok dey collected ur number, did dey asked u to go to bed wit dem? Some guys sha, pls we need answers to be sure of weather, wat u are talking dem to be is right or wrong!

No i don't have problem with them asking for my number o. Seriously i cherish girls that dont form. Maybe it shows calabar girls don't form and are very friendly. On the other hand i believe it's my good relation skills I'm just really fun to chat with and they enjoyed my company. They are better than girls who torment themselves so they don't look cheap. Who get your time? If you like cheap, if you like expensive, girl na girl and na the same thing all of dem get. I go even prefer cheap ones sef so i save more

izaray: @Poster i av seen ur explaination anyway, internet was bad, so i poster my comment b/4 seeing ur reply!

No qualms

thorpido: The calabar girl syndrome is over-hyped.You will still see this kind of thing in other parts of the country.

Bro, i have been to close to 20 states in Nigeria and i have never seen anything of this sort up to the extent of happening in quick succession. I know it is overhyped but i believe there must be an element of truism in it. Moreover, i met a female friend yesterday alongside with her friends and they were telling me to be careful after i narrated my experience to them. They said if calabar girls pamper me, say i no go leave Calabar again. She even told me most of her friends sleep around even after getting married. Now imagine this coming from a lady.

The thing be say dem jam the wrong person cos i my eye deh up. Na to do wetin carry me come waka go. No time!

enkay4love: @ Poster, what makes u feel the two ladies dat asked for ur number are real or typical calabar babes?u wuld've asked them their state of origin,cos they may be living here in Calabar but are'nt from here.I don't know why its so typical of non-Calabar ladies who manage to pitch their tents here in my dear state tend 2 always give the impression dat they are from here.They are the ones involved in all categories of social ills here in Calabar,& paint the indigenes as the sole culprits. To correct ur impression,a typical Calabar girl is'nt loose or nymphomanic, contrary to a cross-section of popular opinion.Calabar ladies are naturally socially disciplined,they don't impose friendship or relatnship on nobody,but what u can't take away from them is their warm,endearing,pampering,beautiful & neat nature.Got that!!

Thanks, but i don't feel both are from Calabar but they both told me they are from this region. One told me she is from cross river(not calabar) but based in calabar while the other is pure calabar blood. Moreover i never said calabar girls are promiscuous but heard alot from friends, mostly females i went to hang out with yesterday at unical. In fact, after hearing my story, one of them explixitly told me that most of her female friends from CR state sleep around with men even after married. She said it's the lifestyle for most girls around that i should just be careful. She told me that Calabar girls can cook and know how to take care of a man in all ramification. She really praised them though. From what i've seen and heard, i believe there should be element of truth in it. Of course not everyone will possess such characteristics. My friend said almost exactly that in bold, so i will go with all she said. Make i still deh observe sha....

I only read the topic but bro whatever it is, don't take your life since you will still die. Just be patient. Impatient people take their life!

thorpido: So only two girls in Calabar?Do you know how many ladies are in Calabar?
I think this is just a stereotype.

that means you are saying it's my doing and not the "calabar girl" syndrome...

ifex370: some pipo can lie ehn....

There are two things Truth and False! You. Just have to take it to be one but nothing changes my true experience.

sexyseun: Maybe because u are cute and you ooze sexiness.
By the way "Can i have your number?"

My dear, if you check my post, I never said anything close to my being cute moreover I'm not cute in that sense. Hmmmmn. My number? Are you a calabar girl?

Saturday 20th September is my first time of visiting Calabar. Traveling all the way from Port Harcourt, I happen to sit next to a beautiful lady. We chatted all through the journey. I went through her phone, while she went through mine. She told me she hails from Calabar and works there too. At a point when we were getting closer to Calabar, she told me she will soon drop and I replied "Wow, so soon? Well, no problem...". After like 10mins, she said she is almost close to where she will drop. I replied "alright na, take care of yourself when you get back". At this point, she grabbed my phone and dialed her number. Not long after that, she alighted and left. "I was like, WHAT So this story about Calabar girls is true...". And that was that...
Now, yesterday, I decided to stroll down to unical so I boarded a taxi. While in the taxi, I met one fair pretty lady with nice physique. She sat next to the driver while I sat behind. She picks every question I direct to the driver about finding my way to certain places. Being very good and jovial in meeting new friends, having a good sense of humor, and also being able engage in quality conversation, we began to chat and she was really enjoying my company. To cut story short, I alighted from the taxi and gave the driver 1K note. While driver was looking for change this beautiful girl asked me "can I have your number?". Haaaa! See me see calabar o! Chei! Na so we take exchanged numbers o. Abeg, is this the "calabar girls syndrome" I have been hearing about or is it my own doings? This thing I'm saying happend within 2 days.

P.S: Why be say na the time person no deh find girls na when dem go con deh find am?

texanomaly: I'm sure these guys can help you.

LaurelP
Tosyn2much
Dygeasy
Mencade5
Chemystery
Naijaboiy

This is the type of deliverance I recommend for the OP

Tymax: The day you will try it with army woman, na dat day your deliverance go complete.

justinbravo: How far? Have u done ur own? Give us some tips.

Mine is thursday

urhoboman: Tell her to keep saying NO until shez matured to handle a relatinship. She doesn't need to be insultive. She's a lady, she can't escaped being chased by guys.

Bros thank u jareh! Though I have already given her my long sermon. I was disappointed when I saw 30views and no response then I forgot that nairalanders are no advisers in relationship affairs cos seems we have more of perverts here. If na how my cousin fit get guy wey good in bed, na there you for see comment and quotes. SMH!

ehen! tomorrow they will list mistakes applicants make. The should start removing the log of wood from their eyes before they try to wipe the dust from mine.

I got this message on my whatsapp from my little cousin. She is just 17.
Here was her message and i quote verbatim:

uncle remember u told me tht i cn talk to u about anyth at all.
I'm in a situation whereby almost anywhere i go to a guy wud ask me 4 a date.
Some re even promising me marriage bt i knw am too young 4 dat.
i keep saying NO bt they tend to be adamant.am fedup right nw.n d situation isnt getting beta
pls should i start being rude nd insulting them cus d way things re going,dats d only way i cn think of.
or is there any other way tht i cn tell them nd still be safe.
Pls help me before i go insane

Please what should i tell her?
*matured minds only*

Wishing everyone participating today a successful interview

tosyne2much, LaurelP, Valmunich and Naijaboiy abeg which of una release this one from zoo? Who sabi this one before? Ihn just want make dem notice am. Yeye!

LaurelP: I dey vex! Infact I'm totally pissed off!
We the anti woman-wrapper task force having seen the spate of crime on dis forum especially the Romance section have agreed that we can't just fold our hands and watch guys disgrace us.
Guys opening threads to profess love, guys quoting and liking comments dat don't make sense, guys liking pics dat look like monkey own. It has to stop. As the MD of this noble taskforce, I've decided in conjunction with my crew members to come up with dis measures.

We therefore are going to enforce dis laws:
1. From now onwards, anywhere you see a post, comments dat looks likes a woman-wrapper's own, quote d comment/post and tag any of the executives of dis taskforce. I will give out their monickers later.

2. The executives will treat the issue after further investigation to find out if he's actually guilty, by cautioning and exposing the woman wrapper for all to see.

3. From now on, we are going to publish the names of chronic woman-wrappers for all to see. This will come out once or twice monthly.

4. Pls quote and tag the following ppl once u see a suspicious woman wrapper comment or post:
LaurelP
Tosyn2much
Dygeasy
Mencade5
Chemystery
Naijaboiy

Pls cooperate with us to put an end to woman-wrappering .
Say NO to Woman-Wrappering! IT KILLS!

Hehehehehehehehe! I don show o.... My men dem abeg make una no vex say i show late. Anyone wey don counter this post must be added to the woman-wrappering list. MD hope say person deh take down the names? One day we go publish am for public

zinny01: so what is wrong in date a married man infact am currently dating a married nd he is so sweet

chai! I go flee nairaland for una...

prettythicksme: I love guys who are jovial in a mature way@op maybe the girl think you to use style to get to know her

that's the mentality of all ladies and each time i tend to forget and repeat same act. I'm just the jovial type who places ladies in same scale of preference as guys.

The only thing one needs in marriage is LOVE forget every other listings.
Bonus:
See my personal text!

rahymat: Wat a stupid question evn if a guy is extremely handsome i can

*in psquare's voice*
this na your story story story yeah...

Hehehe, babe, have you seen me?

Lindajohn: dis one is different...... U asked a question

no problem na. I don learn lesson. I go mind my business next time. This one u re supporting the babe, seems you will act same if na you...

Afrok: boss no worry... I can't snub U na coz am sure u've learnt the dribbling and scoring skills, u'll win another person (match) next time and I'll be happy if na d same girl.

hahahaha. For sure!

The only lie i know girlfriend and boyfriend tell themselves is "I Love You"

chipatra: Me don date all O

chai! Even married man?

rozzay: I been think say na only me

what on earth have rozzay not done? Seriously i will flee nairaland for you...

emperorchedda: This man! Me and my babe was having an important gist and u tried to interfere. I winked at her the first time you tried to cut in that was why she ignored you. Mere looking at you I knew you wanted to snatch my babe! We have been noticing how you change girls like dp so I told her to snub you...right now she's explaining to me why she had to ask you for direction because I'm furious at her for talking to you. NO NEAR MY SHOP AGAIN!

LOL! So na u be barber wey no gree rescue me bah?

missdebs: bros talk truth, u sef get interest in her.... Must hv been obvious

haba, interest keh? no na. I was even pressing my phone before i overheard the discussion. I no deh get interest for ladies at first sight! We must don relate first

Afrok: Boss there is calculations in everything, even Messi and C.Ronaldo knows that calculations are important during a match not to talk of penalty shoot-out.
Well as jovial as I am, I no dey "jam talk" anyhow (calculates when to talk) coz me hate to be snubbed especially by a lady.
Just make sure say U win her, if not I'll snub U too

hahahaha, bro the babe finally win o. Na even injury time i score 1 so i no fit equalize. Lol. Abeg no snub me

Lindajohn: Mind ur business and u go live long

babe it was just a general discussion. It's just like you commented here and not minding your business. .

keypad1: i hope say you be messi oooo. If not she go win you.



Na the girl wey barber dey fuuuck for that street be that. Barber dey fear say you go collect am from him hand. If na outside, the girl go answer you well well.

hahahahaha, how you take know?

valmunich: Lol... You should've stopped contributing the first time she snubbed. The Barber too didn't help issues, if I was to be the Barber and I noticed the snub, I'll stop and direct my attention to you. There's nothing I hate more than being snubbed

Bro, the second time i really confirmed she was snubbing me. The barber no just help me at all. Some guys deh misbehave at times when ihn enter woman matter