I WAS once a teacher myself.... And there is one method that seem so effective for me... CHALLENGE.... I CHALLENGE THE ALWAYS.... WITH LOVE!
Try it... You may succeed.
Best wishes

Heheheheheehehehe, you are a tall lady, huh That is cool.... But however most of your points are up for a debate.

Short ladies (some) are strikingly beautiful and draw attention. Any way, I very much prefer tall ladies through.... I really like them tall and facial presentable.

hungryboy:
With the prevailing economic situation in this country, we have companies paying 20k or less than that as salaries, and even the mininum wage is pegged at 18k by the government for civil servants,

So the question is ,how do you survive and pay your bills earning 20k or less?,
Here is how you do it hungryboy style,
Step 1- stock up on foodstuffs,
Below is a latest foodstuff and price list i just drew up for this month.

Garri -1500(at 7 cups for 100 =105 cups)

Beans- 2000(hausa men sell at 40naira per cup =50cups)

Rice= 2400(at 60naira per cup=40cups)

Yam= 2000
Kerosene= 10 litres(could cost 1k or less)

Palm oil=400naira
Pepper=100naira
Maggi= 100naira
Salt= 50naira
Other foodstuffs(crayfish, melon, okra, fish etc) = 3k

Total = 11,550naira,

HOUSE RENT? or are you living with your parents, brother or staying with a friend??

chocolateme:
very romantic. If he wants three, then I am ok with that so that the car would contain us all.

A reasonable lady.... That is what you are then. Remain that way or get even better. Best wishes dear

chocolateme:
Some of the ladies and gentlemen here especially the guys must be having a cool imagination of what their future kids will look like. I observed that guys seems to be so in love with having babies even though they are not the ones that carries the pregnacy.
So how many do you wish to have with your spouse and what names do you intend for them? Don't name them Indomie though.
Chocolateme will have four by God's grace..
Names:
Chimamanda
Love Jnr
Hubby names the other 2.
What's yours?

if I were to be your husband, I would try convincing you that 3kids should be the maximum so we can all travel together and comfortably in my car without having to sit tightly in it... If the first child happens to be a boy, I shall name him. A girl..., u shall name her unless u decide otherwise.

Talking of broilers and disease aside.. A bag of starter costs roughly 2900 while a bag of finisher is sold for 2850/2800/2700...Now take for instance a birds of 100....if these birds are properly feed, in three months, the number of bags of feed that it would consume would be up to 50 or close. That is the most challenging task... And this had lead many farmers to mix the feed with chaffs in order to save cost... Thereby at times causing stunt in growth or reducing the weight of the birds.

My advice is simple, start small if you intend to survive in this business.
Best wishes...

Love this.... I am already involved. It is cool.... BUT feeding the chicken, I repeat FEEDING the chicken till maturity is something else... It will consume more money than you could imagine.

Who told you that she is proposing?? We're you the one Hahahahaha... She could be begging for forgiveness oh... Or something else like that. How do we propose in a toilet.

I never knew my state is this beautiful..... Chai, what a humiliation... In my thirty something years on earth, I never knew my state is this beautiful probably because I never had the chance to visit regularly as I would have loved to.

So happy and proud of what I am seeing here... 042....042....042...

Tallesty1:


SOURCE: http://www.naijatecharena.com/tecno-l5-preview-think-worth-hype/

I am actually typing this message with TECNO L6

beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap .

well I didn't give up and still have not given up, neither should you. Just move on from the guy and remain positive. You will meet one some days when you least expect it. Best wishes dear!

codeworks:


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thanks alot.. As things stand, we shall qualify given the fact that Mali are beating Egypt 1-0

Please, What is the scores now between Nigeria vs Algeria?

ima30:
Hello. I have been with my guy for five years now. We are getting married next year. The thing is we are going to live in his family house, with his extended family. I didn't like the idea but I found a way to accept it seeing as its quite comfy and it means we won't have to worry about rent. Its basically a two bedroom apartment. The only thing I share with the rest of the family is back yard and staircase. He said we would do three years while he is building his own house.

His elder brother who is married lives in that same building. It's the maid THEY hired this year to take care of their sick dad, that worries me. The mom is late. She is very disrespectful to me. So many things happen and when he speaks to her about it, she won't bulge. All because it was the elder brother that interviewed her so she doesn't listen to almost anyone else. I spoke to my guy that I would not live with a maid that has not greeted me for almost a year or has no regard for my home or wouldn't obey him. He said he can't tell her to go because she is close to his brother's wife and she takes care of his dad.

This may sound petty but it's serious. All this family house wahala, if I tell him to rent a house he would say I'm not appreciating all his efforts to make sure we marry next year. I did laundry the other day came back and met the clothes soaked on the clothing line with all the rain that fell, meanwhile she brought in every other persons cloth inside. It might not be a big deal, but I don't want to resent any body I live with in my future home.

I need that maid gone, how do I get rid of her? The worst part is that since they all live together, he needs his brother's approval before he does almost anything, if I complain it would seem as if I wanna cause friction between both brothers. But there has been cases where changes were made by his brother and my guy wasn't even consulted. The maid before her was paid by my guy for two years straight, she didn't insult anybody. She left cuz his brother told him to sack her. That their father needed better attention and she wasn't a good cook. Na so my guy sack the girl. No question. They brought this one now and my guy paid for some month's and stopped because she was rude to him and me. His bro has been paying since. But my guy still pays nepa bills and those other things to run the house. Yet when he talks to this maid she won't listen.

How do I get her go? I don't like her one bit. She just basically work for the brother and his wife. I can't even send he to buy me matches. She calls me by name, would not greet. My guy told her to stop all these things, she still didn't listen. Please.

stop concentrating on this maid. Treat her like she is your blood sister for six month and see the result.

One more thing, if your husband to be is not complaining, why should you?? Please love everyone in that family wholeheartedly.... And love the maid too..... Find time to chat with her like sisters even if she give you a face or answer you rudely. Cheers..

DoubleDeeX:


LOL y'all still think like Sunday school kids

What happened in the garden of Eden was fornication between Eve and the serpent! The product of that acts was Cain; that was why he had no light of God in him. Abel on the other hand was from Adam and Eve; it was a clear case of twins with different Fathers.

The serpent was created a homo-sapien like man but without godliness in him which was why Satan easily used him to deceive Eve into fornication. It was after the fall of man that God cursed the serpent and he became a snake crawling on it belly.

The fruit they ate wasn't an apple brother. The mouth Eve used is the one down there. She ate from the serpent and her husband the same day! That's why God frowns at sexual sin; it is what reduced us to what we are today. Sin took over the world in Gen 6 when the serpent seeds completely got mixed up with godly children in the lineage of Seth son of Adam which led to the destruction of the old world by water. The serpent seed in us still escaped through Noah, which was why we needed redemption from an uncorrupted and righteous man Jesus Christ (God in the flesh).

This was what Mother Eve actually did ;

Proverbs 30:20

Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.

Excuse me, God gave this instructions to man not to eat the forbidden fruit BEFORE he created eve. That is to say the so called forbidden fruit was already in the garden. How then could the forbidden fruit be eve that has not been formed then. How can you say it is fornication..... FORNICATION WITH WHO WHEN EVE HAD NOT BEEN CREATED?? Or are you saying that God was obviously telling Adam not to have sex with...... There was no lady then. ENLIGHTEN ME!

A white man speaking igbo or any other languages in Nigeria should not surprised anyone at all. The same way they learn our language is exactly the same way we learnt theirs too. The difference is that we learn it at a much faster rate than they do.

mamagee3:
Ever since my male coworker called me ugly, I have never been the same mentally, I have lived the past few months thinking I am ugly. The trauma of that event has left me forever damaged psychologically.

Please guys help me out, how do I lift myself above this spiteful attempt at my self-esteem?

Wow.... How do we help you when there is no pictures of you to give us an idea?? But if the picture in your profile is actually you, I have one word for you.... "WOW"!!!!!!!!!

dearestaramide:
My colleague came to the office complaining this mornnig of a man that she can't stand but yet he has being doing everything to get her including prayers and seeing mallams to pray (which he later denied).

He went ahead to trace where she works as well as lives and drove after her one night after close of work till she managed to escape him. She says that he isn't even educated to university level, he can't speak English well and her family is well off better than his. She has done everything possible to dissuade him but all to no avail. People including his relative have spoken to him to let her go as clearly he can't force her but he has refused.

She strongly believes that he has a hidden motive and is scared for herself and family due to his obsession and reluctance to let go even after 4 years. And guess what, SHE HAS SEEN HIM PHYSICALLY JUST ONCE IN HER LIFE.



If na me i for take style kill am before e kill me

[b]PLEASE ADVISE AS SHE HAS BEEN DEPRESSED SINCE MORNING [/b]Dont even mention policeas you know our police and stupid demands with no results

Ignore him always then until you get married.

01emek:
Its was really unfair and disheartened for her to refuse my proposal because of my height.

Pls nairalander is height now a problem in relationship and for the records,am 5:1.

Don't have sleepless night over it.... Many lady prefer tall guys.. Many doesn't care about height. FIND THOSE ONES. best wishes

Are the men guilty of most of the stuffs you mentioned above? Check again!!!!!

Instead of turning the focus on alot of ladies with dirty bra, torn or dirty pants etc, let's kindly treat the issue you raised here.... FOUR out of every TEN guys are guilty of dirty singlet, boxers etc. But why?

They simply jus can not concentrate on that.

THERE IS A LOT OF SIMILARITY BETWEEN ME AND YOU MR POSTER..... I ALSO GOT A HEARING PROBLEM AS FAR BACK AS IN PRIMARY ONE TILL DATE... I STARTED MAKING USE OF LIP READING AFTER HUNDRED THOUSANDS OF NAIRA HAVE BEEN SPENT FOR ME TO HEAR CLEARLY AGAIN...

THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN US IS THAT I WENT FURTHER IN MY EDUCATION.... UP TO THE MASTER LEVEL. IF I CAN DO THIS, YOU TOO CAN!!!!!!

BACK TO THE ISSUE CONCERNING TOASTING A LADY, I UNDERSTAND YOU PERFECTLY THAT YOU ARE FACING THE CHALLENGE OF "WHAT IF SHE SAY SOMETHING REPEATEDLY MANY TIMES AND I DIDN'T HEAR HER, IT WOULD PUT HER OFF"

I MUST ADMITTING PLAINLY THAT I FACED SUCH ISSUE TOO.. IF YOU ARE GOOD LOOKING, IT WOULD BE EASIER TOO... HERE IS WHAT YOU ARE TO DO... AFTER THE SO CALLED SHORT TALK,BE HER FRIEND, EXCHANGE CONTACTED WITH HER, THEN YOU CAN CHAT WITH HER ONLINE ALWAYS AND AFTER A WHILE YOU WILL HAVE DEVELOP THE CONFIDENCE TO ASK HER TO BE YOU GIRLFRIEND. IF YOU CAN NOT DO THAT FACE TO FACE , THEN TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER WHEN YOU TWO ARE CHATTING ONLINE.

Bestwishes.......

I seriously doubt the authentic of this story. Did this really happened or is the narrator just being creative?? It is really funny through and also taught a lesson on both sides.

He pulled up his trouser Without wiping his ass unknown that he is being watched live??

If he had catched them watching him at that very moment, he won't have continued the journey or would have kept his distance and avoid eye contact all through.

What manner of guy is he?? Are you damn sure you are not gonna get intimate before you turn 18 Anyway here is what would happen....

1. You guys would start.... The love or lust would be there... The urge to have sex would be irresistible no matter how hard you or him tries to hold on.

2. Your friends who have probably taste the forbidden fruit, would urge you to taste it too.. They would mock you, influence you advice you until you end up yearning for sex each day...

3. This could be lust Instead of love, but however you may end up loving him with all your heart and he would take advantage of it and would only be interested in getting into your pants.....

4. Once you start having sex in your teen, it would not be that easy to stop... Moreover you or him will end up heart broken. That is how it would end.

Any hey I was 25years when I first tried to locate the vaginal hole without success.

Be careful, don't have a boyfriend for now.... You still have many years ahead of you.
Best wishes...

If none of those rich guys love the way the not so rich guy love you, and you love him too, what is there to deliberate on again You are working, right? Financial OK, right? What then do you need again? Even the not so rich guy could end up getting rich.... My dear, marry for LOVE...

So when she cheat again and again.... The moment you tried to break up with her and she threatened to kill herself, you would have a change of mind, huh The emotional blackmail really worked on you, no doubt. She spent the night with a guy, switched off her phone and still have the gut to tell you that nothing happened OK nah.... You are an adult, so use your best discretion. Best wishes.....

I wonder if she was prepared for it because the guy was holding an inscription of "yes".

Hmmm, sorry guy... I have been in almost a similar situation before. But she was the one that dumped my ass not that I cheated on her but because she truly could not stand the distance and the urge to cheat on me was great. I was so heart broken..... Cos I loved her beyond what one could imagine.

Anyway, just let go of her....

What am I supposed to do because she has only her pants on. I will greet her and then walk out after letting her know that I will eat the food she is cooking.

To tell him you love him?? To approach him and start a conversation with him and then later tells him you love him.... It takes a lot of guts and courage but again there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Man or woman MUST now how to cook. But it is even more important for EVERY WOMEN to know how to cook so far that they have legs, hands and can see, talk and hear otherwise....*Shaking my head****