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My husband and my mum. I could give up treasures for them. I can't seem to stay angry with them. Just can't begrudge them.

Idydarling:
wicked! !

Hahaha!

Mindfulness:
Can't be.

OK let's agree on this: ours

modelmike7:
...... Lol, seems you haven't read or hear things sis. Big Tummy is even small, Haven't you read of the guy that loves girls with thick, ripe, big pimples? That he loves licking the faces of girls that has all those 'qualities'!! And some other guys come on his thread and say they feel they are the only one that feel that way. Yuck! See you o! We have different people in this world my dear sister.

Big ripe pimples? Ewo! Ha! Different people indeed. Licking pimpled face, yuck!! Yuck!!! Yuck!!! Again

Mindfulness:
No, I don't agree. The best husband is my own.

No! It's mine.

modelmike7:
It is good to exercise. But don't be surprised that there are some men looking for ladies with Big tummy! It turns them on!! Everyone has their choice.

Bulging tummy turns some men on? Hian!! I know some men like big babes but big tummy, even women stare at big tummies

Haha! This reminds me of my childhood friend that had her baby at 19. When the thing don full her head, she'll just tie the legs alone and throw him on the bed. It's only her husband's presence the deterred her from doing so.
All in all it's not fair joor

omoharry:
haaa!! no be small beating ee go chop that day..trust our Nigeria mama's..

That singular act will earn the child enough physical and spiritual impartation! Trust mammas like moi!

SSpeter:
Foooooooooooooooooooolisssssssh ideas like what you wrote up there is why we have so much miscreants today In the streets...as long as a person is below 13...the best method of correction is the whip....cane, belt etc... we had better kids in the 6o's 70's 80's 9o's today no more values.......plsssssss bible even instructed us to use the rod....a good and swift slap will do you a lot of good and save you much stress in the near future

Are you my mum's brother?
Err, but cut down on the slap sha make u no go blind or deafen pikin!

omoharry:
on point my sister...we cannot copy the American style for it has mess up thier society..I imagin children can tell that parent" TO HELL WITH YOU...Bleep YOU...I HATE YOU...YOU CANNOT TELL ME WHAT TO DO OR I CALL 99999999999111....

Omo image my child asking me to shut up? God forbid o!

Like seriously, I should ignore an unwanted behavior in my child till it becomes a bad habit right? You called it an unwanted behavior yet you want me to ignore it! What do you do to unwanted stuffs? Do you decorate your house with them or do you discard them?
Do you people even realize you will one day give an account to God for spoiling your children?
Disciplining children entails beatings, commendations, constructive punishments, praise singing, frowning at wrong deeds, verbal corrections etc etc
Our parents did good jobs in us. They beat us wella! The younger generation is full of so much vices because you guys copy the western world that is so satanized. Have you ever paused to ponder on why the white children are so uncultured, indecent, ungodly, untamed, crude, violent, vulgar... It's because they are reared the way you recommend

An0nimus:
Next he calls pick his call, put the phone in a quiet place and allow him discuss with himself.

Or better still when she picks the call, let her turn up the volume of her sound system and place the phone directly in front of the speaker. This is tested and approved!

Cutehector:
OK accusation u say and she defended herself. Accusations aren't offensive. It's left for the receiver to defend themselv or not. Look chidoks, on a very normal day I would hav ignored you but I deemed it necessary o clear out some issues with respect to the way people perceive things here in social media. I really don't mean any harm to anyone here and no matter what your perceptions abt me in social media are, it still will not change who I am in reality

Noted! One thing is clear though, most of us have multiple identities ; some for faceless forums like nairaland, and others for our everyday life. The big question is if we ever pause to consider the effects of our actions/speech on others.
You're absolutely right, how I perceive you is inconsequential.

Cutehector:
was that offensive? Did I use vulgar words? I made a suggestive comment and it's left for her to reply in affirmation or not.

Now which other posts of mine regarding money do u find offensive?

"You wanted to turn him into your ATM machine" is not suggestive. It's an accusation and her narrative didn't suggest that.
As for your other questions let's forget about them, I'm not good at digging up unnecessary issues

Cutehector:
offensive? I can't recall making offensive statements here.. please kindly notify me of any offensive statements I made please.

And what issues ar u referring to?

I've noticed that each time money is mentioned in the man/woman relationship; you're quick to attack the female party
Look at this post for example, the babe said her friend wanted to defraud the man but she saved the man who in turn promised to help her out financially if she dates him. You still told her that she wanted to turn the man to her ATM

marshborn:
Tell your fellow women to get a job and be contented with what they have. Nigerian girls are the worst when it comes to Turing men into mugus.

What of those that offer job opportunities for sex. We have irresponsible men as well as beggarly females

Cutehector:
den mind your business.

On a friendly note; why are you offensive when such issues come up?
No vex ( in advance)

Ginaz:
Nobody was begging money here, he offered to help me in my situation. I never begged him money please get your facts right. He offered me money in returned for sex, that was what happened and I turned both offers down. Pls, dont think this was a case of financial dependency.

Babes I didn't say you begged. I understood what I read and I have my reservations as regards divulging my financial challenges to any man that is not a traceable blood relation

Cutehector:
dnt start.

Darling I'm not game

Men are generally like that, that's why it's never adviceable to seek financial help from men. It makes one vulnerable. And mothers should inculcate the habit of working in their children especially the girl child.

Cutehector:
So u wanted to turn him into ur ATM right? Mchew!

Did you read her at all?

angelTI:
OP is a big liar!

This make up story has been around for a while

Kai this op can lie

Poor adaeze, may God give you a better man and a new sweet home!

ronald4lif:
The MIL never chased her, the hubby did. For if the hubby never gave her the head-on and allow her interference the MIL wouldn't have dared interfere.

I hate it when people shift blame and lampoon a perceived easy target than facing the monster who's responsible for their woes.

True that!

Great move but did you say one out of every 5couples? Hmnn!
And does it mean these 140couples never contracted traditional marriage? Hope none of them is a leader sha

SSpeter:
Hey ladies...give the men a break...moreover a male lion sleeps for 18hrs and here we are trying to make life better for you!......We have paid the price (bride price) not like it's for free!! or is it not the woman that claims to be the home manager? Stop complaining...To be a man is not a year's job...even if he is lazy, He is still a MAN

Ah! Your Excellency, we're not complaining o. Hmnn! We're only encouraging ourselves in this noble calling of attending to you and your decendants' every need. We are glad to be the managers, in fact we are only comparing notes.

Guys(oyind17 & ahnie), this is getting out of hand. Stop it already. There shouldn't be any fun in these destructive insults

OP your thread is nice but it's unfortunate you have a little bone to crack with your e-frenemies

It's unfortunate! Very very unfortunate! Nigerian police officers are terrorists, they are all criminals to the exception of none.
The truth is that our government and the relevant authorities don't care. They aren't ready to sanitize the police ,thus we the citizens should take care of ourselves.
He who eats with the devil eats with a long spoon. Since you know they are all demons, avoid falling out with them! If they come for an arrest and you are familiar with the issue presented; please follow them jejely and explain yourself at the station.don't show them you sabi especially if you are a woman. Others may do it and go scot free but it may hook you as it hooked others. Loosing that pregnancy is way more expensive than following them like a mumu, explaining that she's innocent and pregnant. May God visit her again soonest(amen)

Oh thanks, this plant must bloom and flourish o! Trespassers be warned!!!