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FamilyRe: 10 Things Wife Must Avoid In Marriage by Chidoks(f): 4:17pm On Mar 04, 2016
Noted! Thanks. Point 6 is one of my favourite routines!
As for point 10, me thinks it's only one family. Others are extended families ( families of origin)
FamilyRe: What Widows Go Through. by Chidoks(f): 3:46pm On Mar 04, 2016
Sorry for your loss. Death of a loved one is so painful that I wonder how widows fare ( may I never know)
This is when you need to be strong. Let no insult get at you. More will come o. His friends will even start wooing you but don't shed a tear. Be strong and courageous.
God preserve you. Do you have children?
FamilyRe: My M3 Outfit On Native & Traditional Day At School Today. by Chidoks(f): 3:31pm On Mar 04, 2016
Oh so that's how it's spelt? I thought it was imabong.
M3! That's cool plus they are black beauties...
FamilyRe: Name Something Your Mom Hit You With When You Were Young!!! by Chidoks(f): 3:13pm On Mar 04, 2016
kristen12:
Turning stick, slippers, pestle, bucket, soup spoon, even poured hot water. Inshort, anything her hand touches that moment.
Pestle?? Kai!!!
FamilyRe: I Think Cane Should Be Allowed In Schools To Keep Away This............. by Chidoks(f): 3:08pm On Mar 04, 2016
gr8tgg:
I prefer cane to that secret beating they are beating those kids I just pray parents should understand and stop rejoicing at the absence of cane in their children's School, as for me I prefer caning a child, there is no way you can train a Nigerian child without cane, as for me I have came at home, once I have fed a child and make sure the child is not sick that might make him to misbehave, put him in his discipline room and bring him out after 20 minutes, I pray for the child to make sure he is not acting under the influence of unseen forces after I have done all that and the child keep misbehaving then I consult my cane, and flog his bum or his thin.
But in the school, teachers won't have time for all the above mentioned dramas, so a stroke of cane on the bum can correct a child behaviours.
Another important factor is the caliber of teachers employed. For pre school classes and nurseries, I suggest cool tempered married women who understand that children are capable of driving one crazy most times rather than young ladies who wouldn't accommodate their excesses
FamilyRe: Reasons For Failed relationship And Delayed Marriages With Women In Retrospect by Chidoks(f): 3:03pm On Mar 04, 2016
In summary, it's a man's world right? We know that already...

You aren't even holding your kind responsible for any thing at all.issiorite!
FamilyRe: Where Does A Person Draw The Line? by Chidoks(f): 2:55pm On Mar 04, 2016
Babes abeg abeg, the guy is not serious with you. Which kain lie be that? So asking for clarifications now amounts to insecurity abi? Whatever happens, make sure he explains his relationship with the girl in questions clearly and why he lied in the first place
FamilyRe: Wife Beater Looks Happy In Court Today (Photo) by Chidoks(f): 2:48pm On Mar 04, 2016
valdes00:
With wot am seeing, I think the court house nids renovation.... look at hw dirty the house looks ..... Govt won't see Dis wan
Honestly, with a cut so deep they granted him bail! Dem no even 'mend' am sef
FamilyRe: Name Something Your Mom Hit You With When You Were Young!!! by Chidoks(f): 2:35pm On Mar 04, 2016
Hei, that one na small matter na.the list is as follows:
1:Her palm for slaps
2:Her fingers for pinching my ears
3:Spatula, when Cain is not handy
4: Cain aka Mr do good
5:Anything on her hand at the moment of annoying her which includes but not limited to cup o, bucket o, mop o, sieve o,anything, just anything...
FamilyRe: I Didn't Know It Would Bleach My Newborn's Skin by Chidoks(f): 2:29pm On Mar 04, 2016
margaree:
Thanks every one for your contributions whether it is to curse me or to offer helpful advice, I really appreciate.
..to answer some of the questions asked, I am doing exclusive breastfeeding and it was the milk that I was taking that he reacted to but I have stopped taking milk in all its different form. And about the use of natural products, I am now using a mixture of Shea butter, olive oil, Johnsons baby Vaseline, Aveeno baby lotion and sebamed baby cream on his skin.
This must be your first child. Don't worry, it's a learning process but me thinks you are using so many things. Just stick to one ie Shea butter, that oil works wonders
FamilyRe: I Didn't Know It Would Bleach My Newborn's Skin by Chidoks(f): 2:25pm On Mar 04, 2016
Use Shea butter on that spot or blue seal Vaseline. Regular use of the creams you mentioned is capable of destroying useful bacteria on the skin and that might be the case. Keep the surface oiled and don't use disinfectant on a daily basis. Good luck
FamilyRe: I Think Cane Should Be Allowed In Schools To Keep Away This............. by Chidoks(f): 2:08pm On Mar 04, 2016
God bless you OP, I onced asked my baby's teacher why they don't have cane, she said the school disallows it. I swallowed it until the day my husband complained that the class attendant asked other pupils to slap awake a sleeping child. I asked if he corrected her and my husband actually said it wasn't his business. I was so shocked he could say such. I corrected him and remanded him that every child was his.
I started doing school runs myself till the day I caught the class teacher violently hitting a 4 year old baby on his back( with all her might!). My heart broke, I lost my cool and pointed out her wrong deed. Through out that session I anointed my baby and prayed fervently against victimization. Even up till today I always ask his teachers to flog him at the back of his fingers with ruler each time he misbehaves instead of beating.
School proprietors should please reintroduce cane. If you flog a child angrily or maliciously, the cane will tell but you can beat a child to death without any scratch on the body...
FamilyRe: My Blended Family - Why Won't He Touch Me? by Chidoks(f): 12:34pm On Mar 04, 2016
Some people think they can eat their cakes and have it.
You left your sugar for honey, then honey became watery you went back to sugar thinking the sugar would still be intact?
Nne wake up, this is reality
FamilyRe: Lady Accuses Married Man Of Impregnating Women With Fake Marriage Proposal by Chidoks(f): 3:35pm On Mar 03, 2016
abdoolorunwa:
WHY ALL THESE IGBO PEOPLE DEY LIKE DISGRACE US FOR THIS OUR COUNTRY. HABA!!![font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]
UNA NEED FLOGGING. SERIOUSLY.
Why are you so in love with IBO's??
FamilyRe: Children Talk On How To Molest And Kill A Girl (Video) by Chidoks(f): 9:08am On Mar 03, 2016
GodpunishBuhari:
Omg Islam again? Ishmail people? Education is Haram for them na.


Even a 2 year old muslim baby is dangerous em fit sabi make bomb sef


God punish this ishmalites including buhari and sanusi
This is absolutely ungodly and uncalled for. Besides God is not under any obligation to do your wish!
FamilyRe: Girl In Abuja Cannot Locate Her Home & Parents(Pics) by Chidoks(f): 10:47pm On Mar 02, 2016
Jaftee:
a quick summary,
my madam accuse me of using her toilet soap, and I didn't do it, the only thing that happen was that, I found the soap inside water then I took it out and drop it, she then began beating me heard so I ran because of heavy pain. now am lost.


I use to live with my mother in tudun Wada kaduna just behind shake Dahiru bauchi mosque. thy mother is well known with maman nafisat
Oh dear! Because of ordinary soap? Why can't folks treat other people's children right and why do folks still give out their children for slavery?
FamilyRe: Girl In Abuja Cannot Locate Her Home & Parents(Pics) by Chidoks(f): 10:43pm On Mar 02, 2016
hrworld:
So down casted. She looks so confused. Honestly this Government needs a lot to do and not just this dollar this dollar that. Anytime I hear news like this it breaks my heart because as a father, I know how dear my kids are to me. Honestly there should be stiffer penalty for child trafficking. From Ese to another innocent girl. This government should try produce good news o jare.
Government kwa?
FamilyRe: How Wife Caught Her Husband Cheating (PHOTO) by Chidoks(f): 10:39pm On Mar 02, 2016
Ewo!!!
FamilyRe: Love Or Trust: What Should Come First In A Relationship? by Chidoks(f): 10:30pm On Mar 02, 2016
jnrbayano:
Love or Trust: What should come first in a relationship?

It's really confusing to understand what comes first between love and trust when referring to relationship matters. Everybody has got different opinion on this. Some say love comes first while others say trust comes first. But before going further, let us see what love is and what trust is.

Merrian Webster Dictionary defines love "as an attraction that includes sexual desire. It is the strong affection felt by people who have a romantic relationship." It can be deduced from the definition that Love is all about having a strong feeling of affection for somebody that you are sexually attracted to.

Trust is defined by the same dictionary as "an assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something." In fact, to trust someone or something is to have confidence in that person or thing.

The difference between these two words can be noted from their meaning:

~Love goes with feelings.

~Trust goes with belief.

So, here comes the question;

What should come first in relationship?

Have your say.
This definition of love is lopsided and shallow.
Even in the man/woman relationship, real love is often promoted and achieved
FamilyRe: Love Or Trust: What Should Come First In A Relationship? by Chidoks(f): 10:28pm On Mar 02, 2016
aforti:
Their is no such thing as love between ppl. What you call love is just lust, infatuation. Trust is what keeps relationship at dats all. The only love you have btw humans is the unconditional love of a mother or father to a child. Period. Humans are too self centered to exhibit this kind of love to another human. So when you think of any relationship think trust even if that relationship is mere. Love is a mirage
I strongly disagree with you. Love is real
Please bear in mind that like every worthwhile venture, love must be groomed and nurtured to succeed even between God and man
Love is not irresponsible as we think at times
FamilyRe: Love Or Trust: What Should Come First In A Relationship? by Chidoks(f): 10:21pm On Mar 02, 2016
Love and trust go pari paso
None of them can exist independently.
Love will compel you to trust
But again, you cannot love without trusting...
FamilyRe: If You Had All The Money In The World, Would You Still Work? by Chidoks(f): 10:17pm On Mar 02, 2016
You've even gone too far. If I have all the naira in Lagos, I'll still de hustle dey go. Working is not limited to money making...
FamilyRe: Should A Husband Wash His Wife's Underwears? by Chidoks(f): 10:13pm On Mar 02, 2016
It depends on the couple. If it's ok by them fine. Different things work for different people. Let those that find it romantic enjoy it and let those that find it otherwise refrain from
FamilyRe: Lets Celebrate Our Nairaland Children ( post Your Pictures) :) by Chidoks(f): 9:47pm On Mar 02, 2016
lesbiangirl:
grin grin abit though
wink
FamilyRe: Lets Celebrate Our Nairaland Children ( post Your Pictures) :) by Chidoks(f): 7:22pm On Mar 01, 2016
lesbiangirl:
Na service ish
Wow! Your son is cute. I almost somehow didn't expect pictures o.
You sound tomboyish...
FamilyRe: Lioness Beats Down Her Mate When She Spots Him With Another Female (Pics) by Chidoks(f): 6:27pm On Mar 01, 2016
Dyt:
Well you agree too
Hmnnn! I agree o. Tee tee sef. I'm normal too
Jokes EtcWho Is The Winner? by Chidoks(op): 6:04pm On Mar 01, 2016
Since I stumbled on this I've been wondering who the winner is. So house, who is actually the winner

FamilyRe: Happy Birthday To The Most Amazing Man Ever by Chidoks(f): 6:01pm On Mar 01, 2016
Happy birthday. May the lines fall to you in pleasant places. Make sure you have fun today. I'll pop something on your behalf. Enjoy...
FamilyRe: Lioness Beats Down Her Mate When She Spots Him With Another Female (Pics) by Chidoks(f): 5:51pm On Mar 01, 2016
Dyt:
So I am not abnormal afterall
undecided undecided undecided
Hahaha!!
FamilyRe: Lets Celebrate Our Nairaland Children ( post Your Pictures) :) by Chidoks(f): 5:47pm On Mar 01, 2016
lesbiangirl:
Mine kiss
Where??
FamilyRe: Queen Ella-Mo' Adenugba With Discolored BabyBump Lashes Out At Haters [PICS] by Chidoks(f): 2:42pm On Mar 01, 2016
[quote author=DolaPat post=43386498]Kai, i love this lesbiangirl post ohhh, you are obviously an intellectual, biko, i am very proud of your idiosyncracy, just leave the silly girl, how can she even talk about physically challenged people like they are second class, so deaf and dumb people are partners for stupid people or what? mak i join abuse am sef, that her husband actually looks deaf and dumb, maybe thats why he didnt hear when the photographer told him to change his own clothings for a second shoot. stupid girl! anyways what i know authoritatively is that her stomach is not pigmented cos of pregnancy, that is what CHEAP BLEACHING DOES!!!DARK PREGNANCY PIGMENTATION IS DIFFEREENT FROM THAT THING IN HER PICTURES....[/quote
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Abeg na...
FamilyRe: Queen Ella-Mo' Adenugba With Discolored BabyBump Lashes Out At Haters [PICS] by Chidoks(f): 2:36pm On Mar 01, 2016
texazzpete:
There's absolutely nothing wrong with her angry outburst. And you're a joker to say this.
Since when did it become 'rude' to lash out at cyber bullies?

Rubbish



It's her own page. Posting an picture is not an invitation to bash.
Pregnancy is the most sensitive and private part of a woman's life events that's why most reasonable people share their photos after child birth.
Again cyber space is very very very public. That picture can be seen allover the world at the same time. It's public
Exposing a pregnant stomach is not something any reasonable self-respecting woman would do. No be every oyibo wey we dey copy de do am sef
But again gone are the days when women keep their private properties private...

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