Yea, it'd definitely be a very hard decision. I think the beginning stages would be more difficult than the engagement.

It's possible. Conditions? Well the person could not make fun of my belief in God or try to dissuade the children from believing in God.

Efani, I love how you can see your family pics in the background LOL! Naw, you don't look 22 to me. That's not a put down b/c I think you'll be much bigger (muscles ) and sexier at 22. But don't get me wrong, I'm too old to be your admirer but if I was younger. . . Having said that I want you to behave yourself.

@Spikedcylinder
Pregnant Cow! Lol. I totally got the mental image. But STOP PULLING! Long lashes are so pretty~

Gina Yashere? Is that her name? She's HILARIOUS! Though I've only seen this one clip. Is she on 3 Non Blondes too?

Hot-Angel! Tell me what you really think? Baby girl you had me in stitches. You really brought it, huh?. . .But then I got sad b/c the way you dropped it reminded me of. . . .Life's so short & some people spend on some shIt. Sad.

Well I'm not a financial genius but I forsee #6 being a problem. I think it introduces alot of uncertainty into the government and even personal life. Uncertainty and fear (of the future) is what drives honest men to corruption. (Of course others are motivated purely by greed and they can prey off of other's fears.) It's also a mighty big task to have to do every year. How about every 5 years when the changes can be made that really take the direction of the country into consideration rather than a fluke year.

Seun:

6. At the beginning of the new year, the new tax rates will immediately come into operation.

Seun:

It says "photoshopped to death".

LOL!

Seun:

Gosh, I hate critical people!

My previous post was a joke Seun. Really. Smile. ---> I guess it wasn't funny.

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I messed up so I had to edit myself.

Here in Houston the ENRON guys got convicted yesterday. Those guys - CFOs - ruined ppl's lives. It's very real down here.

Great post Gbengaijot!

Lol! I feel you Scorpio. But what would you say to a millionaire? Just asking.

Yes Orikinla. I understand now. I agree with you. Thank you.

Write a superb essay (personal statement) or whatever. Really sell yourself to the school(s) you want. When I was applying to college - many moons ago - I interviewed w/ an alum and he was like "Do you play an instrument?" And I was like "yes." and he said "When send them a tape." Well I didn't. . .and I didn't get into that school but my point is that you should really go the extra mile. Hope this helps. Good luck.

Seun, you're too much! If you want to attract Ndi Igbo "out of hatred" keep spelling our name wrong sha.

I agree w/ Scorpio. I'm feeling you girl! I don't like the idea of messing with nature. Nature's tried & true if you know what I mean. And just b/c it does not have side effects now does not mean it won't be linked to anything in the future. Remember, no one thought cigarettes had bad side effects. And silicone used to be injected directly into a woman's breast. My friend told me a recent study said the birth control pill that is most prescribed to young women - it's economical - has been linked to ovarian cancer. But the medical profession does not tell women & such this b/c they don't want them to use nothing. So, I won't be taking this new drug.

But, as I read, I recognize that women want (sexual) availability & reduction in crankiness while men want the same thing of women. Well for some people PMS (premenstrual syndrome) time is the time of heightened sexual energy (horniness) and/or crankiness. It's a really hormonal thing b/c you can wake up in the middle of the night and feel. . .but enough of me sha. That's just food for thought b/c if you regulate & normalize those hormones and by extension emotions, t/o the month & year. . .wouldn't it be boring? I don't know. So I don't have that answer.

The female body - don't know about male - communicates problems through it's menstrual cycle. Like if your cycle get off, if it's heavier than usual, lighter, more painful (cramps) etc. I think it's very necessary for young women and while I think everyone should do their thang, I wouldn't let my own daughter do it if she was under 30 - if I can stop her that is.

ToyM28:

i know u do unto others what u want them 2 do to u.

That's real. That's what always stopped me from doing such a thing. Thinking "If it were me. . ."

Oh, the las pic was so so so nice. Very well done by those ladies.

Seun:
If my fiancee is unwilling to sign the prenup, it means she is planning to divorce me and take half of my possessions. A gold-digger will never sign a prenuptial agreement, but someone that loves me won't mind!

@Seun
I actually think the opposite. I think that a man who really loved & trusted me would not ask me about a Prewhatever. Yes I understand that people change. That's why marriage can be risky. But to me, the risk is an emotional one. When you're heart breaks I will not think of my pocket book, that's the sort of person I am, so I guess I'm speaking for myself b/c I don't know how other people will/would feel. Lastly, life insurance is purchased b/c we will all die. No one buys insurance and says "Good now I can live forever!"

I guess this issue is all about being comfortable & confident in your marriage. But a PreNup would not make me either.

Orikinla:

Fatherhood is not American Football.

What does that mean?

Sorry Keele. The trust issue's a big thing. I hope you'll feel better though.

Dear Miss Rhodayln, you shouldn't have said that. If it does indeed serve him right then heartbreak is enough of a punishment. If you don't know that now, you may some day so be more empathetic please.

Looking good Thelma! You have the nose I always wanted LOL!

Oh, nothing serious sha. Just those land disputes that always go on in villages. OBJ? Baba might not make it back.

Ndipe:

Perhaps, prenup became a popular concept/idea among the rich in order to 'protect' their asset from gold diggers.

Yes, maybe. But then I have to ask, why marry someone you aren't sure about? It's a free world. If you aren't sure, WAIT! Patience is a virtue. I think people are very hasty & this is why PreNups are popular. But PreNups aren't air tight. Judges only give them a cursy glance in the UK - ask Mick Jagger. And in the US, well Donald Trump's 1st wife got more than their pre & post nuptial agreement specified. I guess a good lawyer makes a difference. His 2nd wife got the specified amount. His 3rd wife. . .well I guess THIS is why rich people get PreNups. They marry for a season.

@Seun
I don't ski dive either. But really, if at the alter your bride shrugs & says "I guess so" instead of "I do" wouldn't you re-consider? To me, PreNups are the written equivalent.

LOL! No, we're Arochukwu ppl. We beef w/ the Ohafia ppl alot b/c we're under their govt but I love 'em anyhow.

Thank you ToyM28! That's what I meant to say.

What say you, Mochafella? Or are you watching?