Since you take special exception to something I wrote months ago could you post a link so I can reread it?

Sista:

When your response to her is to casually say "Try dating White, Asian and Hispanic men"
The implication is you have concluded that their are no more good Nigerian men.

The implication? As in the one & only implication? As in the only way the comment can be read?. . .Or your assumption? I stated, restated & clarified my opinion. What's the problem now? You sound like you're spoilin to quarrel with me. Why? I do not know.

Sista:
You really need to be careful with what you say. As I told you in another post, you are very young I believe 22. You have just become a young lady but you are not that far from just coming off of your mothers breast.

I know I'm 22. Unfortunately I have no control over this, but don't mistake 22 for "young dumb & full of " & don't think b/c you read my posts that you know anything about my mother's tits jare. Ok?



Now if you want to make a point you needn't patronize me. You can just make the point.

I am careful with what I say but "thank you" for the added encouragement. Perhaps you should be careful about the conclusions you jump to.

Don't sleep with her if you don't want her. _{Can't believe you don't know.} Actions speak louder than words.

@Radiant[center]Two comments:[/center]
(a) True talk!
(b) You're killing me w/ laughter my dear. "You just a pyscho" You're the prime example of keeping it real.

I thought the Chinese weren't too keen on black ppl. (An Asian friend told me.) Am I wrong?

@Sista
You asked me the same question on another thread. I tried to clarify. Again I will say that I do not think that all anyone -- man or woman, white, black, undecided -- are good or bad. Fullstop. Hope this stops the confusion.

I agree with you; they should not be stigmatized.

I want to rally for the cause but where is the rally?

I can't think of a solution to this except using word-of-mouth to change ppl's minds.

He's a jerk. Not your style. Don't waste your time.

BigSis:

Any man can go to Nigeria and have sex with as many naijas, both men and women, if he has the money. Beastiality isn't off limits.

Beastiality, ke? What are you talking about? Is this a response to something I said?

Anytime Soul.

Mocha, shh! Now it's your time for quiet.

Seun why are you deleting my posts for no reason? It's idiotic & annoying.

Igbo Kwenu Bitches.

True talk Euphoria.

@T_G
Well first hand accounts count for something but you can't pass them off as your own. I hear American men (Afam, white, etc.) say they go to "the islands" & have sex w/ a bunch of girls & leave. The implication being that Carribbean women are "easy" and/or hypersexual. The concept is especially believed in the Afr.Amer. community w/ music videos held up as "proof" but I don't pass these notions off as fact.

@T_G
OIC. Well I think if you're an open person or try to keep an open mind with people in your day-to-day life -- even with reservations -- you'll find nice Nigerian men to be friends with. Your Ghanian bf might have some Nigerian friends already.

Trini_girl, I apologize for calling you dumb. That was unnecessary.

No, I am not trying to defend abusive & mean-spirited men, but I do think that your posts are out of line.

What I should have asked is,

How can you have an opinion about a relationship that you've never been in?

I do not have an opinion about being w/ Caribbean men though I've been told horror stories.

And did you not insult me first? You've said just as many horrible things about Nigerian women in your last 3 posts as men. We "grovel", are uneducated, are not "nice people", and on & on.

I should have responded more maturely, but I think you should post more maturely as well.

My 20 kobo.

trini_girl:

Nigerians are not nice people as a whole,

Then why are you here?

Who sent for you?

Or are you a masochist?

Brothers & Sisters, please ignore Trini_dumby, she's in a desperate search for attention.

If you respond she'll never make it to mental hospital.

Please, be cruel to be kind.

trini_girl:

Nigerian men are disgusting vultures! I live in Trinidad and Tobago, and these men keep coming here trying to marry us, offering us money, gifts and promising a sweet life in America or back in Nigeria. Their father is always some chief.

They are trecherous liars!!! And hate each other while pretending to be their friends.

trini_girl:
I have never had a Nigerian man. God forbid!

So you've never dated a Nigerian man but you know all about them? Can you spell S-T-E-R-E-O-T-Y-P-E? Sound it out. . .How about B-I-T-C. . .

Np, Soul. Me thinks Mocha is just fishing for girlfriends.

Ashamed of what? Love?

zebudaya:

so you use condoms until you get married, but the dude you marry may have asymptomatic STD's what then?

Are you asking me? I wouldn't have unprotected sex w/ someone who hadn't been tested, married or not.