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Was discussing with a lady close to me last night and she asked if I could wash my wife's undies & I told her: "God forbid". Not for any reason in d world. She was shocked & she said it means I dont truly love my spouse,which i didnt agree with though. She goes on to say any lady I tell that to will not agree to marry me. Seriously,I'm wondering where naija ladies are getting this stupid mentality of love from. Must a man ridicule himself to show love? I dont know any man(not even a white man) who washes pants for his woman. Moreover,I'm a black proud man & can never do that for any reason. If my wife doesnt wash my boxers,I wont get mad @ her cos she's not the one wearing them. I expect same from her. I had to tell the lady in question that,any woman who cant marry me becos I wont wash her pants,can go & drown for all I care. I feel some Naija gals are just on a mission to humiliate & ridicule men. What's ur take on this?

So u need advice for this? An u're supposed to be a man? For u to even ask this,means u're a weakling. My own father once tried to force me to date a girl I didnt like & I didnt act in a diplomatic way when telling him I wasnt interested. I told him & the girl off with a straight face. Do so now! It's ur life to live.

Are u finking with ur boobs or anus? A married man asking you to choose between him & a single man & u're asking for advice? Is foolishness a genetic thing in ur family? Do you know what you sound like to most of us reading this?

It's quite important to me. I'm about 6ft,3inches tall & I can't marry a short girl,no matter how pretty she looks. Minimum height for me should be 5"9.

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The two of them would have to look for a new name to answer & a new house to live in.

Any june 11th here?

[quote author=la'success]The fun still continues, gemini's on point... Shout to ya'all


June 12 all the way, gemini's does it better!


Let's rock it out, 22E9AC51..[/quote]same date with my aunt

Lenon12: June 9

same wit my ex

9jahotbabe: 9th of june my email address is nnwhendo947@gmail.com

same date with one of my ex...

[quote author=Mynd_44]You get time oo. This poster has been known to be a clown na[/quote]@ mynd: Sup? Forgot to ask u how d beach thingy went...

Girls and their wahala. If she's acting up & forming stephen(stiff) for ur friend,tell him to bone her & move on. I personally dnt like asking a girl out for long,it's a boring thing & waste of precious time.

Simple. Wave her once or twice & say hi... Pick a day to confidently walk up to her,complement her & tell her you'd like to know her better & probably become friends with her. Dont ask her out from the onset cos it might spoil ur chances... Be urself & dont attempt rehearsed lines cos it could mess u up if u forget ur lines. Take it nice & slow & you'll be home in no time.

I think this question needs to come out in all jamb/post ume exams in all schools for next yor... It lasts for as long as you hurt. Once you're done hurting,it goes away.

Theben: OP, the reason why you're not interested in her is solely because she's throwing herself at you. Forget this your 'she's not my type' rant. If she stops giving you attention and probably a friend in the neighbourhood starts showing interest in her, you will have a change of mind.

Not @ all man. U're wrong!

[quote author=gree-die]seriously ?? seriously ?? how difficult can it be?... babe i love you and dats why i cant date you, i will break your heart and spoil you for the next man if i do. i love u so much and i want to shield you from the evils of this world , from the bad guys init, including me.. i ll sooner cut out my heart dan think about you dat way. U r my sis from anoda mother and i just want to love u dat way...
[/quote]Already told her that we cant be except she just wants a fling but she's not buying it. I'm tryn as much not to call her but she's doing all the calling. Truth is,I cant see myself dating her @ all.

jeremiah's birthday sex,R.kelly's no 1 sex & ur body's calling. couple of joints from the isley brothers,I'm sprung by T-pain...

[quote author=Mynd_44]Dude if you are really serious, send her number to some desperate guys here like 190, Mr Cork and co[/quote]hehehe

Wi3ter: Bro, quit wasting her time and just tell her the truth, that you are into guys. There are lots of single guys looking for the nice curves, good height and pretty woman.

lolz. U're not serious man. I hope u know there's more to having the woman of ur dreams other than her being pretty,curvy & havin a nice height. What about intelligence,her speech/manner of talkin(she doesnt sound polished),religion,carriage/personality & all that? With maturity,you'll realise that not every pretty girl is meant for you.

I got this girl who really wants me to date her but unfortunately,we're nt compactible. She's pretty,got nice curves & good height but she's not my type. I've told her we can only be friends but the way she keeps buzzing me tells me something else. My days of being a bad boy are well over & behind me and as such,I'm not thinking of having a fling with her. I wanna date someone I love,get married,start a family & live a responsible life. But truly,how do I do this? Dont want to make her feel bad by telling her she's not my type.

[quote author=adesojiaderemi@][color=#000000]YOU GUYS SHOULD FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO DISCUSS,[/color]NO MEDIA IS CARRYING THAT NEWS IN US,SEX SCANDALS AND FISCAL CLIFF ARE THE PRIORITIES.

Common dude! You're in America & no media is carrying something this serious;shouldn't intelligence tell you it's a ploy to surpress the real threat it poses? Remember the revolutions in libya,tunisia,egypt,etc started by a minority but got blown out of proportion when CNN & major American media started making it a 24hr digest. America used the power of the media in blowing these revs up. They're not talking about this cos they dont want it blown out of proportion. If this was happening in Iran,Syria or even Nigeria,it would be all over the place by now.