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Lol. Such a disgrace to her family. If the family arranged this with her, it just shows how low and classless they are.

RuthlessLeader:
So you are saying that when men marry, they should stop taking care of themselves because it is the wife`s job now?

Is that what you deduced from my post? Anyone who's intelligent enough should be able to decode the message in that guy's post. It's that simple.

sanpipita:
The poster shared a health tip basically making in a woman's duty, what if a man is single? who will do it for him, many Nigerian men die off cos they can't take care of themselves, ppl should learn to take their personal wellbeing serious regardless of gender.

From the post, it was obvious he was referring to married people. If a man is single, he can read it and learn. He doesn't need to be spoon fed separately on how to eat healthy.

I don't even understand humans again. What exactly is wrong with the post the guy made? We all know that the in average Nigerian family,the wife cooks the meals and truly,not every woman knows how to cool healthy. Take for example the other day when Niniola fixed a meal that had too many boiled eggs in it and posted it on Instagram with a caption of "wife material" or so. She must have innocently thought she made a great meal not knowing that she had fixed a meal with a super dose of cholesterol and if that is meant to be given to a husband who is above 30 years of age,she'd obviously be speeding up the process of him having heart related disease in future as adult males should not eat meals with high dose of cholesterol. In my opinion, this poster was basically sharing health tips. I don't eat more than 2 eggs daily and I use honey for my tea rather than sugar.
Instead of her to learn,she's ranting about how men are useless. Truth is that a person who doesn't have sense,can and will never have sense until he or she is ready to. Most of these girls claiming feminism are just hiding their bad manners and inadequacies/flaws under the so called feminist title.

The responses here just shows how exposed a lot of people here are. I don't know how anybody will think that a company would position CCTV camera directly to capture images of people pooing or urinating. Highest it would do is to capture people going inside the toilet. For the company to do that, they might have gotten a report of staffs making out in the restroom.

winningwinner:
My name is Dahe. I struggled to graduate from the university. I made first class. After that, I got a job that pays 120k per month. But there is this problem with the job. You work like the bull and hardly have time for yourself. I sometimes sleep in the office just to beat time. It's work all through from morning till night.

There is this girl that I fell in love with. She was 21 then while I was 25. She kept complaining that I always keep to myself at work without a bit of care for her. The complain and accusations kept on till I decided to listen to her. I only worked for two months and had just been paid for the second month.

I invited her over to my house in Abuja. She came, and that time she was on her final year. She came with so many books and by the look of things, she was prepared to stay longer.

As usual, workload took over every event. At midnight, my phone rang and it was my girl. I was afraid to explain anything but I told her I was coming home right away. I did. It was hell in my home. We managed to make love and slept.

The next morning, my MD called demanding my presence. My girl insisted that I call him back and ask for a break that day. I did not.

Rather, I begged her and went to work. I truly loved her and wanted to propose to her before she goes back to school. But to make her feel good and belonged, I called her on phone to break the news. I proposed to her.

My MD sent for me to ask that I work through the night again. I said no. He pleaded, but I refused. It was hard saying no, but I had no choice.

At home my girl had turned herself into a ready made wife and I regretted not proposing to her till now.
I did not go to work the next day due to the new development at home. You understand what I mean..
My MD called to vent his anger, but I was calm and my girl swore never return to me if I didn't resign from the work. I took her word and resigned.

I looked for another work to no avail. She kept servicing my bank account with lots of money. Her father is rich.
She called me and asked me to speak with her mom and after some weeks, the dad. They kept saying, "please take good care of our daughter, don't break her heart".

My girl gratuated with a 2.1 honours and I attended her graduation ceremony where I met her parents live. After some weeks, her father called me to ask me about my plans with her daughter, I did not hide anything, and he told me to act fast.

A month later, I called him to inform him of my plans to marry his daughter the coming Christmas, but only that money was the big issue. He told me to go on with my plans that he will take care of everything. I jumped at it and we wedded. He took care of everything starting from invitation card to reception.

He refurnished my house in Abuja and transferred three years rent sum to my landlord's account. He paid in advance. Our first child came, still I and my wife are jobless. My In-law takes care of us.

I wanted to be in charge of my home but the man kept interfering, making the daughter to take a contrary decision on crucial matters.

My wife no longer takes my advice, what do I do? I need your candid advice on this matter. Please help me!

MY QUESTION: Will you as a father leave your home to meddle on your daughter's own home? Why won't you allow her to build her home with her husband?

For now,you need to fucking shut up your mouth and not say anything. When you get a decent job and your balls have started growing, then you say something.

The man should be shot in the brain.

biacan:
Now that's the kind of men we want in our society I think he deserves an accolade

Naah. That's not the kind of men we want in our society. We don't want weaklings. Even if I don't hit her back, I'd definitely get her arrested and locked up in cell overnight and charged to court for assault. You should never reward bad behavior and manners with inaction. That idiot would end up repeating that thing with another guy tomorrow.

NdiaraIGBO:
Dont worry you will eventually grow up and bitter by the time many of your good years are gone and nothing to show for it. That excitement will turn into misery and anger. Everybody must work and bring something to the table.

Stop talking like a fool. I don't come from a family where helping out feels like a burden. Shove your stupid advice down your arse.

different strokes for different folks. if my family askes me for money and i cant give,i end up feeling depressed and sad. whenever i am asked and i give,i feel excited and happy that i can give. i dont know how you guys were raised and as such,i cannot judge you. do whatever you think is right though.

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transformed:
Oga Ade Mr Supporter or Palestinians...can you prove that Israel have killed more Palestinian civilian since 1948 than the number of innocent farmers Moslem Fulani herdsmen have killed since January 2018? I want to believe you also follow middle belt killings the same way you follow Palestine since 2000, if not you are a slave and ode

You are just a bloody fool! What is the correlation between the killings in Gaza and the killings in the middle belt? You better close that your dirty mouth and spare us the gibberish you have to say if you don't have anything in your head. What you are trying to say is that it is OK for Muslims to be killed in Palestine since Christians are been killed in Nigeria. Unfortunately, you're too dumb and stupid to know that there are also Christians in the Gaza strip. Dumb headed slowpoke!

alBHAGDADI:
What evil are you talking about? You mean Israael defending itself from terrorist is evil to you?

Oh, you haven't heard that 50 out of the 62 protesters killed were Hamas terrorists/ Google up

I don't need google to know about the problem in the Gaza strip. I've been following the developments there since 2000 and to be honest,the Israelis have been committing serious atrocities in the name of fighting hamas and Hezbollah militias. Too many innocent women and kids have been used as collateral damage and nobody has questioned them. This is something that cannot happen elsewhere without the US forming defender of the universe. Way back, I used to support the Israelis cos of biblical sentiments until I realized the Israelis were guilty of a high level of highhandedness. The continual blockade of the Gaza strip by the Israelis, would always be a problem there.

Busch:
As long as your speech shows deformity against Jews, you ain't a Christian, just like me.

I have nothing against the Jews. I only made that comment to clarify things cos a lot of people keep talking about how God promised Israel that they would never be defeated in battle and I'm saying here,that the biblical Israel that he made that promise to,weren't the Jews or Pharisees as they weren't obeying his commandments.

transformed:
Ode. 1. Israel /Gaza have nothing to do with Christianity. 2. Moslem don't condemn their kind. Have you ever hear them condemn Boko or Isis? Instead they blame others for atrocities committed by their kind.

Look at how foolish and stupid you sound with that comment. So because Moslems don't condemn their kind,Christians should support evil? It's obvious they replaced your brain with 7 days spoilt pap/akamu. Visit a surgeon for them to flush it out so you can think well. Idiot!

bankylan:
You need education and a rebirth. Most of the people killed were members of Hamas. Read your Bible, Zephaniah....and see what God said about Gaza...All the Biblical places are being preserved in current day Israel. Israel don't go about killing, but respond only to threats against them. If these Israel are not the one with the promise of God, how come they are the most technology advanced humans on earth today. How come they defeated all the Arab nations combined in 1948 and 1967? Don't you read your Bible to know that Jesus was a Jew in his incarnation? Get a dstv and limit the time spent on local stations.

Spare me this gibberish. Maybe you just started following this issue and do not know its history. I've been following the issue of the Gaza strip since early 2000 and nothing has changed since then. You are the one who needs a proper education since you claim Israel are the most technological advanced humans on earth. Please tell that nonsense to the illiterates in your house.

I'm a Christian but I can never support what is happening in the Gaza strip. It's pure terrorism and cruelty to innocent humans and grave injustice of the highest level. Anybody supporting that nonsense must be mad and sick in the head. You can't claim to love God and be supporting the killings of innocent people. I'd support anything that would bring to an end, all the madness going on in the Gaza strip even if it means a coalition being formed to battle Israel. This current day Israel is not the one that God gave a promise to. He gave a promise to Christians and not Jews.

Nice one.

If the head can be this rotten, how much more those working under him? IG with low IQ = a dead police force.

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Rubbish. Do you guys ever play your songs to people who know what music is,before releasing it? The amount of off keys in the song is irritating.

What was he supposed to call him before? Oh,I forgot. Cow!

abumoney:
This interviewer only wants to be popular for doing nonsense. Skales was really patient with the scum of a journalist. I'm not a fan of Skales but I think Skales won my heart with his patience and consistency in schooling this dumb ass of a journalist. Watch the clip to the end before you judge Skales. 99% of us here won't be that patient with anyone who tries to impose his opinion on us. Skales is a genius with genius output. Booty language is a classic song, no more no less

Well said (apart from the song being a genius song).

rebirthiix:
All dese amateur interviewers.. Very poor journalism... Skales was even patient.. He should hav walked out sooner

Exactly! If I was the interviewer's boss,I'd fire him immediately I see this. Such an amateur,unprofessional and shabby interview session. How on earth did that guy manage to even be a TV host? His appearance is so shabby.

solasoulmusic:
Not too attractive for me but great singer hope the application to be like Jamb

Wait o,is it the praiz in the picture up there, that is not too attractive for the you on your dp? Father Lord, I give up. The world is truly about to end.

DoTheNeedful:
I have an uncle who had his first child at 45. He is 86 now and his first son is 41. He is the only surviving of his siblings. I think I agree partly with @Renegadd.
I remember my old uncle saying he feels young. He is also IT savvy in his own little way.

45 then and 45 now,aren't the same thing. Life was this hard then. Don't just do abstract comparisons based on nos. Do your comparisons based on this current age and time and based on what's obtainable now.

eghuan1:
Funny you brought this up. I was driving some days ago and some policemen stopped me somewhere and where asking how's madam. I didn't know how to answer the question. So one if them looks at me and says, e be like Oga never marry o. And his colleagues were like, which kind joke be that? Then one said to me, Oga Wetin you de wait for? I replied say I de find better person and he laughed for sometime.
He came to my side and said you no go go village go find one small girl give belle? Oga no look all these Lagos girls o. Na Wetin I do o.
When I left them, I set up a project, just like those pastors that saw thunder and thought God is speaking to them, "project one year". Get a better accommodation, arrange my life and set a trap, anyone who falls into the trap, drag her to mumsy.

Project to be delivered latest July next year.

Lol. E no easy.

Renegadd:
35 to 40 is good age to get married and have kids.
Leonardo DiCaprio is 43 and not married, Lionel Richie got married and had his first child at 45 . he's 70 now and his child is 25 .Donald Trump's son is 12 years old and Donald trump had him at 58. Michael Jackson had his first child at 40. Quincy Jones had a his first child at 40. He's 85 now and his son is 45

Pls,always compare apples to apples and not pineapples. The people you mentioned are people in countries where they do not need to struggle like we do in Nigeria, to make ends meet.

Renegadd:
35 to 40 is good age to get married and have kids.

What if I tell you that my friends I mocked way back,now have 18 year old kids and I have none? You see that gap?