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Donald7610:
My big celebrated wedding crashed in 2 years

It did not crash because it was big and celebrated. It crashed due to other factors. I don't like when people start saying "Malta guiness is bitter" just because they can't afford it.

Nobody truthfully wants to wed this way; let us tell ourselves the truth sometimes. If they had the money, they would have done like every other person. I must commend them for their courage to damn what anybody says, and do this but this sole act should not be used as a yardstick to judge everybody, neither should it be the benchmark for testing if a lady is loyal or a wife material. We don't get married everyday. My younger sister got married recently and everyone was happy cos the wedding was lit! Yeah, it costs some good millions and I felt proud and was happy it went that way. It was classy and what every bride would want... Years down the line, she and her hubby would look back and still be proud of themselves. Banky and Adesuwa just had theirs and we're all talking about it. Years to come, they would look at themselves and be proud of what they did.

If you have the means, go for what you want and make your wedding as classy and lit as it can be. Weddings don't happen everyday. The harsh reality is that if my sister wants to do this kind of wedding, I don't know if I'd ever be a party to it cos I'd be disturbed about how the man in question would be able to take care of her. We all wanna be happy. Brides wanna be happy on their wedding day... The fact that there are leeches everywhere, doesn't mean we should use poverty as a standard for judging a good wife material. If I want to get married, I'd love it to be as lit as it can.

Moreover, the fact that they got married like this, doesn't mean they would not break up if devil surfaces in their union. Poverty and lack of money, destroys so many homes and that's why it is good for one to be financially ok to a reasonable extent before getting married.

How much is the jet, and what is the networth of the people who contributed to buy it? Anyways, what do I know. It's obvious that the trending thing, is for pastors to own private jets. I really want to be super rich and successful someday so I can show these people, how things should be done. In my humble opinion, these pastors do not need all these private jets they keep buying.

I am a Christian by religion and I love God. However, I think we need to reevaluate the kind of Christianity we practice in Nigeria. Popular OAP Freeze, has been airing his opinions about tithe and it has left a lot of people divided. Yes, I believe a lot of pastors these days, are just after the money but then, it isn't enough to stop me from paying tithes cos that is a personal matter between me and God.

However, I find it disgusting that a so called "man of God" will curse someone and say the person will die within 24 months for preaching against tithing. When Jesus called the 12 disciples, He said "come onto me, and I will make you fishers of men", not fishers of tithes. When Apostle Paul was leaving, he admonished the disciples to preach the gospel of Christ steadfastly and didn't hammer on them making sure that they collect tithes and offering. Apart from the book of Malachi, I'm not sure if I can remember any other book of the Bible that duelled much on tithing. Even in the book of Malachi, it was addressed in a few verses. The Bible talked more about giving to the poor, from Genesis to revelations. I don't understand this current zeal and zest in Nigerian pastors to want to defend the issue of tithing at all cost. The holy book tells us that God who has given a vision, would definitely make a provision. If a pastor claims he is called of God, irrespective of whether the members pay tithes or not, God will definitely order the footsteps of men to contribute to that work. Any pastor who curses a person for preaching against tithes because the person doesn't believe in it, nor understand the principles of tithing, is nothing but a rogue and a bloody criminal. That is not the gospel of Jesus Christ that he asked you to preach. You cannot fight for God. Allow God fight for himself. Pastors should focus on soul winning. There are lots of young men and women lost to prostitution and drugs out there. Go and bring them to Christ. Stop fighting over whether it is right to give tithe or not. Most of these modern day pastors are making Christianity a burden to most of us, and are making people backslide rather than win souls to Christ. If not that I grew up in the old deeper life bible church where holiness was all they taught us, I certainly would have grown up into a pagan cos the kind of Christianity these pastors are practicing today, is not encouraging.

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Dasherz:
some guys look better with no beards while others look good with beards

same as some ladies look good with no makeup

Babe, make up and beards ain't the same thing joor. This your argument can't hold water at all.

Dasherz:
yes sir i am 100% sure

So, you're saying it's beards that makes guys fine? What of those who do not have beards?

Dasherz:
same thing beards does for guys .. so we' re not the only one guilty of a made up look

Are you sure you know what you are saying?

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Austinoiz:
U no go ask ds question if u dey watch Naija films. Nichole is your everyday face in Nollywood ok

Really? Anyways, I don't watch movies though(especially Naija films).

Toks2008:
Another strange thing i cant just decipher..a man scrws you front back and center in one room,you pass nights with him in one room but ou cant marry him into one room and plan from there. Women are their own problem.

screwing a lady codedly in one room,and marrying her to start a family in one room,are two different things. anyways,i dont know much about stuffs like this but i'm very sure i wont attempt starting life wit anybody in one room(irrespective of the love we share). a duplex or at worst,3 bedroom flat is ok. i like to live in a house with a lot of space.

Dwizeone:
I would rather say, settle for your class, if you are rich obviously you will settle for the rich if hustling settle for the lady in that class, honestly everyone fall into a category and the truth is there is true love in all classes.

word!

Toks2008:
Many times we a scared of taking that step because of nothing but FEAR.

If you have a lady who will not mind starting with you in one room,and both of you are ready to do very low key wedding for now and do a bigger one when the money comes and ofcourse put child bearing on hold whilst both of you work hard,i believe you can go ahead and get married.

this start from one room talk,get as e be for mouth o.

lol. all these actresses wey person nor dey know their names. nairaland always makes them popular. abeg,which film she don act?

Please I want to sell the sky and the air in the area where I am living. Interested buyers should contact me. It has double c of o. One for the air and another one for the sky.

Dainikel:
Mehn Ebuka's fashion sense is top-notch. The dude just never disappoints in occasions lyk this. He gats even tutor some Yoruba demons on magical Agbada dress sense.

His agbada is even finer than the grooms own.

wurabecca:


Now this is class!

Yoruba is the real definition of Class!

These guys are handsome, see CHUKWUEBUKA slaying AGBADA!

Chai, God bless Odudua for me, I'm proudly a Yoruba girl.

And I wn cum sha....... too excited

Bloody Yoruba girl that is cute.

If I eventually get married, I'd love my wedding to be this classy though. Congrats to the couple. Wish them happy married life.

Lol @ the "brand new cars". OP is a local somebody.

when a deeper life christian sister tries to compete with a slay queen,know that the end of the world is near.

beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. for some,you are gorgeous and for others,you aren't. don't expect a positive answer from everybody. for me,you aren't ugly and at the same time,not pretty.

another practical example of a man who fell because of a woman. ever since he sacked his vice in a bid to make his wife president,he fell from grace. there was no wisdom whatsoever in that decision.

is all this publicity necessary? it's supposed to be a wedding ceremony,not a concert. that's how i read about how oritsefemi went to put up a billboard of him and his wife,wanting to get married,at a roundabout in lekki or so. of what point is all that? people should learn how to keep things simple and classy.

damn! no one is certainly a good reason to prevent me from entering a pool with so many people. if i must do so,it must be in a place where there are sane and classy people,who would understand that they shouldn't pee in the pool.

they both need to calm down.

nice cool r/b vibe. it's obvious peter is more of the r/b kinda artiste while paul is more of a dancehall act. i love the song. calm and groovy.

what kind of madness would make a man have sexual feelings towards his own daughter? how does he intend to prevent her from predators outside? this is a very sad thing to hear.

Inception:
Naija used is the new tokunbo

Exactly. Naija used cars are even being sold for more than what they cost initially,in some cases.

It's not just the brand new vehicles that the sales has dropped. Even the tokunbo sales has dropped. The auto sales industry has witnessed an abysmal performance this year. It's been a very poor performance.

tmx21:
lol, was once in your shoes. but I know it'll sound odd if I tell you that 50k will give 12hrs power daily for 24 months. the last time I bought fuel was 3 yrs ago. quote me for the secret.

Share secrets pls.

KreativGenius:
Now this is the secret i keep explaining to folks.

Now, battery is the expensive piece, while the solar panel is relatively cheaper.

But we all need battery because they're the brain of the system. So i always recommend going for half the battery size you need and twice the solar panel size that should be used. This means, if you need let's say "2 " battery, and then " 4 " solar panel, then i advice going for " 1" battery and then " 8 " solar panel.


This implies if the rate of power generation is higher than the storage and consumption, excess power is generated. Suffice to say, a solar panel that stores charges even during dull weather works perfect because before the battery drains out, the next set of power is ready for fresh supply, so the supply has to be twice the rate of consumption. Unlike conventional strategy where people are advised to get bogus batteries which is always a pocket breaker.


Used mine now 12 months by the Grace of God !


If you list your apparatus, i can draw a quick sketch of your power needs and how to get it

Give me a sketch for this.

16 energy saving bulbs round the house
5 yellow bulbs at gate (not energy saving)
2 street lights (the large sized energy saving)
4 regular fans
3 industrial fans
2 freezers
26 energy saving bulbs