₦airaland Forum

GavelSlam:
OK I hope the security operatives are monitoring this not so well veiled threat.

When you guys are ready to go suicidal you can be sure the number of you left could be counted on on hand.

What are you talking about and who's making a threat? I'm talking about things people have failed to see in the course of propagating war and encouraging violence and you're here saying something else. I'm partly Edo,partly Yoruba and very far from having anything with biafra. But that being said, I wouldn't close my mouth and watch ignorant people encourage violence and war, with the hope that it would be restricted to just one part of the nation, only for a full blown up crisis to erupt, and consume those of us who have nothing to do with it.

Noise! I don't know how they want to dance to this one sef.

Mrnairalandd:
Pls Nigerians are safe. Only Igbos ll face their music. The battle ll be fought in the land.

That is where we all get it wrong. Boko Haram has taught other militias how to use explosives to kill so many. Have you ever thought about what that could do in a highly populated state like Lagos where a lot of ibos live? You don't even want to imagine and trust me, I have absolutely no faith in our security agencies to nip that kind of damage in the bud before it gets out of hand. Think about it very well. None of us can say who would stay alive when shit hits the ceiling.

Hmm. I'm not a biafran but I must say that the Nigerian govt has put every foot wrong as far as the issue of biafra is concerned. The government is pushing its citizens into a state where sooner or later, everything would turn upside down and it would become a free for all fight. Carelessness in handling Boko Haram, led to What we have today. That same carelessness would sooner or later create another problem with ipobs and should this people decide to eventually take up arms against the state, I wouldn't blame them. The current Nigerian leadership is as useless as it can get and that uselessness obviously has trickled down to the irresponsible security operatives the country parades. It's embarrassing that in a democratic setting, we're experiencing this sort of nonsense. The worst military government in Nigeria, is way better than this buhari's useless government by miles. Never in the history of this country, have Nigerians ever felt this way. Not even Abacha's government was this useless.

Weird taste and food combination. Roasted corn to go with semovita? Hmm. That aside, you can eat for Africa though. How would you finish those roasted corns, and still eat that semo? Just one of that corn is enough to get my jaws tired from chewing.

No wonder the ipobs call Nigeria a zoo. Can you just imagine the nonsense. Nigeria is a psychiatric nation.

Amarabae:
you are a virgin? Wow,
so sweet,
*shedding tears of joy*

Why are you shedding tears of joy for him when you are married and getting it? You're not a nice person at all. You want all the tadpoles in his groin to turn to full grown frogs, and Leave him with severe waist pain ba? Weldon MA.

janykute:
My wife belong to the kitchen,was that not an intelligent statement?

Lol.

Buhari has been president for 2 yrs and in those two years, I can't remember one intelligent statement that he has uttered out of his mouth.

AmandaLuv:
Shameless old hag trying to cover up. we know the antics already

You're cute.

saintkeppy:
. Look b4 you Leap is the name of the Game. But somtymz the mo' u look the Less u see na only Baba God go help Us go for the rite 1.

True. If you want to catch a thief, behave like one. Had to take that route to make my new discoveries.

cbrass:
I wish I can buy a drink for you , you must be a lekki guy to know this too

I nor dey stay Lekki but I know this. A man just has to be very vigilant, to keep up with the antics of the modern day woman. I know a lot of ladies on that axis and this is what most of them do.

saintkeppy:
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Yeah! ain't nottin'hidden under the sun bro'....While some claim General Supplies&Contracts with ridiculous bizness names &Letter head.

Lol. Dudes be getting engaged to chics who are charging xyz amount to fvck you till day break, and be telling you how their fiancee is an independent woman and got her own money...lol. At the end of the day, they're not wrong though but... I'd rather be single for life than wife such. I've come to know so much about ladies to the extent I tend to suspect most of them without a 9-5 job, or a viable credible business...

saintkeppy:
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.......Make-up Artist, Modelling &Event planners

You sef sabi dem...

lafflaff123:
Bad pictures.

Why were they not taken from the front?so that the association of "vetters" can vet if the London Bridge has fallen.

70% of the Olosho's in Lagos State live in the Lekki/Ajah Axis. The funny part is that they all claim to be interior decorators, or make up artist.

You know the drill mehn! They are usually into interior decoration, make up artist,fashion designers, etc. Lekki and ajah is the prime location for them.

Nma27:
Lol. Sometimes it is good to just chill and have fun. A day without ur biz won't impoverish u.

Yeah but like I said, I don't expect to turn up just that day and be given a chance to play...

If Buhari contests and wins elections in Nigeria in 2019, I'd have no option other than to denounce my Nigerian citizenship and apply for a foreign citizenship. That would be the end of me being a Nigerian.

Nma27:
Yea well, figured u for a fit person don't know why. Can you? You play ball?

I was shocked at how you came about that and yeah, I used to play ball way back but you can't rely on me to come for something like this except you want me to turn up on the day of the event, to join the team (which is not possible). Besides, one call on the pitch that someone wants to buy a car, and I'm out with the speed of light...

Nma27:
Chronique should be the striker. Soberdrunk will do well as the goalkeeper.

Me? Striker? How did you come about that?

400billionman:
Say you no get money to marry..

Lol. I wish. Like say I nor get gan, I know people wey go contribute just to see me wedded at all cost.

Jaqenhghar:
If na by people stories then you wont do much in life then
People go through school and dont get a job will thay stop you from going to school?
Some have started business amd failed at it does that mean you wont try?

That's different joor! The way people misbehave in marriage these days, makes it quite difficult for some people. Considering the fact that you have to learn to trust a person and when you start reading certain stories, your heart begins to skip and you're just wondering if the next person would be sincere enough..
I think my biggest fear with marriage is the problem of infidelity rocking most marriages lately. It looks like those who haven't been caught, are just on the waiting list waiting to misbehave. There are people who behave well though but a lot is scary. I have been a member of a particular group for some time and I have been doing some coded detective work. I must say, that I feel for guys who are in relationships with girls living in Lekki, who do not have any tangible source of livelihood but slay.. Most of them are call girls. Furthermore, it would interest you to know some of them now use makeup artist, stylist, designer, etc as a front for the real job they do. When you hear them talk about their adventures, you'd almost lose hope. The sad part is that most have stable boyfriends and fiances. Imagine getting married to such people... Information is power but sometimes could be destructive. Let's just say what I know, has become so much of a problem to me.

Beautiful. I like seeing lovely pictures of couples. Unfortunately, I'm not even sure if I still want to get married again. Nairaland stories ain't helping either.

Another round of bullshitt! The more I read up stories like these, the more I lose interest in marriage and women. Someone has a fiance and is still fuvking a married man;what the Bleep is wrong with these people? These days, I notice I'm getting less interested in asking women out and of course, it's issues like this..
No man or woman deserves to be treated this way after giving his/her all to make a relationship work. It's just 's cruel. Please expose that bitch to her fiance asap. As for your husband, do whatever pleases you.

majekdom2:
Chronique, is this lady poor or will you say it's her poor background that made her do all she did?

You're mixing a lot of things up. I never said it's only people from poor backgrounds who cheat. We were talking about dating below a person's level and I said people from poor backgrounds dating up, quite often misbehave cos most times, they are usually after what they can get from such people and such behaviors usually arise owing to the kind of upbringing, mentality and exposure they had, while growing up. Nothing in this story, depicts the background of both parties.

supersystemsng:
Hahahaha typical Nigerians, that's how they are, hanging around like jewelry once they see you have advantages they wanna tap into...Been there too, i trust the dude is roaming the streets now...sowwie

I heard he finally moved to Italy last year or so. Funny thing is that, he had to lie to a girl he met through another of our friend, that he was traveling to Yankee. He didn't even tell this dude he was traveling even though they were planning to do some business together. It was the chic that eventually told him that his friend had travelled. I ran into this old friend early this year and he was lamenting about how the guy behaved before he left... Truth is, I stopped having a best friend after he misbehaved and I have made it clear to everyone I met after him, that I do not have a best friend and of course, owe no one any form of unnecessary loyalty. I can do away with them any time I feel like they're messing up. I do most of my things alone and I'm happy with it.

banky3w:
I need a 2007 Limited edition Toyota Avalon. Toks or used.

Available

majekdom2:
he betrayed your friendship not because he is a rif raff. Hello, you never see rich man wey dey straff his friend wife? Enter the business world and see how the rich betray themselves over a few millions.

He betrayed our friendship cos he was desperate to travel out. His elder brother and sister had used the Libyan route to travel out. I on my part wasn't bothered about all that traveling isht. I'd gotten my admission to study in the UK long before then but ended up not traveling due to certain issues I had at home and I wasn't bothered about it. The girl in question who he hadn't met, asked him to choose between her relationship with him, and his friendship with me and he went with her. What was the problem? She went to a facebook page of a young business I was trying to build, and was cursing him with the "f" word and typing all manner of rubbish there. I asked her to refrain from doing so, as it was a business page, but should call him up to thrash whatever issues she had with him personally. Of course, she couldn't put up with my fuvck off attitude and I don't give two fuvcks if you're are an American, attitude. So she told him I insulted her and the slowpoke was bold enough to tell me I should have ignored all her stupid posts on the page. I told him bluntly that I wouldn't have them bring their personal issues to my page and the rest is history... Someone who isn't poverty stricken, would not see an internet relationship with a complete stranger, as the key to a better life. Any day, any time, I'd always advise people to run away from such folks as far as relationship is concerned.

majekdom2:
you don't want want marry a poor person for your selfish reasons. In Nigeria, integrity can't be attributed to one social class. Are your politicians not rich? Do you know how many babes that are from wealthy homes I have lashed and that time they all claimed to be in serious relationships. The most sincere babe I have dated can't be regarded as even average. Tho,
had siblings but they were not even responsible for her. My point is understand your partner and forget social class! Folorunsho Alakija was a tailor without a university degree... you must have said this same thing if you say her tie a ram years back. Today, who is she?? See there is fate and destiny but ambition, zeal, opportunity and foresight is very important. These are things one should look out for.

Not wanting to marry from a poor background has nothing to do with looking down on anyone. It's just me not being ready to open myself up to pretentious folks who could take advantage of my nature all in the name of loving. That's something that could happen to the OP. Let me give you an example. I once had someone I wanted to date who was doing better than me financially but I noticed other stuffs in her that I couldn't put up with and decided to quietly leave her alone. I shared it with some people much later during a convo and they called me a fool not taking advantage of her to travel to the US and after getting there, I could ditch her. More like using her. I personally, didn't even fancy the idea of traveling out cos I wasn't interested in it. I could understand them cos they're from the background that sees traveling out, as an achievement. Imagine such a lady dating any of these guys? What would be the outcome? She would have loved up and dated below her status only to end up being jilted. This is one of the reasons why I don't blame ladies who can't date below their level.

majekdom2:
Yes @ bolded and the individual most especially. Will you say all the runsgirls are from a poor home? Hell No. Some runs girls get enough allowance from their families but No, they want to live beyond their limit. It appears to the males. I used to know Yahoo boys that were from rich home. I say it again, we have a social problem in Nigeria that's not a "respecter" of age, tribe or social class

While I understand you clearly, I must also let you know that I have seen people from 3 social classes misbehave but then, I still insist that people from poor backgrounds tend to misbehave quite often. Have you ever been to a barrack before? Do you have an idea how children raised under such conditions behave? How many of them turn out well? Truth is people from such backgrounds tend to misbehave more than people from a better background and that is just the harsh truth even though it doesn't make everyone from a poor background bad. That being said, we all have our lives to live and should be allowed to make decisions. I relate with people from different backgrounds and I do learn from everyone but when it comes to marriage or dating, I'd never take that route. I know my kind of person and I know my weaknesses. I wouldn't allow myself to be taken advantage of all in the name of dating and loving.

NairaSand:
I respect your view....We poor people should marry ourselves. And you the rich should marry yourselves.

It makes perfect sense until you started judging everyone of us. If every party in a pool is gonna earn a reputation for what what a small minority/majority do, I wonder what the world will be like.

People like you are one extra reason why broke nigga like us want to "make it" so bad.

Well, I never said I was rich... Besides, I don't think it's about people earning a reputation for what others did as such. These things aren't easy to explain without one sounding somehow but the truth is, a lot of opinions are formed out of experience and other people's stories. It would interest you to know that my best friend at a time for 14 years was from a very poor wretched family but I didn't use that as a basis for being friends with him. My siblings and other friends would ask what I was doing with this riff raff but I always defended him. Would take food from the house to his house... At a point, I was embarrassed by a gf for coming to her birthday party with this dude... Several years later, this dude betrayed our friendship over a girl he met on the internet who promised to take him to yankee. Our friendship ended but he never went to America. The point is that somebody who could betray a 14yrs friendship just cos he was desperate to travel to Yankee, should never have been my friend in the first place. Same thing applies to dating.

Alcatraz005:
You harsh ooooo. Na wa!

Well, I don't know if I'm totally correct but I do believe I'm not far from the truth. Remember I didn't focus on the person so much. I focused more on the family background. The kind of setting you come from, has a way of affecting you positively or negatively.

MrMcJay:
You obviously are a young adult old enough to know what she wants. However, I'll point out a few things to you.

Firstly, men and women are wired differently. In matters of looks, money, age, education and class, men date downwards while women date upwards. Having a woman date downwards or sideways is abnormal. Hence, you're not a gold digger as your dating requirements are in accordance with nature. However, you should borrow yourself brain o!

As to the most guys being in their struggling phases, you should understand that nature has made it that we all won't bloom at the same time. Some are early bloomers and others bloom late. A bungalow can be finished in a month, but when building a superstructure, one month is not enough for the foundation alone. I believe that you should look beyond the present and consider the character, prospects and personality of a man.

The kind of men you seek are established men in their career, business and are comfortable. However, such men that fulfil such criteria and are suitable are within the ages of 30-40. You'll notice that such men are already married. If you wish to keep seeking made guys, I can assure you that you'll find them. My question for you is that when you find them, would you satisfy their requirements before they kick you out?

You can meet young and upwardly mobile young men at various places. Polo Club on Friday evenings, Churches in Lekki, VI and Ikoyi on Sundays. Also, you can volunteer at events in the aforementioned localities. Don't snub anyone and receive all with a smile, helps to attract good people.

Don't be desperate, never be snobbish; Be ready to build with your man; Don't despise the days of little beginnings; Don't always be about what you're getting from the relationship, give freely, Smile often and be prayerful. You'll meet wonderful people.

I know you find a good guy so that I can wear my white Agbada with sunshades and beards in my complete Yoruba demon outfit to celebrate with you.

Cheers.

Nice one.