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The rate at which people have unprotected sex, is alarming... I also wonder how you can be 39 and dating an unserious man at your age. I'm not a fan of abortion and if I mistakenly impregnate a lady, I'd just marry her like that(whether or not she is my type) and to avoid such, I'm very picky with who I have sex with(especially unprotected). I'd just advice you keep the child and forget about abortion.

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Who ever this blogger is, I just got to let you know that you are very silly... If you want to make it in blogging, it's not going to be by being silly. How does having 5m instagram followers, amount to davido finally "having something worth celebrating"(in your own words)? What you're indirectly saying is that davido hasn't done anything worthwhile...

According to the story, the aunt followed her to the village to ask for the powder she stole but she denied taking it. The woman went back but died on her way through an accident... Her spirit obviously is taking vengeance. If I may ask, what kind of powder would make someone travel all the way from Lagos to Benue to collect? Could it be the powder was supposed to be used for something spiritual/fetish?

Jesus Christ is Lord! See the way I'm running 440... Nicca, see you later.

Nice one. Eedris doesn't deserve anyone's respect cos he has no respect for himself.

What must have caused this? Did he find out she was cheating on him with his bestie or someone else while they were preparing for the marriage? If yes, then I think it's a nice way to deal with a bit*h. If not, then I think he's extremely stupid and mentally retarded to wait till such a moment before realizing he isn't ready to get married. The girl doesn't deserve such level of humiliation if she didn't cheat and two-time on him.

pocohantas:
Na make she no ruffhandle you first. No be every sidechick dey ordinary o. Some are highly fortified!!!

Some go first Bluetooth the wife one kind strange sickness wey go make the woman dey battle for her life and as such, wouldn't allow the woman have time to even reason whether the man dey misbehave.

Tonto Dike should go and sit down somewhere. His father not being Obasanjo isn't news to most of us. As a matter of fact, I found it amusing when people said He was Obasanjo's son cos back then, this dude attended the same school with some of us. That being said, I do not think being a gardener to a former sitting president, is anything that one should be ashamed of. In my opinion, she hasn't said anything that I think can rattle Churchill yet.

Nigerians have a penchant for doing stupid things.

dingbang:
my brother...the kind of women men get married to these days sha o

It's pathetic! Too many irresponsible women all around the place. Albeit, there are still a few good ones. Getting them, is where the real problem lies.

At OP: Let me tell you what I would have done if I was in your shoes. Going by the way you narrated everything that happened before she left the house, and coming to see a total stranger in the car with her, I would have immediately ordered the man out of the car. After doing that, my wife drives in front of me back to the house to explain in detail, what that nonsense was supposed to mean. That you allowed her drive with him to wherever, shows you don't have a firm grip on your home. The Segun guy, must have some big balls for him to still be seated in the car, and wait for you to horn at your wife until she came down, and went to call him to come and meet you...

Just know that the probability that something fishy is going on underground, is real. I don't know how you allowed your wife borrow money from someone who you do not know physically and haven't met, despite knowing she doesn't handle finances well.

Houseofglam7:
Abeg we don tire to resolve husband and wife issues for here.



Me no get ordinary boyfriend sef, what can I tell you

walahi, I'm beginning to suspect these people. It's like they are doing these things and bringing these stories here, to discourage those of us who are single from entering into relationships, and getting married. There's never a day that we do not discuss such issues on Nairaland.

girl4rmspace:
Lol u ain't that soft

Yeah but sometimes, the loveliest of words could make a stony heart go soft...

blackbeau1:
Why are you guys acting like they are dead?

Exactly my thoughts.

girl4rmspace:
Nah u deserve something better

Aww. That's so sweet! Now, you're gonna make me cry.

Kill it!

Bribery weds Corruption... Happy married life to them though.

Damn!!! Wondering what must have caused the quarrel for it to degenerate to this level. I hope they find a way around it cos at the end, blood is blood, and family is family.

girl4rmspace, pls buy one for me when you're coming back from China (even na chinko version, I nor mind).

Sold

Boring. Efe is actually using his money to do MMM without him knowing. Na when the account balance done reach 9,999,99 naira, na him he eye go clear.

E be like say dem send una come meet person for this Nairaland with all these tales of infidelity. As for me, the guy should move on and never look back.

streetzdreamz:
lols, can relate to your fright and flight......once had a road crash and the guy who sat at my initial seat paid with his life,a year later I was in a vehicle and it was the same driver!!!couldn't explain how I got out of the vehicle lols,your story is right,,,though ion bliv in such powers but am certain they exist,av heard countless tales of guys falling victim to strange women, read one some years back about a dude who picked up a lady somewhere in Lagos,and on their way the lady gave him a Mouth Gig,dude released in her mouth,by then they were on third mainland bridge,she told the guy to pull over and she jumped into the ocean, it was hard to believe but hey,its a crazy world we live in,people who don't believe in cases like this,don't believe they exist,at the end they don't know their ways around it when they fall victim,hence they don't pull out from it,they keep sinking deeper and deeper out of their ignorance and lack of critical thinking...

Exactly!

streetzdreamz:
wow,this is deep!!!!issues like this that is way beyond human comprehension sends chills down ones spine,it ain't even restricted to a particular group alone,cuz anyone could fall victim tomao,well I think walking away from individuals that comes with bad vibes immediately its noticed should be another way out,prayers being the first.....m glad you pulled out of the storm stronger,you one of the lucky few.

I thank God but it wasn't easy. The day I ran into her several years later, I almost fainted. Had to give her a fake number. If I mistakenly sight that girl from far, the way I would run ehn, someone would think I've stolen something. Some other people have worse tales.

I heard a dude picked up a fling, had sex with her as usual and dropped her off at home at night. Next day, he went to visit her and when he asked after her, the family members were surprised cos he told them he dropped her off that night. After a while, they told him the girl had died several years ago, and the girl he was asking for, couldn't possibly be their daughter. Dude almost ran mad. People who don't believe these things will tell you it's just a folk tale.

Ishilove:
Ehn kuku marry and leave all these side runs

I don't even know which one to do. Whether to marry(which is actually scaring the shit out of me with the many stories I read here), or have a baby mama and be seen as someone not responsible...lol. Getting married would entail falling in love and love these days na scam/fraud. Just a minute percentage are real.

Ishilove:
In short enh

Who nor go, nor know. Sometimes, I'm tempted to call up some of all these lekki runz girls for a few rounds but when I think about the different kind of clients they might have slept with and I remember my past experience, I just behave myself and look elsewhere... Some of us are damaging our lives but we don't know yet cos we haven't started eating from hand to mouth. We still think it's normal and we attribute it to general economy being bad. Na when water done pass garri, we go come open eyes.

Lol. I have a parrot at home and anytime I give it corn, it angrily removes all the grains, and starts eating something inside the cob. Sometimes, it eats the grains,sometimes,it doesn't. I don't think there is anything you can do to it except you catch it and put in a cage. But for now, be sure its food for the bird and the bird will always come back for more.

streetzdreamz:
I don't believe in all this spiritual,metaphysical stuffs but I know they exist,I don't even think about em cuz it makes no sense to me, ops story ain't the first ama read or hear about , I personally witnessed one first hand, when I was younger we had this family friend that was quite rich, a bachelor then with lots of apprentice working under him,his woes began when it was time to take a wife,the woman was lovely and homely but it was a sad/cruel coincidence cuz things took the wrong turn for him,his business crumbled,lost his cars,apartment, even lost a part of him, well I think we always have a way of putting the blame on an individual or on something,whenever issues like this arises,all cloudy and no sane excuse or reasons to be attached to the downfall, the way out of it? I really don't know,ain't religious .....its just best one doesn't go on a nosedive cuz people hardly recover from it.

Most of us have experienced things like this in varying degrees but it sometimes, isn't totally the faults of the women in the sense that, some of them are not aware of the problems. In my case, I was already noticing certain things after she took my name to go and pray but I couldn't talk, and wasn't totally sure until a younger person who was with me then pointed it out that since I started dating this girl, things has been some how. Na she come start to dey feed me. I would struggle to get things done and a day to the thing to manifest, one dream would manifest. Either I'm seeing my money from the biz gathered and burnt to ashes in dream, or someone is throwing me in a well and preventing me from coming out, or someone is barbing my hair in the dream, or someone else is wearing my shirt in my dream, etc. At the end, all efforts end in futility. Before I had the experience of these things, I used to mock people who talk about it. When it got to my turn, na my legs I take run go church go find solution. I thank God I experienced those things early enough in life. At least I'm better informed now. People who haven't seen such, would not understand it. I don't know how a man would succeed when he is sleeping with a lady whose brothers are sucking her breast at home, a lady who keeps not less than 4 boyfriends per time, etc. Men, I done waka yeye waka sha.

Donjazzy12:
Divorce that evil witch instantly or you are done for! You will never ever make it in life, if you do not immediately divorce her.
But how on earth did you get your self married to an Edo woman? My God were you blinded?
Edo women are the most passed around women in the whole world. They celebrate prostitution the way we celebrate Christmas!
And they are very very fetish. By the time they finish travelling around Nigeria collecting all manner of demons from desperate ritualist who they also sleep with, the next thing is to travel abroad to continue their prostitution.
As a result , most Edo women are possessed with all manner of demons and sicknesses!
God have answered your prayer now. Divorce her immediately or they will send you to an early grave. A word is enough for the wise!

When you want to talk in public, try and at least, make use of your brain. Do I start stereotyping all the Ibo and Yoruba girls in Lekki who are into prostitution because I saw them living that life? Or should I suddenly start saying all Yoruba women are useless because I have seen so many of them sleeping around and because a lot of them in Lagos are being fvcked even for the most trivial of gifts? My point is that you can't just generalize because some people from a place misbehaved. Treat his case separately from others. There are Yoruba, Ibo, Calabar, edo, delta, hausa, etc,prostitutes all over the place. I once made the mistake of dating a runz girl in Lagos and things became extremely difficult for me to the point she started feeding me often... When I realized what I had gotten into, I ran and tried to sort my life out. Where I would be attending deliverance prayers, she'd call me and ask me what the problem was and if we were fighting. Lest I forget, I once made the mistake of giving her my full names which she took somewhere to go and start doing whatever and they started revealing my life history and future to her... I remember how telling me about having spirit of lust and spirit husband, etc. That being said, I can't just start generalizing and saying Ibo girls are bad. I learnt from that experience and disciplined myself from putting my manhood into every pussy I see. As a matter of fact, it made me more disciplined. Don't go about generalizing and throwing an entire tribe under the bus because of some people's misdemeanor. People say yorubas are promiscuous but I have seen disciplined ones amongst them.

allenroundabout:
Today is my wedding anniversary. I got married in 2010. I actually don't know if my marriage is a curse or there are other forces affecting my life.

I went into my marriage with 6 trucks and they were all working within southwest. All the trucks are gone!

I am a 37year old man from Enugu state. I got married at the age of 31 to a beautiful lady from Edo state.

I started my logistic company when I left my salary job in 2007. I started with 3 trucks and I was able to grow and acquired 3 more trucks before 2010.

I met my wife when she was serving in Enugu. I visited my parent in enugu that very year. We got talking and one thing led to the other. She got pregnant towards the end of her service year and moved in with me immediately after her service.

We had our traditional wedding, though her mum (father is late) wasn't at the wedding. She didn't inform her, she said she doesn't have a relationship with her and that they are not in talking terms. Though her aunt (her mum sister) was actively involved and present. She made up with her mum years later and they are both fine now.

I lost my 6 trucks in 3years with debts that I had to settle by selling my uncompleted buildings in Enugu and Lagos. I have not paid some debts till now. Note that I acquired those properties before my wedding.

I lost 2 trucks in 2010 December, lost 1 in 2011, then lost remaining 3 trucks to accident in 2013.

It usually happened whenever we quarreled and she got really angry. That very night, I would see myself being locked up by a man in a room with an iron gate in my dream. The next trip for any of my trucks would be an accident or there would be a major problem on the road.

I was out of business in 2014 to mid 2015 when I decided to travel out of Nigeria for some hustling. I told my wife about my plan but she said she is sure my plan is to marry another woman when I get to Europe. I made some promises to her before I left.
On getting to the airport in holland, I was put into the next flight to Lagos from Schipol airport in Holland.

I became very broke after the failed trip and I had to open up to friends and family who still thought I was a big man. I was able to secure a 35k salary job through a friend. My wife came to my place of work, told my boss that I beat her. She lied! (I have never done that before and I didn't do it). I lost the job.

In all this, I have always struggled to pay our rent, we pay our son school fee together while she handles 75% of food stuff in the house. She works and earns around 65k. She has been supportive.

I have prayed and she has prayed too, but nothing has changed in my finance. It is getting worse everyday. One night, I prayed and begged God to reveal to me the source of my problem, I had a dream that night. In the dream, my wife told me she is married to the prince of their kingdom and that the prince is always with us sometimes on the bed when we are sleeping. She said his boys are the one I always see fighting me in my dreams. My wife told me all this in my dream. I am scared of discussing this dream with my wife because she is a prayerful woman and it will sound like I am saying she is the cause of my problem. I am confused.

I also consulted a pastor, the pastor said witches are seriously dealing with me. He also said my wife has a spiritual husband that is very powerful. He warned me never to discuss any of my plans with my wife again. That I should always tell her after the execution of such plans (plans that has to do with my business). I find it strange and hard to believe, what is the essence of having a wife if we can have 100% openness. I continue to discuss my business plans with wifey and they are always failing. Sometimes I will be too happy to hide it from her. (Lol)

We have a small car that is strictly for taking my son to school. My rent expired in May and there is no hope of money for me. Landlord is already on me. If I sell this last only car to pay this rent, what are we going to sell to pay the next rent? I think maybe we should separate for a while and when things change for better again, we can come together. I have not discussed this with my wife. Is this a right step? Her mum and her mum sis (they are both widows) has a big house here in Lagos, she can move to the house while I get a driving job with an accommodation package. This way, I can support and pay my son's school fee.

Please people advice me.

Damn!!! I really don't know what to say but I think you should try and be more cautious in revealing your plans to her for now and observe if things would change a bit. But one thing is sure;there's a spiritual angle to your problems.