₦airaland Forum

DeOTR:
Some people don't ever wear anything with black and nothing do them.

It's rear, you will hadly see someone that goes a year without wearing something that has black in it.

Lanretoye:
This man and black cloth self,is he always mourning?

Black is always the best color, if you think am lying, don't wear anything that contains black for a year.

In my location.
You can walk into the GTBank and withdraw up to N500,000 at once, but their ATM pays N40,000 at once with no extra charges.

That your 5th paragraph got me thinking......

JASONjnr:
Marriage is more than responsibilities...


Marriage is far from how you view and understand it.

Responsibilities is just a task. Marriage is a command from God.


I didn't understand marriage untill I planted a tomato at the backyard and I was always going every morning to observe and check for changes an watering it.

My friend thought it was all about watering it. But in real sense, it used to bring joy to me seeing that I was able to grow something and it was wonderful...

Need I say that I was stocking alot of it on the fridge and dashed some out? Later I also included pepper to the family and with eggs at home, I was always sure of a good breakfast....

The beautiful seeds the produced.



Like I said earlier....

Marriage isn't a responsibility.... If you're poor and stingy, you'll always have this mentality.

If you're not, you will enjoy its beauty!

To the ladies, if you want to have a piece of mind;
Don't marry a man that belongs to a secret society,
Don't marry a cultist,

We are living in a strange world.

Na which phone you come dey take post these things?

Between the time she filed for divorce to the time it would be granted, the guy can act smart.

Selling most of his properties and pretending to be bankrupt, then fixing all fund into crypto and allow the lady to discover that she inherits nothing after the divorce is granted.

Mine was that I always want to be a good citizen of Naija, said I won't cut corner or pay to jump cue, then Buhari and Emefiele showed up and I saw myself paying to get a low number to collect common N5,000/N10,000 from the Bank.
Chai...

I being think say na Nigeria Football League you mean?

And these people went ahead and voted for the same APC that have allowed this fulanis to be killing them in that side.

Or is that APC win in that state not the real win?

maasoap:
If you had said that both Obi and Atiku are not aware, I would have agreed with you. Because, those two clowns actually lauded the policy and encouraged Nigerians to endure.
Only the incoming president was the one who stood against the policy.

Please the cashless policy is good only that the implementation was flawed, the CBN did not print enough money to kickstart this implementation and they placed a deadline that was too short.

pansophist:
Fun fact. It's easier to make money as a man, than to meet a good woman. Making money is within your control, but meeting a good woman (or man) is based on the society. In Nigeria, you'll meet forkboys and runs girls, in the West, na feminist you go jam.

Good women are minted in societies where the men are strong (some idiots will understand strong as tyranny/oppression, all ye neurotic modafukas). Feminine women are as a result of masculine men. If a society lackss one, it will lack the other.

I'm a Christian myself, but I'll admit that you'll find wifable women more within the Muslim communities, and more importantly, with girls that their survival instinct have not been forcibly sharpened by the harsh realities of life.

You are spot on.
The society we lives and the culture we practiced, produces the kind of people we meet.
Here in the southern part of Nigeria, the possibility is higher that the available men you meet that will be a possible husband to you is a cultist, and the ladies you meet that would be a possible wife is a coded runs girl.
This is the society we have found ourselves in, and it's just too bad.

Almaigaa:
No try am for Igbo land oo. UGM and IPOB dont kidnap for ransome alone. They Cannibalise on their victims too.

If you must travel, travel to the North, West or South South. You will be safe in those places.

I live in Anambra, Awka precisely.
Most of the News you read online about the East ain't true, though I can't say for Imo.
But in Anambra, Outside occasionally cult clashes, those kidnapper and UGM news ain't true.

I like this policy small, at least I can travel without fear of being kidnapped.

Na only hunger wey dey wire me I dey reason small for the policy.

Let me be learning....

I use to desires to have 3 kids, (2 boys and a girl), but now, I'm thinking of having just 2 boys only.

mostHandsome01:
I will be brutally honest with you and summarise as much as I can.

Believe me, it is better to marry who you love and loves you back than to marry someone because they are AA and after marriage, your life becomes miserable. Many ignorant people will tell you, don't marry your fiancee, you will suffer if you do, etc. But the truth is, knowing you and your fiancee are AS doesn't mean you will both go ahead to have children with SS. You can marry your fiancee that is also AS if you are properly informed. Many will tell you it is not worth it. Yes, it is not worth it to give birth to SS children and let them suffer, but it is worth it to get married to who will give you peace and then you both go through other well known, well proven means of giving birth to children without SS.

Some will tell you, it's too expensive to do as though the money is coming out of their pockets. This mostly happens in Nigeria due to the so many uneducated and uninformed people we have . Some are even educated but still uninformed. Technology has changed the scope of many things. To cut the long story short. If you must marry someone who is AS like you. Do not make the mistake of having a child without doing one of the 2 options below...

1) Prenatal testing: fertility clinics in Nigeria do this. When a woman is pregnant, they check the genotype of the fetus, if the featus is AA or AS (75% chance) they leave the fetus. But if the fetus is SS(25% chance) they safely remove the fetus. Now this isn't for everyone as some people may feel it's against their morals to remove a fetus even if it's SS. So for people like this, you can go for the second option

2) PGD : this is a process where a woman's egg is fertilized with a man's sperm. Several specimen will be carried out, the couple can then choose the one with either AA or AS, that way they stand no risk of having an SS child. Some people use this process to choose the gender of a child. And this process can also lead to twin and even more as many celebrities or people looking for children do this and that's why you see them giving birth to twins at once.

Now listen to me, some people will still discourage you. They will say the stress is not worth it because they are already lucky to find a partner that's AA. Some will say the money is too much even though the money isn't coming out from their pocket. The decision is yours and yours alone. If you want to marry for love and peace and the person giving you this is AS. Go for any of the options above. It's all your choice to make. So there you go. You either marry AA, or do any of the options above. Just make sure you do not have SS children.

May God bless you for giving him this advice,

I like people who goes extra mile to help and encourage people who are passing through difficult/perilous time.

Remain bless.

So na Naira dem dey take buy weapon before?
This is deep.

The Banks should remove those 24hour services they always put in their ATM machines.

Things are getting bad by the day, imagine waking up and going to the Bank ATM machine by 5:20 Am and returning by 2:30PM without getting the money I kept in the Bank.

Yes it can

Those Names...

Abeg, na which tribe them be?

sapele914:
They carried all the business to Lagos State, Yet they don’t want their landlords in Lagos State to be President of Nigeria, they wan they drag position with Oga, yet ordinary 1 building they cannot maintain?

Where is princeofLagos, Racoon & penguin2, including , Village man Peter Obi with his Fidelity Bank HQ @ Kofo Abayomi Victoria Island Lagos State wants to be opening mouth with citi men that gave him the opportunity to do business?

Even the Portuguese talk am, “Eko Oni Baje”.

Your so called landlord is not from lagos remember, he should also go back to his village in Osun.

Lagos is the former capital of Nigeria, that's why most offices are situated there.

UnfairLife7:
LOl

You're proud of your big navel?

Na God give me am, so I get to be proud of it.

Winters23:
He said he tried five times in 16yrs but failed, but now the dream is over!

This is the sad reality, even the greats amongst us come short of their life's dreams and its nothing to be ashamed of.


But the game must go on....

But the dream is not over yet, he can still win it as a coach, if he ventures into coaching and deals with his attitudes.

There are three areas of life that I can never argue with anyone.
1. God and religion, (people beliefs system))
2. Culture and Traditions, (especially, African culture)
3. Politics (especially Nigerians form of politics)

CoronaVirusRelo:
2nd Lagos! Only that snow falls there!

Them dey rob for lagos?

I been dey think say our APC presidential candidate dey say security no dey for Peter Obi's state.

This story is not true.
I live in Anambra state since 1999 to date, Mbadinuju was owing workers and pensioners, when Ngige came on board, he paid most of the money owed to the workers before Peter Obi came on.

He Peter Obi cleared the rest debt owed to the workers and paid every penny owed to pensioners.

I remembered those days when they were capturing the data's for all pensioners, they did it local government by local government, even those who were sick, the Man that was in charge, whom I knew, told me that he will either send a delegate to go and capture the person data at home or sometime he will do it by him self.

The man has retired for about 3yrs now, but sometimes I will be with him and some of the retired worker living around us sometime when they are passing this man Shop would say to him "they have not paid us this month" and the man would reply them like this "they would pay, you know I'm no longer there, they maybe sorting out something, or you know Govt don't have money now, Willie is trying to maintain what Peter Obi started, many states are owing their workers oo, not to talk of pensioners, but they will pay it, just exercise patience.

This man worked in the Head of service of the Anambra state government, so I have a first hand information. So those saying Peter Obi is owing them is just cheap blackmail.

horlahwaley:
This could be front page, been a while sha. Guy above, i for be ftc na

Who else noticed malacia pocket sallah for 80 minutes straight up.?

And the remainder of the minutes that wallah left his pocket damage was almost done.

Offpointng:
The problem with you is that you are not manly enough and that is too bad for you honestly. the truth is, here in Nigeria calling your wife to talk esp an hauty woman is not an African style

I'll give you a short story: After my sister married and got pregnant, anytime I check at her area and decide to stay for a day or two, I see how she do talk roughly to her husband and later apologize blaming it on her pregnancy condition, I'm always sad anytime such incident happen but gentle husband he'll always beg her instead and always be like "ma binu ife mi "(don't be upset my love)this stuff use to happen time to time and what is my own I'll face my business

This Blessed day, her husband had to travel for 2weeks (work related) so she had to come stay at our house (her father) pending the time cuz she obviously can't stay alone and she's not a lover of maid. She gave the same stress with small small insult to me but I just had to bear cuz she was pregnant. So on this faithful day, she asked me to boil water for her which I did it was not up to 5minute o not for her to come and slap my neck that why imma taking long, guy if u see how my head spark ehn omo I changed it big time for her, off the gas, bath and went my way, that day she had to do all the stress alone cus mum went to work. She got to boil the water herself, mix it and also run every errands herself, for like two days that was how I was doing, bath in the morning and go my way leaving her at home alone. One blessed day, she called me on the phone crying that I should just come home and begging me if I offend her I should forgive her and just come back that she's not getting herself bla bla.

Ever since that day, that was the last time she ever insulted or talk anyhow to me, if she say she feels like eating swallow and mommy cooked rice bfr I use to prepare it for her but after that incident, if she say she feels like eating swallow I'll just reply her woo I can't do anything now, she'll just have to take the rice like that. she being good at crying, she'll always call her husband telling him how I'm maltreating her and he should please come back quickly

Brother that was how I got my full respect the baby is 5yrs now and she'll always tell the baby how I use to maltreat her during pregnancy lol

So in essence, being too nice as a boyfriend or husband doesn't help at all

You be guy Abeg.
My 2 sis and mum fear's me like sinners fear God.

Why?
Because, I have let them know the boundary they can't cross in my life.