₦airaland Forum

successful35:
The woman on the extreme right side in the 7th photo has a strong olosho sex appeal

Hahaha.

Charleys:
How does someone video herself crying. I don't understand

God bless you brother. Some matters are beyond reasoning.

All for attention.

When you put your family in the public eye what do you expect ? And she say was 35 when she conceived her. Age is not maturity.

Opeyemiebun:
Evening guys, please I will like to seek people's opinion concerning this issue that I have in my home.

I am a married Man with a Kid. Before marriage, my wife has a federal job outside Lagos while I run my business in Lagos. Due to Nigeria's economy, I asked her not to resign as she keeps working while I also keep on with my hustle. I have to be fair to her as she has been giving her all in this marriage and I so envy her strength to make things work despite the distance.

We had our first child last year and she is going to a year.. We both contribute financially and bring something to the table as we run 2 different homes.

I know she goes through a lot taking care of the baby without a car and I know how tedious it is for her to manage.

We are both young (I am 30 while she is 28)
We got our first few properties this January and we planning to do other things as we both bring money together to get things done.

We have plans of getting our first car within a month and my wife suddenly demanded that she also needs a car where she is due to the stress she goes through daily picking my child from creche and managing that with her own job. I asked that I employ a helper for her but she doesn't want.

She plans on getting the car within the next 2months with her own money. My issue is that I am business oriented and see it as a waste of money buying 2 cars when we can buy one and invest the money for the other one.

I am a Civil Engineer and my Job requires I get a car for mobility.
I feel guilty by trying to stop her from getting the car while I get mine and at the same time, if she get one I will also need to get.

I have been cracking my head up trying to see how we can go about it without hurting her and be fair to her as she is the best woman I can ever ask for.

What should I do, should we both get cars and let other stuffs take it course?

with all due respect, all I can see is selfishness.. you said your job needs a car but your wife can manage ? How have you been going to work ? Continue like that .... let your wife have the car at least you said she is really trying for the family. Give your wife the car..
All I see is selfishness..
Reading the topic just made me angry.

She is using her money not your money.
Let her have the one car , you say No

What do you want ?

lanre88:
So many things are not in place in this country.

Who did we offend?

exactly what I said even before I read your comment.

Marriage26:
Good day nairalander,

I am a popular jingo nairalander but got to hide under this moniker...


I have been dating my fiancee for the past 7 years, she had met my parents and I have met her's many times . We planned to get married earlier year. But it was the year my mother left this planet, I informed my family I wanted to get married but they declined, saying, it must be over years of mumsy's demise before I can marry.


We've fixed introduction days 3ice and it got cancelled by my father, what's his reason?


1. NYSC: I was posted to serve in the Northern part of the country 3 years ago, I went to camp, but I couldn't cope with the weather and couldn't leave my business as NYSC won't guarantee me job and I don't have other option. I absconded from the service and faced my business which I saved profits in 7 digits in same year, God made me comfortable.

2: He said I should rather impregnate the girl (backdoor talk)



I am close to my late 20s, he already banned all family members as many depend on him from attending my introduction.

He cancelled my introduction without fixing a new date.

My in-law trust me and ready to release the lady to me as I haven't had sex with her since 2012 that we've been dating...


And Also, God had supplied all I needed for my wedding from A-Z.



Do you think this is a cogent reason?. I want to ahead with my wedding plans...


Kindly advise....Thanks

I really love your abstinence from sex. It is a good thing. My guy, some fathers are problematic fathers. He said you should impregnate the lady first ? That speaks volume. Here is my little piece of advice, talk to your father understand what is problem is , if it does not hold water, go see some elders in the family explain the issue to them. If they can't do anything and your father is insisting on you not marrying the for un reasonable reasons , my brother go ahead and marry her....Nothing will happen that's has not happen before. You are not the first to do such. And dont forget to pray to God about it. Pray works 100%

GogobiriLalas:
There's a reason why wise men never let their wives be more successful than them

Nigerians and their judgemental attitude. Did you even hear the story behind the divorce ? There is always a reason for everything. Hear the full story before judging and condemning people. Even as Christians we should not. The bible is against that. No body is holier than the next person.

Houseofglam7:
With fame comes great stupidity

Nigerians and their judgemental attitude. Did you even hear the story behind the divorce ? There is always a reason for everything. Hear the full story before judging and condemning people. Even as Christians we should not. The bible is against that. No body is holier than the next person.

BigBashiru:
It's "key" in the black ppls shitholes. In other countries even Dubai it's by competence.

God bless you for this. Nigeria is a shithole I mean shithole. If some one told me Tinibu will have the interest of contesting for president in 2023 I will say it is a lie. But going by the last election , a retard or even someone worse can be president.

SageMK:
Sad.

But the way I see it, she actually did him a big favor.

If the wedding had taken place — dude will find himself caged in a hell hole with a woman that doesn't love him.


She'll cheat on him.
Give him STD.
And make him the father of all many bastards.


That's why he's holding the bachelor's eve to celebrate!!

I can't agree more. 100% correct

So 13 years is ancient ? Nigerian bloggers

Jaqenhghar:
Niggerians are still waiting for US and Uk to come do the protests for them

what have you done ? Are you not part of the Nigerians ? Start something brother

Richdad50:


Nairalanders are cowards. Only commentary and memes no action. A 22 year old through social media energized a base and drove the most important protest in their history but here, they energized 'likes' and 'mentions'. Sic!

If you think we will make it better for you then you will be decieving yourselves. Strength is in the youths and power to cause change is significant in the young.

Richdad

what have you done ? Start something brother

RichBoy247:
Senator, go and change your house Constitution first.

As for State Police, have you imagined the Police being under the control of a State governor like Yahaya Bello, Chibuzom Wike, Ajimobi the Constituted Authority, Nasir El-Rufai, Rocha's Okoroawusa, Adams Oshiomole? In less than a month, Nigeria will be in flames.

Yahaya Bello would have directed his Police Commissioner to go and lock up anybody that bears Dino in Kogi State. Chibuzom Wike would have locked up all the people in Rotimi Amaechi's village. Ajimobi the Constituted Authority would have locked up all students of LAUTECH. After destroying Yinka Aiyefele's Radio House, Ajimobi would have also have gone to destroy Yinka Aiyefele's family house. By now, Adams Oshiomole would have locked up all PDP supporters in Edo State. As for Rocha's Okoroawusa, if you don't have APC membership card, then you cannot even walk on the streets of Imo. Tinubu the Jagaban too would have deported all Omo Yeebos back to Biafran land and dumped them at Upper Iweka.

The crisis of the First Republic started when the idiot called Ladoke Akintola who was the Premier of the Western Region started using the Region controlled police to harass and intimidate Awolowo's supporters. Many Awolowo's supporters and their properties were burnt alive by Akintola's thugs. That was where/when the slang "wetie" came about meaning "wet him/her with petrol and burn him/her". The aftermath effect of the crisis consumed the traitor Ladoke Akintola and ultimately lead to the end of the First Republic.

I support community policing and not police controlled by State or Local Governments.

everything you said is WOULD. Let me ask you a question. How long are going to continue like this?

miracle956:
Most of these guys that are goodlooking don't always want ladies to bruise their ego.

for more interesting cartoons

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bv6cw0hFsPt/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=1oug9zz6q02x1

true. I am going through one. There is a fine girl I like but her shakara too. I just say to myself free am jor. Hahaha.... this got me laughing

boldconfidence:
Some of us don't understand what it means to face attacks. Because some people are against you does not mean you are wrong. You might just be misunderstood.

I wonder how tiwa can stop all promoters from calling other female artist that are very talented for a show like they are insinuating.

I think she has a lot of jobs because she has always remained in the limelight(good or bad), always dropping albums of doing collabos. Also see how she his handling this situation by ignoring their ranting and leaving other people to defend her. They will look like the bad guys, will they also blame tiwa for that?

This people forget that music is business!

To me they should focus on her business strategy and working hard on their careers. That way no body "can kill their shine".

I am not a fan of any of their music. I see this from a business standpoint.

Nice words. Looking at MI and other supporting Tiwa it made me to think, what if Kimani is saying the truth. What if ? Remember no smoke with fire.

[quote author=Bobbyalpha367 post=77313354][/quote]The way you dey open new account after being banned dey surprise me oooo.... Your scam method is old

OkpaAkuEriEri:
face ur fada n tel him d same.
Poor pple h8 wen pple tel dem DAT dey r rich
Am rich.
If e pain u,e pain u we'll
Nonentity

Dangote I hail oooo..... Naijabet boys, panties boys I dey greet ooo.... Hahahahaha

OkpaAkuEriEri:
I dont insult u but u stoop low 2 dance in gutta.BT I CNT cum 2 ur gutter level.
I no ur moda is a full
I no ur fada is a fool
I no u r a fool
I no ur generaxn is a fool
But am not a fool
am richer Dan all ur lineage,past n future.
Mkpi.

this one you are shouting ... I am richer, I am richer. How much you get sef ? What a pity. Do you think everybody on Nairaland is a nonentity like you. In Morgan Freeman's voice "Fools always think they have a voice too" If money is the only thing you can boast of then I repeat YOU ARE A FOOL

OkpaAkuEriEri:
But ma money mk mor sense Dan ur future

see this fool. Most broke people are always the first to talk about money they don't have.. It is an advice take it or leave it. No hard feelings. But time will tell. You are not worthy of my time. I would have told you a bitter truth

OkpaAkuEriEri:
Dis is wat dey called election
Unlyk afonja election in Isolo were dey use tout 2 chase Igbo voter
But Igbo show d tout pepper,
N mc oluomo come n start begging Igbo pple 4 peace talk.
If not dat Oba of Lagos beg Eze ndi Igbo of Lagos 2 4give his pple 4 findin Igbo mans trouble.Igbo pple will HV chase away all d Yoruba pple in Lagos back 2 Ogbomosho or Ile-Ife b.cos Igbo pple HV develop d hole Lagos & mk it wat it is 2day.

God will punish akpabio,amechi,rochas n every nigerdelta person supportn APC.

go and read what you typed. Totally nonsense. Why do young people type like this ? So one has to interprete what you are saying before understanding it. What a shame
UNLKY
HV
MK
PPL
D and so on.

Yusufyakub:
Chai!! Which other tiny whole can we use it to clean in our body o

use to clean objects. Not body.

sulasa07:
Its what our grandparents,our parents have being doing and now you are telling us to stop.

maintaining the status quo syndrome. The most popular way is not always the right. With what you just said. I know your level of reasoning. Don't quote me again

mbos:
You must be staying in the west or north, or being deceived by the biafrans in diaspora.

if Biafra are not united how then did Asari, Tompolo e.tc of Ijaw ethnic extraction , take the risk and drove to Umuahia in Abia State with their militant boys to rescue Nnamdi Kanu from the Fulani python dancers.??

answer that??

my brother don't take the unity of a few people as the EAST being united, you will be surprise.

olas24u:
Their baifra is not homogeneous in nature,since they plan all the South South with them.so the system of government they are running away from Nigeria which is federalism will be the same system they might use and probably hijack it like they did in Nigeria and change the system a unitary one and hold them hostage.

exactly my brother. So they are fighting a lost battle.

Jayslicky:
Doctors and their change of advice

If u take too much sugar it's a problem, if you don't take much it is problem

If u take too much salt it's a problem, if u Don't take much it is also a problem

If u sleep too much it is a problem, if u don't sleep much it's is also a problem.

The actual cause of most sicknesses is the mental state of a person, a troubled mind would always be prone to many sicknesses.

I personally enjoy the act of using cotton buds to clean my ears there is no greater feeling when you do that even orgasm doesn't come close to it.

They are telling you the truth now , you are arguing. Who told you in the first place to clean your ear with cotton bud ? Was it a doctor that told you that ? Cotton bud is used to clean tiny holes. Not ear.

paddyofboss:
Hmm After buhari has congratulated them they will go down like they are drilling for oil

too early to be negative minded bro.

mbos:
FIRST IT IS YOUR ZOO, NIGERIA THAT IS A SCAM...SCAMMING OGONI PEOPLE AND OTHER OIL COMMUNITIES TO FEED YOUR ZOO WORKERS

ALL AFRICANS CAN ONLY BE ONE WHEN NATIONALITIES LIKE BIAFRA ARE ALLOWED TO BE FREE FROM MANIPULATION.. FREEDOM WHICH IPOB BIAFRANS, POLISARIO OF WESTERN SAHARA E.T.C.. SEEK. THEN WE CAN NOW NEGOTIATE TO BE ONE. UNITY IS NOT BY INTIMIDATION.

even the biafra you are talking about is not united. Forming a new colony or country is not an easy thing. Take South Sudan for example

bosco2017:
I know u re 14 yrs because u know nothing. The struggle has grown in strength since Nk regained freedom.

which freedom? My guy open your eye. Tell him to come to Nigeria .... A scam and coward leading people. Kwame Nkuruma was not a coward, Mandela was not a coward.

bosco2017:
In your mind . Nk is as popular as ever. He called for election boycott knowing that election in Nigeria is fraud but his people put pressure on him to call it off he did to avoid division in Biafraland . After the election our people believe in Nk the more because he warned them to forget Nigeria election. 2019 election is a sham as predicted by Nk .

No matter how much we try there will always be the ignorant among us. So in this age and time you still believe the scam called Nnamdi Kanu ? Well there will always be the ignorant among us. I would have used FOOL because un repentant ignoramus can be called fools. But I did not call you that.

Everybody nah REACTOR now. Nigerian bloggers no get another word similar to REACT to use.

OgogoroFreak:
shut up jor

if someone does not see things the way you see it you don't have to insult them. Just give your why you think it is otherwise.

virginboy1:
I Started Fearing Weed Since The Day I Saw My neighbour Spent The Whole Night Dancing To The Sound Of The Generator. ..

you made my day with this. Lol