₦airaland Forum

chloedogie:
Please talk to me bro. Politics is very dynamic and not comprehensible enough sometimes. Especially for outsiders like us.

Bro... I will explain some things to you, Buhari is not a Tribalistic person. . He is just doing his best to protect his people, the only way the North can survive in Nigeria is to put themselves in strategic position or else they will be totally marginalised. It is a plan from the amalgamation of Nigeria.... The Northerners are just protecting the future of their region. Simple. and i dont blame him.

chloedogie:
Truth is Buhari has so many surprises in his sleeve. Wouldn't have ever thought someone from Kwara will be his chief of staff. That office is like the soul of the president. I am now believing the news I read few days back that a new cabal is cropping up.

To those who called president Buhari an ethnic bigot, bubu don surprise you oooo.
And to those who says he is too found of old people, baba don show say una dey correct cos the man na 75 years old.

My conclusion, he has a good biography and I pray he pledges his allegiance to both the president and the nation as a whole. May God help you do good and not be caught up in the politics and become useless AMEN.

And may he have the courage to tell the president whenever he is making a wrong decision or being advised to make a wrong decision.

And to those wishing Buhari dead, just pray you live as old as him o cos the man no dey die yet o and people that though they will outlive him are gone and some terribly sick now ooooooo. May we all live long and may God bless the federal republic of NIGERIA. AMEN.

Bro... I will explain some things to you, Buhari is not a Tribalistic person. . He is just doing his best to protect his people, the only way the North can survive in Nigeria is to put themselves in strategic position or else they will be totally marginalised. It is a plan from the amalgamation of Nigeria.... The Northerners are just protecting the future of their region. Simple. and i dont blame him.

This is one of the reason Nigeria will remain undeveloped. The Nigerian citizen mistake the duty of the Senators with that of Governors. They demand what they should from their governors from senator and house of reps members.
We dont even know the job of a senator or Rep.......... it is a confused system.

gypsey:
Nigerian police degrading themselves. apart from our prime minister no one employs UK tax payers police for personal escort, even the Queen drives hesrself sometimes without law enforcement personels.

can you post a picture or video of the queen driving herself. Please

veave:
Hian.

Wetin I go talk go pain you o. But na the truth I go tell you. Madam, right now I can't tell you to start with 50% so I will say 20%.

Thank God there is covid and I pray your job doesn't get affected. As soon as you resume, the second day you get to work tell him there has been a 40% reduction from your salary due to low inflow of cash. You need to save at least 20% of your salary. This money no Matter if the roof is falling down you're not to touch it. Na your back up money be that. The other 20% is for your upkeep. You and your kids should survive on the remaining 50% because you'd definitely pay tithe. It's because he knows you always have a back up plan that is why he is relaxed and allowing you foot all the bills.
No this kain thing make me say I no go marry "brother" when I dey small. Most of them are lazy and are dreamers. They expect manner to fall from heaven after their praying and fasting forgetting Paul had a handiwork that sustained him all through his life hence he didn't have to beg and depend on anyone. I no dey like this kind jist. He's not even appreciative of his supportive wife. I know women who use all their money to buy shoes, clothes and the latest asoebi, their husbands dare not say pim because they'd even take his own and join.

No madam please read again. The man pays RENT and CHILDREN SCHOOL FEE. The woman only maintain household expenses.

steveneche:
Help My Friend Decide: 5million Or A 100k Job?

A friend of mine just got an offer from his late brother's company few months after his demise.

His late brother having been a prominent personality (head of finance) in the company he worked before he died, made the company to offer his younger brother my friend two options..

1. 5million naira cash or

2. a 100k job per month in the Same company.

we need your professional advice pls

my advice is take the 5 million and invest. Most financial successful people you see are investors. Here is a few things you must do before touching the money.
1. Know what you want to use the money for. What business

2. Study about the business.

3. Invest in a business you will be able to have influence on the success.

4. Learn the science of money. Read books and read book, listen to tapes and once again study how money works.

5. Read once again on leadership. You definitely be a Boss, you must know how to be a good leadership. It will break or make your new business.

StreetFight:
While Wike Nyesom of Rivers State demolished hotels without getting to Court. That's a take of two governors. Now, imagine Rivers miscreants and jobless militants comparing themselves to Omoloabis.

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Gemid94:
Governor Nyesom Wike of Rivers state has given reasons why he demolished Prodest Hotel in Alode and Etemeteh Hotel in Onne, both in Eleme Local Government Area of the state.

Wike said the hotels were demolished after it violated an Executive Order on COVID 19, despite warnings from the State government.

The Governor said that the focus on hotels was because one of the coronavirus cases in the state spread the virus from a hotel.

Wike who monitored the demolition of Prodest Hotel, Alode, Eleme said his action was in line with the Rivers State Government Executive Order 6, which banned the operation of hotels across the 23 Local Government Areas of the State.

Governor Wike told newsmen at the demolition scene that the law must be obeyed, hence the State Government’s decision to enforce it.

http://community.vanguardngr.com/forum/topics/covid-19-gov-wike-gives-reasons-for-demolishing-two-hostels


Watch the video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CC5ox_DlPmE

This is called overzealousness. If he monitors state projects in the state the way he is monitoring this issue then there will serious development in the state.

othermen:
Power corrupt, absolute power corrupts absolutely.
Lord Acton
The above is not the problem with Wike. I feel it is in times like this, that we need those who can wield and exercise their power. We are in very desperate times and no more than in desperate time are desperate measures needed. In some States, Dangote trucks are used to import the viruses. We must be watchful and pray for a governor like Wike. If we had him as president, he'd stopped the virus from flying in. If the south west had him, they'd shut all the exits from Lagos and probably have lesser cases... Wike is signalling to the powerful and those held high, that the life of his people matter; and it would not be traded as is done in Kano and other states, for the economic benefit of a certain few.

I dont blame you if it were to be your hotel you won't be saying such. Demolish a business because they did not obey a law. Really ? And you are praising him for that. Then Rivers is not different from North Korea. Do you see why our old politicians are still the best..... imagine Wike as president.... you know the rest of the story

Dpaulie:
He’s not a fool my brother, you are too harsh, he’s talking the truth, if the care isn’t taken it will get to a stage where one will contract coronavirus and the government will ask u to go and treat oneself at home, mark my words.

IF you want to make a point, make your point. Dont use derogatory words on a race. That is Racist and even coming from an African makes it worse. Even in europe and America people are protesting lock down. going against rules and carrying placard that it is their life. He did not call those ones derogatory words but he deemed it fit to call Africans that.

phelonrays:


Gates and His foundation has been Saving Lives [especially here in Africa] since the '90s.....

What's his misdoing that all this Hypocrite's cum Public activist wont let him be••••


They have upgrade from 5G, it's now the generous man whom most of his sacrifice is to see new born breath and live a Polio free Live...

FFK is beginning to sound delusional

exactly

lytech1:
did you think a pry1 pupil wil understand ur view?
you knw the answer is NO.

Those class(pry1 and pry2) are elementary class.
that doesnt mean carrying load is d best answer,bt atleast they wil gt that easily.

as times goes on,they wil be more expose.

wil u tell a pry2 kids that 2 + 3 x 2 = 8?(bodmas) NO.
I Will mark it if he choose 10 as an answer.
for his/her level,he tried

Now I understand your view. Nice talking to you.

lytech1:
is that what you will teach a pry1 kid?

clap for your self

so the best option is to tell them The Head is used for carrying load. Really ? Load ? In Europe do you think they use the head for carrying load ? It is absurd.

lytech1:
whats d function of the head?

It gives the body balance. Simple.

lytech1:
you knw nthg or little abt teaching.
am sure d text is for pry1 or pry2 class.
for their level,thats the best their brain can assimilate easily.
the author needs to come down to their level

I am sorry to say this but you are a disappointment. Pry 1 and 2 , the head is used for carrying load.

Samrocker:
I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?

Brother base on past experiences, having a girl who is still in contact with her Ex is a Red Flag. She still have feelings for him, all you need to do is to show slightest amount of threat and she is gone.

Here is the thing - i dont mean to burst your bubble but here is a probability of things happening. (i am not 100% dont take my word for it investigate yourself)

1. She is probably seeing the kind, those pictures she sent you of their convo is to divert your suspicion and build a wall of trust. So you will never suspect.

2. She might end up going back to the guy, the chances are high.

3. It is not about money, dont be deceived, it is about feeling. She was dumbed by the guy and she loves the guy - That gives the guy emotionally advantage over her to come back depending on how they broke up.

There is nothing you can, but never change your ways. Stay this guy you were when you met each other, dont start brining up fights and talking like a weak guy. NEVER CHANGE. be loving and respectful. not a Door mat.

Lastly. Tell her to stop talking to her Ex or you will have to end the relationship. DONT END IT OOOO.... Just threaten her.......... but if she starts acting strange and pulling away, still remain the same. Dont change. Dont tell her she is changing, just act as if you no see her changes........ But if it get to a level you can not take it anymore, Do whatever your mind tells you. But act out of wisdom not emotions

Speaking from experience

SLAP44:
RIP to the dead.

The house must have been started when Imo was on auto pilot as Rochas didn't care about anything. APC is a disaster in this state.

Don't quote me, I am going to bed.

So it is the governor that will go around inspecting building. Baba think well .

cleatoris:
The man did the right thing to earn the right recognition

exactly.

Jasonjay101:
Please I'm new here on this platform and I just want some advice to clear my mind.

Let me just go straight to the point. My girl that we've been dating for a year plus now just told me a week ago that she lived a couple's life with her ex back in school right from when she entered 300l (4yrs course) and the guy 400l (5yrs course) and I've not been able to get over it.

It happened a week ago, we were together and she saw a post of her ex engagement to his current girlfriend and she started feeling bad, so I asked her what happened and a little bit angry with her thinking maybe she was not over her ex yet. She told me she has gotten over him but she just remembered her past so I try to console her to let go and if there's something she hasn't told me yet about her past that is still eating her up she can tell me because before now we've talked about a lot of things about our past and we've try to forgive each other and let the past be in the past.

She had told me it was this only guy she had dated and it was the same guy that disvirgined her. I was not bothered about that because I was not a virgin either. She told me she has moved on even before I came and she stayed for close to a year to heal up and all through this time I was asking her out but she never said yes and never told me she was going through heart break.

Now, it's a year and few months into our relationship, she's been a very good girl, supportive and hard working. And now she just told me this, coupled with some lies she has used to cover it up in some of our previous conversations about her school life.

I'm not perfect either and I've had my past which I have told her. I never lived a couples life back in school and it was only a girl I've also had anything sexual relationship to do with.

Why am emotionally down now is because I know what it is like to live a couples life in school. I never lived as one but I know of people that lived as such in school and I know what happens.

Now I don't know if I can forget about this and we move on. I love this girl so much and she has shown to also love me as much and I've tried to forget about what happened but most times when I see her now I tend to always remember and it eats me up.

Do you guys think I can forget about this?

Brother i can see that you love this girl judging by the way you describe her and you sound like a good person. Here is my little advice. Dont act out of emotions and lose a good, we know quite alright there are alot of girls outside but how many of them are good.

1. I know you might maybe she must have commited alot of abortion (Assumption is the wrongest form of information) DONT ASSUME. I know girls who use family planning method to avoid pregnancy so lets not be narrow minded in the regards.

2. In regards to her past, we all have a past. If you hear my past brother you go fear me.... But am i still that kind of person? NO. You also have a past as well, some good, some very bad.

3. You mention she lied in regards to her past i will assume she was scared of you judging by her past. Which is what is happening right now. JUDGE HER BASE ON WHO SHE IS NOW.

Ask yourself is she a good girl., is she what i want in woman.... Brother if your answer is YES, then move to the last stage.

Instruct (not ask or plead) her to delete the Ex pictures if any, phone number and unfriend him from all her social media platform.

She might have gotten over him quite alright, but seeing him getting married will definitely bring some bad memories if she was the one that was dumped or cheated on.

Base on your analysis of the girl , she seem like a good girl. so act wisely.

ITbomb:
You should thank God that your girl lived a couple life. That means she has proven faithfulness.

What of those in school that could not stay with one person for 2 months plus numerous flings and runs for money

She should have unfriend that dude since to avoid seeing and comparing progress . Her only healing now would be to marry before her ex, so dude, if she tick most of the boxes, fast forward things

Your 1st paragraph is right on the spot. She seem like a keeper.

People dey vex ooo...
Message wey their Oga no fit go he dey send this guys......... Hungry man is an Angry man.... See as their Nepa guy hold pole when they comot ladder for him leg..... This is a result of bad leadership. I will say it again if the leaders dont fix the issue with Nigeria it will back fire on them badly. Are they now going to be harming NEPA officials or Giving them Mobile Police men... Ko le work......

eni4real:
Say that to the Italians and the Americans!!

Say that to Aba Kyari's family members too!!

Hey... I am not saying the virus is a hoax. I just feel the media and doctors never talk about the fact that someone can recover as much as they talk about people dieing. At least some positivity.

gamapoy539:
Fakè story

I smell a rat as well......... You cant be having all this aforementioned problem and be looking for picture to attach to your story. IT IS A FAKE STORY

I feel Doctors and the Media are killing more people than the Virus itself.

HIbreed:
Christianity has done what Islam will never ever do when it comes to terrorism and killings .it just got reformed over time because the Europeans that invented got tired of it and it's nonsense.

The transatlantic slave trade was founded on Christianity. That's just one example of the evils of the religion and how it hurt and killed millions of people here in Africa.

Christianity did more worse in the 18th century and down.

I guess you do not know much about Christianity and its spread throughout the World.

In a bid to spread and convert people Christians killed millions of people.

Religion itself unleashes terror where ever it goes.

The Transatlantic slave was not founded on Christianity.... It was a TRADE. Our leaders and Elders were involve in the TRADE. Dont bring religion into this. Christianity brought education to Nigeria. At least you can read and write and probably your parents were also educated that is a result of Christianity. If not for Christianity they will be killing TWINS in Nigeria, People will still be killed when a King dies. If not for Christianity they will still be killing people for Witchcraft.
Christianity brought light to the World.

funshint:
The husband simply can't tolerate living like a pig. He has sensed you're lazy and dirty that's why he's taking it upon himself to do all the chores. Correct husband!

You correct bro. The guy nah correct guy. He sees that the wife is not too clean he cleans the house without causing any issue in order for peace to reign. Wise man i must say.

dyfaze:
Bashir Ajibola... Igbo Amaka.??... osogbo weeds..

This dog picture is graphic to me. Seun come to our aid

seanwilliam:
see dem

You sef join. Lol

josen16322:
election time will come very soon all of u complainin now we stil vote 4 an hausa illiterate who have no vision or lack wisdom 2 be yo leader now wat buhari is doin is accordin 2 his mental capacity he cant turn himself 2 professor wole soyinka overnight

WORD. You cant give what you dont have. People vote illiterate and expect them to have the metal capacity of an educated man. It is impossible

The stupidity of this guy is unimaginable. Ignorance and illetracy is disease. When you let your selfish reasoning to overshadow common sense reasoning, there is nothing anyone can do about the situation. What does having majority population have to do with the situation. Northern is still the poorest region in Nigeria. I have been thinking how do you explain Coronavirus to people in the North.

The want to keep the ignorant and uneducated in order to use for Election and Religious endeavours. Now it has backfired, how do you explain Coronavirus to an Hausa man.