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donpata:
I knw i will be bashed. Still yet, i no sen. Someone reminded me that this is 21st century; of coz, it is. Thats y marriages struggle to last this days. These are little spices that add beauty to marriages.. My girl does it and the day she 4gets, d kind eye i go look her go make her apologize sharply. Trust me, it's fun. I never meant she shld hit her knee on d ground but just bend am low a bit. many bashing me grew to c their mums doing it. Guys bashing me, una miss Road

Askseek:
The thing can be annoying, someone will be living in peace with her husband and an agent of the devil will come from nowhere to pour sand in the garri the person is enjoying because the way they live their lives does not meet this imaginary standard they have created. I truly don't blame them. I wonder where they find women with zero self esteem that pander to all their needs without getting anything back beyond "I paid your bride price".

CFCman:
Women need it in order to keep their marriages
If the woman declines to don it, the man has the right to play an away match

Onegai:


But why is it that people who are holding cap in their hands for favour always want to lord it over others? It's like the more humble your station in life is, the more you feel the need to stand on top of someone's head so you can feel better about yourself. Truly King of the Lions in Ajegunle mentality.

I have a feeling this OP was fuming inwardly that the piece of meat in the meal his uncle's wife gave him was not "befitting", so he also noticed her "disrespect" as well.

Askseek:
Just when you think you have heard it all, another one comes from left field. The other day it was one complaining that her brother was a houseboy because he was helping out his wife, today this one say the woman no kneel down serve food. Y people poke nose in other people's homes I don't know. Mind ya business.

CFCman:
If the man washes the red pant, he will be deemed as a romantic guy
But in Africa, a husband should only help out with chores or errands out of his magnanimity. The wife shouldn't 'send' him on errands. Lol

VickyRotex:
The last time I tried it was last week and it worked.
But I'll try it again as soon as I get back home and I'll get back to you.

VickyRotex:
I hardly watch movies

Netflix gave me a month free. And I'll have to pay afterwards.

Anyways, why should I worry, when Popcorntime is berraaa

glossy6:
I noticed similar thing in my brother's house. Cooks after coming from market, washes beans for moi moi, washes clottfor a non working wife (house wife). I decided to have my peace since he has not complained to me.

At times they do it for the sake of peace in their home.
Watch them & don't interfere yet until you have a genuine reason to vibrate like the day the opportunity came for me.

The worst be say once these women call their husband "honey" they start behaving abnormally. Papa Emeka no fit try am now. Nna na there you go see African man level.

CFCfan:
I'm good, dear. My trip to Naija was alright. But I'll never forget the Lagos traffic in a hurry; it was horrendous

Poseidon000:
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He can do it when she is not chanced or fit to take care of the home.

There was a time my mama fell sick and was rushed to the hospital. My dad took charge of our home. He cooked bathed us and did everything my mama did for us. That's why he is a helper.
but has soon has my mama came back, he assumed his initial responsibility.

all males in my home are barred from entering kitchen,just lyk it is our responsibility to take on the hard work. We only visit kitchen on the day of our cooking class.

This is africa. It is totally out of place for a man to go to the kitchen when there is woman in the house,especially when he didn't prepare the food.

It is also totally out of place for a wife to send her husband on arrand lyk house boy. infact, It is a taboo and only "sissy dolts" tolerate that.

It is understandable when she is a nursing mother or sick.
So by deduction from Op's post. She has all reason to be worried.
This is an african setting,not western. Anybody who expect western ways from africans, should port to the west.

We don't digest bullshitt over here!





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Joel3:
it's in nature of man to marry as much wife's as he can. not the same for women

jnrbayano:
Why? Pity?

tartar9:
Muhammad(SAW) never insulted their gods.there is a difference between constructive criticism and openly insulting and inciting hatred and crises.

A7:
By extension opinion of his wife/wives, children, students[if there's any], an inclination he hopefully strive to see metamorphosize.

This "ridiculous mindset" you called opinion coupled with other vile vituperations happen to be the root cause of the insurgency that snatched lives, properties and peace of many unfortunate countrymen.

How certain are you and how could you convince any right thinking person that breeding docile idle minded individuals will not lead to hoodlum spring?



He opted to view another person[inyass] as God and also considered himself a God, that is not a concern to Muslims, he might as well worship a cow or tree WE muslims will just assume there are afflictions ravaging his being.

But the moment he claims he is still a Muslim and that's Islam he's practicing, Muslims have every right to step in, ascertain and give a verdict viz a viz the gravity of his action/inaction.



Well, an objective person if asked to commend or condemn the Muslims in Kano regarding this incident will undoubtedly praise their action unequivocably, if indeed what you allege about emotional outburst is true, the man in question and anyone he have a cordial relation with will be dead by now, consumed by jungle justice.

This country is not a joke, I agree there are tons of nut jobs e.g abdul inyass who use to profess he's a deity of some sort and could fulfill every humanoid dream including dashing every form/kind of knowledge at will to people after ridiculing seekers of education, who consciously try to steal people's peace swapping it with tension, hardship, grief and death.

Even more nitwittedly bound are the pathetic primitive lunatics aiding and abetting his evil facade masking it with tales about "opinions and freedom of speech".

This duo of inconsistent and senseless bunch represents everything against amiable peaceful coexistence and common good... One of those days I wish they are fed to the guillotine.

jnrbayano:
It must surely be suya(ed)

Joel3:
since I choose to be an advocate for this change what can you do. I know there are many people out there who think like me. sure someone out there is willing and ready to take after me. in 22nd century my dream is for it to abolished. I will be happy in my grave to celebrate this change. it's a passion in the heart a driving force in human. just like people who change history or mytrs

Joel3:
I don't know about you. but for me it doesn't sound funny.

Bollinger:
It was so nice you had to post it twice

Don't mind me. ...just teasing. .......kikikikikiki

Did you get that? Nice...twice? I could rap for a living.

Gracious10:
@cococandy Thank you so much. I have silently followed all your mouth watering dishes and it helped me through out my pregnancy. Since I don't have energy to cook neither did I have much appetite, I found a way to slay cravings. I would wake up 2,3 am just to check out the latest food u made. I would look at it and the cravings would stop. Since my husband can't cook, he would equally salivate with me. Getting african food where I am is just difficult since we live hours away from the city so I make do with what I have.

This is to appreciate you for the sumptuous meals u prepared and was kind enough to share the pictures. The presentation of those meals had me on food presentation 101.
Had my baby a week a go and the cravings stopped but I have come to say thank you cos you saved a life, we'll 2 lives.....lol. Dalu. Chukwu gozie gi.

Never see the good things u do as little, someone may just be waiting big time for the things you term little.

taryour:
LMAO.. Is that for real The wife who did this must be a joker and a learner to think this will solve her problem

HzRF:
When I saw a prophecy (speculation) that same sex will be lawful in an African country

I know Itz SA