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Family › Re: when your helper turns her back- advice please by cococandy(f): 12:34am On Jan 13, 2016

ViNeHaNds:
imagine what? Exactly! Your type sha.

So if I give you 10k now that's how you'll open a thread to insult me because I didn't pay everything you owe at once.

Don't worry one day you'll have surplus. It's only a matter of time.
You'll be in the position to help others. And how'll see how it feels if the little you do is unappreciated.

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Family › Re: when your helper turns her back- advice please by cococandy(f): 12:18am On Jan 13, 2016

ViNeHaNds:
my real mum, just say something else please, Dont jus go there you not in my shoes and have never been, and right now? No mum will do this to her son. She didn't bother paying those bills when they were in bits, I was a fool to think she had somethin worked out now that its all piled up.

Oh shut up please.

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Family › Re: when your helper turns her back- advice please by cococandy(f): 12:18am On Jan 13, 2016

tearoses:
This same aunty?

Fear God o!

Can you imagine!

Family › Re: when your helper turns her back- advice please by cococandy(f): 11:57pm On Jan 12, 2016

If you want her to treat you like her own child, treat her like your own mom.
You can't expect her to foot 100% of your bills yet you're here complaining about doing dishes for her and working for her.
If your mom was supporting you 100%, would you even question any chores she tells you to do?
BTW you're not a child anymore. If you can find something on the side to support yourself while you're rounding up your schooling, it will be beneficial to you.
I worked while in school even though I had parents that provided for me. The little I made on the side helped me a lot. At 24 you're not a baby anymore.I can't imagine why you need to be told to hustle seeing that in your case, someone who's not your direct parent is the one responsible for you.
Pls don't have that entitlement mentality. She owes you nothing. And I'm sure has her own family responsibilities too.

You don't have to get an 'office' job (good if you find one). If you can't, look for jobs in fast foods around you, gas stations, supermarkets etc. Anything that can give you small income and you can do part time so you have time for your project too. Good thing you're done with classes everyday.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:22pm On Jan 12, 2016

Puff puff.

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Romance › Re: My Funny Experience With Black Girls In Uk Club by cococandy(f): 8:25am On Jan 12, 2016*

Let's clap for you. undecided

You went with the intention of looking for prostitutes to warm your bed for the night and have the guts to be offended that a pair of ladies found it appalling that you'd assume they would be willing to go home with you just like that. So Because they went to the club to dance, that means they are open to go home with any stranger for the night abi?

Your head needs to be screwed on tighter.

Mtchew.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:13am On Jan 12, 2016

deracathy:
you can eat o!!
Owerre kwenu!

Chanel O's shawarma is the bomb.

Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Living In UK Exposes Girlfriends Allegedly Planning To Kill Her by cococandy(f): 7:31am On Jan 12, 2016

Onegai:
I think the ones in the U.S. behave themselves a bit more (fear of U.S. Customs and Migration). But I'm sure there must be broken bottles flying around Maryland, Atlanta and Houston.

probably right.
sometimes I joke with with my childhood friend who lives in Houston that I'd like to move to there so I can have more Nigerians (her especially) around me and feel more at home.

But she keeps telling me to remain where I am. Because according to her Houston is the jungle-ish.
Like when the drama starts it's usually on another level. Who slept with who's wife/husband and whose asooke+jewelry cost more at the last party. grin

Why are we like this? cry

Family › Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by cococandy(f): 4:17am On Jan 12, 2016

Na NL stories na. Always one-sided. He won't say what he did to contribute to the guy's attitude towards him.

He Probably looks down on the BIL as an 'unbeliever' which could be the reason the dude is rubbing the status of his tenancy in his face.

You know how some 'believers' can be condescending to people of different un/belief.

ronald4lif:
I was surprised to read that part and almost lose interest reading the complete post but somehow I did and had in mind to ask same question. I'm much interested as to how his belief is an issue.

And to further display his religious intolerance attitude and give his spurious claims a lift he said he listens to corrupt songs. Also interested in knowing what he considers corrupt songs.

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Family › Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by cococandy(f): 2:02am On Jan 12, 2016

Oga Get your own place. That's the one solution.

There's really nothing you can do about it except ignore the dishes when he uses them.
He can't drag you into the kitchen to wash them.
If it gets to that point where both of you have to verbally or physically enter a scuffle over what chores you should do, you don't need a prophet to tell you to leave the next day.

And why is his religious life your problem? It's his life so leave him to it.

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Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Living In UK Exposes Girlfriends Allegedly Planning To Kill Her by cococandy(f): 10:27pm On Jan 11, 2016

babygirlfl:
Lol. Trust me I like to read the stories but I really hate witnessing one. The last one I witnessed when I visited London the last time at Dalston market was just awful.

I don't think I'd like to witness one either.
Before flying pieces of broken bottles will find me where I'm hiding and peeping from. grin

Politics › Re: We Have Declared Ambode Enemy Of Ndigbo – Ohanaeze by cococandy(f): 5:28pm On Jan 11, 2016

NewNigeriaMind:
I HAVE A HOUSE OCUUPIRED BY MOSTLY IGBOS, IF I DECIDE TO DEMOLSISH IT TOMORROW I OWE NON OF THEM AN EXPLANATION.

And if you destroy their property in the process, you still owe them no explanation?

Just Look at the moronss on this site.
Do you call yourself a human being with functional brain? huh

Politics › Re: We Have Declared Ambode Enemy Of Ndigbo – Ohanaeze by cococandy(f): 5:25pm On Jan 11, 2016

So if these people hate the igbos this much as I can see from the comments on this thread, why are you hurt when they bring up the topic of segregation?
What kind of confusion is this?

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:05pm On Jan 11, 2016

Hellooo

touchmeder:
Happy New year dear. I hope your celebrations went well. Aposy I know say you don chop that your banana ati oat. I want to say ''fire on'' but something is preventing me from saying that. LOLZ. Cococandy sup? Who else? Hezumpter and Babyosisi are no longer here. I know some others by their plates and food arrangement but i've forgotten their names. Hellooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo everyone!

Family › Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by cococandy(f): 8:15am On Jan 11, 2016

mrwonlasewonie:
ahann na coco

Should she not have her taste again.

Anyway Op tell him everything you typed here and if you see no changes walk out on him like this

Majestically o

cococandy:
Go for what makes you happy. You owe yourself that at least.

Family › Re: Our Level Of Exposure Is A Parallel Line, Do I Hold On? by cococandy(f): 7:14am On Jan 11, 2016

Long story.

Summary you need a richer,more generous,posher guy. Abi?
Pls let this one go. Some girl will still like him like that.
Go for what makes you happy. You owe yourself that at least.

Time wasting in a cardinal sin.

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Romance › Re: When your bae says "I love you" by cococandy(f): 4:42am On Jan 11, 2016

This dude sha. Why are you always full of crap? And you say it with so much authority too.

So you need 20yrs before you decide if you love someone. Like you can't love and lose the love within a fraction of that time.
Does it need to last forever before it can be defined as love?

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Family › Re: Young Man Finds His Girlfriend's N*de Photos On His Dad's Phone. (see Drama) by cococandy(f): 9:29pm On Jan 10, 2016

Seems like today is randy fathers' day.

https://www.nairaland.com/2855588/caught-father-fucking-wifei-feel

https://www.nairaland.com/2855641/naija-girl-calls-out-friend

Family › Re: Is Good For Husband/boyfriend And Wife/girlfriend To Be A Nairalader Together by cococandy(f): 8:16pm On Jan 10, 2016

No big deal.
But caution!
Both of them should never debate on this forum.
You can say later
"I saw your post on so so topic. what do you mean self" grin

But not on here. Before bad belle people taking sides will manage to drive a wedge into something that should have just been an ordinary debate/argument.

And of course never let anyone know what his moniker is. Never ever

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:10pm On Jan 10, 2016

byvan03:
Somehow oha leaves manage to stick to my throat and refuse to go down until I wash it down with water. Ukwa....just like infant's poo and tastes like it . It depends on the area the Taxi run, a Taxi from orji certainly won't know some spots in PH road but nah to come back first be the thing. Try it with mint leaves, My did that and it tasted like the devil's stew .

Lol you're not serious. Stop hating on my Ukwa cheesy

All this talk is for future sha. Only God knows when I'll smell that side again embarassed

Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Living In UK Exposes Girlfriends Allegedly Planning To Kill Her by cococandy(f): 8:08pm On Jan 10, 2016

Yea i can totally relate to that.

armyofone:
Same here...damiso and cococandy, I'm like you guys.
Cococandy, let me add lifetime movies too. Work, movies and working out. What ever is missing from lacking outside friends, exercise eases it off . Hubby and I are really close too. We moved all the time...so hard to make and keep friends anyway.
It is good to have human connection and then one or two inner friends if possible.

Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Living In UK Exposes Girlfriends Allegedly Planning To Kill Her by cococandy(f): 7:27pm On Jan 10, 2016

You're kinda like me.
If I have Netflix, I'm very fine grin

.
The small outing that I sometimes go on is because my hubby insists.

In fact I've come to realize that mine is a lil bit excessive.
I just need one Nigerian girl( born and bred in naija) in my life right now. And it will be balanced.

damiso:

It's really the Asiri that is the rat race

That's why I can like to stay in my own lane.. The day I saw the ones whose wardrobes were identical start digging dirt on ancestry.com how one person got British Pali plus all their life history on FB I fear

I can be friendly and I cherish some of my friendships but I am not too good at all this kori kosun die in each other's houses friendship am just too lazy and in a way I sorta enjoy my own company. I also can't do cliques or plenty girls abi is it women that all roll together . I always stylishly disentangle myself once it's start getting to 'she said' 'she bought' ' aso ebi ' etc etc I no get pawa

But they are kinda crass and razz sha

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:22pm On Jan 10, 2016

byvan03:
T

I was hung on channel O till I discovered sharwama Republic, you don try ukwu Mango rice?? Their stew dey full with world class kpomo, thick and "munchous'. You can cook ofe akwu with those their bottled content, I doubt if that is 100% from palm fruits. I hate Ukwa and oha soup .

Okay I'll try those place too.
At least any taxi driver will know those places.
I don't want to make the ofeakwu here because I can't find Fresh scent leaf. It won't taste the same without that.

I can't believe you hate Ukwa and oha soup? Who does that? cheesy

Romance › Re: Naija Girl Calls Out Her Friend On Twitter For Sleeping With Her Father [PICS] by cococandy(f): 6:54pm On Jan 10, 2016

Mtchew.

Take it up with your dad.

Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Living In UK Exposes Girlfriends Allegedly Planning To Kill Her by cococandy(f): 6:50pm On Jan 10, 2016

U.K babes and entertainment galore.
I dey like to read their stories sha.

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Health › Re: You Will Never Throw Away Rice Water After Reading This...! by cococandy(f): 6:47pm On Jan 10, 2016

abbey621:
I'm glad your mom didn't listen otherwise your face would have been scarred beyond recognition

I don't think so.
It must have worked for some people then.

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:46pm On Jan 10, 2016

byvan03:
Lol@ things to eat list, hope Udara and icheku is there. Please repost your things to eat list let me have a peek.

Udara is there but not icheku. I mean I don't mind if see it but I won't go out of my way to get it.
But I'm not Leaving until I eat
*Fresh uha soup (number one on my list)
*Ofeakwu with dry fish, thick Pomo and akwara anu with fresh scent leaf.
*Ofe owerre. I miss fresh ugu so much. Not this frozen one they sell to us here. Not quite the same.
*Ukwa. Oh my mom will surely bring that one when she comes for omugwo. At least they'll let her carry it. I hope.
*I've been eating buka stew in my dreams. I'll go to 'nda leti' place and satisfy that craving. grin

*And finally Chanel O shawarma. I can't leave O'town without a taste of that.

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:38pm On Jan 10, 2016

byvan03:
Come home and eat fresh akwara anu .

It's up there on my list.
If you see my 'things-to-eat' list ehn. grin

You'll laugh.

Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Living In UK Exposes Girlfriends Allegedly Planning To Kill Her by cococandy(f): 5:35pm On Jan 10, 2016

Okay

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:23pm On Jan 10, 2016

byvan03:
Akwara anu.

Choi
Beev

Not fair

That's even better than goat meat.

Health › Re: You Will Never Throw Away Rice Water After Reading This...! by cococandy(f): 5:22pm On Jan 10, 2016

Keneking:
Amazing write-up. Any scientific evidence to support postulation.

When I was smaller and had measles, I remember my grandma telling my mom to bath me in rice water instead of going to the hospital.

So I guess it's not a new thing.

Politics › Re: Photos: Muslim Woman Gets Kicked Out Of Donald Trump’s Event, Booed By Audience by cococandy(f): 5:06pm On Jan 10, 2016

Too bad we already signed up to vote for Hilary Clinton.

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