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Family › Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by cococandy(f): 2:30am On Nov 10, 2015

Nigeria ranked third globally for the most Google searches for Gay pornography. (We were ranked second in 2013.)

Tell me something grin

But we hate gayness na.
You want to tell me a high population of Nigerians watch gay porn?

Abeg bring the stats here before I believe you.

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Family › Re: Human Hybrids!!! Na Wa O by cococandy(f): 7:27pm On Nov 09, 2015

I don't believe it.

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Family › Re: Clear Out The Stretch Marks For Good by cococandy(f): 5:40pm On Nov 09, 2015

thorpido:
Awww why?You don't want to wee often or the water doesn't taste fine?I know it's hard but just try to get as much water as you can.

Yes. I'll be in the bathroom every second of I try that grin

Plus it doesn't taste awesome anyway.

I'll do my best. I promise.

Family › Re: Clear Out The Stretch Marks For Good by cococandy(f): 4:31pm On Nov 09, 2015

Thanks guys. I really appreciate.

Thorpido I can do those others but I don't think I can drink 10 glasses of water a day.
It's so hard. I've tried before.

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Celebrities › Re: Anna Ebiere Dedicates Her Daughter In Church (Photos) by cococandy(f): 8:04am On Nov 09, 2015

This lady is quite lovely.

Why didn't the father appear in the pics?

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Family › Re: Clear Out The Stretch Marks For Good by cococandy(f): 8:01am On Nov 09, 2015

But how do you prevent the thing from coming in the first place?
My tummy is getting bigger and I don't want it to come then I'll start looking for cure.

Any tips?
Cc:
Chillisauce
Efemenaxy
Ifyalways
Kilode100

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Crime › Re: Woman Meets Her Raper In Banking Hall by cococandy(f): 2:56am On Nov 09, 2015*

Hmm.
Let's hope he's the only one in Nigeria with the tattoo of a scorpion and the word 'boss' on his hips.
What are the odds?

Family › Re: Will She Ever Regain Her Husband's Confidence, Trust And Respect? by cococandy(f): 12:07am On Nov 09, 2015

Tell me about it.

I personally did get an earful.

EfemenaXY:
Because it's an interfering society. A society where outsiders deem it's their God-given rights to poke nose into matters that don't concern them in the least - especially marriages / one's marital status.

@Onegai - well said (about the @op/ wife). You know what gets me the most? People hardly able to eke a living for themselves, living in slap-me-I-slap you apartments, choosing to birth kids they can't look after under the mantra, "God will provide". This isn't even poor planning. It's no planning.

Family › Re: Will She Ever Regain Her Husband's Confidence, Trust And Respect? by cococandy(f): 10:05pm On Nov 08, 2015

Why is it so hard for us to understand that married people can decide to wait a while before having kids?

its not that big a deal. Folks do it.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:59pm On Nov 08, 2015

FriedPlantain:
Gays! Lesbians!

shhh

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:55pm On Nov 08, 2015

bukatyne:
You see why I love you?

Oh you do?

Flutters my eyelashes at her.

Love you too.

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:40pm On Nov 08, 2015

bukatyne:
How are you and family?

And I am still coming to empty your freezer

We are awesome.

You're welcome o. Very welcome.
In fact tell me when you intend to come so I'll stock up for you.

Family › Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by cococandy(f): 8:38pm On Nov 08, 2015

@bold, tell me about it.

Yet somehow we are also saying they should be able to go ahead and do what they want.

Very conflicting.

bukatyne:
101% right.

And bad marriages....

OK, it is still back to wrong mentality.

We are all saying a woman should be independent etc. yet if a wife comes crying that her husband threatened her job or the marriage, we will be tempted to say 'resign your job, your marriage is more important'. As we converse, some women are probably still asking their husband's permission to resume a new job tomorrow.

I will say women knowing what they want to be and towing that path BEFORE marriage goes a very long way to weed out such men.

Ironically, I know someone who is pushing his wife seriously to build something for herself

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:21pm On Nov 08, 2015

bukatyne:
Just leave cococandy

She will just be eating everything be eating everything

One day, she will find an empty freezer

How are you and fam?

Celebrities › Re: Two Men Blast Each Other Over Who Will Date Mercy Aigbe’s 14yr Old Daughter(Pics by cococandy(f): 7:33pm On Nov 08, 2015

I won't let my kids on social media until they are 18.

Too many pervs out there.

SMH.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:27pm On Nov 08, 2015

babygirlfl:
Hehehe

Today is chopping day.
I've abandoned the cake. But I tried sha grin

Home made bread and akara coming.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:24pm On Nov 08, 2015

Nmeri17:
here's my zip code ====> 430231. finish the good work you have started by sending me this pot of stew. In fact you can keep the pot -- just send the stew

coming .

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:24pm On Nov 08, 2015

uchlukez:
Ya. I did. That's my normal Sunday delicacy

wow. Nice. I want

Family › Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by cococandy(f): 7:21pm On Nov 08, 2015

Ewuro4:
Talk about it aka Solutions aka your abusie awareness thread. Yes that I can relate with. not whining about rubbish like OP.

Yes op needs to be beaten not only shushed for whining and crying foul over what is supposedly meant to be tackled e.g ask people's opinions for solutions.

If anyone is having a marital /self esteem problem as a result of their upbringing, they should come forward and say so rather than injecting their frustrations online on daily basis.

Nobody is stopping anyone from acquiring and reaching their lifelong goals. SOCIETY IS NOT AN EXCUSE, NOT ANYMORE. NOT IN 2015.

@bold, is a wrong inference.

That this man came out to say this doesn't mean he has self esteem or marital issues. Or was brought up badly.
That's an unfair way of shushing people who speak their opinions up. We should At least counter his points. Say he's lying if we think so.
Saying his observations are a lie even if he's not lying is better than attacking his personality.

Must anyone who talks about something be doing it from personal experience? And even if they were? What difference does it make? It only makes it more valid if anything.

Yes of course I agree society is no longer an excuse anymore. That's one piece of advice I think people need to leave this thread with. Do what you want (as long as it's not a crime) regardless of how others see it.
Still man is a social being and public opinion cannot be shunned by all since everyone doesn't have the same capabilities and strengths.

What's the better solution to saying 'ignore' as if it's that easy for everyone than actually disabusing people's minds of some of the archaic beliefs that lead to such discriminations in the first place.

As far as this thread is concerned now, everyone is saying don't listen to 'society' I.e those around you. But when folks get in trouble we ask them to consult a third party, An older one, a church leader, public forums etc who also happen to be part of this faceless society that we somehow think is dispensable at will. It far easier said than done.

I for one have the strong will to do that but I noticed that I've always been seen as different, stubborn even. So I know not everyone can be like that.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:10pm On Nov 08, 2015

Not my kitchen but gonna be eaten by me. This will be my breakfast for today.

Don't judge me. Or I'll come find you and eat you too. angry

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Family › Re: Things That Bring About Failure In Today's Marriage. by cococandy(f): 4:28pm On Nov 08, 2015

Tallesty1:
You don carry cocoacandy enter here?

Happy Sunday cocobaby

Happy Sunday to you too.

Family › Re: Will She Ever Regain Her Husband's Confidence, Trust And Respect? by cococandy(f): 4:17pm On Nov 08, 2015

I was feeling sorry for him and flogging the girl in my mind until I got to the point where he cheated.

Mtchew!!!!!

Pls let her rest assured that she didn't push him into it. It would have been only a matter of time before he started. He only found a excuse to start earlier.
Now she knows who she married.
I hope she's ready to raise that child by herself because some people can be married and still be single parents.

That's not absolving her of any blame. She should have stuck to the agreement with her husband to start with. That was unfair to him.

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Family › Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by cococandy(f): 4:04pm On Nov 08, 2015

Pls how do people tackle a problem without talking about it?
All these posts aimed at shushing the OP doesn't make sense to me in that way.
We talk online about child abuse, we talk about jungle justice etc and anything we feel isn't happening the way it should.
I don't see that as whining.
No problem is ever addressed by shutting up about it.
I don't get the logic.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:58pm On Nov 08, 2015

uchlukez:
Damn

Did you make that?

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:57pm On Nov 08, 2015

Exactly.
That's even why I'm still here.

I know herz no dey again but tchidi no dey disappoint grin

Fresh soups with lots of home touch.

Kimoni:
Waoh! Nice one bollinger

This looks very similar to how ofada/ayamashe stew is made. Just pockets of differences...and the 'burnt' advice is golden. 'Slightly burning' gives it a unique taste of its own weird but true. I learnt it overtime with my ayamashe stews. I can't wait to come to your eatery

@cococandy - you remind me of how I was only able to prepare meals and eat after getting inspiration from this thread. God bless Herzumpther. Those local delicacies of hers helped me a lot during my missionary journey.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:30am On Nov 08, 2015

Bollinger:
Or better yet; "LLINCANDY'S CHOP AND CLEAN MOUTH" . You'll handle all the paperwork and be the face of the place, i'll just stay in the kitchen whipping dem bad boys up.

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:29am On Nov 08, 2015

Bollinger:
Nice. Come see ooooo Mrs coco. We don get approved NAFDAC name.

P.s Cococandy. Did you actually follow the recipe and cook it?

Yea I did.
Except that I used lamb instead of orisirisi cow parts (that's what I had in my freezer)
And I didn't have the red long peppers.

But it came out just about how I expected it.
Thanks

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:25am On Nov 08, 2015

FriedPlantain:
I think CocoBoli sounds more posh and classy.

true that.

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:06am On Nov 08, 2015

Bollinger:
Lol.....believe it or not, but my dad was the one that got me interested In cooking. He used to say "come here, big head. You no go come learn how to cook so no woman go take you do yanga". Now, mostly I just cook for fun. It relaxes me. Thinking of opening a restaurant one day. Wanna partner with me?

He must have been awesome.

Damn our restaurant will be haute!
BollinCo. Restaurant. cheesy

hehehe

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Celebrities › Re: Is This Rapper Fast Becoming Nigeria's 'dirtiest' Artiste?(shocking Pics) by cococandy(f): 1:17am On Nov 08, 2015

He's selling what he knows people want to buy.
They will come in Public and Condemn it but go behind and jerk off to it.
So who's fooling who?
He's not the dirtiest, he's just showing us that we love dirty stuff.
If people didn't buy it, it won't sell.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:53am On Nov 08, 2015

Bollinger

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Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 12:10am On Nov 08, 2015

Aww so sweet.
Thanks

So you're a Don Williams fan too? Awesome!

EfemenaXY:
I love strong women who aren't afraid to go against the norm while expressing themselves. Now these, I call real friends.

Shout out to Chillisauce. Cococandy. Burntpalace. Mindfulness. Ifyalways. Kanwuliajara. Love you ladies!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cogw5Wqwd_s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UG9C2OnyhxY

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