₦airaland Forum

MizzD:
You have no idea how angry i am. What in God's name is wrong with Nigerians. More than 80% have blamed the victim. Just because shes no virgin(a mere assumption ), it was consensual! What is so unbelievable in a father overpowering his daughter, this man in question is aas good as the lady 's father. Why didnt she scream when she stepped out, or tell her parents immediately she got home, what do people take rape for though. Good news to be delightfully shared .

How can i believe a man who claims he removed his shirt, what for? Was he hot inside the ac at that time of the day. Claims the girl just started rubbing his manhood, just like that?

People have no idea how devastating a rape experience is, and that is why they will always make a case for the rapist. Its no surprise rape victims keep to themselves because the humiliation and judgement they face from ignorant nigerians for speaking out is much worse that the act itself

989900:
1. If you think it's not rape because a woman is not a virgin, I weep for you.

2. You can be sent to jail for raping your wife, or for raping an 'olosho'.

3. Not all virgins have their hymen unbroken.

4. Not every broken hymen is as a result of intercourse.

5. Lecturers do this more often than you care to imagine -- I have personally had to step-in in defense of a few girls through various harsh means.

6. Not all girls scream or shout when attacked. Some are in shock (so unprepeared/helpless), that they don't know what to do. Some won't scream 'cause of shame.

7. Bottom line; this cruel man exploited this young lady, betrayed his friend, betrayed his wife and kids. #lowlife

8. He will see jail time, and have his life ripped apart too.

9. For those making a case for him, make a silent wish for yourselves and loves ones that you/them never have to encounter such.

FannySwindler:
Take it to the Food Section. "Cook in your kitchen, Take pictures and Post it here.

kevinberry:
You don't get it,he don't want to,the woman is the one disturbing him

kevinberry:
The man is a family friend..and yes he promised to make her the second wife...should the marry happen,she will automatically becomes a family friend too and that might leads to so many things...

It quiet funny,you guys seems to see her wayward lifestyle as nothing to worry about

Pathetic

Chillis:
Amen oh.
You and tearoses . By 2016. We shall hear the good news

kevinberry:
[b]That reminds me,since this thread mostly compasses single's matured women..

I want your views concerning this issue

There is a lady just opposite our compound here in my estate,for some reasons she is married yet,but the compound and house which she resides in was purchased by one certain man...for some reasons the man is married,living in another compound with his wife and children ,so it seems the man promise this lady marriage,and this lady says she can't wait any longer,that the man keeps on postponing. The marriage,and this certain lady goes to club like club her cocaine that keeps her alive ,so many people have whispered to the man concerning this woman wayward life,so she changed tactics,she stopped taking her car with her,instead hire a cab that will always pick her up and drop her back, so my question now is that...as a woman,would you advice the man,supposing he his your brother,to go ahead with the marriage,is it morally right,considering her wayward and carefree life,clubbing,taking of alcohol,hustling etc...would you advice someone close to you to marry such woman.....

Your views please[/b]

Chillis:
No be nigeria again.

Dem just dey do anyhow.

Have you checked if my eggs are talking to you yet?
Anyone?

Ewuro4:
Grind (I use coffee grinder) whole cloves and whole red & black peppercorns(in any local grocery stores spice aisle) . With a touch of ginger and hot pepper of your choice, peppersoup has never tasted naijaish . Mint leaves is also a perfect substitute for the scent leaves.

cc.. Coco

Kimoni:
there is?? What are they called? do they have different waves too? Pls educate me biko

freecocoa:
I get you but although in some of those instances, your will doesn't even come into the picture as you have no will as regards the matter in the first place.

Say hubby wants to eat jellof rice and I didn't have a particular food in mind and won't mind jellof rice, so he mentions it, I cook it, did I really do his will? The way I see it, it can only be his will, if I didn't want jellof rice but cooked it because of him anyway.

To submit to someone, you have to give up your will, now how easy is it, to give up one's will?

I think compromise is different from submission.

There's nothing like your own will, in submission.

freecocoa:
But is it though buky?

With those things mentioned, your will is still yours but with submission, the story changes.

There's a difference in doing what a person politely asks of you, than the one ordered(grammar) of you.

jaybee3:
The 50:50 split is actually shared responsibility with defined roles.

Kimoni:
Undefined roles actually. Anybody can do anything...from what I read o

amnesty7:
what did the father do to deserve such a leave?

omicron:
Makes some sense.

But what if a man's wife A gives birth in Jan, wife B in May and wife C n Sept That is one year parternity leave oo

Hope it wont backfire o

KINGSAMURAI:
cococandy woya come ya, lemme know what u hav to say concerning this matter, lemme know who ur little feminist behaviour will support.

SAMBARRY:
Abi o.shes not ashamed to say she's an ashewo

meanwhile nigerian girls will be doing their own for local musicians. Them go dash them 5k and they will still have the nerves to condemn her when they're doing the same thing but while she is exposing hers, they're hiding theirs