₦airaland Forum

PassingShot:
Stop insinuating and alleging when you have no evidence.

In the past when there was budget for Office of the First Lady we knew about it and not that we relied on conjectures.

Aisha said it during campaigns and interviews she would engage in some pet projects to be funded by NGO's and some other corporate bodies. Do you really think it will be difficult for her to get NGOs and some companies to fund her projects?

Why must she insist on accepting a title her husband vehemently opposed to exist?

The problems with some Nigerians is that they're so used to abnormalities such that any attempt at correcting them is seen as "hypocrisy" or "pretending". This is what you've displayed here.

Abnormality? Office of the First Lady?

What's abnormal is hypocrite goody two shoes. We know they used patience to campaign. Nigerians of course like passive women. So patience being the assertive type rubbed many people off the wrong way. He keyed in on that and bought some votes by promising to dissolve the office of the First Lady.
Who's the husband to dissolve the role of a First Lady anyway. Tomorrow he will say he doesn't want to be called president but the leader of the country because he just feels like. Like he's the one that laid the foundations of all offices when the county was founded and can dissolve anyone he wishes when it suits him. Tomorrow the next wife of the president will chose a different name for herself and that's how all of them will continue until it's totally trivialized.

It's Look inwards and correct yourself not me.

socialmediaman:
She has constututional duties as wife of the president, this is normal, but the wife of the president has no business summoning security meetings, opening an office to influence who sees the president etc. that was the case with the previous government.

That's a different thing altogether. A First Lady can exceed her boundaries (as do many office holders), so if patience did, it doesn't make the office of the First Lady unconstitutional. What she (Aisha) needs to do is do the right duties of a First Lady. Not say there's no room for the First Lady in the constitution and then go ahead to be one under a different name.

That one was them just buying the public with the opportunity that criticizing PEJ gave them. I saw through it.

PassingShot:
I ask you again: Which office would you rather she use for her pet projects which we already know she was going to do?

PMB clearly said there won't be office of the first lady as if it were recognized by the constitution. And that has not changed.

why should she have pet projects. That's the job of the First Lady which she's not. She's just the man's wife so she shouldn't concern herself with the affair is Nigerians. She should cook, clean, take days off at the spa to pamper herself and maybe have another baby.

If she doing the same duties past wives of the president did, why isn't she the First Lady. Why not just say she wanted to rename the office instead of saying the office is unconstitutional yet she's carrying on the duties of the office.

socialmediaman:
Madam Patience had her office officially funded by the presidency, she called for security meetings, interfered with official functions within the presidency and ordered ministers and government officials around including maintaining influence with who and who has access to the the president officially, this was totally wrong

who's funding Aisha's office? What's her day job? Having no official funding for her office makes it even easier to spirit away money without accountability. Which by now only God knows how much has entered their privates purses with the "one man show minister of all ministries" that their family is doing.

You guys are so easily deceived. She could have just jejely accepted the title instead of forming holy Mary humble wife of the president that hates power but somehow is still operating in the capacity of the title she rejected.

Don't those fish bite?
I see the way you're stepping in there.

Want some fresh fish peppersoup now. or grilled fish with coleslaw.

sirxbit:
Op pls remove dat inocent woman 4rm dis post.my house is a throw stone from the sch and the student was flogged by a male teacher and nt a female.does dat lean woman have the strength to flog someone like dat?

Hmm.

What!
She's dead if that were my child.

Oloriburuku teacher. They sent her to take out her frustrations on those kids. There should be mental evaluation for people who handle other people's kids.

I know some people may not believe this, but later they will understand… the people who really run this world, knows the ordinances of God and how the world should run but they are deliberately bent on destroying it. You should wonder why the world is in such a disorder?

How the world should run according to who?

FYI The world is in disorder because of bad leadership.
Who are the leaders?

GANJAFARMER:
I've always wanted to spare you even you misfire but one day is enough for you and I .
Just one day.

Gerout.

Because I ignore your misyarns too you think I'm blind?

Abeg go and face who's making you vex. Mtchew.

GANJAFARMER:
But You keep roaming around like a local dog that just saw an excrete.

Lol. So them ban you and that's enough to make you go crazy like this.

FYI you don't have a say which topic I view or not.
Just leave my moniker out of your rants pls as long as I stayed out like you asked. I even regret telling you sorry sef. E be like say the thing is a big deal to you.
See common something is making you act like the world is coming to an end.

So I must agree with you that's she's ugly for your mind to rest. You go wait tire.

SHE'S NOT UGLY.

Sue me.

GANJAFARMER:
Cococandy, tell me how ugly can a girl be unless you're using glasses or your head too is stuck in Standd's ass like the others .

Abeg leave my moniker alone. Didn't you ask me to stay out of it?

I need to take break from this thread mehn.
Touchmeder did you boil soft corn to go with it?

touchmeder:
Pasta with chicken and fish
then I stepped it down with ube

Omg ube

chronique:
Hangout with someone's wife? Bia,your village people are at work o. For America,almost everybody get gun o. Nor go do the one we them go come post your story for nairaland front page with the thread title "Nigerian man shot dead while trying to learn how to cook from a pregnant married woman".

My ribs.

ORALL:
90 percent of rape cases are just agreement that didn't go well...we all know the timaya case,she wanted to follow timaya as his wife,timaya refuse and she screamed rape,the lecturer case,we all know it because of admission..and to you op..the guys spend his pocket money on you,he wants it back...rape my foot...quote me and thunder will strike your smelly pusssies

You're the only one that knows o. Not we all.

You dey your house know exactly what happened.

SMH

Good decision. Since you'd get blamed if you get raped, the best decision would be to not go at all.

hilaomo:
babe,MIND IF WE TAKE OUT SOME TIME TO HANGOUT,need to learn those kitchen skills of yours.

lol.

Hang out on this thread? Abi where?

Truckpusher:
You no try at all but make I just pretend like say nothing happen.

Ha an.

Ok I'm sorry.

Idowuogbo:
I'm telling you...might have to DHL some anti-ageing creams to you eh...

Make I go sleep before they go use me cure vex this afternoon

nigerianium:

Hag, do you mind waiting in line to get your turn to conversate with me?

Here's your tag: Dimwit/9348 . Join the queue!

Lol. I swear I don't know why you're pissed.

I think I should go back and understand why you're vexing. I'm just finding that particular post confusing because you're quoting softsparky and calling her feminist. Maybe you're misdirecting your vex meant for someone else.

See he's directing it here too.

lol again.

Idowuogbo:
Lmao! Abeg coco I can't laugh o.

I read the post like 3 times. Couldn't comprehend.

I must be getting old.

Haha

So cute

I don't share that sentiment at all.

He was raped and that's it. QED.
I'm surprised you people that appeal to victim blame don't see how this can affect the male gender negatively too.

lastpage:
Yes, it does.
If he was wearing an apparel that shows his JT bulging (turn-on for some 'sick' ladies!) out of his trousers and he was pointing at it to attract attention, for example. This is a 'male-only' scenario, mind you.

I have seen a man "taken home" from the club by two ladies when he was drunk and making lewd gestures.
They phucked the hell out of him and pushed him out the next morning!

I guess if he was a lady, it would be r@pe .... but because he was a man, he deserves it, right?
Dont forget "Equality of sexes" and al that o!

The law is (should be) blind to our gender.


Lastpage!

Strike 'dressing' from your list.

No court of law will look at what the victim was wearing in order to establish what led to the rape.
It is not done anywhere.
The victim has no responsibility in such case except she took out his p3nis and inserted it in herself.

A man can also be raped. Does what he was wearing during the encounter confer any responsibilities of the act on him?

lastpage:
No, it does not. To forcefully sleep with someone, when they "vehemently" donot want it or do anything to "invite it" is considered molestation.
Its a crime, a grievous, punishable crime. Perpetrator needs long jail time.

That is one part of the story though.
The other part is to establish that it was actually a case of R@pe.... devoid of all other "circumstantial issues" that turns black color to "grey"!
Dressing, Alcohol consumption, previous amorous relationship, location, action of both parties, e.t.c.

all the above have effect on the "charge-sheet".

I know women dont like to see that "other side" of their responsibility is such cases, they think they can do as they like, irrespective of the consequence!

Lastpage!

What's this one saying?

nigerianium:

So a few likes from a group of delusional misandrists masquerading as feminists equals "burying"?

I read the posts, no punchlines. Even at that, that you are moved by things as petty as likes just shows how insecure you feminists are and why you rant online all day seeking validation to your bland, banal and troubled existence. The likes make you _orgasm, yes? Who takes you gyno-humanoids seriously?

Well... She's not ugly. But of course we see things differently.

Anyway I'm staying out of it now like you asked.

Truckpusher:
Coco was only trying to make the skunk feel good about herself .

I go send am to you through Mail make you see how the chimpanzee balance like abokki man shoe wey rain dun soak.

Cc
Cococandy , you did me a great injustice by saying that lied about Idowu's ugly face.
She has a fine voice though but the face na high tension - if fit give pikin convulsion.

So do all the above and you can't get raped. Huh?

You do have to give me credit for being able to decipher the gibberish you're typing.
I'm not going to hard on you because I can sense a certain childlike something about your posts.

Don't worry dear, on your way to the grown up world, you will find out that those aren't enough to stop a rapist from trying to attack you even when you've crossed off everything on that your 'safe list'.

halfrica:
U see wat am sayin u actin like a fake feminist
Cos d true meaning means equal rights of both sexes not just one sexxx Get dat weell
And u can protect ursef from rape wen u dont stay late at nyt
U are in ur lectures office wiv frnds
U dont attend irrelevant occassion such as visitin wild male frnds
U know d frnds u keep
Be vigilant wen u are on d move
U talkin like d girls claiming dey were raped are 12yrs old
Like criosly babe dey are 18yrs old accountable for their lives
They kno wat is good and bad ok

You're funny if you think you can protect yourself from rape short of being strong enough to overpower the attacker/s

Hopefully you don't learn the hard way.

halfrica:
All am saying is wen goin to a lecturers office go wiv frnds people i do dat alot since den and it has worked for me
Like wen lecturers asked why i wud be like sir we av a class togeda now and we are to go for it dats why dey are wiv me
Or we were givin assignments to do togeda nd boom am set free
Even wen jesus came to earth he nevr gave anyone super natural powers to kill any demon
Jesus only gave advise on how to protect ursef and house hold from these demons
U cant stop evil from happenining u can only protect ursef from it ok all am sayin is wen a female is dealin wiv a lecturer be smart please

cynthiaokaka:
You guys don't want to welcome me why?

Aww you're welcome.

Didn't see your introductory post that's why.

Uyo wu uyo ma agi ( in owerri dialect)
Hope you understand Igbo and I'm not speaking in tongues

Ok let's assume she was dressed indecently.

Does it make his crime any less?

lastpage:
Exactly, its becomes a "case-by-case" incident.
We cant generalise.

Some r@pist are just that, R@pist.
Some are just lovers!
Some are enticed!!
Some are even victim of the person saying they are R@ped!


Little ones cannot be accused of dressing indecently because by virtue of their age, they are "little ones" (infants/ children).

But l know an 18yr old who dresses to attract the opposite gender's attention (breast popping out, all contours of her anatomy provocatively enhanced with a tight, see-through clothe, e.t.c)
Those who come to "Equity", must come with clean hands.



Lastpage!

halfrica:
I wore a dress freely bt it showed a bit of my back and front and wiv crazy jeans like i wasnt lookin like a bad girl my look wasnt appealin as a good girl i wore it freely bt d lecturer took meaning wiv it i didnt giv my sef freely cos i reported to my parents wen d signal came why cant oda girls do same?

Great since your dressing wasn't to blame, does it then make sense that some of the other girls who are molested weren't to blame because of their dressing.

Does the fact that some report to their parents and some don't change the fact that an offense was committed against them?
Is there ordeal any less traumatizing because they didn't report?
Why do you think everyone should handle a traumatizing event in the manner?

Whatever step they took after they were molested does not change the fact that they were molested (if indeed they were)

cynthiaokaka:
Hey whatsup

hello. How are you doing?