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all4naija:
Hmmm... Is there no sauce for it?

Nihilist:
https://www.nairaland.com/2392124/man-sister-arraigned-battery-sodomy


A Nigerian Woman is the co-suspect in this case.

Accusing her sister-in-law of adultery, she held her down, and help shove a beerbottle, and later poured pepper into the victims Vag.
The suspect was aided and abetted by her brother....and her mother

That's slut-shaming, sexual assault and disrespect for women all at the same time....committed by two women

I didn't even have to dig around obscure sources to find this article...it's on the front page on this very site, this very morning. Fresh off the press.

At least one thing is clear from the article though, the female suspects believe in equal rights and opportunity to batter and sexually assault other women. They are the ultimate feminists.

Good morning Standd

mollytinrox:
Passionate, strong worded piece sister.
You delivered, as usual.

The life of the female in this country is at a risk the moment she is born, and I'm facing the women w go keep silent and let it all happen.
I am not a conformer to silly norms, by the way, so I'm one to talk.
A grown man fingers your toddler and you let it slide because you're protecting her reputation. May the life of her reputation never be good. What reputation is to protect when such a girl grows to become someone who accepts abuse?
If your cousin is caught sleeping with your 8 year old daughter, hand him over to the police! What family?
If your husband is abusive whether physically or verbally and all you do is tell us you're staying because of your childrwn, you're picture-perfect for the word slowpoke. Your kids will watch a man abuse you and grow up thinking its alright. The boys will become bullies and the girls will become doormats, but society will praise you for staying in a loveless marriage. Which way ladies?
You see those other species so quick to label everyone of the opposite sex a slut, keep hustling to return to where you came from. At least your mothers did what today's sluts are doing, and if ALL Nigerian women are sluts I don't see how we can singly exonerate your own female relatives. It means every one woman who has walked the surface of Nigeria since a band of black men and women wandered here chanting kumbaya is a slut. No one is exempted, even me. But your mother and her mother before her were more slutty.
Have you ever wondered why girls grow up wanting the bad guys?
Why do you even do it?
Defile a child for what pleasure? How does touching an underdeveloped poosie make you feel? Why so you hate so much what you have created?
I even see some of them here carrying shoulders and making comments on how girls are gold diggers.
You meet a girl and promise her money after shining her Congo, that makes you a saint?
All these Mr. Self Righteous' parading about, nature has found a reward for y'all. It's called Karma.
Since your father and role model, Adam, started the female bashing, none of you has evolved to correct it.
But I tell you, wait for it.
Karma.
With your own eyes you will see, with your owns anuses you will feel what it is like to go through what you put them through.
Keep promoting your gospel of Nigerian women being sluts.
RlP dear girl. You're done with the sadness of this world, the pain and shame. I only hope for you, the death was a quick one. RIP dear girl, for karma doesn't disappoint.

OgaTheTop2:
I don't know what our girls see in those oyinbo mofos that can't even have a straight hard on without getting their shaft sucked. They are just not for African girls, plus they have various mental derangement if you asked me.

RIP to the fine girl..

standd:
Thank you. Apparently, there are good men out there.
All I ask is that the good ones talk to the MAD ones and then they should also speak out and point fingers at the rapists and killers the same way they call women sluts..

Maybe when these rapists are being called out by the male folks, they will relent.

ladygogo:
Looks yummy!

bellong:
If is not too late... You have population and media strength to drive traffic where you are...


That being said, I am sure outside this thread, I wouldn't have anything to do with Toke and her likes. They maybe business savvy but there are things I consider as ethics in business. Taking advantage of people is no business ethic to me and no amount of possible millions can make me do it.

Not everybody has a dream of becoming like Warren Buffet. Having food and raiment, I am contented.

I don't like gossip news though. Call me ignorant or old skool, it was the word Vlog that made me open the thread. I couldn't process it meant video log till after seeing the video. My English is still developing..

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kayalla:
all boob*ies re not equal

Shollypopzz:

Feminism is not the reason why these women are stressed or prone to depression. If it were, then it should also be blamed for stay-at-home moms who are more likely to be depressed than working mothers according to research. (Go online, there are articles everywhere concerning great amount of stay at home moms suffering from depression).

Feminism is not putting pressure on anyone. The only thing feminism does, is give you a [b]choice. Because of feminism, a woman that would rather work than stay at home, can now do so, A woman can now get educated in any field of her choice.
The problem is the societal standards and the time most of these women grew up. Most of the women in this article grew up when women advancement was still a little behind from where we are now. They grew up with mothers and fathers who took on stereotypical gender roles and were trained to fit in the roles that society has set out for them.

These women are stressed because they are trying to satisfy themselves and at the same time satisfy society. Today's society still does NOT embrace a stay-at-home dad or a woman that focuses on providing. They want to have amazing careers but also be award winning moms at the same bloody time. This two can NEVER be achieved at once without negatively affecting the woman.
According to one of the women in the article (Shirley Conran), "I’d race home from work, fling my coat on the floor, cook a meal, then play with my darling son until bedtime. And to prove to my boss that I could do everything he feared working mums couldn’t, I’d sometimes still be schedule-planning at 3 am".

Where is her "involved" husband in all this?? Most men also cannot handle excellent careers and home at the same time just like women but the difference is, they are not under any pressure to be physically involved in their child's life. They are fine with "pitching in" and would not stress if they are not "pitching in" enough.


This is how fvcked up patriarchal society is - because women asked for the same rights as men, they are asked to take on both roles. All the women in this article were breadwinners, meaning sole providers. Why the hell were their husbands not putting in more work at home than they were?? Why do they excuse this?? This is what I call mental slavery. Not once, did these women demand more form their husbands, instead they blamed themselves for not being a superhuman.

The pressure to be fantastic at both, comes from women trying to prove a point that they are just as intelligent and resourceful as their male colleagues while trying to please the society.
The thing is, why do we even have to prove that we are just as intelligent and we can be useful in a corporate environment?? Because of years of oppression and being seen as inferior, we dare not allow ourselves to take days off work. And instead of her to blame the patriarchal and oppressive society, she wants to blame feminism.

This is identical to African Americans in the ghetto blaming civil rights activists for their problems. And maintaining that they were better off as slaves because at least, they had a job[/b].

njokusboy:
So her parents should be watching while we "get to know each other" abi?

coogar:
which rent?
maje owns the house - his parents got them the house. toke cannot rub 2 nickels together to afford rent. what are you talking about? before their wedding, maje was staying in banana island - isn't that the reason toke wanted to die there?



she's on a long thing!
a lot of folks are happy about what happened to her. she's stepped on many toes along the way - no one is even directing any glance at the anita chic that got pregnant for maje - that is because people don't like toke. let's assume it was genevieve or omotola's marriage that suffered the same problem....the so called anita would be hiding in a bunker now cos nigerians would burn her alive for daring to break the home of their role models.

Olamitisoji:
1) Kidnapping your bride
In the Sudanese Latuka
tribe, when a man wants to marry
a woman, he kidnaps her. Elderly
members of his family go and ask
the girl’s father for her hand in
marriage, and if dad agrees,
he beats the suitor as a sign of his
acceptance of the union. If the
father disagrees, however, the
man might forcefully marry the
woman anyway.

Olamitisoji:
16) Lip stretching
When a girl becomes a teenager
in the Surma tribe of Southern
Sudan, she begins the process of
lip stretching. The girl has her
bottom teeth removed to make
space for a lip plate, which is
increased in size annually.

njokusboy:
In dat case, I'd rather take her anywhere else...

pickabeau1:
HAHA.. mindset...

I just want us to look at the article..

These are the key thrusts of the article


- Large numbers of today’s educated, middle-class women are more stressed, more prone to depression and drinking more than ever before
- Equality of child care responsibilities which still seems to be more on the woman somewhat
- Preponderance of late marriages and start of parenting
- Increase in midlife (20 plus years) divorces

coogar:
i cannot believe she hasn't packed out of the dude's house yet. with the way she's advised millions of naija wives to run at the first sign of trouble, i expect toke to be in her father's house by now.

which simply tells you that the noise women make about catching their hubby with infidelity is just what it is - noise. they would advise other women to flee from the hubby but when it happens to them, they stay in the marriage.

pickabeau1:
Nope
Acknowledging that she is going through a personal issue and understanding or privacy at this time is not analysis or explanation

njokusboy:
Most girls don't live alone, dats if they are not staying with their parents sef

njokusboy:
Nope, maka why nah?
Ladies houses are usually uncomfortable....

njokusboy:
I personally do not have a problem with taking anyone I fancy to anywhere in this world... what I find unsettling is the consensus that people need to hang out to know each other, can't "knowing each other" be done in the boys house?

damiso:
Parents have a lot to do seriously. Firstly try and have the amount of children you can at least give the BASICS plus a little extra once in a while. I know it's not easy but like you said about 80% of charity begins at home. My mum was still buying my clothes till I got to 200l and a strange top or slippers would have warranted serious questioning.

I had course mates who were sending money home to their parents,paying house rent , buying cars for their mothers shuo a pikin in school that is not working. And before people spring the poverty card there were loads of gals from extremely poor backgrounds who still did not think sleeping with guys to get money was acceptable.