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Kimoni:
He shouldn't block his ears, he shouldn't hit her back, he shouldn't move out, OK. But while he's still resolving the issue and the nagging hasn't stopped, what should he do?

LadyFiona:
You're already up in arms advocating for divorce, if a woman does that she is labelled a feminist. Hiehiehiehie!!!!!!hahaha

You are one funny two timing son of a gun.

Op, allow her to be for sometime to come to her senses, do not look for her to drive home a point that you're tired of her bickering and insolent behavior. Watch her people closely to ascertain if they are fuelling the behavior more and then decide the next action to take. But, show concern for the wellbeing of your kids.

Ignore your wife.

Kimoni:
Lol

If nagging kills full grown men, then they should be going extinct by now.

"Sticks and stones may hurt me but words will never harm me" - this is an English proverb basically saying I might have no control over physical violence targeted at me but I can choose to ignore verbal rantings. The latter is a choice.

Have you allowed NL bullying affected you in any way? Maybe initially, but now?

Note that I am not asking him to accept his fate permanently but it is not enough to separate or divorce her immediately like Dinachi advocated till he has tried to address the underlying root of her problems.

Kimoni:
Nagging will not kill him, he should block his ears.

He needs to take charge of his home, it is his family. He should either help her to look for a job or establish her in business. He needs to first address the root cause of the problem before thinking of seperation. Will he leave his kids with her or keep them? And if he keeps them, how will he take care of kids coupled with his job.

His wife's case is not irredeemable yet, he should just take charge of his home.

dinachi:
This is where I absolutely disagree with both you. So it is okay for the wife to be verbally abusive. Don't you know she is the abusive person in the relationship? The guy had to give her a love tap at the cheek to regularise her thinking! I seriously feel for this guy. He got married to a living female demon and he urgently needs to unbundle now. He surely deserves better.
My brothers men are suffering oh! Chai

ifyalways:
Nne please tell me. Where did u get the fast pass? This time should be okay, July and september are the worst times to visit I think. Did u go to the golf park?
Healthy eating? Na una sabi oo. I can't do without my banku, Eba and Amala

BlackLeopard:
Coco, if ma sef may come in your talks here for a second? One day a time, one day relapse don't a good eating cancel. Keep up the good works, don't let the failure of one day put you off, sistah.

bukatyne:
Now this was funny

Idowuogbo:
fresh!!!

ifyalways:
Hehe.

I pray " fast pass" works for you. Staying 2 hours on queue no be moi moi. Another horrible tour is the " statue of Liberty and tower" in New York. I ended up doing my own tour at the battrey park( where we were supposed to queue and board a boat to liberty Island) , I no fit shout after 2 hours on a never ending queue.

ije Uwa. Moca, how body and baby? Hello, ladies

sweetorgasm:
smallie, hw far?

freecocoa:
So your friend's uncle discusses his intimate matters with your friend, who in turn brought it to you, I see the connection.

5minsmadness:
Cc cococandy.

Remember our topic.

It doesn't matter whether nigeria starts it or America starts it.

Liberalism, politics and "Idontcare-ism" has made society permissive of so many things. Homosexuality is the first mental illness to be unlisted from the "psychiatric illness" list and others are bound to follow. It became more acceptable the more people said nothing about it or that they should "live and let live." If people do nothing about it this aberration called pedophilia it will continue to grow until it becomes "normal" and people see nothing wrong with it. Saying "it doesn't concern me" only worsens the problem.

Evil thrives when good people say nothing.

ifyalways:
Is that thing suppossed to be a sport?

My friend has a whole room dedicated for her golf balls and stuff, travels all over the world to play/watch golf. I will never get it. You kick/tap a ball, watch it roll into a hole, go pick it , repeat cycle. My sister, what sort of dead sport be that? I agree with you, it's a good place to network.

Disney is overpriced and crowded. We were once at Orlando , stayed at one of the disney resorts which was suppossed to guarantee us fast and express entry into theme parks but all na wash. It was so crowded, one spends his/her energy on queue to get into the parks, get on a ride , get a table at the restaurants or do anything worthwhile. We'd be looking at Paris this year and I sooooooo pray it won't be anything like our Orlando experience.

Toks2008:
An emphatic NO.

Im even surprised you are asking this funny question.

How can a man be a slut for doing thatYes he is foolish and irresponsible but sluttiness is the least word because to the guy the lady is an object of conquest and just as a lady poster wrote,she will even be happy if her hubby performs well in a sex recording but im yet to see a man that will be proud of his woman sexing so good in a video recording.

I remember the day my ex insisted we record a sex session and i vehemently refused yet she went ahead to do it and i had to delete the recording.

Imagine now that we are no longer together and that tape is with me,even if i dont use it against her,the fear that i have it will almost kill her.

ladies should get their brain set because you can fall out of relationship with even a guy you never taught you can part with.

Some thibgs are better imagined than viewed.

raumdeuter:
Those other women too were probably looking at you and your friends and wondering what these silly ugly runs girls were doing at their nieces birthday looking at everyone and gossiping because n one gave them attention