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blublahd:My editor is still working on my biography. To be published soon. You will get all the info when you buy it. ![]() |
crystalgem:Get people to fetch the water at least and pay them. You can be doing the others by yourself. Don't break your waist in that well o. Hmm |
Phema:Thanks ![]() |
dwayni:Ok that's weird. |
My reason my reason. Your version, your version. The day guys like you will stop speaking for ladies is the day you will begin to sound objective. I don't go about telling you why you choose the kind of lady you do now, do I? I don't. Because I'm not omniscient. So don't try to be omniscient especially on matters you will never understand. E.g being a woman. So when I speak for myself, I state clearly that it's for me and not the 'ladies' you've flagged down in your flashy ride. ![]() I don't know the amount of money that a guy my age range will have to make him the desirable manly man that I want him to be. Case in point wizkid or davido. If I wanted to be either of these two guys, i'd be honest with myself to admit even if not publicly that I want their money. But I won't kid myself that it's genuine attraction. It's not just the maturity angle, it's sexual too. Don't wann go into details but a boy can't really turn one on. (No offense in case) Maybe when I'm older, a guy my age will be attractive but for now, I'll pass thank you very much. It is not about money. [quote author= post=35051116]Habatically coco, this has got to be the biggest lie of the century, women mistake extreme greed for smartness, their definition of being smart is dating older dudes, consequently, a lot of them get defied, raped, used and dumped in their quest for materiality, so much for being smart, they couldn't even deduce the dude waas only after the untouched "lily of the valley between their skirt".... No girl has ever asked about my age when I flank them down with a nice ride, when we were busy in class thinking of how to curb global warming and cure hiv, they were fvcking our older brothers and you think that is being smart? Ok seriously though I don't know about any other lady and people do have GOOD REASONS for their choices and my good reason is that I won't be a good match with a guy my age. What I lack in experience, I make up for in other areas. So a guy at my level with equivalent level of life experience will be 'maybe' uncomfortable. If you had substituted level with age earlier, I won't have argued, for women it's about the level not the age, they equate material success with maturity, dats why David gets to sleep with all those old ladies who wouldn't even look at kunle, even though kunle is levels ahead upstairs.. There's nothing like experience, the only experience an average 18 year old female has over her male counterpart is the sexual kind... Women date/marry more succesful men than they, more successful men are invariably older... We need to operate on the same level and I may be suffocating to him. Not fair to him. Not saying I'm bossy though. Actually I'm not. Just very strong willed. On the same level of materiality abi, you aspire, he provides, no be so [/quote] |
Delary:were his own clothes part of what he was 'pleaded' to wash? ![]() Like seriously? Even if the wife was being adamant about it, he couldn't fish his own clothes from the pile and wash them at least for his own cleanliness? Since she's pregnant and tired. He needed to be begged before he could see that? Your friend does keep you updated anyhow. Pls also let us know when she pleads with him to wash his own body. |
jaybee3:True at first one may not want to believe him because of the flippant way he's telling the story. |
dwayni:Did she say 'thank you' when you gave it to her? If yes. That's enough. What other kind of appreciative do you want her to be? Maybe the car is appreciation in her own way.(competitive maybe) but hey... Anyway I'm gonna gonna go out on a leg here and say that you're probably like the typical African man who believes having money is a requirement that defines your manhood. And having a girl who has that same power as you is now a question mark on your status in the relationship.right? Because for some guys as long as they are in charge financially, they have no doubt that their lady will be pliant towards them since she's all but dependent on them. Well now you gotta learn how to be a man without hiding behind expensive gifts. That's your new homework. Talk about learning to use your left hand in old age. |
dwayni:Get with the program newbie. If your story doesn't involve suffering and gnashing of teeth, it's show off. Deal with it ![]() Or send the mustang to me and the problem will be solved. See? No more car troubles. Give away your troubles.....to me |
But when you married someone's daughter them no do you like that. |
![]() You thought you would get a different line of response in family section? Anyway just enjoy the gift she gave you and stop complaining. What's your concern? |
It's not a betrayal per se. But left to me, I wouldn't touch a guy who sees me as a second option. Mmm Mmm. So if Freda begins to like him tomorrow what happens? She was always his first choice remember? Forget whatever he says about her now, some guys will do that when the girl they like doesn't give them what they want. ![]() #fact. And since they can't have her, they will try to use her friend to make her jealous. Another childish thing but yea some guys do that. If she shows 'genuine' interest in him tomorrow, you think he will resist every temptation she throws his way? You're like what he's using to console himself and to 'show' her. My dear don't set yourself up for heartbreak. Also you need to review your friendship with Freda. If she overshadows you so much that you're like the bedside lamp (inanimate object) whenever she's around, you need to be with her less often. Don't be the Michelle in your 'destiny's child' (At least, so you don't begin to resent her) |
blublahd:exactly ![]() |
Do what you can. Leave the rest. If it affects him long enough, he will help out. |
Darkrebel666:Guys our age are dumber than us. Fact of life ![]() Combine extreme dumbness with a gargantuan ego and you have a mule who expects you to follow whatever dumb stuff they have to say because they are *** finish it. Ok seriously though I don't know about any other lady and people do have GOOD REASONS for their choices and my good reason is that I won't be a good match with a guy my age. What I lack in experience, I make up for in other areas. So a guy at my level with equivalent level of life experience will be 'maybe' uncomfortable. We need to operate on the same level and I may be suffocating to him. Not fair to him. Not saying I'm bossy though. Actually I'm not. Just very strong willed. |
I saw how some guys dissected Airforce1's music on NL, I would really appreciate If after viewing this you come and point out some errors you saw in the flick, thanks.Did you guys get permission from 'game of thrones' production to use their sound track? |
I've read it. Nice one. VictoriaBee: |
bukatyne: ![]() |
In Nigeria it is estimated that 40%-50% of all first marriages end up in divorce (www.marmalette.com).They must have carried out this survey in Lagos. Igando and ejigbo areas specifically. ![]() It can't be that high in other states. |
VictoriaBee:Lol. this girl sef. |
bukatyne:Later ![]() |
i didn't read this thread (no need to) but I think it should be renamed behavior of non-feminists on nairaland. Because all my stay on this forum, all I see are people who can't sleep because feminists exist. They can't let a topic progress without sneaking in the topic and ranting all day about feminists. All the insults exist because some people all the time cannot resist taking a jab at feminists who most of the time are contributing on topics without even talking feminism or anything related to it. SMH Can y'all Get a life and stop dying over folks that don't give a hoot about you. will y'all? |
That's nice ![]() |
Lacomus:as in eh |
Akposy:I don vote na ![]() |
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So are you going to separate them immediately? I don't see them surviving in that environment if they all get together |
FrancisTony:Fish egg |
firstEVA:who are the non-feminists? ![]() The ones that enjoy being cheated on and believe that's their place in life? |
Awwwww ![]() |
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