₦airaland Forum

Stillfire:
You are laughing, Efe? lol
There is a thread here where a journalist wrote that as a good African woman who preserves her marriage at all cost, the woman went back to her husband that ra.ped her daughters.
Which African tradition condones IN.CEST? My forefathers would have burnt him on a stake and thrown him into the evil forest shouting ABOMINATION.
So these women need to specify on which culture condone all these atrocities . No more hiding under the umbrella of African or Nigerian culture, please tell us the tribe that requires you to die in silence when disrespected.

CFCfan:

you prefer the strip clubs

gidjah:
no ms, my eyes are pretty where they should be, but they are buldgy o see that you do not belong yo d class of the kind of women who see doing simple house chores as solely for women, your husband's should help with this ,help with that, you ladies. should wake up and and accept realities, if married (favored women)are complaining about house chores ,then whose work should that be?,stop been lazy, women, your mum did this things ,our parents in the village,are they complaining, while they where raising u up they did most of this things. but you come o the cities only to become champions over your men. coco you better be a good lady ,laziness and sluggishness will never help you , there's a place for women, that
is where you should sought for. this yanky way of living won't help u .

Toks2008:
I dont care how deep the love is but if a lady im to get married to tells me she made a sex recording with an ex boyfriend i will simplu advice her to go into the porn industry.

It is manageable to immagine ten exes who have slept with you than to face the stark reality that my wife to be nudity is with another man and worst still might have been viewed by many.

Even K west with all the love he claims to have for kim k,he will always be haunted by that sex clip of his wife and her ex.

lets face it.its a very fooolish,myopic and totally dumb for a lady to allow herself being recorded in the act not even by her hubby howbeit a boyfriend.

sluttiness of the highest level.

baby124:
None of my ex's have that kind of mind. Because when you mess with the love of my life and you want to destroy my family, I can go to any length and they know. So they cannot even call me to start such conversations. It's the way you present yourself to people that they will treat you. Where we want to sit down and have such conversation sef. Na yansh and breast wey yapa people Neva see before? But what I will do in return will be everlasting. I kuku never hid my true colors to any ex, so they know. In a moment of stupidity and childishness we have all done things we are not proud of. Even the hubs

baby124:
This is even funny that a man will risk his life, future job prospects and future for sex. In this Information Age, if you set him up by posting his blackmail online he is finished for life. Post his father and mother's names, where he went to school, his family pictures. In fact you go post his life and attach to google. At least we women marry and take out husband's name. So anybody wey wan post go post tire. But a man that is established with two kids already has established his name to a point. He is the biggest loser. After finishing his future, get him arrested and pay premium to make sure they break his balls with kick. He has shown that he is not worthy of being called a man, so he won't miss those balls. When next he smells just your perfume he will run like a mad man. In fact after you are done with him, he will never recover. He has more to lose than you

gidjah:
let her be helped with simple but nice advice, but to ask her to go into competition with her hussy, is just too bad sister. she could get people o help her wit water, but she should be able to do d rest work her self in a two room apartment.

gidjah:
I had to steal into your profile to be sure about who is making a quote or issue out of what i said. sister coco, your blood too dey hot, you don't not fit into the class of women that would want to be personally responsible for her husband's home keep (or rather matrimony), you look like those that belong to them class washing machine, them cooks, them gardeners ,them house keepers, them baby sitters, and them drivers for mummy and the kids too !and more them and more them them as more needs arises. your super long finger nails would never allow you to think of washing your husbands clothes or even undies ,na so una go dey form until una husband's impregnate the house maids or even the relatives you brought home to come and do your job for you. this op ain't living in 3bedroom ,she is newly married, with a lil baby, she is complaining that d house chores are too rigorous,by the time the second and third child comes,what would be of her ?instead of you ladies to help her out with reasonable advice,some of you are asking her to fold her hands and sit with her phone just like her husband is doing!isn't that ridiculous? She is not even a working mum pks ,she seem to be a full house wife.

gidjah:
thank u bro , they will never understand, most men would want a woman at home basically for this reason,if I as a man should help with all this lists madam is putting up, then why should I need her in my house?? (though not to say men should not help at home o ,but its like God has conditioned the woman for those things ,but suddenly our women are now doing d work of men and thus they are now getting lazy,they can now wear trousers ,t shirts and 3quatershorts that belong to men.no woman should complain about house chores abeg o, it is never s mans work and will never be

mutter:
If your body aches from house chores with just one kid then obviously you are not in good condition. That is probably because you are not used to hard work or doing any form of sports.
I assume that you are still young so this should not be a problem for you. If you love your husband you would do these chores happily to please him and build your home, your kids would be happy and learn from you.
Women do so much more for their families and still keep a full time job. That is why mothers are indeed supreme and worthy of respect. This is the same here and everywhere in the world.
Getting a househelp is an option but is she not a human being too? She also knows what body pain is?
If you want your husband to help you then you need to know how to ask for help and mostly how to show appreciation for the help. When you want something specific plead with him to help you. -"Darling please can you help me fetch two buckets of water, my waist is paining me?" When he does it show appreciation and joy. Most men would help even if they do it reluctantly.
Those women that get help from their men know how they got their men to help them.
You haven`t learnt how to ask.
Also it is not for you to question your husband`s use of his phone. Would you rather have him going out and leaving you alone in the house. You ought to be happy that he is at home with you.
Just train your kid`s well and in a few years the work will reduce for you.

GeneralQuamdeen:
You should talk to her.. Spoil the act to her totally.. Start with ''see sister, i am a guy too and when i do that to girls, i see them like a prostitute and cheap,.. I know a female friend that do that...she is now addicted to it that she cant change.. Now she is practising it real life... I dont want my sister to be like that''.. She might get discouraged that way.. By the way.. Dont forget to vote for jarizod today.. See my siggy

T3Amo:
you have good timing. I was just about to post it.

Bon Appétit

Moana:
Dinner
Filini, chicken and squash

T3Amo:
Everything Organic . Steak, mushrooms, sweet potatoes, carrot and corn. Will post a pic when it's ready

TheSonOfMark:

You are closer to forty than I am to thirty so go figure!

I suppose being married is an achievement for you. Actually it is- A MAN ADDS MORE VALUE AND FILLS THE VOID IN YOUR LIFE.

What's your other achievement? Aha! Yes, being an idle disgruntled housewife who cleans up after 'Oga' during the day while you writh and whimper beneath him at night.

When he's done pounding you to senselessness, he taps your flat arsecheeks then rolls over to fall asleep then you smile at yourself- YOUR MAIN ACHIEVEMENT- BEING HIS PLEASURE TOY.

Leprechaun leech!

Crazi3Dharay:

which job i collect b4...
Abeg lemme cummot lemme see d battle ground.

Crazi3Dharay:

buhahahahah,
See sileeeeeeeen† shooting....

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TheSonOfMark:

Slut, 18 is the legal age.
Even at that, you have to have lost all sense of morality or rationality to post a picture of yourself in bed with a man. In bed, Victoriabee, in bed.

Your mentor ,Cococandy, is teaching you well enough. I know you'd surpass her in that regard. Well, isn't that what every teacher wishes his/her student(s)?

VICTORIABÌTCH, WE KNOW ONE DAY YOU'D MAKE US 'PROUD'.

Crazi3Dharay:

guess u've been skipping classes cuz
she once said dats her bf wen asked by sum1 during
her interview.

TheSonOfMark:

So you'd encourage or condone your 17-year old kid sister, A MINOR, updating pictures of her self placing her head on a man's shoulder and both SPRAWLED OUT IN BED?

A MINOR?

Wait a minute, there's nothing wrong with it 'cause you were the same at her age?

Quite revealing!

edwife:
Lol with what we read everyday on front page i am not surprise

I doubt there is even 20% in SE but if it's Lagos and North i don't doubt the report

TheSonOfMark:

I've got a kid sister her age so you can imagine how I felt when I saw that picture of Victoriabee cuddling with a man in bed.

BABE3:
not necessarily quoting you but that caught my attention.

What is "dumb"? What is "maturity"? All relative. At a certain age, being smart and and being matured is usually related to being ready for marriage.

These days, a typical young adult woman is already thinking of settling down; thinking of her fantasy marriage. In her early 20s, an age when she should be finding herself, all she's doing is putting herself in a box to attract potential suitors; to appear marriageable. Not necessarily a bad thing.

A typical young adult man however, is not thinking marriage; he's thinking of how to bed girls; how to get the newest play station console; how to make money.

Does that make him dumber? No. I can actually make an argument that he's more intelligent than a female his age. Boys and girls have different priorities in their early
20s, doesn't mean boys are less intelligent. I haven't read any scientific evidence that claims so.

The intelligence of a fish is different from the intelligence of an elephant.

I read somewhere that 70% of American males (white and black) between the age of 24 and 35 are not married as at 2014. That percentage has never been so high in the history of America. I guess men are getting more repulsed by the idea of marriage; that doesn't make them less intelligent.

njokusboy:
Lolzzz, owk...

But don't go and call your age mate a boy outside oh... E no go fresh oh

blublahd:
You mean I failed to understand she is egotistic?

njokusboy:
Bwahahahaahha... I can't possibly be offended.... But tell me, my dear, how old is a boy

blublahd:
Umm....'age' there is connotative love.