Family › Re: Toke Makinwa's First Vlog After The Scandal. by cococandy(f): 5:21pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Emaprince: I knew you were trollling though. You went from good girl to a bad girl ever since you got initiated by the women of this section. Lol Really? Well I cut my hair and changed my name to Rihanna too. Change is constant. |
Family › Re: Toke Makinwa's First Vlog After The Scandal. by cococandy(f): 5:16pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Emaprince: hehehe...why are you saying this? In "reason why we cheat on our husbands thread", Are you not the same person that said they all have good reason?..lol...one said her hubby is never around and people supported her. I guese toke should also bear the blame for travelling around and leaving her hubby for other women. If a man travels around and the wife does this, women will tell us that body no be firewood. Hehehe.. Yes na. I was correct. Hypocrisy is allowed  As long as you admit it. Just kidding. I was obviously trolling. |
Family › Re: Toke Makinwa's First Vlog After The Scandal. by cococandy(f): 5:15pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
 True. These people have a way of forcing themselves on us. I've never been a kardashians fan but now I use their nail polish products because they throw it in your face, you see how good it is, you just buy never mind you don't care so much about the producers. Onegai: You never heard of her, but you watched her video. That counts as one more view on the number tally. And you like her makeup (done professionally by someone she most likely didn't pay as it was offered to her for free because it's great advertising). So the next time you swing over here and need your makeup done, won't you check out Toke's instagram page? And she mentions who did her makeup, won't you contact the makeup artist to find out how much she does work (at least)? And if Toke says "oh my makeup was done using House of Tara brand foundation", won't you see HoT powder one day and decide "lemme just try it sha"?
And you will still tell yourself "No I be bad market, advertising doesn't work on me "
Toke meanwhile has gotten free makeup and advert money for all that. And people are here on NL insulting themselves while she laughs inwardly. |
Family › Re: Toke Makinwa's First Vlog After The Scandal. by cococandy(f): 5:01pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
If I'd not seen people on here swear they know every nitty gritty on people they've never met, I'd have been non the wiser. Very convincing story tellers.  I can imagine quite a good number of people have experienced this too. Hearing about yourself from a very sure 'insider' Who lives in Asia. Human beings. We feed on misery. That's why to be great at advertising, it is recommended one takes a few classes of psychology. Understand how humans operate and the kind of things it's so easy to sell them. Personal dirty gist tops the list. So Toke's life is not perfect afterall. Praise God  (and that's some people's food for the day) I know so many folks are eager to hear step by step how the man did the cheating and all sorts of nasties they can get their hands on. that's how she will get many subscribers this period and next months she will use contributions to buy a new BMW 7-Series. She will soon get married again and be in the news some more. Is that not how tonto became a star? Smart girls. Onegai: Once, my name popped up somewhere as a nympho or ashawo or whatever. I didn't care because I knew myself. But my friends met people who swore I was one, others said I wasn't, some said they had seen me in a public place giving head to a guy, others said it naaah I got raped somewhere semi-public and that explained why I was constantly travelling out (to see my therapist). None of these people had ever met me in life but they were so convincing, people who knew me, knew where I slept, knew my family, knew I was in a stable relationship for 3 years, were suddenly no longer sure if I was a nympho or not. Some met my bf outside and told him to be careful of me.
Last year, one male model went to start gisting his friends I wanted to die for his body and was so turned on by him (because I paid him a compliment during some work, I didn't even know his name and promptly forgot). My brother (who is no where near the industry!) called me and started asking because the tale had gone round. Imagine if my husband had heard.
Now imagine if I said "screw it, since una perpetually want gist, I will give you something to entertain you and get paid in the process". I monetise your need to focus on the lowest common denominator in Life (tawdry gossip). It's cynical but utterly brilliant. I wish I had Toke's street smarts. |
Family › Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by cococandy(f): 4:40pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
firstEVA: yes Ugh! So a girl can even dump a guy in peace now  |
Family › Re: Toke Makinwa's First Vlog After The Scandal. by cococandy(f): 4:38pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
bellong: I may be a bad market. I have never visited Linda Ikeji's blog and some other popular blogs. It sounds untrue but it is the truth. If I had known this truth you told me about her, I wouldn't have watched the video.
Thank you for adding to my stay away list.  It doesn't sound untrue because I can relate to that. This is actually my first time watching any toke video. I hear about her on nairaland because that is my social site. I didn't even realize she was this popular as everyone and their brother now knows her  I like Onegai's analysis. Makes sense. If only I had her guts. Making money off people's insatiable need to know what's going on in the private lives of others would have been so cool. #iamjealous |
Family › Re: Toke Makinwa's First Vlog After The Scandal. by cococandy(f): 4:32pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
pickabeau1: so why has she not addressed the elephant in the room except a political Im not perfect, I don't know it all 
Are the rumors true well by implication it's true. Do you want her to start saying how the man met the other lady and how they did it and all what not? |
Family › Re: Toke Makinwa's First Vlog After The Scandal. by cococandy(f): 4:27pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Moana: cant we all form i know her from back then just to feel relevant for all we know you are in some remote in the North and you only got to know about Toke's exsistence last week  I thought I was the only one who noticed that everyone seems to know this toke lady. No wonder she went into vloging. she was apparently born famous. Me I don't know her sha. 90percent of the people who can swear on their lives that she was a prostitute have never met her or anyone who ever met someone who met her. |
Family › Re: Toke Makinwa's First Vlog After The Scandal. by cococandy(f): 4:22pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
I like her make-up  And I like the video. So true about the blame game thing. Didn't I read some people blaming her for the man's actions. That she travels a lot and so he sought comfort elsewhere. And that's without even knowing the genesis of his cheating. Anyway whatever. Life goes on. No treacherous man is worth dying over. And she absolutely looks fetching. Time to sail off into the sunset again. Life is beautiful. Alleluia! |
Family › Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by cococandy(f): 3:59pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Ok so does this mean if a guy gets dumped by a lady who promised to marry him, he can sue her legally? |
Family › Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by cococandy(f): 3:46pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by cococandy(f): 3:38pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by cococandy(f): 3:34pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
bellong: Always comprehend a post before replying to it.
And only idiots take a lady they are yet to know to their house for getting to know her.
You guys should at least have little sense of security. The times are evil in these days of ritual killers and gang rapess and all what not, any girl who follows a guy she doesnt know well to anyplace hidden is taking a risk. (The case of that absu girl raped by her male friend and his 6 other friends come to mind.) Nobody says they have to go to expensive places and neither is there a rule that the money must come from the guy. I don't know what's so hard to understand about that sef and why we have thread popping up and down because of it. |
Family › Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by cococandy(f): 2:14pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Lol  |
Family › Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by cococandy(f): 10:58pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
coogar: it's offensive! he finds it very offensive - slapping his face in public does not even compare to attempting to pay for his meal on the first date. it's like stepping on his ego with your stiletto. Mmm. I hear you. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by cococandy(f): 10:51pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
coogar: i don't believe it! on the first date? naija guys are always happy to foot the bill to impress his date. he might have borrowed the dough, stolen it or saved it for months but he's willing to part with it. you are fibbing abeg.......one of the major reasons other african girls chase naija men is because of the way we tend to "spoil" our dates! I'm not fibbing. Of course many guys expect to pay when they take the girl on a date but saying they get offended if the girl offers to pay is just one of your many exaggerations. Haba coogar |
Family › Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by cococandy(f): 10:30pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
I've not met any such one. Offended ke? Highest they will put up a feeble attempt to stop you but if you half insist, they will relax and let you pay  . coogar: true that! naija guys feel offended when a chic offers to pay. the society makes it his responsibility to provide. 
what was the criteria? 
so if you could turn back the hands of time, you would have taxed your toasters?
ahaaaaa! daddy's pet.  |
Family › Re: Why Some Men Don't Cheat by cococandy(f): 10:09pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
5minsmadness:
women! Ok, I'll bite.
Show me where I even remotely implied that I was telling you the appropriate way to behave. Men! Shey na for me to start digging up old posts? I'll pass. |
Family › Re: Why Some Men Don't Cheat by cococandy(f): 9:55pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
5minsmadness: NO one us telling you the appropriate way to behave. .  Why are you lying without compunction?  |
Fashion › Re: Winners Of Most Beautiful Model In Nigeria Contest As Jennifer, Sandra Dazzle by cococandy(f): 9:12pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
These ones are twins. Nice 
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Family › Re: Why Some Men Don't Cheat by cococandy(f): 8:59pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
VictoriaBee: Yet, you understood how we are wired. Keep deceiving yourself. That is what baffles me. They not only understand how women feel, they also tell us the appropriate way to behave. Women don't know what men go through but men know what women go through?  |
Family › Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by cococandy(f): 8:35pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
If I haven't read multiple situations where a lady was raped and was also blamed for agreeing to go to the guy's house in the first place, I'd believe those who say they have no ulterior motives when they invite you to their house.
Most of them do because somehow they believe agreeing to visit them in the privacy of their homes is an implicit agreement to having intimate relations. Don't be deceived.
Just go if you're into the dude and want to do it with him. Otherwise, na yourself is to blame if you believe his 'professed' innocence. You will be also blamed for believing him. Even those who told you not to stereotype will join in blaming you. That's how twisted it is. It's a lose-lose situation. |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 7:46pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Happy birthday taryour.wheres the invitation card  see as your body dey hot  . is it because of the cake that she will bake? |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 7:45pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
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Family › Re: 16 Tips To Make Your Wife Happy by cococandy(f): 7:06pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
lilmax: and we are talking about?  count your teeth with your tongue. Ciao  |
Romance › Re: Ladies I've Got Question For You All by cococandy(f): 7:06pm On Jun 18, 2015*. Modified: 5:20pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
90 days is 3months Abi? I totally would.
It's just practical. After 3months you can be together again and nothing (hopefully) would have gone wrong by then.
But 16yrs? The marriage don end be that na.
Or if you already have kids, they would be grown before their dad gets outs. Going 3months for him is like the most sensible thing to do IMO. |
Family › Re: Wow! Man Cuts All His Expensive Property Into Two After Break Up by cococandy(f): 6:21pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
He's still heart broken It will soon clear from his eyes.  |
Family › Re: Shameful Photos Of Men And Women Caught Having Sexxx (photos) by cococandy(f): 5:05pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Only happens in places where people don't mind their business. |
Family › Re: 24 Things African Mums Should Teach Their Daughters Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 4:55pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
VictoriaBee: What about: For example, if a woman is cheating on her husband, it is because another man somewhere else has given her access to his utopia. But if all men maintain their dick? How else would women cheat.
SILLY LOGIC!!  |
Family › Re: 16 Tips To Make Your Wife Happy by cococandy(f): 4:33pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Why Some Men Don't Cheat by cococandy(f): 3:59pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
So in summary, men are perpetually h0rny, see sex in everything, get turned on by passing voices and shaking hands with random ladies etc etc  Pls where was this 'experiment' carried out? @bold, you typed all that as what testosterone does to the body and you're annoyed some think of guys as walking dycks with no self control? What other definition is suitable if truly that's how the average man feels because of his testosterone hormones? Did none of the 'scientists' who carried out this experiment (if indeed it happened) figure out that the level of testosterone normal for a guy under which he functions normally without any overwhelming urges would affect a lady in a different way? It's just like injecting a man with oestrogen hormones normal for my body and expecting it not to be too much for him. And when indeed he has magnified symptoms because it is too much for him, I try to make him believe that's how I feel everyday. Even you know it doesn't make sense. Since majority of guys have self control, I think we can say the testosterone isn't a livelong battle a man is living to fight. 5minsmadness: Oh don't worry. There is a scientific explanation for it.
Testosterone.
There was an experiment done on a lady who was injected increasing amounts of testosterone daily to meet the biological levels of those in the average male. The woman was asked to report on physical and emotional changes. The experiment was never completed. The woman complained of a lot of things but of importance here was her outlook on sex. She was perpetually h0rny. She saw sex in everything she looked at: clothed and unclothed males, clothed and unclothed females, pictures of males and females, even voices turned her on. She began having sensual dreams and reduced quality of sleep. She got wet at the slightest provocation from shaking hands with a handsome guy to riding a rickety bus. She pleaded for the experiment to be stopped.
When I go on my laptop later this evening I'll dig it up.
You girls have NO IDEA what guys go through sexually even when it's glaringly obvious from everyday events. However for political correctness we have to agree that men and women are exactly the same so as not to hurt anyone's feelings.
This however doesn't mean all men cheat. A lot of men have very good self control as a matter of fact. Hence my annoyance yesterday when some folk said it is 'widespread' that men rape thier wives becaue they think men are walking d1cks that have no self control. |
Family › Re: 16 Tips To Make Your Wife Happy by cococandy(f): 3:45pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
lilmax: Old hags without husbands will always cast the first stone.....rotflol    where is your wife? Abi you never reach to marry? Stay here dey deceive yourself |