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bukatyne:
I have not even watched it

Because because coco has ran to obodo oyinbo and started cooking shinshong, she is laughing at me

bukatyne:

BABE3:
Chillisauce, remember that picture of the dark skin girl (the one with strong yansh), this is her mum.

EfemenaXY:
Very bad jor.

Our foods are / were designed to help our ancestors cope with the backbreaking manual work they did in those days. From waking up at dawn before the cock crows and working till dusk doing things like fetching water from the stream in clay pots, to using grinding stones, digging yam ridges, chopping fire wood, climbing palm trees, and so on.... but these days, no one works like that. Not with modern appliances and office / less manual jobs.

But the food hasn't changed. Instead of eating with just bush meat, you've got cow leg, cow nose, goat meat, stockfish, pork, chicken, periwinkles, snails, etc in just one pot of soup laden with palm oil...not to mention the portion or size of Eba/ poundo/ Amala/ fufu to go with it.

Listen to this sister's trials and tribulations...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6SqrtXmDDaM

EfemenaXY:

BABE3:
Ha!
I dey come.

BABE3:
Awesome. After doing the routine several times, it becomes easier. At this point, you should increase the exercise time to 3 mins or/and reduce rest time to 30 seconds.

The point is to keep challenging your body.

BABE3:
Cococandy

That's a full burpee. The D position is a jump. You're supposed to jump up then go back to position A. Then repeat for 2 mins.

So was the routine difficult (before you got stuck)?

Efe, yes you're right!

Thinkr:
madam if a male boss holds a brief case its 99% sure those things contain office documents or so but a female hand bag? Are you kidding me? Why not say a female carrying brief case? I have worked in a bank and I had female bosses my dear. I do things and joke with them but anytime dey cross the line I make hell out of the office that day. Get that into your head

Thinkr:
I expected nothing short of this. Hand bag is not official stuff for me to carry. Your feminist ideology is making you lose your mind

EfemenaXY:
Lol!

I think this is what she was referring to:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pf7wZvraWV0

Babe3, abeg confirm if I'm right?

Orunto:
You are very wrong, insurbodinated abd covetous. How can your boss give you Instruction and you immediately start coquetting? You are on your own. You want to be Joseph without knowing how to dream.

moca:
That means I dey come amelica be that

taryour:
Oh sorry sis I just read that story. Even though both stories are different. Truth be told the wife acted very wisely for not going physical with her mother inlaw or throwing words at her. The husband as well took the best decision there.


On the cake, I only glazed the top with caramel and returned it back in the oven for another 2 minutes, you can use melted chocolate as well.

taryour:
Yes my sister, some older women are troublesome and we can not help that. My mum and I still had a little quarrel like 2 weeks back, yet I dint insult or talk back at her. What I did was avoid her calls and simply send her a text message stating were I feel she went wrong. Was I expecting her to apologize? NO.

But wetin I go do She is my mother, I was the one that later called her and went to visit her. 3 days ago she repeated the same thing I just overlooked it.

She is my mother and there is nothing I will do about it.

Mother inlaws come in different characters,ONLY a wise woman will act right and correctly. At the end of it all she remains your hubby mother and now your mother once you are married to her son.

bebe2:
me too oooohh

i didnt spend 20yrs in education to start acting like i was raised by wolves

on the topic, older ppple are troublesome no doubt.

my gran ma came to live with us wen i was a teenager, lord knows d woman can talk. she complains about everything,

can be very annoying. but wat can we do? beat her till she shuts up?

we just pet, and pretend we are going to do wat she says, and that makes her happy. but in reality we do wat we want

taryour:
Sweetheart I read and followed that thread from the beginning,though I stopped along the way. My stand still remains she had no right whatsoever raising her hands to slap her mother inlaw was CRAZY.


If I were to be in her shoes I would simply walk out or go into my room and lock myself up till my hubby returns. I will utter no word. YES that is what I will do.


If my own mother slaps me I would never slap her back or talk back to her, what I will do is cry and walk out, even if she calls me back,that particular moment I will walk out.

To be very sincere with you cococandy, marriage has tought me a whole lot. I used to be very very stubborn and when I mean stubborn,you don't dare cross my path I no go gree o. I am always ready for fight oo. But as we grow up we learn to leave something behind and pick new things. Its not being weak but being Wise.

As stubborn as I was, there was a limit to it and boundaries. My hubby has taught me to be more patient,tolerant and overlook things.


What the wife did in that thread is totally wrong, nothing justifies her action,nothing whatsoever. If she was on a clean slate with her mother inlaw then she wouldn't have had any issues let her take the pictures. To even thing she went as far as getting physical with her mother inlaw infront of her friends is really really bad.

Let's call a spade a spade abeg.

taryour:
Your apology is accepted and I also apologize. Oya come let's share this super delicious moist cake *winks*

Ermmm by the way,are you male or female?

bukatyne:
Hello friend

How is our oga doing?

Shollypopzz:
My sister, u too see am?? Na so confusion confuse me oh

bebe2:
i see ur point,


but physical fight with an elderly woman?

i beg no excuse.

ok, lets assume she wansnt her mother in law, its iya alata the pepper seller that slaped her, so

she will put her bag down and start to rumble? dem go fight naked each other for street abi?

and if the husband is lucky, he too might be on his way frm work with his frd and dem too can watch the show abi?

there is no excuse for getting physical with her MIL or anyone for that matter.

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Shiningmama:
I had similar experience too. How my MIL was advising me to be pounding yam for my husband to take to office so that he won't look outside. She gave example of how she will roast a whole chicken and she and her husband will eat and merry then. I was just laughing when she was telling me. She asked me why I was laughing and I told her that sebi despite all the roasting of chicken and merriment her husband still went ahead and married another woman.
She just kept she didn't know what to say again. I begged her sha for laughing. I wasn't expecting her to say such things when she knows all her own pampering and merry merry didn't stopped her husband.

iykedare:
What she should seek for is work experience and not masters degree. There is no guarantee that she will get a job with the masters. Work experience gets you even greater opportunities than masters degree. She has bachelors degree and that is enough for her at this stage of her life.

She shouldn't abandon other aspect of her life unless she is not convinced that he is 'the one'.

anitank:
I don't honey, and neither do you. But it's 2015 and no right thinking man in this century wants his wife to stay at home doing absolutely nothing when other women are attaining greater heights in the corporate world and making names for themselves

kenny987:
All of u saying, 'If Buhari doesn't perform well, we'll vote him out in d nxt 4 yrs', do not fail to realise that d reason it appears ur vote makes any meaning is because GEJ made that possible. He could have manufactured a reason to get Jega out of office even 1yr b4 elections but he didn't. He could've acted like other more heartless Presidents we've had n masterminded an assassination of any perceived enemy n nothing will come of any investigation (Remember Bola Ige).

So, the point is, will elections n votes remain viable n be allowed to count in GMB's tenure? Nigerians are not prepared to hit d streets n protest or even die for wat they want cos we love life too much n that's not bad but it can be used against us...small teargas n hardship, we'll all flee n hit d social media which may not be as effective as it is today, also thanks to GEJ.

Again, ppl keep saying Southerners n GEJ are tribalist n he divided us along religious lines...is there any time we weren't? if Boko haram really wasn't a Northern agenda, why has d bombing stopped? So, when Southerners begin to act more righteous n vote against their own as some did GEJ, I hope it won't come back to bite us such that we become victims of the same tribalism that Northerners hold the highest degree obtainable in. Soon, it will be that GMB needs more time, there's so much rot...bla, bla, bla. Did GEJ not also need d time to tackle d endemic rot in Nig?

I hope Buhari has the pill, magic wand n panacea for Nigeria otherwise, it may stare us in the face that (God forbid), we made a mistake but we're unable to correct it cos d electoral process would have been truncated. I pray the hope reposed in him is not in vain.