Family › Re: Why He Only Dates White Women by cococandy(f): 7:57am On Mar 30, 2015 |
thorpido: The inhibition in black women obviously came from cultural practices and the environment but before you put the blame only on men,I want you to know women also have a hand in it. Female genital mutilation is championed by women for instance. I even blame the women more jare. |
Family › Re: Is It A Must To Circumcise Your Baby Boy? by cococandy(f): 7:39am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Well I wouldn't do it with an uncircumcised dude Or worse still give head.  OP your guy is so cute.  Do something extra really nice for him after this. |
Politics › Re: INEC Insists Election Held In Rivers, Say Amaechi Erred To Ask For Result Sheet by cococandy(f): 7:28am On Mar 30, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: INEC Insists Election Held In Rivers, Say Amaechi Erred To Ask For Result Sheet by cococandy(f): 7:25am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Honestly. Even if GEJ doesn't win this election, he has done something no past president has ever done. Give the electorate a voice. Buhari will definitely stifle people's opinions. I'd like someone as egalitarian and democratic as GEJ to succeed him. Truckpusher: Amaechi deserves a lengthy jail time where he would be sodomized every weekend ,but again the humble democrat Doctor Goodluck Ebelemi Jonathan who is not power drunk wouldn't do it .
I respect this Goodluck.
No sitting Nigerian President will let this Amaechi breath till now .
Goodluck is a true democrat. |
Family › Re: Why He Only Dates White Women by cococandy(f): 7:21am On Mar 30, 2015 |
thorpido: From comments I have heard from guys who have dated white girls,I think this is true. Black women are a lot more inhibited in bed.Black women started dropping the inhibition in just the last two decades. Maybe black women would be less inhibited in bed if they weren't raise to be ashamed of their sexuality. -A culture where virginity is still a prize and character doesn't matter. Where will the woman learn to be uninhibited? -Where you can't freely talk about sex without feeling dirty. -Where being a good girl is inversely proportional to how much sexual activity you've had. -Where slut shaming is more rife than ever and a woman is made to feel dirtier than the same man she did the same thing with. Black men should keep dreaming o. You guys can't eat your cakes and have it back.  If inhibition is bred into your women, you have no rights to compare them negatively to white ladies when it suits you but demand conservatism when it suits you. Mixed signals. Now before someone gets me wrong, I'm not saying the pseudo conservatism that we try to enforce on our women makes them better than white ladies morally or chastity wise. It just makes them more pretentious. |
Family › Re: Why He Only Dates White Women by cococandy(f): 7:07am On Mar 30, 2015 |
babesife: umm black women have issues? let me think about that I am sure white guys feel the same way about white girls. If black men know how to threat black women it would have been different. Actually white men don't talk trash about all white women. They know to refer the bad ones as bad and leave the good ones out of the generalization. There's no race of men in this world that complain about their women as much as the black men. In fact they complain about practically everything. 1) racism is the reason why they are still behind. Even years after it has been abolished and folks have tried to move on, they still use it as excuse to stay down. Not saying it doesn't exist but it is not an excuse to be lazy and ambition-less. The same black women have surpassed them in education yet they keep complaining. Now come to african scene. That one is something else  - be educated but not too educated. - if you earn more you will be proud and not submissive -if you earn less you're a liability -you want a sexless relationship until marriage. Nah. Who be mugu? -if you give in, you're trash and a hoe. -they like real women but go gaga over Nicki minaj's fake ass and Beyoncé fake hair. Makes you wonder what they even understand real to be. Since real girls don't even get a second glance from them in the first place. There's no pleasing them. |
Politics › Re: 80% Of My Advisers Are Useless – Jonathan In Last Minutes Lamentation by cococandy(f): 6:45am On Mar 30, 2015 |
[size=18pt] “From my experience as a deputy governor till today, more than 80 per cent (of advisers) have nothing to say, but you listen to everybody and do what is right for our people”[/size].Comprehension must be lacking in these areas.  OP stop being mischievous |
Family › Re: My Fiancee Never Willingly Visit My Mother ....pls Advice Me. by cococandy(f): 2:28am On Mar 30, 2015 |
OP not everybody is a people person. If your girl is like that, it may not be a problem except she disrespects your mom. Just let her know how important your mom is in your life. You can TRY and encourage her to positively try to develop a relationship with your mom as that will make you happy. Talk about it without sounding like you're nagging. If you nag her about it, she will withdraw some more. But don't force it. You can't force love. On the upside, some little space breeds more room for mystery and respect. Eliminating the laws of 'see finish'  . As long as there is respect between them, don't try to force them to become buddies. It will happen if it will happen. |
Politics › Re: Igbo Man Defeats Incumbent In Lagos For Reps by cococandy(f): 1:02am On Mar 30, 2015 |
GEJ's go to giving voice to the poeple since 2009  |
Family › Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by cococandy(f): 12:52am On Mar 30, 2015 |
loshybab: most 21st century women nw think washing clothes for their hubbies is an act f domestic slavery....wts ur take NLanders? wash your cloth. |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 9:53pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Cool Deep Wonderful Sunnypar: 7 REASONS WHY YOU ARE NOT GOING TO GET MARRIED 1) You have TRUST ISSUES, you claim you have been hurt before, and so it's difficult for you trusting someone else again. Well unless you go for Counselling, just like you believe, IT WILL ALWAYS BE DIFFICULT FOR YOU TRUSTING ANYONE, and sincerely speaking, without trust a Relationship or Marriage can NEVER survive. 2) You grew up in the midst of FAMILY SECRETS, and had to tell a lot of lies to cover up perceived shame. And now you have become a Pathological liar. Even you are amazed at how you can't say anything without telling a lie. You want to tell the Truth, but it is foreign to you. Without Truth, you can't build a lasting Relationship or Marriage. Someday, EVERY LIE you have told will come to light, and you will be found out to be a STRANGER, anyone and everyone should run away from. Why don't you seek Counselling. 3) People say you are Proud, but don't know that it's because you have a Complex. You have done a good job exhibiting a Superiority Complex to keep people from coming closer to you, because if they do, you don't believe they will truly like you as you are. Even you don't like yourself, and that attitude may be tough in a Relationship or Marriage, because it takes a person who loves and accepts himself to love and accept others. So with the help of an expert, run a Personal Check on yourself to have a very good understanding of your Personality, and how to make it work for you. 4) You are NEVER wrong. As far as you are concerned, you believe you are the Seat Of Wisdom. And so everybody knows you are ready to argue about anything and everything, because you just have to be right, while everybody else is wrong. The way you get Angry is also alarming. Haven't you noticed that people are always eager to stay away from you? Now that won't work in a Relationship or Marriage, because it's only those who prefer someone else to themselves and are ready to make the other person take the shine, that relationship and marriage works for. 5) You are Self-Serving and Selfish. You always do things for YOURSELF, and have no one else in mind. So you cheat because even though you are getting 80% of what you need from your friend, you take it for granted and go in Search of the 20% you think you are not getting, but need from someone else, and eventually lose the Diamond in your possession while going after Glitter. Marriage only looks good on those who put the other person first and into consideration, before they consider themselves. 6) There is a hole in your heart, and no matter how many people try to love you, you cannot receive love. You drink, smoke, and have sex with anything and anyone. Commitment is difficult for you. You are not even committed to yourself, not to talk of another Person. Unfortunately for you, Marriage requires TOTAL COMMITMENT or nothing else. Get Counselling, find out the root cause and deal with it. 7) You have No Relationship with God. Really? So why do you want to get married? Don't you know Marriage was instituted by God. YOU NEED A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IF YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED AND STAY MARRIED! But Jerome, I don't agree with you, I have some of these flaws and I am married today. Really? Do you think having a Wedding is the same thing as Getting Married? I know you had a big wedding, but ARE YOU MARRIED? Consultation with Jerome is not free. Whatsapp +2348037194335 SOUNDmind 2AFF30BF jerome@jeromeis talking.org 08053JEROME. |
Family › Re: I Need An E-mum by cococandy(f): 9:44pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
sleekyjay: ... you realy wana knw mah age? yes if you don't mind |
Politics › Re: INEC Insists Election Held In Rivers, Say Amaechi Erred To Ask For Result Sheet by cococandy(f): 9:09pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
That guy is a drama queen.
His unnecessary cantankerous attitude everytime always ends up ruining things for him and everyone. |
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 9:05pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
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Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 8:51pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
BoboYekini: I'll send you that PM  P.s. I'm waiting to see cococandy try that piece on then I'm out. which piece? |
Family › Re: I Need An E-mum by cococandy(f): 8:34pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
armyofone: So they have e-feeding bottle features now ?
. The all-rounder and pacifier mommy   |
Politics › Re: Buhari might not Win The Just Concluded Elections - Unbiased Analysis by cococandy(f): 8:32pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
All these analysts and analyzers, why not wait for INEC to announce the results?
That's how some people will incite violence because they have told themselves that they will win even before the elections are concluded. |
Politics › Re: Election 2015: Live Election Update - PUNCH by cococandy(f): 8:26pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Before 2011 elections which GEJ oversaw, the general population of Nigerians didn't even have a voice to ask why this or why that. Abeg. Whether you like admit it or not democracy has never been as real as this in Nigeria. What happened in ekiti has been happening in a much more worse way before GEJ with no one challenging it. Before GEJ who get mouth to question incumbent president how much aspire to over throw him when his tenure is not done.? Excuzeme: This is the greatest "misyarn" of the Century! 
Jonathan that enabled the worst abuse that ever took place (look at what is happening in Rivers State, Ekiti State, cross Rivers, e.t.c) .... in an election that would otherwise have been the freest in Nigeria's history......... Despite Jega's best efforts? 
Hmmmm....dis kind of post-election Amnesia odikwa risky o!  |
Politics › Re: Election 2015: Live Election Update - PUNCH by cococandy(f): 8:04pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
I so much commend GEJ's govt for accountability in elections.
Other leaders never gave the populace the leeway to voice their opinion or demand to have their rights. |
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 7:51pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Just purchased it via Amazon kindle. THe process Didn't even take a minute.  I'll tell you what I think when I'm done. EfemenaXY: Thanks dear. 
Yep, I published my debut novel last year. The e-version is available in over 10 retail outlets including Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Apple i-store, and a host of others...
I also have the paperback / hardcopy version of the book stocked in a couple of selected stores in London. The information is all on my website (www.mimizz.com)
Yep I did publish it. The title is Mysterious Depths: An African Adventure |
Romance › Re: Would You Allow Your Wife Or Girlfriend To Go Out With You This Way? by cococandy(f): 7:03pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
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Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 7:02pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Chillis: Tomorrow is my FIL birthday @ efemenaxy.
You share same with him Happy birthday dear. tell baba we wish him Hbd too. And don't forget our cake. |
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 7:01pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Thanks Chillis  Ooh really. Happy birthday efemenaxy. You're such an inspiration.  Remain blessed for a long time to come. |
Family › Re: I Need An E-mum by cococandy(f): 6:59pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
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Family › Re: I Need An E-mum by cococandy(f): 6:51pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
How old are you OP? And what kind of mom are you looking for? The one to clean you up, bath you and feed you?  #just kidding |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:35pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
cutiereborn: Yummy, is that pounded yam to go with the egusi? Yep  |
Family › Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be Dressing In Front Of Her Younger Brother? by cococandy(f): 6:34pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
It's not a big deal Oga. Half unclad means she even had some clothes on like a bra or underwear not like she was butt nekid (that would be gross) Most people can wear underwear in the presence of their siblings.
But now she knows you don't like it, I'm sure she will stop it. |
Family › Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by cococandy(f): 5:55pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Ok  iiichidodo: [color=#1980BC] You just don't get it, Do you? We are not here to debate -don't have time- and waste brain power for faceless folks to feast on, we just here to lay our points and move the 'f**k onto next topics.The last thing we need right now is to be subjected or slowed down to a verbal shakedown by some sleaze who knows nothing of minding his lane hence we went nuclear drilling his nerves,see?? Fyi, notice the amount of likes we got for that? shows some folks dig our style and to us, that feels so good far worth more than 'catlike' 'femine' classy fights.Or who won or lost..or who had points, like we give a damn for that matter. [/color] |
Pets › Re: Elephant Spends 11 Hours Trying To Pull Her Baby From A Muddy Well by cococandy(f): 5:09pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Mother's mother's love, can't a father do the same for his kid? Just asking.
Fathers over to you. |
Family › Re: Incredible! Read The Best Divorce Letter I Have Seen Exchanged By A Couple by cococandy(f): 5:02pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Recycled posts everywhere.
Abeg who won the election? |
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 4:58pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Yes. But for just six months for possessing an unregistered gun but he didn't go to prison for the main offense he was accused of because he got cleared. EfemenaXY: Lol! Thanks!
Happy Birthday to 'lil miss Eds 
@Cococandy: Yeah, it is funny! Did he eventually get into prison to demonstrate his prison survival skills?  |
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 4:55pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Coco, is this a Nollywood movie?
Lemme go see if the trailer's on Youtube...
brb... madam nollywood, no it is Hollywood |