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Family › Re: Why He Only Dates White Women by cococandy(f): 7:57am On Mar 30, 2015
thorpido:
The inhibition in black women obviously came from cultural practices and the environment but before you put the blame only on men,I want you to know women also have a hand in it.
Female genital mutilation is championed by women for instance.
I even blame the women more jare.
Family › Re: Is It A Must To Circumcise Your Baby Boy? by cococandy(f): 7:39am On Mar 30, 2015
Well I wouldn't do it with an uncircumcised dude
Or worse still give head. tongue

OP your guy is so cute. kiss
Do something extra really nice for him after this.
Politics › Re: INEC Insists Election Held In Rivers, Say Amaechi Erred To Ask For Result Sheet by cococandy(f): 7:28am On Mar 30, 2015
Lmao @colored tears grin
Colored indeed.
Rad1cal:
Lastpage na kolo dey worry you. why you dey flood here with yeye coloured tears angry



You never chi chumting



Bwahahahahahahahahahah !! cheesy cheesy cheesy
Politics › Re: INEC Insists Election Held In Rivers, Say Amaechi Erred To Ask For Result Sheet by cococandy(f): 7:25am On Mar 30, 2015
Honestly.
Even if GEJ doesn't win this election, he has done something no past president has ever done.
Give the electorate a voice.

Buhari will definitely stifle people's opinions.

I'd like someone as egalitarian and democratic as GEJ to succeed him.

Truckpusher:
Amaechi deserves a lengthy jail time where he would be sodomized every weekend ,but again the humble democrat Doctor Goodluck Ebelemi Jonathan who is not power drunk wouldn't do it .

I respect this Goodluck.

No sitting Nigerian President will let this Amaechi breath till now .

Goodluck is a true democrat.
Family › Re: Why He Only Dates White Women by cococandy(f): 7:21am On Mar 30, 2015
thorpido:
From comments I have heard from guys who have dated white girls,I think this is true.
Black women are a lot more inhibited in bed.Black women started dropping the inhibition in just the last two decades.
Maybe black women would be less inhibited in bed if they weren't raise to be ashamed of their sexuality.
-A culture where virginity is still a prize and character doesn't matter. Where will the woman learn to be uninhibited?
-Where you can't freely talk about sex without feeling dirty.
-Where being a good girl is inversely proportional to how much sexual activity you've had.
-Where slut shaming is more rife than ever and a woman is made to feel dirtier than the same man she did the same thing with.

Black men should keep dreaming o.
You guys can't eat your cakes and have it back. tongue

If inhibition is bred into your women, you have no rights to compare them negatively to white ladies when it suits you but demand conservatism when it suits you.

Mixed signals.

Now before someone gets me wrong, I'm not saying the pseudo conservatism that we try to enforce on our women makes them better than white ladies morally or chastity wise.
It just makes them more pretentious.
Family › Re: Why He Only Dates White Women by cococandy(f): 7:07am On Mar 30, 2015
babesife:
umm black women have issues? huh undecided let me think about that I am sure white guys feel the same way about white girls. If black men know how to threat black women it would have been different.
Actually white men don't talk trash about all white women. They know to refer the bad ones as bad and leave the good ones out of the generalization.

There's no race of men in this world that complain about their women as much as the black men.

In fact they complain about practically everything.
1) racism is the reason why they are still behind.
Even years after it has been abolished and folks have tried to move on, they still use it as excuse to stay down. Not saying it doesn't exist but it is not an excuse to be lazy and ambition-less. The same black women have surpassed them in education yet they keep complaining.

Now come to african scene. That one is something else grin
- be educated but not too educated.
- if you earn more you will be proud and not submissive -if you earn less you're a liability

-you want a sexless relationship until marriage. Nah. Who be mugu? -if you give in, you're trash and a hoe.

-they like real women but go gaga over Nicki minaj's fake ass and Beyoncé fake hair. Makes you wonder what they even understand real to be.
Since real girls don't even get a second glance from them in the first place.

There's no pleasing them.
Politics › Re: 80% Of My Advisers Are Useless – Jonathan In Last Minutes Lamentation by cococandy(f): 6:45am On Mar 30, 2015
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“From my experience as a deputy governor till today, more than 80 per cent (of advisers) have nothing to say, but you listen to everybody and do what is right for our people”[/size].




Comprehension must be lacking in these areas. undecided

OP stop being mischievous
Family › Re: My Fiancee Never Willingly Visit My Mother ....pls Advice Me. by cococandy(f): 2:28am On Mar 30, 2015
OP not everybody is a people person.
If your girl is like that, it may not be a problem except she disrespects your mom.

Just let her know how important your mom is in your life. You can TRY and encourage her to positively try to develop a relationship with your mom as that will make you happy.
Talk about it without sounding like you're nagging.
If you nag her about it, she will withdraw some more.

But don't force it. You can't force love.

On the upside, some little space breeds more room for mystery and respect.
Eliminating the laws of 'see finish' grin.

As long as there is respect between them, don't try to force them to become buddies.
It will happen if it will happen.
Politics › Re: Igbo Man Defeats Incumbent In Lagos For Reps by cococandy(f): 1:02am On Mar 30, 2015
GEJ's go to giving voice to the poeple since 2009 kiss
Family › Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by cococandy(f): 12:52am On Mar 30, 2015
loshybab:
most 21st century women nw think washing clothes for their hubbies is an act f domestic slavery....wts ur take NLanders?
wash your cloth.
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 9:53pm On Mar 29, 2015
Cool
Deep
Wonderful
Sunnypar:
7 REASONS WHY YOU ARE NOT
GOING TO GET MARRIED
1) You have TRUST ISSUES, you
claim you have been hurt before,
and so it's difficult for you
trusting someone else again.
Well unless you go for
Counselling, just like you believe,
IT WILL ALWAYS BE DIFFICULT
FOR YOU TRUSTING ANYONE, and
sincerely speaking, without trust
a Relationship or Marriage can
NEVER survive.
2) You grew up in the midst of
FAMILY SECRETS, and had to tell a
lot of lies to cover up perceived
shame. And now you have
become a Pathological liar. Even
you are amazed at how you
can't say anything without
telling a lie. You want to tell the
Truth, but it is foreign to you.
Without Truth, you can't build a
lasting Relationship or Marriage.
Someday, EVERY LIE you have
told will come to light, and you
will be found out to be a
STRANGER, anyone and everyone
should run away from. Why
don't you seek Counselling.
3) People say you are Proud, but
don't know that it's because you
have a Complex. You have done
a good job exhibiting a
Superiority Complex to keep
people from coming closer to
you, because if they do, you
don't believe they will truly like
you as you are. Even you don't
like yourself, and that attitude
may be tough in a Relationship
or Marriage, because it takes a
person who loves and accepts
himself to love and accept
others. So with the help of an
expert, run a Personal Check on
yourself to have a very good
understanding of your
Personality, and how to make it
work for you.
4) You are NEVER wrong. As far
as you are concerned, you
believe you are the Seat Of
Wisdom. And so everybody
knows you are ready to argue
about anything and everything,
because you just have to be
right, while everybody else is
wrong. The way you get Angry is
also alarming. Haven't you
noticed that people are always
eager to stay away from you?
Now that won't work in a
Relationship or Marriage,
because it's only those who
prefer someone else to
themselves and are ready to
make the other person take the
shine, that relationship and
marriage works for.
5) You are Self-Serving and
Selfish. You always do things for
YOURSELF, and have no one else
in mind. So you cheat because
even though you are getting
80% of what you need from
your friend, you take it for
granted and go in Search of the
20% you think you are not
getting, but need from someone
else, and eventually lose the
Diamond in your possession
while going after Glitter.
Marriage only looks good on
those who put the other person
first and into consideration,
before they consider themselves.
6) There is a hole in your heart,
and no matter how many people
try to love you, you cannot
receive love. You drink, smoke,
and have sex with anything and
anyone. Commitment is difficult
for you. You are not even
committed to yourself, not to
talk of another Person.
Unfortunately for you, Marriage
requires TOTAL COMMITMENT or
nothing else. Get Counselling,
find out the root cause and deal
with it.
7) You have No Relationship
with God. Really? So why do you
want to get married? Don't you
know Marriage was instituted by
God. YOU NEED A RELATIONSHIP
WITH GOD IF YOU WANT TO GET
MARRIED AND STAY MARRIED!
But Jerome, I don't agree with
you, I have some of these flaws
and I am married today.
Really? Do you think having a
Wedding is the same thing as
Getting Married? I know you had
a big wedding, but ARE YOU
MARRIED?
Consultation with Jerome is not
free.
Whatsapp +2348037194335
SOUNDmind 2AFF30BF
jerome@jeromeis talking.org
08053JEROME.
Family › Re: I Need An E-mum by cococandy(f): 9:44pm On Mar 29, 2015
sleekyjay:
... you realy wana knw mah age?
yes if you don't mind
Politics › Re: INEC Insists Election Held In Rivers, Say Amaechi Erred To Ask For Result Sheet by cococandy(f): 9:09pm On Mar 29, 2015
That guy is a drama queen.

His unnecessary cantankerous attitude everytime always ends up ruining things for him and everyone.
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 9:05pm On Mar 29, 2015
BoboYekini:
I thought you bought lingerie but I see now it was Efe's book ok honey :* I understand perfectly wink
Check your mail! cheesy
perv grin
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 8:51pm On Mar 29, 2015
BoboYekini:
I'll send you that PM wink
P.s.
I'm waiting to see cococandy try that piece on then I'm out.
which piece?
Family › Re: I Need An E-mum by cococandy(f): 8:34pm On Mar 29, 2015
armyofone:
So they have e-feeding bottle features now ?

grin. The all-rounder and pacifier mommy grin
cheesy
Politics › Re: Buhari might not Win The Just Concluded Elections - Unbiased Analysis by cococandy(f): 8:32pm On Mar 29, 2015
All these analysts and analyzers, why not wait for INEC to announce the results?

That's how some people will incite violence because they have told themselves that they will win even before the elections are concluded.
Politics › Re: Election 2015: Live Election Update - PUNCH by cococandy(f): 8:26pm On Mar 29, 2015
Before 2011 elections which GEJ oversaw, the general population of Nigerians didn't even have a voice to ask why this or why that.

Abeg. Whether you like admit it or not democracy has never been as real as this in Nigeria.
What happened in ekiti has been happening in a much more worse way before GEJ with no one challenging it.


Before GEJ who get mouth to question incumbent president how much aspire to over throw him when his tenure is not done.?



Excuzeme:
This is the greatest "misyarn" of the Century! grin grin

Jonathan that enabled the worst abuse that ever took place (look at what is happening in Rivers State, Ekiti State, cross Rivers, e.t.c) .... in an election that would otherwise have been the freest in Nigeria's history......... Despite Jega's best efforts? huh huh huh

Hmmmm....dis kind of post-election Amnesia odikwa risky o! undecided
Politics › Re: Election 2015: Live Election Update - PUNCH by cococandy(f): 8:04pm On Mar 29, 2015
I so much commend GEJ's govt for accountability in elections.

Other leaders never gave the populace the leeway to voice their opinion or demand to have their rights.
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 7:51pm On Mar 29, 2015
Just purchased it via Amazon kindle.
THe process Didn't even take a minute. wink
I'll tell you what I think when I'm done.

EfemenaXY:
Thanks dear. smiley smiley

Yep, I published my debut novel last year. The e-version is available in over 10 retail outlets including Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Apple i-store, and a host of others...

I also have the paperback / hardcopy version of the book stocked in a couple of selected stores in London. The information is all on my website (www.mimizz.com)



Yep I did publish it. The title is Mysterious Depths: An African Adventure
Romance › Re: Would You Allow Your Wife Or Girlfriend To Go Out With You This Way? by cococandy(f): 7:03pm On Mar 29, 2015
grin
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 7:02pm On Mar 29, 2015
Chillis:
Tomorrow is my FIL birthday @ efemenaxy.

You share same with him
Happy birthday dear.
tell baba we wish him Hbd too.

And don't forget our cake.
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 7:01pm On Mar 29, 2015
EfemenaXY:
Thanks Chillis smiley smiley
Ooh really.

Happy birthday efemenaxy.

You're such an inspiration. kiss
Remain blessed for a long time to come.
Family › Re: I Need An E-mum by cococandy(f): 6:59pm On Mar 29, 2015
edwife:
coco i think this your chance to practice being a mum... grin

@op i think i have found you one here cheesy
grin

These nairalanders ehn.
Family › Re: I Need An E-mum by cococandy(f): 6:51pm On Mar 29, 2015
How old are you OP?
And what kind of mom are you looking for?

The one to clean you up, bath you and feed you? grin #just kidding
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:35pm On Mar 29, 2015
cutiereborn:
Yummy, is that pounded yam to go with the egusi?
Yep wink
Family › Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be Dressing In Front Of Her Younger Brother? by cococandy(f): 6:34pm On Mar 29, 2015
It's not a big deal Oga.
Half unclad means she even had some clothes on like a bra or underwear not like she was butt nekid (that would be gross)
Most people can wear underwear in the presence of their siblings.

But now she knows you don't like it, I'm sure she will stop it.
Family › Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by cococandy(f): 5:55pm On Mar 29, 2015
Ok lipsrsealed
iiichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] You just don't get it, Do you? We are not here to debate -don't have time- and waste brain power for faceless folks to feast on, we just here to lay our points and move the 'f**k onto next topics.The last thing we need right now is to be subjected or slowed down to a verbal shakedown by some sleaze who knows nothing of minding his lane hence we went nuclear drilling his nerves,see?? Fyi, notice the amount of likes we got for that? shows some folks dig our style and to us, that feels so good far worth more than 'catlike' 'femine' classy fights.Or who won or lost..or who had points, like we give a damn for that matter. [/color]
Pets › Re: Elephant Spends 11 Hours Trying To Pull Her Baby From A Muddy Well by cococandy(f): 5:09pm On Mar 29, 2015
Mother's mother's love, can't a father do the same for his kid?
Just asking.

Fathers over to you.
Family › Re: Incredible! Read The Best Divorce Letter I Have Seen Exchanged By A Couple by cococandy(f): 5:02pm On Mar 29, 2015
Recycled posts everywhere.

Abeg who won the election?
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 4:58pm On Mar 29, 2015
Yes.
But for just six months for possessing an unregistered gun but he didn't go to prison for the main offense he was accused of because he got cleared.

EfemenaXY:
Lol! Thanks!

Happy Birthday to 'lil miss Eds smiley smiley

@Cococandy: Yeah, it is funny! Did he eventually get into prison to demonstrate his prison survival skills? cool
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 4:55pm On Mar 29, 2015
EfemenaXY:
Coco, is this a Nollywood movie?

Lemme go see if the trailer's on Youtube...

brb...
madam nollywood, no it is Hollywood

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