₦airaland Forum

mathdiva:
Hi all,
I am going to share my story and see if something comes out of it. I am 30 years and work in an oil company, am also a very devout Catholic and I want to marry a catholic. But it’s been horror stories with all my catholic bfs. I met one in my office and after dating for 3 months he just calls me up and says he thinks we are rushing things blah blah and we should give it time this happened after sex which I initiated and I had just returned from trip abroad where I know I really splurged on buying him stuff (just saying this in case it helps).My last guy apparently wasn’t my guy the way I thought, after 4 months of seeing some behaviours, I asked him one day to say what I was to him, and he told me that he saw me as a very dear friend. After that I stopped calling and he stopped too, except for when he comes to phc and calls me to come see him in his hotel. (I don’t go)
I think I have been equating sex with commitment and most times its just sex to the guy. My girlfriend says I love too much from the beginning and that scares guys off or makes them think am desperate. She also said buying expensive stuff or surprise gifts for guys as a rich babe gives them the impression you are trying to buy their love, meanwhile if it was a student of a lower income earning babe they would see it as a sacrifice on her part or proof of love.
There was this guy who came talking marriage and we communicated for 6months. He had some projects running with lekki gardens and he wanted me to support it. I told him I was ready to do that but that would be after the white wedding, he was hinting at introduction then, after preaching to me a sermon on trust and submission, he told me that this was a test to see if I was one of those women who want to control a man. Apparently I filed because he is marrying someone else (a recent corper by the way), when I called him to congratulate. He said he didn’t want a situation where his position as the man was undermined. I was depressed for 2 days, I went to school, studied so hard to come out with a good grade, got a good job and now its like I have to keep proving myself. I have considered adopting, at least let me hold one child….its just my dad who keeps frowning when I mention it.
Am happy right now…but since I live in Nigeria where people do not believe you can be happy while single , I always have to defend or argue or plain insult.

jnrbayano:
Mmadu a gbalu m nwunye m ose n'anya si m sorry na o mistake ka omee.

jnrbayano:
Dear,

I'm well within my rights to act/react to safeguard my wife-to-be if I perceive she will be exposed to danger of any sort at anytime and/or in anywhere.

That's not deciding for her, that's responsibility unto her.

jnrbayano:
I agree with just the bold only





Anything the fiance decides is okay?

Doesn't he have duty over her?

Should she decide to rub powder looking like willy-willy, no problem?



Ejiro ife eji agba na nti agba n'anya.

Jenams:
the word ''fear'' is a wrong choice of word from the general. cos if jona was scared, he will never allow a free n fare election. someone shud tell dis old general to watch his mouth oh. hmmmmmmm

IamOpemipo:
U jus made ma nite/mornin/new month starin @ ya fine face..hop it comes wt lots of luck.

IamOpemipo:
Bad belle

icebeatz:
First off, your post doesnt make alot of sense. Buhari's meaning of dogs and baboons were the hundreds of people that were murdered after he lost the 2011 election.... he didnt mean actual dogs and baboons. He fanned the embers of hate and violence in the north.

Now, apc has spent millions of dollars in rebranding his image and all of a sudden he is a saint.
During my time, serving in the north was a thing of joy.
Now, serving in the north is a nightmare that nobody wants.

Alot of people seem to have forgotten.
When the insurgency started, the northerners called it a regional issue and didnt want military intervention. When they failed to get their act together despite the long rope given to them, a state of emergency was declared.
Jonathan could have handled the issue better though.
Personally, I feel the evils perpetrated by previous northen leaders only came back to visit them.

Lastly, I am glad buhari won this election. I am glad jonathan let proper process take its due course.
Dont forget obj fought for 3rd term.
Dont forget ibb annulled 1993 election
Dont forget abacha was planning to make himself life president.

We have had a history of despotic leaders, Gej has ushered in a new era and we should give him credit for that.

edwife:
I tell you,honest truth he is so much like my dad.It's a pity but what can we do?

edwife:
I just love this man,what a collected and honorable one.

oyb:
abeg stop all this revisionism

using all the nations security apparatus to harass opposition? stealing election in ekiti? wasting precious forex to buy over voters in the southwest?

Expsbterror:
[size=18pt]#i_respect_GEJ; he allowed the change to come.he made good use of incumbency.

#i_respect_GEJ; he has proven election ain't a do or die affair

#i_respect_GEJ; he has redefined democracy for Nigerians.

#i_respect_GEJ: HE WAS THE CHANGE NIGERIANS WERE TOO BUSY TO C.[/size]

Cityguy:
Exactly. We thank God they have the 'fowa' now, we'll see how it impacts on us differently. We clamoured for change- we have it now. We pray it's positive. The best news is that no one needs being afraid of slaughter goons that would have been on the loose had the result been against APC's expectation.

ocholawealth:
I want to use this opportunity to congratulate Nigerians and to my wonderful nairalanders, I love u all. Cococandy, u are a gift to human kind.

Nonybb:
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The problem I have with the opposition is not about the congregations of APC. Absolutely not the point. Opposition is good for democracy but when it comes to the gathering of rebels, anarchists, rapists, peadophiles, pyschos, Godfathers, Born-To-Rule mentalists, power drunks, serial defectors and political prostitutes I have to scrutinize and put into subjections the motive beside such organization.



I kept saying this, no Buharists was excited more than I do when CPC merged with ACN. Infact I still remember the date it was registered by INEC, which is 31/08/2013. I use to comment on Nairaland, Sahara Reporters, LIB, Facebook etc and would applaud them as our future. Everything wrong with Nigeria at that time was blamed on President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan. He was the first citizen but was assumed as Nigeria's greatest enemy. I fall for that and I past my judgment on him.



The day I started looking at the other side of the cheek was the moment I realize how I was conned and decieved. APC is such a smart occultic organization, it is far from being a political party. Remove three men from APC and the party is death. If APC were shakened like PDP it could have gone into extinction. Why wouldnt APC give us a leader without blood in his hands? Why a worn out granny full of terminal ideas. Why a coupist that abolished democracy. Why a serial loser. Why a retired and tired octogenarian with a football age. Why a certificateless ex-dictatorial despot? No political party can succeed without an internal democracy within it operation, not especially when it gets that power it bloodly needed.



APC have shown to us it true colour by electing an Old timer as it flag bearer, thereby denying the most healthy ones the opportunity. Why did APC lose such aspirants like Kwankwanso, Rochas or even Atiku in a primary election and choose Buhari. The reason I gave is that APC have been hijacked by Tinubu. Tinubu is holding Nigeria in the palm of it hands. Nigeria is about to be hijacked and plundered by the devouring Lion of Bourdillion. Their Presidential Primary Election in Lagos was an orchestrated charade which had designed the candidacy of Buhari to be the outcome. I want to know why APC choose amongst the other well qualified candidates with their certificates intact for Buhari. The mantra they gave is that he will fight corruption. Corruption That is when I received another lie. Who is Thieftnubu? I rest my case[/b]

edwife:
It has nothing to do with whatever change they are shouting here and there but tribalism,let just say it clearly.How was the country with Obasanjo?

edwife:
You know i pity nigerians already,especially those at home....they go hear am eh when they finally show their colors...

It is our people i pity most,kai! We have to be ready for the long trip we are about to take because it gonna be interesting...
(they should ask congo and libya)

BlackGirlsCode:
Wake up, this is not 2003.

Obasanjo was not on the polls.

Where were you when Obasanjo supported GEJ in 2011?

He was "baba da baba" back then right? Now it's just "girl please, Obasanjo?".

Is Tinubu on the ballot?

I'd be more worried about Stella Oduah and Gov Orji's new positions. Those are your "honest" people, no?

What you don't understand is that we've given GEJ A CHANCE AND HE FAILED. Now we're giving Buhari a chance. If he fails, we'll be waiting for him in 2019.

Power to the People (SW/N/MB).

I say go chop your raw noodles.


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BlackGirlsCode:
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Go chop raw macaroni and noodles.

We know you no get light for house......thanks to 16 years of PDP bondage.