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BlackGirlsCode:
Omo lo jeun (go chop)

None of the above makes sense. They're based on speculations caused by fear.


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BlackGirlsCode:
how is my telling you to get your sense in order an insult?
Is your sense in order?
If you reply with "yes", then you don't understand what "sense" entails.

Voting against Buhari based on fear (cowardice), ethnicity (tribalism) and religion (religious intolerance) is not "honesty".

You see why I think you're not smart enough? In 2011, Buhari condemned the violence in the North.
The same violence PDP had tempered and nurtured for 16 years.
If the North could overcome the fear of Boko haram to come out and vote in mass on March 29th, then they're tired of PDP!

Funny how the educated SS/SE rigged the election in Rivers and Enugu, but still failed.
What's even more funny is that with all sources of information available to you, you still failed to stay informed.




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BlackGirlsCode:
Which hooligans killing who?

You meant the PDP hooligans that attacked APC supporters in Ekiti a few days ago?

Madam, have you had breakfast?

Go and eat. Trust me, when you get back to reply me, you'll have your sense in order.

So it's 16years of incompetent PDP rule that's good for Nigeria?

Since you guys in the SS/SE are politically naive and backwards, you can just sit down, shut up and let SW/N/MB govern you.

BlackGirlsCode:
It was condemmed by who?

Madam, stop playing rogue.

Why don't you busy yourself with condemming the wrongful imprisonment of APC supporters in Imo state by soldiers who "thought" they looked "underaged"? Why were they released AFTER voting had taken place?

BlackGirlsCode:
I'm just wondering why you GEJ supporters "conveniently" ignored it in 2011.

If it happened in 2015, not saying it's impossible, where are the 2015 pictures?

BlackGirlsCode:
2011 images?

Same 2011 election that favored GEJ?

Madam, pack well.

If not because I like you small, I for talk my mind wella

aare07:
No matter the manipulation from the SS & SE, Don't be dismayed. More results are coming from the North. Even the bible says; "Fear Not"
Sai Buhari

internetpirate:
Learn to take corrections! Constructive criticisms help develop intelligent people.

internetpirate:
Again, this is the prelude to the traditional gang-up I highlighted! You innocently correct someone, then a host of "I must bring you down too" individuals swarm upon you like bees!!

I have often wondered about this phenomenon, and my conclusion is that people feel insecure about it. It's just like the issue of crying at someone's demise; statistics shows that most people cry (when they are not related or close to the dead person) because of fear of their own death! The death reminds them of a certainty of their own death, and it brings unprecedented sorrow!!

I understand Miss C...give me more!

internetpirate:
You still don't get it, do you? Read through the definitions of "seek" I presented and find the one that is most apt for the context I stated. No tautology implied by this context! I won't insult you, but you truly need to get things in perspective before commenting. Thanks.

olola4:
I never tell u she is my GF,she is my wife I can't live her like that.

internetpirate:
My guy, you're particularly dull! And so? What's wrong with "search for" excellence? To seek has several connotations which include "attempt to find something", "To try to locate or discover", "To endeavour to obtain or reach" etc. In this context, I meant that we should try to endeavour to obtain excellence!

The meaning of a word depends on the context in which it is used, mister. Stop highlighting your poor schooling. I actually thought you had something intelligent to say, and I was willing to learn, insult or not!

This is exactly what I was trying to highlight; instead of supporting my point to create a better society, you were rather searching for a weakness in my rendition to scratch your deep inferiority complex.

nortcentrallord:
Thats how you know a people that can't stand criticism too. Am watching how their government 'll be like. I guess it's back to the days of the "Borgias"

phabulux:
See who dey correct person ... 'Let's seek for'

geekybabe:
Mehn.. there are some real strong women in this place. God bless you a million times for helping people out here. Been following this thread from page 1, and been trying to convince myself that i need not ask my own questions. Cant hold it anymore, lol.

Well, the ish is this. I have been seeing a guy for about 9 months to be precise. I like him a lot, hes caring, very homy and loving. He loves God and regards me too. The biggest problem is that he is not so ambitious. and hes not bothered. I am a very ambitious lady.. all my friends know how much i hold my career in my hands and how far i am willing to go to pursue my dreams. I have done a some professional exams, attended a lot of career events, and i have a laid out career plan that i have been following for the past 4 years. I get thrilled and excited when i see guys who do not see it as a threat that a woman is being ambitious. Infact i can say one thing that my ex did for me well was that he always kept pushing me and motivating me to do more career wise. Maybe because we are both IT people.

The new bf, has not worked for over 5years. along the line he started msc and just finished. I dont have a problem with that. What i have a problem with is the fact that he is not even trying to do somthing extra alongside. hes 30. he still lives in his parents place, and depends on them. he even uses their phones to call me. I dont like this one bit, but he keeps saying that thats the only way he can keep in touch as he doesnt have much and i should try and understand. I have suggested a lot for him that he can do to be getting some money but he keeps insisting that Its only a lecturing job that he can do and that he believes his miracle job is coming.

I dont want to seem pushy, i mean hes even 6 years older than me, so he should understand life more. hes the last born, maybe thats why hes not as bothered about life and ambition like a first child like myself.
I told him before we started dating that i was going for my MSC abroad, and he was even happy, and started helping me make moves. 4 months after, he started acting funny by telling me that i should consider our new love before going abroad. He insisted that i take an msc form here in nigeria and i did, i paid with my money. Unfortunately, the uni i applied for didnt give me admission. he came back saying i should try private uni, and i told him no. I never even planned for msc here, and my parents even want me to go abroad. and that i only gave one shot at a nigerian uni and i am not trying for another. he said he doesnt want to lose me but i told him i cant alter my lifes dreams because of him. he said i am not willing to make sacrifices and i told him, the best time to make sacrifices is now when i am still a single woman and i still have time for myself.
The story is more complicated now. I have met his parents. he has met mine.all his siblings and friends know me. Thats one thing he did from day 1 to make me feel love and accepted, maybe cos he knew how badly my ex did in that path.
I mean, we are Christians, but then we should not settle for mediocrity and complacency because we have faith. I dont even need him to be rich, I just need him to show passion, and start doing things rather than talk about them. I have talked about it, and he keeps thinking there is some other guy. he keeps begging me not to leave him, that things will get better. Hes highly possesive too. if he calls and i dont pick, he gets angry. the time i finally pick he keeps shouting on phone that i make him feel like he has no stake in my life..

I am getting really confused. i mean, I keep seeing guys not even as old as him doing excellently well by themselves. And i know i definitely dont want a man i cant look up to, trust and respect as my future partner. I want a go getter for a man. Someone who wont sleep or be at ease till he has achieved a level of excellence. Someone i can trust to go out in the rainy days to look for shelter for the family. My friends have been telling me to chill, and keep praying. I have, But then i keep having great guys coming around now, do i keep ignoring them? I just dont wanna look back at my life and think things should have been better if i had done things differently.

Please i need all the counsel i can get. Thanks

Dreamsinbc:
Na wa o. Diariz God o!

BoboYekini:
Very

ABEngine:
In your case, please do lead by example. If she sees what rapport you do have with her parents maybe she would be wise enough to learn and reciprocate.

Rainess:
Such a good point. You're awesome.

babesife:
I never knew beyoncé hair was fake since she is mix. Not all women are good and not all women are bad guys that says black women are this and that they just haven't met the good ones.