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Chillis:
You still bothered about likes. When they said 21milion ppl are lunatic you think it's a joke.

Don't bother your head ojare.

It is worth bothering about sha.

Innocent people are going to end up with such people who think it is ok to hit others.

The effect of years of psychological rape and mind conditioning.
It is not about preference.

Like some one said, the most disturbing is the number of likes such posts get.
And seeming normal people giving such posts high fives.

So many twisted people parading as normal.

Chillis:
All those Broccoli, baked beans, carrot.., yaourt, eggs. Where do you dispose of the smells

Something inside me converts it to vanilla flavor

ggrin:
easy bro
11 views
99 shares like wtf!

That's the technique APC people use to like and share their own posts

Chillis:


Edwife
EfemenaXY
Cococandy
Moca.

Oya give daily report

I don't fart.

But when I do it smells like vanilla.

Moca.

How are you doing?

Ewuro4:
How's this funny Did you create that thread?

where did you get all this idea from.

Someone pretended to be her creating a thread to lament the death of her husband and kid.

The mindset of the person is not hidden obviously.

I don't understand the sick joke.

There's no na wa for me in this matter.
I've been here a while and I see folks wishing others ill over disagreement or just plain dislike.
Why did the MODs lock the thread?

Na wa for them.

babyosisi:
Where is the thread
They have all arisen from death

Deleted I guess by mods.

So someone actually wishes you'd lose your husband and kid.
Over difference of opinion?
It is funny and not.

Some people would murder fellow nairalanders if they knew where they lived.

I believe you can marry anyone you love regardless of degree or not.
As long as they not lazy and unproductive.

positivec:
Good evening to you all. Am so glad to have stumbled on this topic. It has really changed my perception about things. Thanks to our big Aunties, Babyosisi, Moca , Chaircover, Eme........and those I forgot to mention. To all those that have made an impact , May God reward you all.
After reading the last story from Renaj. I want to ask , is it bad as a graduate to date or marry someone that has no degree in this era. Am currently dating a guy ,that couldn't finish school due to financial constraints. He will be 30 plus this year but working. His an IT personnel duo he has one certification. I still feel that he needs more to be accomplished.
Babyosisi, I don't know how to send you an e-mail . please help me out. Thanks

bukatyne:
I doubt most guys on NL follow What they say

Maybe they do. I don't want to believe folks who see men that respect women as wussies abi pansies (what's the favorite word again) will do otherwise in real life.

Wouldn't that be strange?

njokusboy:

Repent

Most of the girls deserving upper cuts with you as the common denominator means you're the one with temper problems.

Every human being can't be at fault with you being the right one all the time.

Besides people annoy others each day. It Is normal.
Don't your fellow men annoy you sometimes?
You don't think of beating them because you see than as a match for you.

I'm quite sure you annoy some folks around you too. Imagine if every one of them thinks you deserve to be beaten for it just because they are stronger than you.

Erm

I so love nose rings on other women. Always have. The tiny ones though. So I figure why not try it?

I know folks attach too much symbolism to stuff like that.

Ankle chains
Waistbeads
Whatever babes.

I love all those things and hubby is cool with whatever I want to do with my body so nothing stopping me now.

It was my mom that used to get in the way. She would say it makes one resemble mammy water and ungodly.

But now guess who's not a mommy's girl anymore? Ces't moi!

Maybe I'll even color my hair a soft honey blonde when I cut it.

Onegai:
Oya lets turn this woman-bashing-as-usual thread into something sensible. Everyborri bring your own discussion to dinner. I'll start:

@cococandy don't pierce your nose unless there's a jolly good reason for it. I had an additional ear piercing (with a good reason) but it scared the living daylights out of all my christian-naija aunties and roommates, so I took it off.
But where you place jewelry on your body matters. In Bini culture, only slaves wore upper arm bands. So our parents never let us wear them. Cutting your hair is seen as some as a shaming ritual (colonisation encouraged it in females, said it made them look "clean" ).

Anyhoo how do I convince le hubby to let me display my antique Brass statues? He says my love of antique Nigerian art is too close to loving Juju.

njokusboy:
Lolzzz, I have like 3 sisters, I havnt hit any yet...
And yes, most of the girls I have dated have earned an upper cut at one point or the other..
I just cool off somewhere with a bottle of orijin. that they deserve it, doesn't mean, I give it..

Nd please, I don't need ur kind of prophecies.. ur definition of healing hovers around turning me to a zombie.. I no want

Mtchew

njokusboy:
or even give her the upper cut she occasionally deserves...

You don't even know who he will meet in future but you're sure whoever she is will occasionally deserve to be hit.


I prophesy healing into your life.

May all the violence leave your heart henceforth.

tobechi74:
your kids will get married before me

Hehehe.

Well then make sure you garner loads of money because by then you will be so old that no lady in her right mind will marry your old assss except for money.

5minsmadness:
Grabs mic
Testing testing, 1...2...3...icccee wateeeeerrrr!

***in Ron kenolly's voice***
I have so much been blinded by hate%oh Lord % Forgive meee...

lol

Wow

fitzk:
THIS IS HOW IT ALL STARTED...

I work with a company which i joined in 2009 athough its a one man business company. I was doing great with my work. As a way of planning for exit I started a business related to what the company is into (probably, mistake number 1) though, i was faithful at work. In all the contracts I got, I was using proxies to execute the projects. In February 2013, I got the biggest one which was about N8m and I was paid mobilization for it. The proxy I used has been doing it for me for almost three years before then. His name is Ikechukwu Prince Edeh from Enugu State. Since I was a bit under pressure at work, and felt i have built trust enough with IK, I gave him money for the execution of the project to meet deadline set by the client without proper documentation and due diligence(mistake number 2). I met him in 2010 when I was procuring some items in Zone 3 market and he came across as an honest person i could trust. He has been on errand for me to Lagos, Onitsha, Aba just to mention few places. He has done jobs that client called me to thank me too...so I wasn't thinking of anything sinister from him(mistake number 3).

To cut the story short...IK made away with sum of N4.7m. The contract was not performed. I was traced to my office when i couldn't deliver on the job by the client company. I was arrested and the case went to court (the MD of the company is really connected cos the case went to court the second day I was arrested). While the case was on I was relieved of my job citing disloyalty by the servant to the principal.

Thankfully, I found way of paying back to the client company though it was difficult and case was settled out of court. I started using my remaining car for cab within town.

HOW THE ACCIDENT HAPPENED.
There was always constant assaults from VIO,FRSC and notoriously, the agbero. I was at Wuse market when the agberos started chasing me (mistake number 4. Though I registered with Area 1 union...I once tendered my union registration at Jabi yet lost all the money I made that day. I was afraid losing all my money again...) I escaped towards Sheraton heading to Central mosque to connect with Cedi plaza unfortunately I ran into a car that slowed down for the speed breaker around mosque area. The car belongs to one high profile person. I was taken to the police station inside the mosque. I had to plead...and i was asked to buy the rear light that got damaged and some amount for body work. I ended up paying 50k ( paying more than i should have if i had waited for those agbero guys to get me). Since then my car has been with the mechanic...that was March 2014.

My WIFE'S HEALTH

Though she has been diagnosed to have some infections in her organs. I guess her health deteriorated due to the whole situations she never thought we could go through. Thank God for the help we got so far from fellow Nairalanders. Her medications and diet are working wonder and there are noticeable improvement

While using the car for cab...i was making average of 4k daily after buying fuel and I did it over 5 months before the accident.

IKECHUKWU PRINCE EDEH

I was told he was owing money for shop and had moved from the shop around the time I gave the money to him for the work. I went to where he was living behind Aso Saving, Mararaba Sharp corner...I was told he had moved from the place too and no one knows where he is or willing to help out. His two number were not available anymore.

I hope this is succinct enough. Thank you all for your support so far. I am grateful.

PS
My Bank Account Details below as requested

KEHINDE OLUSOLA
DIAMOND BANK
0021555995

5minsmadness:
Same with the females in this forum. A lot of angst and unnecessary poison against the male gender.


There should be some sort of forgiveness/healing session or something.

TV01 can moderate it

Why don't you start the praise and worship session before the minister comes.

stages:
Wow wow. After reading all these posts on husbands not helping out in house chores I think I will start appreciating the little hubby does. He dey try sha. But I can tell u guys there are times I feel like running away. Its not easy being a banker, a mother 3 under 5 years and a student. Women are strong. To think I was that fragile one our home while growing up. When my sisters visit eh they are sooo surprised at how I handle my home , work and skool.

How are you doing banking and schooling?
Online school?

Inkyillusion:
he never had much respect for his marriage in the first place. I hope he doesn't suffer unjustly though.

yea

What kind of horse poo is this?

Cool

ahizih:
Am just steering at the last condolence, so she gave her life to Christ and had the mind to sleep with another woman's husband,so funny. Anyway it has been said that no dead person has a bad reputation,dead people have always been described as good people by their loved ones,even Abacha and Gadaffi were also good when they were alive,smh!

facebook love. She may not know he was married. Possible

Wow I hope they will be able to prove him innocent if he has nothing to do with her death.
At least let him concentrate on the loss of his marriage and the death of his girlfriend.

This one na triple loss. Too bad for him

sampete:
can't post them here...these girls get thier lives to live nau! The fact dat I got hold of thier nude pics and videos does not mean I've the right to upload them online

What are you doing with the video?
Why did you even send it to your phone without her permission?

Perv

I don't understand.

He tore her clothes off her body and then she cut him?
Means they were fighting when it happened and he attacked first:

When you tell people to walk away from violence they don't listen. As if provocation is enough reason to go over the board in reaction.

If she had used the time she used to go find the blade to walk away, she wouldn't be where she is now. Answering murderer.

Make she face the music na.

mjfcb:
Am very sorry if d pics hurt you man. I never wanted to upload d pics at first but wen u read the first page very well, someone requested for it. Am not mocking this late friend of mine. But just to pass out information with a well sophisticated proof. Press men where at d scene of d conflict, and am very sure that b4 dis week runs out, he will surely makes d front page of some newspaper. This is a man who had twice saw her wife cheating on her but he forgave her. They both had issues as at late last year that even made the family of d wife to packed her wife loads and d children from dis late man for more than 2month b4 he(d late man) went bak to the wife family to settled d issue middle of january. The reason was that, he wasn't financial capable enough to meet up with the family needs. Though d issue was settled properly based that, d boss of d man will be giving the wife half of d man salary which was to be 10,000 every month ending to buy foods and maybe some other few thins needed by the children but this so called wicked lady always divert the money to buying of clothes. Though d late man never fought her for that but what actually ended d man's life was that, he asked d wife to served him his dinner meal but d wife voiced out that there wasn't food in d house, d man replied her back what did he used d last 10k given to her by her boss to buy just within 6days back. Then she started insulting him,
then wit annoyance, he torn her clothes but what the lady did bak was to get a sharp blade to mount dos cuts on him. NB: this actually happened around 11:43pm when there was no light but if there was light, He could have sighted the new blade on her wife hand. The late man family had decided not too involved themselves in there late brother murder case in the police station. An unknown reason to me.

When he posted his topic I did.


Now she posted hers I'm addressing him and his fellow abusers can't take it?

Too bad.

Anyway we know what this is.
Everyone dislikes abuse (well except some really deranged ones among us.)

So I can tell you most people on both those topics share the same exact opinion about the two lovers just that some will go extra mile to get at someone who's been giving them sleepless nights even when ordinarily they would share the same opinion if they weren't biased already.

fem29:
I think it is important to Address this young lady as well. This is a man that she dated for 5 years and eventually had a child for. How can she now say that a 100 of him are not worthy of her. What was she looking at for the 5 years. Then she admits to being violent towards him. Why though?. She has some issues she needs to work on and you are doing her a disservice by not pointing it out and just focusing on the young man. Yes I will always condemn violence but it goes both ways. Men should not hit women and women should not hit men.

Tell her where she went wrong too as well as condemning him, let us be fair.

Rose2014, I'm tagging you in this too

OP comes and says women are disposable (like tissue or styrofoam) and he's being hailed as wise and true.

Most of you guys on this forum have woman issues. I hope y'all find healing.

I'm fine thank you

TV01:
...on the contrary, gays are the worst misogynists. Any pallying up with women is purely "strategic". They are also extremely racist and ageist, as would be expected given how narcisitic the lifestyle is.

How are you? I trust well.


TV

SAMBARRY:
coco that your lace wig na die. See as the person lace the wig on your head. You con resembu all those peutorica girls



bet why you con escape albino like this

who escaped albino?

I will kee you o.