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Ewuro4:
Lol... As fake as they come
Edwife honestly I heard & learnt all these terms ( owanbe, aso ebi) via NL .. We call it party in my hood


Wow that's a shocking revelation ... I guess NL critiques are hypocrites then.
My Igbo Aunty will flaunt her George & even tell the artiste to call her latest new car she just landed and take the center stage , dance so Tay till mobile bank's out of $1 bills lobatan I must confess , had to ask her if she's sure of her paternity

Ewuro4:
Its a counterfeit oh Live from Houston TX.

Abeg I'm not gonna play ostrich on this one.. Igbos just don't dig our owanbes and ashebi aso ebi ceremonies , I get it ,that's what makes us different but trashing us is going too far.
And to think I have Igbo Aunty that knows every nook and crannies of owanbe boggles mind

@tribes
They mostly ask me same q too. I just kuku ma bring out my atlas

SAMBARRY:
Caman Sharap there Mr international man. So 10 and 13 cannot sleep alone in the house unsupervised bet they know how to sneak out of the house under their mothers nose at night to go clubbing. They know how to inflate their age because of their stature that doesn't look their age so they can enter club. As far as I am concerned they are not too small to be left alone for weeks. As a matter of fact it's the 13 year old that should be managing the 10 year old and play the role of big sister. No wonder they behave like robots. Hiaannn

babyosisi:
If is not a joke o
One man in this USA told me when he went home to search he had a suitcase filled with toilet soap and lotions
His aunts were organizing the girls for auditions
Anyone that comes,he will interview her,reach into the suitcase and give her one lotion and two tablets of soap and 500 naira for okada or keke
In one day ,he will see about 6 or more
I laff taya
One day sef he saw a girl in the morning and her younger sister came in the afternoon lol
I said nna you must have kept an exercise book for records
In the end he says he asked for three of the girls to come for a final selection and he eventually picked one

moca:
Enuf ikworkirikwor

Herzumpther:
Yes o 9. I even went for a one week deliverance program at mfm thinking it was abnormal until mum told me its normal for them to come at this my age.

babyosisi:
Herzumpther ,9 suitors just last year alone
From all geopolitical regions kwa
That is why I always laugh at these girls that tell us how scarce husbands are
Na dem sabi what they are looking for
The eligible babes are still being sought after
I am not surprised sha
If I were a man and single I would marry you too

Lol @ entering bus and running away
That was funny

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] You see am...If na me, i won't hear pim from you. Infact because of the excuses you make for him i would show you my red eye if ever u broach that subject and prepare my cutlass if dat guy stands near my domot. But i could be impressed if a young man walks up to me (not behind the excuses of my daughter),lays out plans he has for my daughter, calms my fears and wins my trust.Infact if he serenades me any longer...Im go marry me. Tell your man your dad's fears and urge him to go talk to him -even though we cringe at the thought- but if your man won't stand up for himself and you,who will?? [/color]

babyosisi:
Cococandy happy Presidents' Day
I am so enjoying this day off

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Your problem isn't difficult..though we also have reservations about these intertribal marriages especially now that divorce rates are skyrocketing, women are getting mistreated in their homes and nobody wants his daughter far away where he can't protect her....we expect your guy to pick up the gaunlet and go meet your father..man to man... and ask for your hand in marriage.That way your dad can unburden his deep thoughts to him and both can delibrate issues like men and come to an understanding..An understanding that should assuage your father's deep fears. A woman should not be sent to do man's job. [/color]

Herzumpther:
I met this guy 2 years ago and we started out as good friends. His mum is from Osun state and his dad from Lagos state. He is really nice and humble........I don't know how to describe him. At first I tot he was too good to be true because of the way he behaves...........at a point he took our friendship to another level and by then I already knew he was all I wanted, I was just waiting for him to poop the question lol. He didn't ask me out tho but made me his friend and we got so close that I became very comfortable with him and all of a sudden we just saw ourselves talking marriage and that was it. I told my dad in Jan last year that somebody was coming for me and he asked me from where, I told him Yoruba and he looked at me like...... Eh.....which part and I said Lagos. Daddy said "Herz just remove your mind from there, I will never allow you marry from the west and I won't give my blessings, the earlier you stop seeing him the better for everybody". I became emotionally down and started giving olalekan space. People still come for me and I misbehave along the line, some I just snub. Last year alone i turned down 9 suitors even tho I met another guy from awka and decided to go with him I still misbahaved but went back to him but it seems like it can never work because the communication is not there and I beg even before we see. I already decided to let him go because ......its not just working.

On the other hand the Yoruba guy still doesn't want to let go as he keeps saying I'm too different for him to let go and with me he feels inner peace. Me too my mind is kind of still there. Each time his parent visit Nigeria he will tell me they want to come but I just keep giving excuses.

Last week Saturday he called me to meet him up and pooped the question I was once longing to hear from him and as soon as I saw the ring I took to my heels, entered a bus to a destination I didn't even hear well all because it was the last seat just to run away. He came to Nigeria just for me as he shuttles Nigeria and America where his parent are based.

My problem now i can't seem to get him out of my system. Its weighing me down. I want to be happy again. Please help me. I misbehave and can't get a relationship going again. How do I stop thinking of him and be normal again??

striktlymi:
With all those horror stories??

@Bold: You are scaring me shytless. You are saying that even with the 'right person' things can still go wrong?

Mehn..this was worse than I thought.

Here was I trying to make myself believe that the only challenge is finding the 'right person'.

What really makes marriage work if it is not about being with the 'right person'?

By 'right person' I mean one who you can cherish for life, not necessarily mr or miss perfect.

mutter:
My daughter was 26 hours old!

He is on his fouth marriage after me and told me recently he wants to get married again.

MojAyo:
maybe I'm doing something dat he dnt like,dats why he is beating,so I'm gonna try to change dat,we do love each other so much

Chillisauce:
Hello babes.
Good morning. I was down with flu.
Cc, cococandy, efemenaxy.

Edwife what am I owing you

Idowuogbo:
Huh? Babe,chill na... you are running faster than your guardian angel.

bukatyne:
About?

Idowuogbo:
Girl,I don't blame you at all...My claws are coming off when my mini me rolls out o. Make i no use my dentures give my pikin tattoo.

FOREXMARTS:
Is this coming from a woman? +100 likes for you, I tried in all my comments to stay away from these part of the advice so I don't sound biassed but good a thing you raised it.

@shiningmama I having this feeling in me that tells me you still have an ace and joker card you haven't played out yet, now is the time for you to play em, go to the drawing board and come up with a game plan, even without you being able to divulge info on ur husband's character(which I understand) well let's still look for solution. Make I go read ur thread now.

A pleasant morning all you wonderful ladies.

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MojAyo:
maybe u kept doing the same thing dat makes him to hit u,children brought up in a divorced home takes marraige d way their parents take it,and it continues going on like dat in d family,if its something u re doing dats nt good,dat makes him to beat u,u need to change and dance to his tunes,men just dnt necessarily beat up a woman for nothing,if d nagging of a thing can stop for once,then he will stop beating u,cos u never knw what kind of behavior d next man u will marry have

onatisi:
you people still don't get it . Gej isn't affected ,the worst scenario that can happen is that he is not voted in ,but have u thought about the worst scenario that can happen due to reckless and irresponsible statements from people looked up to as leaders? When the women,mothers, men are been slaughtered and killed due to inciting statements from fools like obj ,does these killings affect obj family members or gej family members? When buhari statements incited youth corpers to be killed ,how many of those killed were gej,obj or buhari family members? We must not allow selfish greedy leaders to psuh us around like cows and goats all because they want to rule nigeria .

EfemenaXY:
^^ Coco, gimmie...gimmie..gimmie!

They look tasty.

soulglo:
It seems even when these women leave their lives are still in danger. One of them was already divorced and he hunted her down. This lady was already on her way out. She should have lodged in a hotel. The one who got killed last year had lived out of town in school. It was when she came back she was murdered. I hope mothers are watching these threads closely. The atmosphere you choose to remain in and raise your children is their foundation for the future. I also know of families where every single man beats their wives. It really is a learned behavior in most cases

edwife:

FOREXMARTS:
I agree with you on that but don't you think it's better for a child to grow up knowing which of the two was the bad parent than growing up and hearing from mum "your father was this, that..." And when she is with the father she hears "your mother was this and that", this leaves the child utterly confused and in a dilemma. But if the father is abusive and in the midst of it all the mother is trading the child and advising them or the child not to thread the part the father has and letting em know why she still decided to stay in the marriage they will grow up to know better, i wish and hope I won't be misunderstood, unless the situation can't be managed, if out can't then she can walk out, some men are animals. Will need to read her thread.

EfemenaXY:
No, not you. Eds.

Eds knows what she did yesterday.