₦airaland Forum

tchidi:
Bia, Coco, na rice,beans and dodo you do like say na oyibo food? .
Kippirrup!!

kiwi5:
@cococandy pls what leaf did u sprinkle at ur dodo or did u put it before frying or after?

Chipeculiar:
Goodevening everyone here, i av bin following up on this thread and i find it particularly interesting and expository. I need help on this issue....I'm in a relationship with a guy i met around august last yr....we've bin friends for a while now but communications have mostly being on phone. At first, I enjoyed the chats and calls but i later noticed some little things about him that i dont really like.....am more of an exposed person than him....from his igbotic voice to how he walks nd how he comments on some issues, i really dont appreciate. I understand that there's alot to give up for a rlship or marriage but now i feel that am going to have to teach him or complain abt many things abt him and he is already seeing me as one who is hard on him even tho he claims he is open to learning.....as at now....we quarel over little statements and all dat..my question is that, are all these normal when two persons are getting to know eachoda? ofcos he plans on getting marrid

Herzumpther:
I am expecting a visitor or .......but he is not coming to see me. I'm not sure I will want to be at home when he comes, I will just stay in church.

EfemenaXY:
Dinner!

Chicken roast, potatoes, carrots, Brussel sprouts, stuffing, gravey, and golden melon chops for dessert.

I am so done for the day. So no one had better mummy / mum me this evening jor...

Amuga:
I dont either. My husband called him this evening but he claimed he is moving to another country soon and he is coming to pick his wife. Even claiming legal action if the baby is aborted

babyosisi:
Any girl that has a fiancé going to Obodo Oyibo will wait an average of 5 years minimum to get here
I wish I could write this on a bill board
Even if he gets a green card same day he steps in it ( which is hardly the case) he will take about 3-5 to get citizenship

delightful1:
My intention is not to fight for the relationship. For some weird reasons, I just feel like talking with him and at least know Why he did what he did. I don't know Why I feel there's a need to 'talk.'

delightful1:
Been following silently and I must commend all the ma'ams on this thread for the encouragement, advice and lessons. Babyosisi, EfemenaXy, Cococandy, edwife, mutter, bukatyne, moca, kimoni and every other person, well done.

I have a complicated issue, single at the moment tho. Like three years ago, I was dating this Igbo guy. We were so in love and nothing else mattered. He was into fashion designing and was also a goalkeeper for a club then.

On the 1st of January 2012, he came to my house and asked that I marry him. He told my mum too. Didn't give him a definite answer but I was happy. Mum liked him too, he was irresistibly likable.

He had to travel out of the country in search of 'greener pastures', he wanted to go international with his football career. I was there for him, gave him all the support he needed before traveling. Months passed and no call or text from him, eventually, he sent me a text after five months or so. I would spend lots of money to buy airtime so I could talk with him, we would exchange sms and mails. Things were not rosy and there was a time I even sent him some money.

A year and few months later things changed, he began finding faults and making excuses for his annoying behavior. Little did I know he was already planning for me. He just sent me a message saying I shouldn't bother to wait for him if I'm getting impatient and he also said some religious stuffs about being a changed person. And I was like 'now I'm a devil?', I was shocked but didn't argue with him too much. Gradually, I became less bothered about the whole thing, not because I didn't love him but I didn't want to beg for his love, I don't have to or so I thought. I wanted to give him some space to see if things would change.

Recently I got a message from him asking what happened to our love, said he misses me and would like to talk. Time came to talk and he feigned ignorant of the whole message, he said he didn't send the message that he has no record of the message sef. Sent him a screenshot and he said maybe someone did. It was then I knew he now has a girlfriend who in fact is our mutual friend on Facebook. The girl used to ask me too many questions about my relationship,like she cared.

My question is, should I just let go like we never existed? I feel like I at least deserve to know Why he did all that to me. God knows I loved him with all my heart.

dealslip:
Having successfully destroying PDP. OBJ must be enjoying all the political affection and attention he is getting at the moment. I am just worried that OBJ and Tinubu who couldn't see eye to eye a few years ago are now best of pals singing the same song and somehow Atiku and OBJ, two sworn enemies are in the same camp endorsing a man they jointly defeated in the 2003 polls. I am confused about this kind of change where corrupt ex presidents and VP implicated in the Haliburton scam are also shouting corruption. The same Haliburton scandal that fetched a US congressman jail time. I can still stomach Buhari but the presence of these guys back in the presidency makes me jittery: Atiku, OBJ and Tinubu all in one group. Beware of this sophisticated pimps. I believe they joined the change train to protect their investments and interest. Nigerians shine your eyes, this isn't change, this is continuation. This is the reason we must be careful about politician, they become united when they smell power and money. Our participation is all they need not our contribution.
Buhari though disciplined to an extent cannot do it alone at that age. Nigeria is a lot more volatile and complex than what it used to be in the early 80s. These are the guys to advice him and place people into positions that matter. May we eventually get the change we actually wished for. Before you join them in heating up the polity ensure you get a guarantee from them that they, their children, wives, friends who have benefited from them would be the first line of defence while we follow from a distance. If they are so passionate about this democracy and want to show their full commitment then they must lead by example starting from the battle field. Since they love us so much then they must show it first by leading any protest that may occur as a result of any anomalies from the forthcoming election. Jonathan might join APC tomorrow and he would be welcomed with pomp and pageantry. Do not lose sleep or your life over them, they are only doing their jobs. Remember 3 million people died in the Civil war, there are no monuments to even recognise or appreciate the blood they sacrificed for Nigeria which unfortunately is still a country not a nation. The seams joining us are bursting at the hems due to the magnanimity and genourosity of our politician preaching division and hate. Please protect your life. Do not promote or encourage violence, Nigerians will suffer most.

Yadoctora:
This is like the best thread I'v read in a long while.
I have had to love and love babyosisi more over time. Efemenaxy, alutacontinua, bukatyne, cococandy, bellong and many other people av done really well on this thread. Will stay tuned and learn more.

This ghost guest mode really pays.

berem:
I graduated in 2004. Faculty of Engineering and Environmental Sciences. I studied Geography and Env. Mgt.
Walahi I missed school and hostel life

Greatest Imo star!

stecman:
Please, brethren, read what OMAR BANGURA from Sierra Leone has to tell Nigerians:

"I don't think you guys know what you are playing with. You can call each other names and laugh about it now but when you end up inciting hate here as I read through your posts here and a real civil war starts in your country you will regret what you are doing now. Your religious and political leaders are trying to divide you between religious lines and you are helping them do that rather than s...tanding up and saying we are all Nigerians never mind our tribe, region or religion. That's the only stand that will save your blessed nation. The foreign powers pushing the government to take certain decisions now will abandon you when you start killing one another and prevent you from running to their countries so be careful. Our 11- year war in Sierra Leone was not even based on religious or tribal differences and see what we did to our country. The worst conflicts are those based on tribal and religious differences. See Central Africa, Bosnia and Rwanda. To have a better knowledge of this, please watch the documentary/movie called "Hotel Rwanda" or "Sometime in April". My heart bleeds when I read what you guys are saying because I know what this will lead to. You will be the losers all of you whether Christian, Muslim, Igbo, Yoruba or Hausa. Stand as one and save your nation together because you have only one Nigeria that has the potential to lead Africa."
PLEASE HELP SAVE NIGERIA AND SHARE THIS TO AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE.
Kindly forward to your contacts until it gets to every Nigerian. God bless you. Amen

IAMBREEZY:
funny you. Imma just telling you cheaters to be loyal to your men no matter what and circumstance you find yourself, i hope yall can get it on your noggin and learn how to be gratitude and respectful to either your bf or husband, because i've read alot about nigerian women being disloyal and cheating on there hubby with another men .

berem:
I gara school na IMSU? Ole course I guru? Mu n'onwe m gakwara school na IMSU. Up school was my zone.

IAMBREEZY:
obviously women of nowadays are just fvcked up, they are shameless and ingratitude, one was even bragging with her co-thot how many men had fvcked her raw, like goddamnit! the few decent one are nowhere to be found unless if you are lucky.

ManMountain:
keep making noise, nemesis will catch up with you soon, we are Working on someone that has been giving you money, but he never cooperate to give out info, you will run away from NL when we finish with you.

berem:
nne Ala Owerri ato gbu o la m. I have missed this town so much maka chukwu! Odika ka m kwara ngwo gwo m laachi azu biri na Owerri. Ihe n'ile ebe a bu cha siriri werere.
No traffic,no stress at all.

I don't feel like going back to Lagos eziokwu but I have to for the sake of my family.

I bi n'owerri?

safarigirl:
far from it, this is not my personal philosophy, so don't get it twisted.

Whenever I post, I do so solely from feelers. Of course, with everything in life, there are exceptions so not every female lives by these rules, just a majority.

Personally, I've never been one to prioritize wealth in any relationship , sure it's something we wouldd all like as an incentive, but I've always insisted that something like trust, intellect and attraction should be more important than things like money and yes, love.

A lot of people may not like this write-up or agree with it, but if you took a survey, more women would get with the rich guy who isn't emotionally attached than the not-so-rich guy who is.

That is the sad fact of our world at present

berem:
nne m, adim mma o! Kedu ka imere?

hbpeze:
On three occasions I tried taking my own life.during the last attempt I was caught and my mum was told,guess her reply...atleast I can buy drinks very well...can you imagine.i don't know why I land with such a beast as a mother.that prefers sending me to a school in the village while my sister stays at Ghana,honestly wish there was a jihad to wipe off all women, from the surface of the earth.(apologies to the nice ones on this forum pls)

Ewuro4:
Talk about a Classic Variant of irresponsibility .. And these ones will also respond when you call up 'ABJ bigger boys'?? Aye ti baje

Our wives nag
Our kids are too loud
No TV to watch

Yen yen yen

What's next , their blockoses need a wipe?
Overgrown babies looking for excuses to stray. Marriage is NOT by force guys and Stay single.
Na una una wives & kids I pity.