₦airaland Forum

TV01:
Ideally kids should have parents of different sexes yea. I agree.
Not just opposite sex, but also their exact biological progenitors. And I appreciate some instances deviate from the ideal, but I feeling that in our use of technology and in our policy forming we should act aspirationally => towards the ideal


I see that as something of a false dichotomy, as if the choices are two hating parents or any other combination. The outcomes for same-sex or single parenting are simply not as good and are a denial of a childs rights. And one thing many do not realise, is that the outcomes are better for the child even if the parents relationship could be characterised as low-conflict.


The Gospel was reported to have turn the world upside down - as long as it's real quantifiable progress, I have no problem. I see it as a descent into madness.


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TV01:
I don't make the news, just comment on it.
Feminism demands that different things - males and female - be treated exactly the same way, hence women adopting male behavour - whilst regrettably losing female virtue. Part of the liberal ideology that pervades culture and most thinking in the west these days.

Perhaps, but was it mainstreamed, normalised, seen as a good thing? What is driving this form of that particular habit ?What kind of woman do you see as needing to pay for sex? "Kini big deal" is a rather simplistic response

TV01:
In the same way that female prostitution is considered the oldest industry? On the same scale, in the same manner. Tenuous.

Ok I've lived an admittedly sheltered life and maintain a spartan lifestyle, but I'm not totally unaware .
The point is what is driving this phenomena, or this strain of it? We know it's extant, but in a different form and with a different dynamic. It's not sugary or cougarism as described. Merely saying it's the equivalent of men paying sex for women, or worse reading it as men selling themselves sexually totally misses the point.

TV01:
How? why??


...how is this a win for the kids? Dream well 0!

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crackhaus:
See my reply to Pickabeau.

However, don't get too excited - that men need women for sex does not mean we should tolerate their excesses and bullshiit. ]

That's why there are lots of women to choose from...and this number doesn't change too drastically as we age, unlike it does with females.

dinachi:
Wetin this nonsense feminism go cause no be small! All this sharp rise in women violence against men is a direct fallout of feminist propaganda. That is why every sensible Nigerian must stop any kind of tacit support to that trash called feminism..

EnlightenedSoul:
I concur.

Now this is a development I'm welcome to observing. Hopefully - like all things surreal - it'll come with its own slew of reality shows. I don't typically watch reality, but I'd def make time to see this.

crackhaus:
Yeah I know, they're gay...

Unless you're saying there are straight dudes who only have sex with women for reproduction.

TV01:
So many insights and pointers as to why "sexual equality" will be disastrous for women.

Historically, men have placed a high value on intimacy with women and even gone to war over it. Now women are paying men? Laughable, but quite tragic. A singular lesson in how to take something of great worth and render it all but valueless.

I see lots of women thinking that financial independance somehow levels the playing field. Nope, because men do not typically seek out women for financial reasons. And the money they acquire does not necessarily secure them the men they desire or the happiness they want.

I maintain, that when women fully realise how feminism compromises the feminine imperative, they will of themselves war against it. Sharp and high status men will continue to enjoy the ride - and pick of the best quality women.

An unfolding story, but some of us can prety much forsee the end.


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MizMyColi:
Thankfully It won't.

So says the idealist in me

pickabeau1:
Why do u think so...

dapachez:
The story is very true. I drove past the scene and had to stop over because of the commotion. I met the lady's sister been beaten by the mob, the police came and intervened. They took the woman's sister was taken away with a piece of the man's penis in a polythene bag. The man had been rushed to the hospital by then and the culprit I was told drove away in her jeep. The story is that the man hit her car and issues escalated, some slaps were releaswed and at the end of the day both women started fighting with the man and his penis got yanked off(part of the penis). This incident happened at isihor between Fmorris filling station and ine filling station

Marc9:
Truth be told: If he attacked her first by raining slaps on her, then she had the right to defend herself anyway possible. His slaps would have inflicted cerebral haemorrhage, just the way her defensive bite chopped off his "john thomas".

Verdict: charge1... She's not guilty of homicide!

Charge2.... She's guilty of 2nd degree manslaughter and should be acquitted on the basis of self defence, or be sentenced to 5yrs of imprisonment at most.

There's noone here who would fold his or her arms if someone was to continually rain slaps on him/her.

Anger management is very essential!

SAMBARRY:
the lady has to be walking on egg shells she must not offend the man in anyway. Before he says where is my food.she should be racing with the food to meet him. If heoffends him penre.the family will be like I told you so. That girl is evil. She is this and that


ahen coco I dreamt of you o.this night






that we both went to idumota to buy gorge for party and then we were arguing about colour. You said you want pink I said lets take blue then you said if I don't take pink you won't buy the gorge and you won't go for the party. Meanwhile the owner of the shop put her legs on the table, was chewing gum and watching keeping up with the kardashians. So you went to show her the 2 colours and sje said whenever you people have made up your mind let me know I don't want to miss what khloe is saying



so I just vex and left the shop. You too vex and hissed at her then flung the cloth at her sales girl and left. When you got to my car i said you better enter otherwise you will trek from idumota to v.i and if you enter bus and you don't pay you know what will happen. Then I woke up.

babygirlfl:
Some women are just the greatest hurdle to gender equality. I read what some women write and marvel. It's so sad.

Dragonking:
One thing you have to know is that a man is the head of the house whether you like it it not..any woman that thinks she can control her husband should be ready to become single again...and any single lady that want to be the man in her marriage will be chanced by another lady...FACT!

Check ur bible in Isaiah 4:1

In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, "We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!"

So if you like continue to do shakara, very soon 7 other women will be struggling to marry 1 man for no gain other than bearing his name...we are getting there gradually.

donpeey22:
Lorie, but hope you read comments from ladies here implying that the man made a mistake by allowing his WIFE pay some of the house' bills. One even said that the day a man allows his wife pay bills is the he becomes a slave to her. I wouldn't have bothered if such statement came from the guys alone, but the fact that ladies made such statements left me thinking. If people have that believe in this century, then it won't be wrong if anybody says that the man owns the house afterall. I am not saying this because I have any plans to allow any woman pay any bills in my home (The gods forbid), but going by what's happening in our society nowadays, I think there is a lot of double standards in the way men and women relate these days and that's not encouraging people like us who are aspiring to get married. HNY!

WombRaiders:
All that glitters is not gold. You could end up with shinny gold sprayed aluminium crap.

On most accounts beautiful people are highly bad mannered and selfish.

I don't see the beauty of a vile woman. Being extremely handsome and a sex god myself I find myself dating girls for their knowledge, depth, spiritual balance and reservations. I have dated a lot of supposedly fine girls because of my looks but i could not stand their b1tchiness and wh0re flirting. Beauty can be a magnet but their character is what makes me stick around.

My current babe is average and a far cry from the narsistic cun.ts I dated in the past and she is definitely a keeper on all levels. To me she is a beauty only thing is that all the scars I got from those b1tches on my heart make it difficult to completely lose myself with her or any woman. I am praying to GOD to make me love again and her in particular. Only problem is that she views my looks as a sign that I am a potential cheat in the making which I am not. This is the disadvantage of being handsome or beautiful you make your spouse unnessary jealous.

milychocs:
I am horrified at the two posts above mine
....in varying degrees.....
But horrified all the same

I wish there was a way to throw things at the posters, and the liker!

damiso:
I always knew there was a reason we clicked my muslim name is also Ganiyah.its still my second name till date and I always get funny looks from my Christian friends when asked what the G in my intials stand for... my dad was Abdul Ganiyu me and the man just had one kain bond)

TDstarr:
i have actually seen a woman in the u.s. sell her dad's car she inherited so she and her husband can get a house, and you nigerian mentality girls are here wanting to reap were you did not sow

TDstarr:
smh see what am talking about?? nigerian girls wana eat their cake and have it, imagine keeping your money and i build my house with my money , you expect me to write your name, God forbid, a well educated man can write only his name on the house he and his wife sweat for, you people just have a default mentality smh

TDstarr:
women trying to imitate oyibo since 1960 you want a house with your husband open a joint account with him and build together, i have said it before i will say it again, Nigerian women dont know how to invest in a marriage or relationship, you people will be hiding your money here and there and you want to claim house you did not build

Jarus:
Well, that is me. It is my household. I am the head.

Dem no born that woman that will come and curse and threaten me.

Nibo ni month to raye oshi.