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Eziachi:
It funny he said almost the same thing about Jonathan. For them to have him near his re-election campaign shows how desperate politics in Nigeria begets of any atom of moral or principles.
He should be tested for some abuse of substance, because this guy is not normal.

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Jarus:
Any woman that will try half of this with me and still remain in my house, has not been born.

your house?
Is she a tenant?

Why won't some men have marital problems when they go about thinking the marriage is all about them and the family home is "his house".

Not nice.

Rep042:
Her sisters even supported her to wear butt pads,saying afterall some people likes it and she's one. And to signs before marriage,she once told me that she's manly(adim oke),thus hard hearted,but I advice her to pray God to remove that spirit from her ,hoping that she will eventually change.

it seems you're more concerned about the butt pads that the real issues you have seeing as you dedicate much of your write-ups to that aspect. Maybe if she decides not to wear butt pads again you will take her back?

My brother read my lips. Capital no.
You have bigger issues at stake and that is your life not the wretched foam pad thing.

Even her saying you will work like an elephant and eat like an ant shows deep hatred for you.
only you can try to figure out the source of that kind of hatred.

But put yourself away from it and make sure you be a good father to your kid. That's all you owe her now.

The biggest red flag that should have made you press the pause button was when she started threatening to kill you.

Butt pads and insults and all those other things are not even issues that can't be resolved. They are kinda minor compared to the death threats in my opinion.

Although it was wrong of you to try force what she was wearing out of her body. See what it resulted in,tearing each other's clothes in front of people. Very embarrassing.

You could have spared yourself that shame by disregarding it afterall she was wearing it on her own body.

A body you should have distanced yourself from a long time before the butt pad came into the picture. She did start threatening to kill you before that. not so? That's when divorce proceeding should have started.

never ever ever I repeat spend a night with someone who has verbally threatened to kill you or has wished you dead.
Chei nwoke m you're playing ludo with your life.
If you've not already separated from her, then you're too slow for my liking.

I don't believe this woman is well. If she hated the idea of being a mom so much, she would have had an abortion. Simples.

This is a clear case of post partum depression. Classic signs include display of intense hatred towards the new born. Her words in this OP shows she wasn't remorseful not was she afraid of the consequences. Classic signs

Some women experience mental imbalance during and after labor periods. That's why every pregnant woman should have some sort of support not for her self but for the sake of the unborn baby.
Sadly we are no very well informed about such things in Nigeria.

@normal girls
Close your legs or Use protection to avoid
"he denied the pregnancy"

Men stand up to your responsibilities so that some woman suffering from post-labor psychosis won't kill your new baby. Your new baby? Like you care

Who am I kidding?

The mental health of every pregnant woman should be adequately monitored and the baby taken from her if she shows signs of being unstable and baby can be returned when she's well again(usually takes a while though)

These kids tossed into gutters and strangled or cut to death should have been protected if there was a serious mental health assessment scheme going on in our maternity homes and hospitals.

Then again who am I kidding?

Who says the man must die first?
Can't the woman get landed property for her children in case she dies?
Or is any property bequeathed to the kids done under the impression that it is for them to survive on in case the man dies?

It is this kind of advice that will turn a rich woman's children into housemaids because she wasn't wise enough to look out for them while she was alive and they end up being servants to the new wife's kids after their mom passes away.

When you're dead will you be there to control how the new wife twists the man's head and mind? Will you be there to turn the children's inheritance back to them when she makes the husband sign them off to her own kids?

Don't always believe a man will die first. Things happen.
if I'm rich nobody can stop me from securing my children's future with whatever I can afford just because they are girls.

Typically and ideally it should be done together as a family because the husband and wife's money should belong to both of them as one but if the man is the kind of man in this OP, I won't mind going behind his back to secure my children's future.

mutter:
Allot of women these days buy land and erect houses without the husband even knowing, so men have grown very weary of such moves.

MY dear you took the wrong approach.

A man can plan something for the event of his demise but you cannot plan for the event of the man`s demise. Get what I am saying. This is for my daughters when you are gone.. and then he gets scared and begins to think that the next step is to waste him. Even this has happened often enough.
When you bought the land you gave him the money to buy it for you. At that point you submitted to him and signaled him that he is the head of the family. You also probably had that money because of his contribution in your life. Now you want to develop the land as you deem fit ,no longer through him . How do you compare a plaza with a house. And I guess your husband can foresee what you would turn into running a plaza.
Landed property is different from any other property. The way it is bought also has a certain significance.
Someone changed...YOU Changed.
You are lucky to have a good man that can fend for you. How many men have even one house. But now you want more and more and I hope you do not want to break your home. I had a friend with a slightly similar issue. Today the are divorced and both she and her husband have mental issues. The struggle for the land got very intense involving both families.

Please go back and apologize to your husband and seek his advise of what is to be done with the land. Plead with him to consider what you want and let him take the decision. Then abide by it!

After the twins they should have stopped.
Well no need crying over spilled milk.

Somebody give him a job ASAP!

edwife:
Thank God you know!I have watched it twice ...

Chills i know you joking!with the description given by efe you must have 8 pack...

Lyndaroyce na wa for you o,i will think about it maybe in the next 2 years ,but i am not promising anything,i am enjoying my freedom for now,no more buggy and nursery school-in fact lynda you are an enemy of progress aba!

Cococandy better tell her o

my cute boy is being prepared for the challenge ahead,we will come visit as soon as our wife is born....

tired ladies
bonne nuit

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Good night dear.

It was rapee. Having sexual intimacy with a mentally unbalanced person is a crime because the person is deemed not fit to give valid consent.
He should go to jail for that .

SuperModerator:
what is his crime
shey mad people no dey get konji?
he is only helping the mad woman, at least, he didn't rape her.




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LyndaRoyce:
I'm fine dear... I trust u're fine too..
Big man indeed! He's gradually becoming a man... Ready to posses what is rightfully his..(Ur lil girl).
I really can't wait to start visiting from one house to the other.... Munching chicken lap with my legs on the center table whilst watching africa movie channel...#Efemena, isn't that how nollywood made it "omugwo adventure" seem?..haha.

@edwife, khloe K shape my foot!
You beta gve ur lil baby a younger sibling b4 u begin find khloe shape..... Moreover, a lil 9month course won't spoil ur so-called gym activity.....
I wonder why this generation women chose to eat just the fruit and do away with the seed... Those days, we eat tthe fruit(kpekus) as well as plant the seed(pikin)... That's why we give birth to enough, enough hands to help with the farm work. (Nollywood).

@efemenaxy, I love that movie! Girls and lies...tsktsktsk! Its like "men and sex".... Its proudly inbuilt! Lol

Lol. If only beeevan and edwife will let you:

edwife:
So i take it that all the guys on this thread are short?

obviously

okotv:
I was beginning to wonder. Imagine someone actually carrying out a research to prove this.

there could be some truth to the research though

okotv:
and the lady should be ??
I still maintain that height should not be a criteria after all, short men tend to be stronger cause of their center of gravity. All men can't be Kobe now

Relax bro. It is all for fun. When has a marriage succeeded or failed because of the height of either partner?

okotv:
all I know is that the 21st century man has a lot to contend with. Adding height to that list is pure wickedness. What does the woman folk want ??

just tall(or a tall bank account),dark and handsome.. It can't be too much to ask for.

bennyrazz:
any kind of oath involving blood is very dangerous and potent. The problem with blood oath in relationship is if one party dies? when one party dies, the other party can't move on. If he/she does, that's breaking the oath and whatever the consequences of the oath is would befall the oath breaker. Now back to the topic@op, [/b] i think your friend husband is playing a fast one on her cuz he knows she will not accept or give in into such. [/b]

Exactly.

True Those are the kind of stories ikebe super publish.

Truckpusher have you been fvcked by a cripple before?
I don't want second hand testimonies.
Come out plain jare. I've always known you've been hiding something under that your beard and mustache.

EfemenaXY:
Don't mind Truckpusher jare. We all know he's a journalist for [i]Ikebe Supe[/i]r.



Haha!!

You sef, how you take know say his sausage dey small and fat??

Truckpusher, don't mind her jare. Just post a picture of your palm. Your middle finger will tell us everything we need to know.

As much as I like Chris rock(sometimes)
I've to admit he does tell sexist jokes.
Occasionally it is evident the discomfort in his audience and the apparent final oh-well-it-is-a-joke acceptance before they laugh.

But we are talking money then. Anything to make it I guess

EnlightenedSoul:
To put it differently, Chris Rock managed to bash men in a way that would've made the most jaded of feminazis - Angela Dork-in - proud, and yet some men actually applaud and cheer him on. I can't.

Chris Rock is a passably-funny nut, but then again I attribute much of his comedy success to his high-pitched voice, and funny-looking face. He's not nearly funny enough to listen to (the true test of comedy), and he's def nowhere in the neighborhood of Dave Chapelle's comedic genius (Tbh I feel a little dirty mentioning them in the same sentence - what blasphemy!). If you ever get a 'chance' to go to one of CR's shows, don't. Save yourself the gas! Better yet, use it as an opportunity to commit your one good deed of the day/month/year/decade by presenting the intended ticket money to a nearby charity, or homeless person instead.

In my not-quite-so-humble, but ever-accurate opinion

E-Soul

Truckpusher:
You heard about that old story about a city and kingdom of warrior women that cripples all their male captives and make them sex slaves because of a popular legend that says that crippled men are better fucckers because all their strengths concentrates on their waist.

see story.

How do they move the waist since they can't balance on their legs or knees?

Great work chronique and akposy.

Chronique I love that plantain with sauce and I im salivating over a few other dishes there. Especially those with vegetable sauce and the pastas.

A comedy of sorts. And this part had me lolling

He was said to have bragged to the community that, although the gang mentioned him during their confession, no policeman would dare enter his shrine. He was later arrested inside his shrine while attending to his customers.

Blood oath ke. Very fetish.
She better tell him she's not comfortable with it.

Why don't they just promise each other,learn to trust and be don't with it

Yea but some guys these days and the head and neck crew would rather convince young girls that it is african culture when in fact it is not.

Truth is no one can actually define african culture when Nigeria alone has a thousand different practices.

Stillfire:
Buhahaha, submission is a religious construct.

The colonialists changed our curricula and the men ran along with it.

From the opening article:

The curricula emphasised religious instruction and clerica! skills for boys and domestic science for girls. Technological and scientific based education was not encouraged. The curricula for girls enabled them to become good housewives, rather than income earners.

Notice the words domestic science, so apparently the African woman was not domesticated aka submissive to be housewives.

Chillis:
Buka don vex.

If a house fly enters the house. Two things. Open the doors hoping they will fly out or you kill them with insecticides or broom.

I prefer broom. Like that you know that same housefly won't bother you again.

Now if you let it go, it will keep buzzing in your ears and attracting its colleagues.

I hope you get my drift.

Pls, relax. Don't let anyone change the real you. Not worth it. Sometimes the people behind the computer will baffle you. Happy New yr

Try stand up comedy chilli.

This thread is not fair to short guys



R231 why didn't you find this study when I was still single and searching?
See better qualities mehn.
And I was hell bent on tall dark and handsome.

That was beginners luck. Never gonna try it again.

If I lose my twenty dollars next time I try, I won't be happy.

EfemenaXY:
See enjoyment.

How come whenever I try my hand at light gambling, I never win anything. Okay, I know you've got to play to win it (like they say), but even on the very rare occasions when I do, nothing for me jare. The most I've ever won is £10

Chimajii and Roland17 you guys are not serious. Na on top fried rice and egusi soup Una fey blow all this grammar?

Abeg relocate to literature section make we see road. Or you post your recipes and keep quiet.

Unu ahukwa nu problem n'isi ututu a

Herzumpther:
Dad's breakfast.... Wheat and Egusi soup.

Good morning everybody.

Na the man wan hammer that plenty wheat this early morning?

Original african man. Dimpka nwoke

LyndaRoyce:
Happy new year ladies!
May good fortune locate us left-right-center! Amen.
Una don start with foods and drinks?.... Pls I'm watching my weight...(Height inclusive)..
Edwife, ur baby don reach to get younger sibling oooo....
Anyways, I've got some buba-like lingeries for u.*muah! You'll love it!

How are you nwanyi oma? I'm sure your boy is a big man now.

mrofficial:
Only PDP apologists will not apply common sense because they are sentimental.

Now, has Buhari been contesting without his certificate? Let's ask Jega!

GMB2015

if he has been contesting with his certificates let him tender them Na. Is it hard? Abi he just submitted it last year to the army?

Goes to show how shady their deals have been these past years. No sincerity in the nigerian system because by his own admission now,he agrees he hadn't shown any qualification in the past to get into the leading position(flag bearer) of whatever parties he's been contesting under.

Person husband.

At least for the sake of your wife shut up about it.
Smh

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Poor you.

I pray it works out for the best for you.

prissyluv:
My dear,thanks for the input.
I have the worst case scenario here.
My mum,the name benin alone purges her. According to her,what will she tell her fellow women,umu ada etc
My maternal uncles we relate with ve directed me to the angle of praying. I ve been praying ooo
My silbings?none of them wants to get on my Dads black list. They are not helping matters at all except one. They said if i can win my parents,then they ve no problem.
Let me say we grew up having the same mentality. I for one never believed in this life that i will have the thought of marrying outside my state. But look at me now At times,the things we wish for does not come the way we want them. I ve a good man now but dont have the state...