₦airaland Forum

badoolee:
yeaaa,definitely
Is there anyone without dreams?
The dreams are high,and have been working and am still working on them

badoolee:
My dreamm
To help my man actualize his dreams
Its really a good thing when we say stories of how we startd from the root and how I stood by him





But then,I have to see the zeal in him and how determined and hardworking he his

prissyluv:
hmmmmm...at times,this situation overwhelmes me. Pls can you give me an example how igbo marriage and burial rites differ so much with the benin or delta?
Thanks anyway.

edwife:
Ah post my share o 50$

EfemenaXY:


Na wa o! Make una leave my wrapper na. It's Friday...

prissyluv:
The reasons they ve given me so far is that benin is far and that we dont have the same culture-eg marriage and burial rites,language etc.
Let me not say this points are not valid but do they supercede my happiness?
Ok,if i let this guy go and marry an Anambra man and we live outside Nigeria,how often will they be seeing me? At times,the in-laws relationship you think might be there if you marry from the same state may only exist in passing. I just tire really. My people is just being mean without at least seeing this guy.

prissyluv:
My dear,thanks so much. You spoke well. I never knew my dad can be this mean. His reasons are distance,cultural difference,detachment. How will he visit me in Benin,how will I come if there are emergency etc. He is not interested in knowing my guy.
These reasons he gave,are they heavy enough compared to my happiness
and peace of life?
If they finally do not consent to it? What will i do? Wait for another?

EfemenaXY:
Silly girl.

Still trying to decide if she looks like Ojuju or an Ashi. Probably both. Kind of explains why 3 guys were "hooting" at her.

She should ask for a refund of her N50K.

jjfuma:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJyejoz3waA&list=UUbBAsfeGtF3HlJgIEiRrKQw

edwife:
,me ke?

Ask Efe o,she is the one owning all of us....
the thing pain me o,trust me na i would have saved for my sis but chills was so quick!

Zeezy99:
What's this husband scarcity thing? I've been seeing this articles for months now? Designed to make girls feel as if they are going to die single if they don't hold on to the next broke and unambitious guy that comes their way?

ileobatojo:
I'd never heard of it before so I am surprised and very appalled.

edwife:
you didn't see it....

Chillis:
Xmas eve apparatif
FIL family house kitchen

Crevette shot and hung with sticks

Fruit puree

Chillis:
Thats what im talking about!

*Looks back*

*runs off to clean up my kitchen*

berem:
My brother,no be small tin o! My neighbour who is a sailor brings lots of fish for his co-neigbours anytime he comes back once in two months. I don't buy crayfish,stockfish,blackfish and fresh fish in the market because he gives his neighbours free. As I see free fish so,make I go dey buy for market? Mbanu! Can't remember the last time I bought fish of all types in the market.

God go bless my neighbour!

akinsadeez:
I have always maintained that the Nigerian police are always eager for public show off over tangible gains. If the man was heading to Kaduna to deliver the victim, it means there was an intending buyer. why didn't the Nigerian police make him take them to those people buying the kidnapped victims? That way the police would have been able to arrest those who are really behind this. This guy is most likely just one of many suppliers of kidnapped victims and now that he has been arrested, there are many kidnappers who are still out there supplying the buyers. The police should have seized this opportunity to get the actual buyers and put an end to their kidnapping ring rather than rushing to parade the kidnapper alone. The rate and speed at which the police rush to parade suspects is simply baffling.

Sophyrocks:


What a shame. Ive always detested men who talk too much. There's always something not right about them.

LastProphet:
I was at a place recently and many people agreed this was true, Like my brother said 80% of child dedication at his church (which is very large) was for male kids. whats your own view?

natureblack:
these girls ain't f00ls.Pictures can be deceptive.....



Nigga might have a very fat pocket,plus a sex.ual prowess and soft hearted.What else does a woman want in a man.

aderonila18:
Why would any sane person get back with a man who cheated on you with your friend then marries the friend and still cheats on her too . The man is a serial cheat obviously and he has no respect for marriage

aisha2:
Enough of blaming the mothers. The fathers probably did the same thing and they are coping
Not everything is a woman's fault.

aisha2:
You sha have energy to fetch water with a basket
Goodluck. He has a disturbing idea of what marriage neans and is ready to defend it with his life, dont bother, only pray he never gets married and subjects an innocent persons child to this trash he believes

Akposy:
tanx sir!
Happy new year

edwife:
no dear,as you can see the distance in between is quite decent.

oweniwe:
leave them feminists... Their mata don tire me... Anytime a man-woman case comes up, even if its the woman that's at fault, they will defend the woman and blame the man.... A girl dupes a guy of N6,000... The girl is smart while the guy is a broke azz maga.... "what is N6,000"??.... But if you look into those heavy bags they carry about, they dont even have N200 inside.... They dont know what they're doing.

A newly married lady insist she will not go to her husband's church at all even for harvest or special programs.... Whereas, the husband married her in her church.... If we got married in your church, then why cant you come to my church even for harvest? If the husband get angry over that... He's a kid.... He's not ready for marriage... He has no patience with his wife..... Bla bla bla...

No really committed husband will see his wife as a slave... Even the seemingly heavy handed ones.... The reason why men put up stony, strong faces at home is because if they start helping out with chores, the wife will start looking down on them and start their shabbish mentality.... The moment a man begin to treat his wife as equal, that wife will start giving all manners of excuse why she cannot cook, sweep or wash again.... If the husband start complaining, it the same women that will open mouth and say he cannot control his wife...!!...

That reminds me... If you ask ladies what qualities she want in a man,... You know what they will say.... "i want a man who can control and dominate me, i cant date a man who cannot control me.... I want a man who is proactive and can protect me.... I want a big, tall guy...."

so... Why are women complaining about master-servant relationship....??... Is that not what they wanted...??... You want a man who can dominate and control you.... If he dominate and control you, he's being wicked and heavy handed.... If he treat you as his equal, he is not "man enough"
its ok for a wife to hit and slap her husband if she's angry... But if the man retalitate, he's a monster... "no real man beats a woman"... what do you call that kind of reasoning/mentality.. [/b] if you really know ladies who think like that, stay away from them. Anyone who can beat should be prepared to get beat too.
[quote]For a wife to kneel down and greet her husband/inlaw is master-slave marriage... What are her duties as a wife? Ok... Maybe it is the husband that should be kneeling down to greet his wife

edwife:
to keep it moist and avoid burning.....