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coogar:
she needs love.
if you know any crackhead in your neighbourhood, give tpia to him.

i will pity the crackhead. I'm too kind for that

Mondisweets:
A 44year old man doesnt know that if he has sex with a female she may get pregnant?

apparently

Afrobasic:
Especially feminism (even the word irks me)

your cross. Cos you're gonna be hearing plenty of it everywhere around here.

coogar:
were you the one tpia was referring to as the lady(?) i thought she was talking about an imaginary lady - you know tpia is full of mystery

yea.

Busy body like her. Just got into something that is not her business and started looking for trouble.

She's lucky I'm not as crazy as she is.

richardjemedafe1:
I want to use this opportunity to appreciate all guys who commented positively... Am so greatfull u have given me a reson not to organize a gang rape on her so she will fills what I feel.

what a disgusting post . See me supporting you since not knowing you could think such evil in your mind.

Maybe she saw this part of you that made her say she will pour water on you when you come to her house.
I hope she makes it boiling water. Animal.

coogar:
why are you vexing?

read back up.

majekdom2:
oh now , you agree she should be disciplined ..what is she to get over ? do well to know wwhen this girl lost her virginity before you come supporting poo.

Yes . Discipline by the parents.
Not criminal prosecution like the criminal man


And
Even If she lost her virginity at 12, the more reason why she needs counseling. Means she has been going through years of abuse argue hands of different men.

coogar:
tpia, ahhh not again.

no yeye lady will end up with me. i sift through carefully before making such big decisions.

how was your christmas?

tpia2005:
i've watched this movie before.

the lady (?) will eventually end up with coogar or some other nler.

maybe prickaboo or nashville.

tpia respect your old age.
Not every time is for silly jokes.

Afrobasic:
Gracias


Possibly the last time we'll be "shaking hands" ... Let the dishing begin!

lmao.

Nothing to dish.

Tired discussions
Same lame lines
Same merry go rounds
Same adamant bullheadedness

It never ends.

You go tire
But it is hot and you can have fun while at it.

majekdom2:
when I said you know nothing , I definitely knew what I was saying read on juvenile sex crime
Juvenile sex crimes
Juveniles who commit sexual crimes refer to individuals adjudicated
in a criminal court for a sexual crime.[35] Sex crimes are defined as
sexually abusive behavior committed by a person under the age of
18 that is perpetrated "against the victim's will, without consent,
and in an aggressive, exploitative, manipulative,and or threatening
manner". [36] It is important to utilize appropriate terminology for
juvenile sex offenders. Harsh and inappropriate expressions include
terms such as "pedophile , child molester, predator , perpetrator , and
mini-perp" [37] These terms have often been associated with this
group, regardless of the youth’s age, diagnosis , cognitive abilities ,
or developmental stage.[37] Using appropriate expressions can
facilitate a more accurate depiction of juvenile sex offenders and
may decrease the subsequent aversive psychological affects from
using such labels. [37] In the Arab Gulf states [sic], homosexual acts
are classified as an offense, and constitute one of the primary
crimes for which juvenile males are charged. [38]

cococandy:
For criminal offenses.
Like armed robbery, rapee, assault , violence etc etc on the part of a minor. If they can't go to trial as adults they are tried as minors and sent to juvie AKA remand homes.
A kid will never be put in juvie because he/she had sex with an adult.
See who knows the law.
Pls stop yarning bullsheet . Arggggggh!

And in my post above I stated that rapee and assault (which is just want you described in your post ) is one of the reaosns why a minor can be disciplined by the govt by being put in juvie or a remand home.

I'm not only debating with a paedo I'm debating with one that can't read too . If you could read, you wouldn't need to repeat my points back at me to try win.

What I'm telling you which you refuse to learn is that when a minor has willful sex with an adult, the adult could go to jail for it but the minor won't.

The minor will only go to jail (juvie) for sexually related offenses if he tried to force or assault someone.

So in this case as the OP, the man should be disciplined by the state as is currently being done and the minor should go home to the parents for discipline, corrections and counseling on how to get over the sexxual abuse she suffered at this man's hands.

r231:
Suspect ke.......it wasn't me

confess

Dreyl:
really? i'm creeping you out because i professed my luv to you jokingly, seriously i never knew you would act so discourteous and i'm really disappointed and moreover it's not only your hubby that owns a gun i also possess a registered glock lets see who shoot the birds first.

Ok it was a joke ? That's what I thought at first too. Mmmmm. Sigh of relief.

Oh now I'm discourteous by being honest?
Lol.
Well I gave you enough hint to let it go.

Didn't you realize some of the jokes made me uncomfortable? Even with all the subtle hints I threw your way? Now I didn't have a choice but to be plain about it and you think I'm discourteous?

Ok no vex abeg.

Merry Xmas

majekdom2:
not delta alone .... I live in the south south and been to most south south states.majority of the teenagers are something else , majority of the parents are likes of this cococandy woman.

If the majority of parents in your area are like me, you won't exist on this thread to talk nonsense. You would be locked away somewhere same with anyone else with your mindset.

I won't knowingly let my kids exist alongside potentially dangerous people.
No body who has a record of having slept with a teenager or a child would live a mile radius of where I live.

Fortunately for you,the parents in your so called area are nothing like me

majekdom2:
where a parents fails , the state can take charge . you kow jack about the laws you are preaching .... what are remand homes for ?

For criminal offenses.
Like armed robbery, rapee, assault , violence etc etc on the part of a minor. If they can't go to trial as adults they are tried as minors and sent to juvie AKA remand homes.

A kid will never be put in juvie because he/she had sex with an adult.

See who knows the law.

Pls stop yarning bullsheet . Arggggggh!

Afrobasic:
It's been almost a yr since I last confronted a religionists, I'm somewhat cool with them now, And I don't do 'dishing', because one only gets angrier(especially if the person you're dishing is a better cook).

ok. Welcome to family section. The dishing is hotter and sweeter here[

R231 is that you?

You come resemble one of my very very good friends like that.

Hmm I'm suspecting you

majekdom2:
where the parents fails , what do you do ? who has endorsed child marriage here .... we all know child marriage is usually out of a the childs will. this is different madam. My opinions are not selfish , My daughter will take responsibilities for her actions madam . I wont leave out totally out of the scenario . you are the one not making any sense here . there is no where I have supported this man . my POINT HAS BEEN THEY SHOULD BOTH BE DISCIPLINED.

Who disciplines who?
The kid is disciplined by the parents
The adult is disciplined by the state. Agree?

NickiRoman:
..I can't believe what am seeing and the so called man as two teenage daughters ooo :-O And this fOols called men on this thread are supporting the man,If it were to be their sisters or their daughter they would have killed the man by now.What a shame!!!!

It beats my imagination why some men will kill to protect their daughters but won't mind defiling other people's daughters

The selfishness is sky high.

majekdom2:
ok , keep on with the deciet... a teenage girl is allowed to seduce a man but a man should not give in to her seductions . simply put , a man should run away when he i seduced by a teenage girl . The man should be jailed in a case where he commits and the girl can go free without being blamed.....

Exactly. Glad you understand it clearly now.

Same if the the teenage person is a boy and the adult is a woman
Or if the teenage person is of same sex with the adult.

The point is the adult is a criminal and should be locked away.

Dreyl:
why? If i may ask.

because you're beginning to creep me out.

I used to think you were joking and just teasing me. Now you're scaring me. What did I do?

Dreyl:
pretend you didn't see my post up there, btw i'm opening a thread on romance section about you.

I don't ignore or avoid you because I hate you but because your play don pass play.
You go leave topic begin discuss cococandy

It is creepy

Besides my husband is a silent nairalander. He will shoot you one day. Don't say I didn't warn you .

Afrobasic:
The no-more-trouble way of course.

trust me that is temporary.

As long as you're on nairaland. Someone will say something silly sometime and you won't know when you're dishing them their due is same language because that's all they understand.

Afrobasic:
To me, it's more like giving them a taste of their own medicine, although I'm born again now

born again as in the Xtain way? Or the no-more-trouble way?

Zoo animals like you are the reasons why parents need to keep their wards under lock and key.
You're the actual problem the nigerian society has.
Senators endorsing legal rapee of children in the name of child marriage.
This is how it starts

Since teenage girls are fair game in your opinion.when you have daughters,it will be fun watching you change positions on this your very selfish opinions.

majekdom2:
well , women like her are a problem to the society, soon such would say they are fighting for the right of women the story explains the man prmised her stuffs in exchange for sex and this did not happen just one time .The girl may have pointd fingers at the useless old man perhaps because he was the last person she had sex with . am very sure this girl sleeps around . if only a DNA can be performed before delivery. I find it hard to understand when women regard to the feminine gender as minor.

Gordieshegz:
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That cococandy of a woman has resolved to using female usual mechanism they employed while arguing with men when a woman is the subject of victimization... I am sure her line of argument would have been different if the topic had read "A FORTY-FOUR YEAR OLD WOMAN CAUGHT HAVING SEX WITH A SIXTEEN YEAR OLD BOY"....peeps like her would have remarked "no big deal cos it is her body"...Oh woman,how long will your hypocrisy lasts??

majekdom2:
where is the child's discipline when she agreed to sleep with an old man . you contradicting yourself . the girl needs to be blamed nd disciplined too.

By the parents.

But the older person is a criminal who should be disciplined by the state law

majekdom2:
it is punishable by jail when it was not at the will of the other party . my point is dont take sides , both parties should be blamed.

And the fact is that a minor is not a willful partner.
He/she cannot be considered able to give valid consent even if they seduced you the older person, you should be able to say no and walk away
If you succumb to a minor's advance, you have violated someone not considered able to give binding consent hence it is a crime.

That is why even when a minor WILLINGLY votes in an election,the vote is legally considered null and void.

Do I have to really explain that to you?

Afrobasic:
You do know that I'm on the other side right?

at the risk of derailing the thread . Why are you guys (atheists) always doing that?

Note : I've absolutely nothing against your side

Afrobasic:
Lol... Same logic they use in the religion section "why do atheist talk about religion so much?"

The answer is pretty basic

yea noticed that too. Atheists always jumping every thread in the religion section. Sometimes I wonder who they need to convince more. Themselves or others?

Dreyl:
i know but i can't erase my mind off you sweetie,it's absolutely an hard slug doing that.

i am going to get and e-restraining order against you

When a teenage boy gets a teenage girl preggers,it is an entirely different thing.
No one says stop sex education and child discipline

But a case of an adult having sex with a minor is a crime punishable by jail time. Not applicable in this context at all

majekdom2:
I mean if a teenage boy got a teenage girl pregnant. you are not doing any protection by not subscribing to victim blame . THE RIGHT EDUCATION , PROPER GUIDANCE AND COUNSELLING, PRAYER is the only protection you can give them . how do you reason ? if this girl is not blamed , when she delivers she may even continue .... I have seen cases where a teenager got pregnant twice for two different men in her teenage years. let you teenage kids know they got to take responsibilities for their actions , whether good or bad . it is not just about this topic alone it is about general living.

majekdom2:
you may say whatever you like to make yourself feel good . I have aired my view on this issue as I see it . I am not spportin the man's act neither do I have to show any pity for the girl . I deal with issues with the least or no sentiments at all . The truth remains , this girl kept mum about this and it did not just happen just one time .... she was actually expecting something in return . you can do a survey on how many teenagers are still virgins these days , and when you hear cases like these you blame the other party solely. if a teenage boy was responsible for this , you gonna blame them both and the parents I guess. The old man in this case was meant to guide the girl thru the right path , but we all know there are loads of insane people outthere.some teenagers who sleep around and perhaps read your post may have some comfort as they will continue under the excuse of being lured or being the minor or naive person as you claimed. it will do you well to rephrase what you have upthere so they can understand every individual has got to take responsibilities for his or her actions

No. If a teenage boy was involved the blame goes to the adult woman.
If my teenage son was seduced and sexed(same thing as raape) by a grown woman,I will have her arrested and she will pay for it.

Protect your teenage kids by not subscribing to victim-blame. It starts now

^^^^^ thank you.

Lol@jamie bond