₦airaland Forum

5minsmadness:
On lagos-ore traffic. Network is horrible.

Notice how its majority of you ladies supporting the blatant nakednes5 of this woman, probably cos y'all think am being prudish. I'm not. I'm just trying yo exercise a little common sense here.


Who in their right minds will wear a gym suit to travel? A GYM SUIT What kind of yeye liberty is that? And yes even in my village young girls with full breasts still walk about in some remote areas but that doesnt mean cococandy or efemena will now decide to go topless in the city! Haba. Let's be honest for once. I would have taken her picture but that could have been a bad idea as in invasion of her privacy. And anyway we are not talking of a sweet sixteen here, I would place her at 30-40yrs. It was more of fermented eye cheese and not eye candy that we were being 'forced' to watch.

yousee:
Call them hypocrites, call them fanatics, but you can't take their sense of modest dressing from them.

One of the good things I like about Muslims up North.

The Arab culture is still strong there.

EfemenaXY:
Good point.

When the colonial masters and missionaries came back (again) after the slavery era, they (especially the women) came ashore swapped in layers upon layers of hot clothing - as per their Victorian ways of dressings.

A quick look at some of the late 19th century pictures snapped with their pin-hole cameras reveals the Africans in the villages were running around bu.tt n.aked.

Even more n.a.ke.d than the poor lady 5minmadness couldn't stop og.ling at, at the bus stop.

Dygeasy:
But a large percentage

Stillfire:
Lol, not only elders, people in one form of authority or the other, from religious/political institutions to the gateman that controls the gates in a bank. The chip on the shoulder is utterly ridiculous. Let's not even talk about the abuse of power. What Nigerians deem as respect is nothing other than as.s licking most of the time.

wonlasewonimi:
No be only you like am ...all my opekes been dey jisoro am. Abeg press the capslock key on your keyboard

Emmalot121:
The solutions are extended family and polygamy. Women expectially in the west(muslims) are tapping into the immense freedom these two give. Just imagine you giving birth to a child and after weaning, there are already five people willing to care for the child. You can travel for months because your husband does not depend on your wifely duties. Think about it and give me your reply. Carefreewannabe, cococandy, what's your take? These are simply few of our lost african treasures, which we are consequently feeling the effects. These are the cheap ways to female freedom, which is easily available to you, yet you pay for it under feminism.

pickabeau1:
Who determines who the 'best of advisers' are and who the 'trolls' are?

based on likes?

i did not know there was a merit award group determining levels and ranks



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Kimoni:
Can it be averted? Can you ever be happy with someone that is killing your goals in life?

Imagine if your father stopped you from furthering your education in order to take care of him in his old age? You were top in ur class and always wanted to be a medical doctor. Can the frustration within you be averted especially when you have classmates who also have aged fathers and were able to agree alternative arrangements with them, but ur own father refused to work anything out and insist you must stop school as his time on earth is very limited.

How would you feel? Remember he seems to have very valid reasons.

Ceasar1:
The woman in the background is utterly self centered. She clearly doesn't give a damn about her family. Not even for a second.

I'm not saying she should give up her Job, but her readiness to opt for a divorce speaks alot.

TV01:
My point is that if it's a free for all,it wil be hard to keep on track. So, the First 6 volunteers - or however many it's decided the panel should consist of - will take the case.

...lets see how it goes.


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crackhaus:
The rate at which 'self-acclaimed intellectuals' spit comments without pause for sound thought on here never cease to amaze me.

The other day it was one telling me she's a supporter of post-feminism

skydeep:
But at least, a career woman should make TIME for her family especially her kids

jaybee3:
Hi Cococandy

TV01:
I meant a different panel of how ever many for each individual issue.

that may be complicated.how will it work? Say when a couple bring their issue of the moment to the thread,we vote to decide who the advisers for that particular case will be?
Well I don't know... Seems not so easy

If it's open season for contributions, how is it any different from what normally obtains?

difference is the two sides of the story will be heard this time around (unlike before) and posters can see for themselves who's actually wrong or not



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TV01:
Volunteer jo...you have a good head on you.


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TV01:
Be prepared for derailments, threads to mutate all over the place and large servings of beef - you have bben warned - no order = chaos!


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maclatunji:
It is not for everyone. I am thinking there might be mature couples who might be willing to use this platform; thare are times when a couple just need a little external help to sort them out and then they will be like: "what were we even fighting for?".

Those are the kind of people I am thinking would find this interesting.

buJu234:
can u guys see wat am seeing..

They include 612 Muslim divorcees (Zawarawa), 76
Muslim Spinsters...

Divorcees in Muslim communities of mostly young ladies in their late twenties is too much ... all over the world muslim communities need to take a proper look at this...

the practice of marrying a girl at a very young age (child/teen bride) and divorcing her in late 20s for another younger girl (child bride/bride) need to stop..

just only 76 spinsters .... but 612 divorcees..

alutacontinua:
Somebody is high on hormones

slimyem, no vex-just wait till you hold your lil angel, ya life will never remain the same again