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r231:
Abeg make I continue my dinner before it gets cold

rofemiguwa:
Ya it shud be for diarylanders,the same reason guest readers cant acess that section
The diary gist shudnt leave the diary room.

#na so e suppose be#

rofemiguwa:
Geeez!!! Is this legal, sharing someones'4 diary.
Seun this shouldnt be right, there is a reason it is called a diary.it is very private.
The share button shouldnt work in the diary section.

Mizmycoli please make sure this person approves this sort of exposure.its not a literature thread,it is a DIARY

mk3jax:
Well I have a similar issue with my wife. She was miss perfect agreeing to everything I want when she was looking for marriage and after marriage, her real self started to manifest. First it was constant complain about my family for no reason, then she graduated to wanting to control my life and determine who I am to give money or not and where I can and cannot go. She complains about everything and never appreciating anything I do. I provide all the financial need of the house 100% yet she want me to take care of her parent and siblings(both married and single ones) like i am their father and every time I refuse to send them money it is quarrel. She also expect me to praise her for almost everything she does like I demand same praise for putting her under a roof, paying all the bills, feeding her and our child and making her as comfortable as possible.
She bitches about everything I do making me feel like i am a child that doesn't have a sense of making my own decision despite being very successful in my career and handling lots of real life responsibilities that she can never imagine doing.
After the birth of our child, she turned to something else which in turn made me to make up my mind that I will never have a second child. She has time to watch all her tv programs to make herself happy but as soon as I pick my remote to play a game despite working from morning to night while she sits at home, she complains and I have over time disregarded her complains and do what I want to do to make myself happy. I have just one life to live and being married to someone doesn't gives them a control over my life and if you don't want to stay married to me again, then get the fu.c.k out of my life and go take care of yourself. I almost divorced her sometime ago but just decided to calm down. I hope we do not separate because of my love for our child but if we have to, then so be it because I will not live a life of a prisoner because of a child.

coogar:
whatever it is.....who cares?
i am not being chased by cops, my employers value my output & sister sara is forever grateful.....



which correct father?
that would be a hubby who probably borrows from his inlaws, a hubby who sleeps over in her inlaws house, a hubby who removes shirt to devour bowl of eba in her inlaws house.

i am not about that.
the only time i would be having tête-a-tête with any father in law is when i am paying the bride price....after then, he better minds his business & face his own wife.

if i then find out the reasons my wife has been misbehaving is as a result of her father's backing then that man would get verbally lashed. i don't even see such happening. if he looks into my eyes, he would get the message that my type cannot condone any nonsense.

carefreewannabe:
Where have Cococandy and EfemenaXY been lately?
And where is Aisha2?

Chillisauce:
marital status doesnt matter.


NL wife materials..

Idowuogbo
edwife
beeevan
efemenaxy
phema
damiso
Godgreat
have i mentioned chillisauce?
kanwulia
sambarry
cococandy
pickabeau (i no write 1 oh)
carefree
sophyrocks
odilafta
buka
ileogbotojo
chaircover

.....

alutacontinua:
Where is my darling wife, cococandy?

pickabeau1:
Cococandy....face your front....accord the same courtesy you requested..

You are also disappointing n embarrassing

EfemenaXY:
Really?

So how do you explain this thread of yours, opened at exactly 8:18 p.m today (less than an hour ago?)



https://www.nairaland.com/1945937/she-visits-only-night

carefreewannabe:
Bacterial Vaginosis
Chlamydia
Genital Herpes
Gonorrhea
Hepatitis B
Hepatitis C
Human Papillomavirus
Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV)
Pubic Lice (Crabs)
Scabies
Syphilis
Trichomoniasis
Yeast Infections

...

Edusouls:
Single ladies during their blossom youth years deal with single men, they rough handle and treat them vry badly, they dump them after their hard earned effort, whenever or anyhow they like, they pick among their suitors and use them as they like, some do her upkeep, some recharge phone 4 her, some pay her school fees, some help in doing project 4 her, at the end after getting what they want, they still play on the feelings of these young men, and take it as fun..an average young girl has dated at least 6 boys and a married man, between age 16 to 25, and this is the mild cases, the vry nasty one would have dated about 9 boys, 3 different married men one or two papas. Women re a big creation flop, i wonder how God feels about these lost species then when they want to get married they hope they would get a faithful husband! Noo laws of karma always prevails, what goes around comes around. Ur husband will always cheat on u, relentlessly, just as u did to many suitors at ur earlier age..

jnrbayano:
Priceless write-up.

I always say that any person who is so lazy to read the word of God in order to get enablement to discern; who a true pastor is, what message is of God etc overly deserved to be duped

My appreciation to Loretta Cococandy for leading me unto this thread.

EfemenaXY:
Crazy, selfish, self-centered, barbaric family, with an illiterate weak son for an heir.

That woman had better run to the far ends of the earth with her kids to escape them. She's even got a very valid reason to come seek refuge in the West.

Smart, loving, mum with her senses intact. I pray they never find her.

Idíöts.

Mtcheew.

SAMBARRY:
You have hit the nail on the head



in fact I can imagine the comments i would have been reading here if it was a female divorcee

coogar:
that's the truth.....
the size depends on the amount of blood the nervous system sends down there. with his orobo belly, his arteries must have gathered enough plaques making it difficult for blood to get down there....so his tool would naturally shrink.



go on google & find out the relationship between a man's pot belly & his size. the facts would shock you.

coogar:
tell them.....
everyone should work on their body.....get a gym, run up the stairs 30 times a day if they cannot afford the gym, cut out nkwobi & peppersoup after a certain age.

apart from infidelity, untimely death is also imminent......a man with a fat belly would soon become useless in bed. the bigger the belly, the smaller the pënis gets so by all means, weight issues should be the main gist in religious houses......not every problem is spiritual.



when one is overweight, what do you expect? cholesterol has clogged all the pipes. only a tiny percentage of the amount of blood necessary for the genitäls actually gets there. that's when the libïdo of the average naija wife drops to zero.



that's the annoying bit.
even if you are buying a benz.....you expect some wear & tear here and there but you do y expect it to double in size.

coogar:
it's not so black & white.
in a way, you can hardly blame married women that cheat. the only thing that can make a woman go outside is because what she has inside is no longer attractive to her.

what is the role of the husbands in this? that's what you should be looking at? men just generally stop trying to look good especially after having a child or two. what's a woman supposed to do when tri-weekly sėx becomes bi-monthly sėx?

She should go to divorce court & chase out the father of her children? cheating is the easier option. it's not like i am condoning this but men cannot just add 20kg out of nowhere,without having a baby or the hormones that makes weight gain inevitable,no excuse whatsoever while also strutting a four month pregnant looking belly, flaccid biceps and triceps & expect to still be attractive to their wives

coogar:
i think they do too.......

greatgod2012:
thank you!
Divorce is another good option in case of infidelity and abuse.
Believe me, i will gladly go for divorce(God forbid) if my spouse turns a cheat than suffering from several heartaches and fear from STDs, which means the person involved or affected has chosen to reverse to singlehood.