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ElFenomeno1:
This shouldnt be a big deal....... My wife mentioned it before we got married, i simply said whatever rocks your boat

There are other pressing issues to worry about!

Ezibless:
My opinion...

If she could endure 15 good years and didn't die,she woulda sought better solution to make her marriage work.

A thousand other couples are facing the same problem. Even a worse sinner can still repent genuinly,pastor or no pastor

ileobatojo:
The million dollar question.

But to be honest, trolls are best ignored. Or mocked.

maclatunji:
Are you in doubt?

shaggy007:
Brainlessness. You must be a woman.

It's only a r€tard that quotes another r£tard.

Next time, stfu and mind your business

Matthewbriggs:
Fact 1. Child birth is a painful process for women ...
Fact 2. The woman's body is designed for childbirth and therefore has the ability to make this process a little bit easier to bear. thank to adrenaline and other body changes.
Fact 3. But that does not still eliminate the fact that childbirth is still a painful process.

Now the bone of contention here is a Study that says child birth pain is not as painful as women claim. they funny thing is that they came to this conclusion after interviewing 320 women. Emphasis on the word Interviewing.

I think this claim is wrong because it is based on a shaky foundation. First the use of interviews to measure pain is not a fool proof strategy and the most objective tool out there. I would come to that later.

So this is what they did. They asked these women two days after delivery and two months after delivery and because their response differed they concluded that they underestimated how painful the labor pain was.


First It seem this researchers have never heard of

Memory decay. > Memory decay refers to the loss of memory over time. This is how it works information that is not rehearsed disappears as time passes. Information being held in STM is pushed out by newly arriving information. What this means is that given that child birth is not an activity that is rehearsed the information that has to do with this experience disappears with time, and In this case the new information that is the joy of the holding their new born baby in their arms displaces or withers down the old memory i.e magnitude and pain of child birth. That is why, when they were asked two months later they came up with a different answer.

Secondly we need to understand how the brain remembers pain.

Let say by chance the pain get stored in the long term memory... Depending on the pain certain types of pain may reside deep inside the stored memory (long term) in the brain and but they require a special state of consciousness to bring out these memories in really clear details. You need to engage in an action similar to that scenario to remember in concrete detail that stored memory.

For example when I was Kid I hated injections because of the pain. I only remembered in clear details the magnitude of the pain I felt when I took my last injection only when I was about to take another injection or when I saw someone taking an injection.

For example pain memories associated with rape are easily remembered and recalled, most times by the victims when they are about engaging in a sexual activity.

So what I am driving at is that let's say the child birth pain ends up been stored in the long term memory... The only time these women would actually remember the initial magnitude of the pain in clear details is when they are about having their next baby in the labor room or in a similar scenerio.

Let me ask a simple question how many of you can accurately remember how painful it was the last time you bit your tongue while chewing, Or the pain you felt when your parent whopped you when you were a kid.

The right way to go if they wanted to prove their point is by measuring pain OBJECTIVELY. Yes pain can measured objectively.

According to this report



So what they would have done is Scanned the brain of these women while giving birth to get a more objective measurement of their pain and also get a verbal response and then proceed to Scan their brain when the are experiencing another less painful activity like Mensuration and also get their verbal response. Now the can then proceed to contrast both pain measurements and responses to figure out if they are lying about the magnitude of the pain during child birth.


Finally child birth pain is subjective ... some give birth smoothly while some don't. Whether women are lying about the pain is something I can't agree or Deny until a more concrete experiment is carried out.

#Mathewbriggs

MadCow1:
https://static.fjcdn.com/large/pictures/47/00/470030_2968752.jpg



Hypocrites...



Aint shit wrong in those pics..

cococandy:
Justi4jesu do u deliver in owerri?
I've someone who wants to make contact with any of your agents.
Is it pay on delivery?
Give me a number that he can call for the transaction cos he's not a nairalander

carefreewannabe:
She doesn't understand their plight. She has no sympathy.

BananaBender:
Marital r*ape is legal by omission in Nigeria. I'm not sure by omission because it was addressed in early 2000s and nothing changed.

Even if she reports to the authorities, they are handicapped and justice will not be served.









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After, you'll see some Naija women claiming 'I'm not a feminist' because they want to be cool or liked by selfish fvcktards.
Keep on encouraging a culture/society that see women as inferior. You'll pay for it. Not just you, your daughters will also pay for the women-slaving, misogynist society you have encouraged.

Fxwarrior:
Haven' we treated this matter enough?

beeevan:
And abiaram ebe wetheral around 1. PM, kedu plans gi echi? Ekwesirim ime isim echi but m ga a tryi mee ya early. Kedu ebe iga ano echi? ima na mu ga achi umuazi ka nne okuko Maka na echi abughi school. Kedu ubochi ina ahapu O town?

SAMBARRY:
Translate na

SAMBARRY:
What is unu ahukwa bla bla bla.translation please

Chiamaka01:
Do you bear your father's name or surname? Do you want your wife and kids to bear it? If yes, does this imply that you are an extension of your dad?

beeevan:
Hapu ndi a, kedu side Ino kam mara na obu na akuku ulo orum biko. Inoro nso, ka anyi nwee life. Mmiri na ezo ebe a oooo.

bebe2:
Awwww,

Cool babe.

U obviously dnt like drama,

r231:
Amala and egg

beeevan:

Phema:
No one prays for this, but in the event it happens, and its an abnormality that could render him almost "useless" in life. . . I will honestly abort. I wouldn't want to bring a child into this world to suffer. It will break my heart forever to see him/her suffer that much.

Moreover, who says that abnormality won't kill him some years after he's born? After caring for him, growing emotionally attached to him and even losing one's sanity and job cos of the constant care needed, he still may die.

iykedare:
Chaircover
Cococandy
Efemena
Woged2005
Classy women



For fvck sake,Why are u guys giving names like
Kanwulia
Tpia
Chillisauce