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zeb04:
Cococandy, I think you should just stop trying yo lecture. some pple are just plain dumb.

You can only think successful people slept their way to the top because you are unsuccessful and just being a bitch about others or because you know how you got yours.

Heart2heart:
[size=18pt]i always check cococandy! Just kam mara ma the nwa odikwa ok!![/size]

Acidosis:
Do you even know what these ladies engaged in before adulthood? and then --- successful?

sandijey:
You should go and jump inside river if you no agree o. Keep calculating how many successful women dey naija
If u become successful sef. Who know maybe na bottom power. Is it not what u tell us that we would no. It's left to you to prove it that u did it on ur own terms. The naija wey me I know. The naija wey we dey see. Na bottom power full am. You said u wanna be successful. Good luck on your way to the top. That is not to say I do not want to be successful. But I will not delude myself that it is a free ride. Even wiv all my knowledge. I can only pray that it goes well and I don't compromise.

Acidosis:
and your boyfriends?

Those you dated and those you friendzoned?

thandii1:
Cococandy . They say it with so much authority that they know what MOST ladies indulge in to become successful. Try and mention their sisters or mum as part of the most and you see them wailing . How sane people can confidently say they know what most people do is beyond me. And they shamelessly take pride in such falsehood..kikikiki

=Acidosis post=27000185

You and I understand the truth. The favours you've received from your boyfriends can bear me witness.

Someday, you'll make it and deny you never met Emeka. The same Emeka that helped you with tutorials, and in the process, tried to take advantage.

Or Johnson that assisted you with your dissertation

sandijey:
I only got to know u because u have quoted me before and that seems personal. If u do not believe my statement , a person wiv sound mind which am sure u lack would have stated reasons why I am wrong. Instead u tried to be rude and sarcastic. Telling me to fear God. Hypocrite do u fear God? Who cares if u wanna be successful. U can become a church rat so far it makes u happy.



I expect that people who are old enough to use a public forum can argue intelligently. Maybe u need to be schooled on how to reply people intelligently. I don't criticise stupidly the way u did. If I dont agree on something I will state it. I am matured enough to know that I guess that's another thing you are allergic too.


You keep confirming that u are silly. Help me correct more of my mistakes if it helps ur ego.

Acidosis:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that statement.

sandijey:
That is u being silly again. I clearly said it's a figure of speech used to buttress my point. Aren't there different ways of getting first hand info about people. Do u have to be there. You calling me out on this is very hypocritical of u. A lot of info people get is not direct and in fact most info's we get is based on hear say from people close to them and people who have direct contact with them. So what exactly is ur point. I take offence in u trying to say I am lying. I don't no know u either and I don't wish too. I wouldn't have even quoted u or no know u existed in the universe if not that u have quoted me before which turned into an argument and I hardly have an argument on nl .you seem allergic to minding your business. You say I am not serious. But u are far from being serious.


Yes I think highly of myself. After all, I no know most successful women. What were u expecting. As I said before grow up miss.

sandijey:
Yes u are very silly. U like to think u are smart. But u are not. I no u have a personal vendetta against me. I will dish it to u the way u dish it to me. You better grow up and stop looking for loopholes where there is none.

oduaboy1:
You be winch?

sandijey:
You are just trying to be silly. Its a figure of speech. I used it to buttress my point. In order to make yourself look stupid and not me u put out figures. When people vouch for u, does it mean they follow u to the toilet? So your argument holds no water. Yes I no a lot of successful women. I don't have to name them and u do not have to believe me. This is u tryna act sarcastic wiv me again? I haven't forgotten the first one. But of all d points I made u didn't see anyone to point out but that statement just so u can argue wiv me or prove me wrong. Cococandy. Stay on ur lane.

benromeo39:
Lmao, they ignore the funny, nostalgic and informative threads and move the ones that must cause jealousy, argument and criticism to the front page.

Sophyrocks:
Aye oooo. I've never been intimidated by her beauty. Truth be told, I've seen lots of beautiful ladies. Come to my state, Delta state and see beautiful ladies abeg.

You are beautiful yourself so you cannot be intimidated.

sandijey:
No dey use small eye look everybody wey dey comment for faceless forum. Make u sef fear God.

ochon:
@Embolden, why are you being a hypocrite? Why attack the ladies that slept with the lecturers, but you leave out the shameless men, grandfathers, fathers, who are the lecturers that sleep with these girls? Ain't you shameful that female lecturers don't sleep with students, but some shameless, mòronic male lecturers sleep with these ladies before passing them? Doesn't it tell you that these men are shameless for taking sex from ladies young enough to be their daughters?

Will being fair in your assessment give you Ebola? Na wa o.

sandijey:
My dear, u have said it all. The problem is women who are even qualified indulge in it out of fear, poverty and lack of options. I am yet to see any man that will help a woman climb the ladder of success for free. Its not only happening in naija. Even abroad. I must say I have first hand info about most successful women in naija They might seem brave now to a lot of novice but they all have a past. For this reasons, I have narrowed my definition of a successful woman to someone who never ate grass. Someone who was always in grace. Someone that has a background. Someone that has name. Ultimately someone who comes from a family that is ok, those kind of successful women hardly have stories. They really don't have any reason to sleep their way to the top because of their family influence.


But u see most of this women wey no get name and no get money from the beginning and became successful. They can never tell u everything. We just see the surface but she will not tell u about the molest. Etc. Not even talking about popular women. Just women who are bosses in different organisations. Even if the woman is brilliant. At a time, her promotion will be hanging on a foolish man's desk. When she gets promoted, novices will say she got there because she has always been exemplary. Lol. They will not no her struggle and pain......

It's a bad thing but that's the reality on ground. It will not change any time soon and it might get worse. Nobody is totally sure of anything. Na my own story sure pass
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bukatyne:
The author of the article is saying that she/he does not understand the reason why Nigerian men married to foreign wives treat them way better than they would treat their Nigerian wives

jnrbayano:
What age is old to you?

beeevan:
This one cheating men are dying here and there like ants, the women should just know where the documents are before he gets crushed by a Mack truck while on weekend rendezvous with his wh*ore. Abeg no cheater should quote me to yarn opata, i know get strength for to and fro.


I doubt the mental sagacity of a man who thinks is Ok for a man to cheat and not a woman. The day you are caught cheating should be the day you stopped counting on her fidelity. A cheating man kills a woman's conscience (if she ever loved him). How some women manage to root for their horn dogs beats me, is it that they are so hopeless, docile or downright stu*pid ? Abeg make i face my work, what you accept, is what you are fed.

berem:
Yes that's my name!

That picture has been on my phone for over a year now. Someone used it for his DP on BBM and I saved it. I saw this thread and I felt I should share it.

kandiikane:
You are still asking baseless questions. Is your purpose in life to breed and please a man? If yes then you are aimless.

I don't think a man will take very well to them being told their purpose in life is to breed several children and finance a woman.

kandiikane:
Lol! Abeg comot joor! You didn't quote me but you referred to my post, same thing. It is hard to understand because it doesn't relate to the point of my initial post.


Do you believe as a woman your role in life is to be a wife and mother? Are you okay with being told because you were born with a vagina all you are to be is a wife and mother? If no, you shouldn't have quoted me.