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Nne gi akwuna!

donedy:
Otoro gbagbu gi! Akwuna!

keep on dreaming! In fact be happy that the baby is safe with granny!

Silly oaf.
You stared the insult by calling me deluded fool now you're the one who doesn't want to exchange insults.

So because I support a yoruba girl who's wronged here it must mean I'm a desperate single yoruba lady looking for who to trap with a baby.

Your xtupidity is epic.

If the guy didn't want to be trapped he could have zipped up or better still leave the baby with the mother who didn't ask for his assistance in the first place.


Onye iberibe.anu mpam. Nwa anu ofia
(Do you still think I'm yoruba?)

Isi aki

donedy:
No need to exchange insults with you. You probably have nothing doing, other than opening up legs and looking for who to trap with a baby, then end up collecting welfare, like the girl you're defending. You Ofe_manu are draining the UK reserve.

It's truly bed time.

Goodnight.

Chillisauce:
Jesu . Loretta!.

That's it. Bed time .

Mortal combat. Deadly finishing
.
Choi.

eh, who make you vex

Xtupid things

carefreewannabe:
These fools don't even know that even according to Nigerian law and custom the child belongs to the mother as she was NOT married to the father.

People don't reason. It is evident in their posts.
She's a party animal yet she didnt abort the baby to have her freedom of playing and sleeping around.
As most irresponsible girls would do.

I wish these evil people what they think is fair to this girl.

kandiikane:
To those talking shyt, this girl is in her early 20s and still does her best to take care of her child and go to uni. Which girl in her early 20s these days would think to have a child and still better herself by finishing her education at the same time? Which girl would take that opportunity if it ever arises? It shows she is determined to make a good life for her and her child and she has her family right beside her helping her raise her child. She is a very friendly down to earth girl and no one who has ever been around her would ever think she is a hoe, partying and drinking. She has her head screwed on very tight.

You're a dimwit.
Someone stole a baby from the mother and she's not guilty.

Yours is the typical mind blinded by tribalism.

Ediotic senseless close minded fool.

Weren't you afraid to go find your balls where they were shrunken in your shriveled wrinkled sacs that's why you had to hide behind someone to try insult me?

donedy:
You're gullible; that's why you jumped to conclusion to place guilty verdict on the granny. You need enlightenment. You better hug transformer because that ofe_manu won't see the baby again.

donedy:
Are you listening to that deluded soul. She is barking, since both are birds of same feathers. USA might have leniency for hoes, but Nigeria is strict!

Why don't you have the balls to quote me directly?

Only phools raised by hoes see hoerism in everything. Even when they are talking shyte and making a fool of themselves in public.

Only some towns in those states.

Even then only when the child is older and a male.

HKCOMPANY:
Not all igbo tradition, enugu state,ebony, and some part of anambra ,bride price or no bride prices the child is his

Pls don't lsten to him.

By his local/tribe laws,the father has commited a very grevious offense.
He has to be legally married to the girl to lay claim to any child he has with her.

If she says she won't marry him,that's the end. Unless the child grows up and decides to locate the father by her/himself especially if the child is a boy.(Which boys are often encouraged to do)

Igbo native laws are strict about such things.

carefreewannabe:
Not probably but definitely and not only in the UK but in 76 other countries that signed the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, or Hague Abduction Convention.

I would make hell freeze if it was my child. Knowing that part of the family is located in the USA, a country that signed the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, or Hague Abduction Convention, I would make their lives a living hell till the day I die.

Wicked family.

Stop spreading falsehood.

Igbo customary courts will be harsher on him than UK courts. UK may even grant him visitation rights.

In igbo land,as long as they are not married,the child has no business with him.

QED!

onoja12:
probably in the uk,but definitely not in Nigeria

Which elder? Did he pay her bride price?

You just dey talk ignorantly.
I don't know about your tribe. In igbo tribe,if you don't pay a woman's bride price,any child born of both of you belongs to the woman's family and will bear the girl's father's name.

So don't think I was agreeing with you when I said his village elders.
I meant people biased in his favor.

The boy's family from their name is igbo.

UK courts will be fairer to him than an unbiased gathering of igbo village elders.

Say what you know.

onoja12:
actually in nigeria its the elder who would settle this matter because she is not married to the guy,so the court can't help.there is no where in N
Nigerian constitution that give the child to the mother

bukatyne:
You know how a man's d.i.c.k can fall mistakenly into a woman's p.

Mistakes do happen.

I mean 5 months of metriculous planning sorry mistake. The girl mistakingly fell into grandma's suitcase, grandma mistakingly took her to the airport and boarded her flight.

It is the devil don shift to 'mistake'

It is well

Even in Nigeria he won't win.
Not in a law court.
Unless he intends for the village elders to judge the case

And yes he kidnapped the child.

onoja12:
i repeat a man can not kidnap his own child,secondly we all know that there is no way a nigerian would take a british citizen to court in britain over a child and win,so let us tell our self the truth

I get your point. But no need for the tribalism either

Ilekere:
He wanted her aborted. I doubt he took any responsibility for her care.

I'm telling you, his hungry family wants to use the child as an avenue to bring him back to the UK. The grandmother is a wicked woman.

She imported kidnapping crime that is synonymous with her husband's people into the UK.

Imagine a mother stealing another mother's child for nefarious reasons.

You're not serious o.

What's the tribalism for?

onila:
the girl is a typical of-emanu B1tch

fcck the whor.e with her bitchiness!

of-emanu and their trouble, tufia!

If the guy was concerned about the child's welfare,he wouldn't kidnap her.
He would take the lady to court and let them judge give a fair hearing.

All I see is a little boy controled by his mother.

onoja12:
you deceive yourself,every child needs both his or her father and mother to grow up normally,she has had the child for two years without the father,meaning the child begins to think in life all you need is a mother and the father is useless,when she becomes big she carries on that mentality,her psychology is already messed up.now just as you think the father figure can be replace so can the mother figure be replaced by his mother.the point is when it comes to a child its not about personal selfishness its about the well being of that child,if you read my first comment on this issue,i said that the girl should resolve what ever problem she has with the guy,am quite sure that before that action must have been taking the lady is question stubbornly went to hide in the uk,with the knowledge that the british law would back her,but that is personal selfishness and not thinking of the best interest of the child but hers

There's bad blood between the families.
That needs to be sorted out first. When everyone is sure no one is trying to kill them,visitng won't be an issue.

parrotibaba:
dats d problem, what could possibly cause dis kind of thought about her husband's family? dats why I suspect brainwash from d other side of d Table

Ok

kandiikane:
I know.

Please unquote my previous messages.

The child belongs to both of them. So you think he did the right thing by taking her?

What kind of mothering does he intend to give the 2yr old?

What white man's law are we talking about here? Even in Nigeria a child less than 9yrs can't be taken lawfully from the mother no matter what unless she's mentally ill and presents a danger to the child.

Only after 9yrs can a joint custody or total custody be awarded to either parent depending on the specifics of the particular case.

onoja12:
My dear a child does not belong to only the mother,a father can not kidnap his own child,i don't care what the white man's law says,secondly women are good at talking and even making up things just to get what they want,men on the other hand hardly voice their sufferings because they regard it as weakness.like i said if you must be a fair judge never decide a case by hearing one side of the story no matter how touching it is

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You heard.
What will you hear before? Didn't you hear it from the man's side.

What was the boy doing fvcking a bad wild party girl?

onila:
I heard the mother wasnt a good mum

always partying and drinking
maybe the grandmother thought she wasnt fit to train the child

Just like that?
Haba what happened?

My family can't just wake up and start telling me my husband's family wants to kill me.

Something must have led to that. And if it is something genuine,then it's not surprising that she's reluctant to visit.

No one wants to play with their life even if the threat is very very minimal.

In fact if there's possibility of a quarrel or fight,someone like me won't even want to visit because I fear trouble pass anything. Not to talk of when I'm genuinely afraid for my life.

Finally why doesn't she trust her husband?
Even if I have issues with my in laws,as long as my husband dey my corner,I'll have no fear.
Something tells me she doesn't trust the man.

They need to sort out whatever is going on beneath before the visiting issue can be addressed.

parrotibaba:
I suspect her side of d family might hv brainwashed her into thinking dat d husband's family wants to kill her or something

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Why would she believe that? Any particular incidence took place that gave her that impression?

parrotibaba:
more like she believes dat d husband's family is conspiring against her which is a lie

Mistake?

You mean the child fell into their luggage with birth certificate intact and they unknowingly ferried her to nigeria?

Don't support bad thing because you know the family involved. The girl has people who know her too. If everyone starts by saying " I know this family let me side them",
then justice can't be done.

Why will someone seperate a 2yr old from her mother?

He's the father and should have a part in her life too. Which is why a fair court should try and decide for them instead of one person going about it the wrong way.

onila:
its just a mistake
things will be corrected as soon as possible I am sure

with all the publicity going on
there is more to the story, I am sure

parrotibaba:
she refused to come back

So when the husband goes home,she refuses to go with him? Even during holiday season?
That's weird and strange.
How long have they been married and didn't the girl's family visits the boy's hometown(village) before the wedding?

So he can't do things the right way?

onila:
he cant stay in the UK

because he was an international student in the UK
he has finished with school
so he has no choice to go back to Nigeria

hes a well educated brother, with a degree in business from the university of Hertfordshire

50 calibre is a hard arssed misogynist. Don't waste you energy with him.

Amya:
It doesn't work that way. Why would you assume she extorts from her daughter's father and his family!

The worst thing you can do to a woman is take her child away from her especially one she bonded with from age 0 to 2. Please stop being biased and think for a second how this lady might really feel.

If she happens to be your sister, will you dismissingly tell her to move on with her life because children belong to their daddy?

Smh for some comments here

Ok. I believe you.

There's no need for fighting.

Let's make peace.
Hugs her

sandijey:
The ones I no can be most too!

Oh now you admit you're speaking of the ones you know.
You no longer know MOST successful Nigerian women?

sandijey:
The ones I no on first hand level.