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What's your definiton of a soulless society?

@5minmadness,I'm not laughing at your post.

pickabeau1: Yes you may be right

But it could lead to a soulless sexless society

You'll pay a fine for spelling my name in that abominable manner.

Meanwhile leave beeevan be. If she attacked you before that means you'll attack her on every thread you see her?

iykedare: seriously,I cant be digging another man `s wife. She has attacked me several times for no damn reason . And she is always hard on men.Jeez!!! it looks like no man has ever made her smile in her life or she is going thru a lot. Haba,see the likes of chaircover,bebe2 and louretta.....from their posts u can sense their respect for the men in their lives.

You're a dunce.
I'm done engaging you.

Collynzo22: This is why many of you are perpetually unemployable.
Simple question is what is making you dance around.
The title of the thread in the first place is wrong, a group of insurgents who were restricted to a forest now live in towns, occupying emirs' palaces and private mansions, yet you guys think the military are now succeeding because they were prevented from taking over maiduguri.
I know first hand what is involved in the miltary because I went to a military secondary school, those who signed up for the military also knew what they were up for.
I am not mocking them (they only do what they are commanded to do) but just asking a simple question, it is obvious you don't have what it takes to answer it.
Back to the romance section!

What's is stopping you from enlisting in the military so that you can help?
More soldiers,more work done. Reclaiming lost towns made an nth degree easier.

Oh wait. How about they reclaim the lost towns under 2weeks so that you guys can come on NL and open a thread to ask what's the secret behind the sudden success again?

Ingrate.
your fellow young men are dying at the war front you're here making mockery of them.
Yeye

25 towns ko 100 cities ni.

Collynzo22: What is holding them from reclaiming the 25 lost towns + Sambisa forest using the new strategy?

The military says they discovered a new strategy which they don't want to make public.
Why are you pained @ OP?
If they talk about their secret,you and your ilk will call them amateur and unproffesional for leaking their combat secret.

Now they are keeping it secret and winning you're not happy also.
Wetin dey worry you?

Lyndaroyce

How's the fam.?And lil' man

You're the one I see quoting her on every thread first.
You never talk true wetin you dey find

iykedare: she(beeevan) started our quarrel.

Me too.


Confused bunch. They are neither here nor there.

Stillfire: Buhahaha...I would like to hear what women who don't believe in gender equality feel about this.

To me modified primaries makes more sense.
Who'll take care of the consensus candidacy elections? INEC?
Buhari better get real.
20,000 is not a small number. if he has faith in his followership,then why is he afraid? Or doesn't he trust them?
Anyone that really support him shouldn't be bought over with money unless na fake supporters he get.

Yes. Must you quote her on every thread?

iykedare:

Toasting tactics.

Leave the married woman alone

iykedare:

Fair

coogar: hahahaha - i am a realist!
i know what daughters of Eve have suffered in my hands. it's only fair i get my comeuppance.

I'm flattered.

Time for me to start being more serious and stop trolling sometimes

missberrypop5: thanks sister. You're actually one of my mentors here.

You and this your shovel 'TEETHS'

beeevan:

Aww. Sweet girl
Reminds me of my alter ego.
Hehehehe

missberrypop5: oh yeah. You men complain alot. You Raise up topic here mostly about the bad side of a nigerian woman, you guys don't appreciate us. Check out all topics about nigerian women on here, most of them are just stating how bad we are, Marking us bad. And you hardly appreciate the good ones. It's every bad of you all. Very bad. There are lotta nice women in nigeria, and many are suffering in the hands of there husbands, yet no one appreciates them. You date a bad lady and come here to open topics like "nigerian women are all bad" because you dated one bad woman. That's unfair. Learn to appreciate the good ones out there. That's my point.

Yea hypocrisy too

coogar: i don't think it's the shame - i think it's the hypocrisy cos you can almost bet this same woman has judged others caught with the same deeds plenty times whilst keeping her own under wraps.

to then suddenly admit or confess to those deeds would break the heart of her loved ones. nigeria is a judgemental society - everyone has an opinion on how to manage marital problems.

Yes na. We have have shame.
That's why some women will die first before admitting that they cheated.

The same shame that will let a woman make her husband raise another man's child and until his death she'll never say the truth because the shame is bigger than the desire to say the truth

Agrika: Hmmm...29000 thousand people were interviewed from 36 countries by Durex (shey na dem dey make condom abi)...the results maybe statistically correct when you put into consideration that the population of Nigeria may be more than that of Thailand and thus more Nigerian women were "available" for the interview but in reality I seriously doubt the result. Firstly forget all the feminism and we-must-do-like-men-dey-do craze that is sweeping all over the country, naija women still get "shame" and another thing how was the survey conducted is it that they counted the number of women that bought Durex CD within a given period or they randomly or individually selected women within a given locality or geo-political zone in Nigeria and interviewed them or what ...the whole thing is just questionable.

I think what helps our ministry is that men think we are monogamous.

But seriously tho any man that's surprised by this news is unreal.
Who do they think men cheat with?

Stillfire: Hypocrisy?
A woman who cheats in a society that witch-hunts and is capable exhibiting mob-like violence on her is not a hypocrite but a victorious survivor. God must be on the side of the Naija woman.

bennyrazz: @cococandy the basis of the thread have been established by you "men don't cheat with goats" and the main reason why they cheat is usually caused by women who wants everything good. It annoys me when I hear women say all men are cheats, liars e.tc forgetting that the lies we tell is because of you. You women put us in that position, so no woman should come on nl to say men are cheaters, because women are the root cause of it.

Nice. Play the blame game.
Women are the reason why men are 'polygamous'
Women woo men

I believe you.

All in all both men and women cheat. We are in agreement

You might feel differently when you have a daughter.

coogar: i would accept it once my daughter turns 15/16. it's a simple law of nature. boys must chase girls.



then they should have scientifically-engineereed their semën to produce boys only. better still, they should remain childless.

Yea

coogar: hahahaha - it's not your uni alone.
the practise is widespread but that itself opens another question......why is it that only 3rd world countries top the charts of the most unfaithful?

it then means this "unfaithfulness" is connected to material gain/financial benefit. if the economy is strong, perhaps our university girls would be more decent than they are.

to some, sex for money is a means to survive.

Going by my uni days and what I used to see girls do,I could believe that.
Even the married ones who were in school with us then.


But me I was a ghud gyel

coogar: 36,000 people were interviewed from 29 countries - the survey is valid. nigeria & thailand were joint top for the most unfaithful women in the world.

It's more like they don't want to accept it.
Not that they don't know'
They really know.

Just can't accept that what they did to other people's daughters is being done to their own daughters now

coogar: and you think naija dads really think their daughters are that saintly? just because they don't talk about it doesn't mean they don't suspect the daughter is eating the forbidden fruit. fathers just keep quiet since there's no proof......

these men were also youths at a point in their lives so they know....

May or may not be true.
I saw that report too. Maybe among the countries durex carried out their research,the Nigerian women they came across happened to be higher.

But I've read about something like from another source too. A DNA expert something something.

But who cares? Nigerians are promiscuous.
Both men and women.
You can't have promiscuos men without promiscuous women.
Who do you want the men to sleep with? Goats?

Live with it @ OP.

Dads?
Story.

You must hide your boyfriend until you turn 35.
Even if he proposes before then,you tell your mom so that she can HELP you tell daddy that that good brother from the church (the reverend father's cousin) is coming on so so date to officially ask for your hand in marriage.

You dare look in his eyes and tell him you have a boyfriend AKA you're having sex?

coogar: do dads even know who's dating their daughters in this day & age?

From trans-gays-paedos-likes.



No. We didn't sinners in the house.

5minsmadness: Una don turn this thread to anoda tin.

Una go church so?

Sinners

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Erm I don't even know what you're saying.

I already said you're right.
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crackhaus: Hehehe...Is it fight?

I'm just funning around, your getting defensive and typing a long reply only means I'm more than half right.

Niceeeee

MadCow1: I generally love cooking especially the part involving the preparation of the ingredients.

I always prep all my ingredients first and lay them out across the kitchen counter before I turn on the cooker.

Cos I had a Rocky relationship with my mum as a kid cos she was always flogging me like the mad calf I was, the only way I could build a relationship with her was to be in the kitchen with her when she cooked and go with her to the market to shop for foodstuff, so at some point I became very good at cooking.

spicing a meal is an art not a science. You must have a taste in your mouth you want to achieve before you put in the first spice.

You must have a knack for spice and seasoning

You still tried.

MadCow1: 1 Knorr cube and 2 noodle spice.

I still love the factory taste of noodles so I couldn't stick to knorr.

But I think I almost over did it on the pepper. But it turned out great.

About me liking her posts?
Yes.
What next?

crackhaus: Am I right or am I wrong?

You think she liked my post because it was female versus male?
You're not serious. Were we even having a gender based discussion/debate?

Ok so do you agree that gayism will lead to paedophilia?
As against the blatant paedophilia in the face of our not gay country?


If anything,I see anyone who agrees with that BS as gender blinded in favor of the poster because he's male..


Just so you know,
Me and carefree don't always agree on every issue.
So females always siding females doesn't apply to us.

Ok

crackhaus: Not just accusing, I know it for a fact...same goes for you too