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Family › Re: Why Do Women Prefer Male Doctors During Antenatal? by cococandy(f): 1:25pm On Sep 28, 2014
The women you know probably prefer male doctors.
Not all women do sha.
Life is full of variety
sirekene: Well, my life revolves around women...... Dnt get it twisted
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 1:20pm On Sep 28, 2014
Ok.
Anyway the subject of the thread has been derailed. As is usual.
We are on a different matter now
crackhaus: I haven't read anything on page 3 & 4 tongue

What are you people even talking about? grin
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 1:10pm On Sep 28, 2014
You're so funny grin
Chillisauce: I liked too,
Oya like stalker count me in. Even though I don't even know what y'all talking about.
In summary 5min says gayism will lead to worse things like govt approved paedophilia etc etc if we all don't speak out and condemn gayism now.

So I said our own country that is so harshly anti-gay is worse off in the paedophilia aspect because we already have the govt sanctioned child marriages.

AND picky says he wonders who's liking my post when it has not bearing or point.
AND crackhaus is accusing carefree of being the liker.

Phew.
That's the summary.
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 1:09pm On Sep 28, 2014
And the likes keep increasing grin
carefreewannabe: 1 like.

Everyone happy?

It was me.
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 1:04pm On Sep 28, 2014
Thanks darl kiss


I hope not too grin
carefreewannabe: My dear,

I LOVED YOUR POSTS TODAY!












I hope ain't nobody is gonna commit suicide over it.
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 1:00pm On Sep 28, 2014
cheesy
Don't mind them.
I haven't questioned who liked 5min's post o.

Was it you? @ crackhaus tongue
carefreewannabe: I wish there was a "love button". grin
Family › Re: An open letter to Emma Watson and all feminists by cococandy(f): 12:54pm On Sep 28, 2014
Truckpusher: Your blessing is on the way,just pray harder grin

Make I go check wether angel Gab. dun come back from Obodo Oyibo with your baggage of blessings cheesy
Amen to that smiley
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 12:51pm On Sep 28, 2014
So now you're enying my like too. grin

Why won't someone like it?
pickabeau1: And someone just likes your post even if it has no bearing or point... grin grin

Peace...
It has no point or bearing because it doesn't agree with yours.
I see.
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 12:02pm On Sep 28, 2014
You win you win.

What's with that?
I didn't realize there was a contest
Na wa for una sha
pickabeau1: OK..you win....
At least we shall see it in our lifetime
Family › Re: An open letter to Emma Watson and all feminists by cococandy(f): 11:50am On Sep 28, 2014
I'm still waiting for the blessing o.

Totally agree with you about the 'kill her with love' part.
Any man who tries to get through to me with brute force wastes his time.
The only 'do as I say' juju that works for me is tenderness and loving.

Gra gra won't get us nowhere.
Truckpusher: Sorry I was in a serious prayer of binding and casting ,direct communication with the holy ghost.
Why are these your niggas lamenting?
They should just get a woman,tame her ,kill her with love and watch her worship the ground they walk. grin
On a serious note I don't really give a rat asss abt these plenty ish about feminist ideologies ,every smart guy out there knows that women are the easiest people to control,convince,use and practically make her believe anything you say or want all you need to do is to know your onions and she becomes a potty in your hands - feminist or no feminist. cheesy
Guys need to reaccess themselves and go back to the drawing board and get themselves a 'yes sir' kitty for life. cheesy

Ehe! Back to church wahala.
Did you receive the blessings I've sharing ? tongue
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 11:37am On Sep 28, 2014
How would you know a paedophiliac if they didn't act on it?
So I'm guessing the act and the syndrome are one and the same.

Very well then you've two big disorders facing the world. Right?

What are Nigerians doing about fighting paedophilia which is very rampant in the northern part of our country?

Very little.

Compared to how much we are fighting the gayism which we believe is rampant in the west.

We really must love them more than we love ourselves.
pickabeau1: A couple of Years back
Pedophilia was the crime..acting on it or not

Now..its a disorder

In our time...consent age with reduce to allow young children love and marry

Mark my words

Its gradual


Remember even the zoophiliacs are asking for freedom to love animals as they want
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 10:20am On Sep 28, 2014
I know it's a mental disorder
I know acting out on it is a crime.

So what are you saying?
pickabeau1: Cococandy


are you aware pedophilia is now about or has been classified as a mental disorder

Acting out on it is the crime now
Family › Re: An open letter to Emma Watson and all feminists by cococandy(f): 9:59am On Sep 28, 2014
Oh I live with that everyday. And despite the prejudices,I still find ways to achieve my goals and most of all stay happy as a woman.

But you as a man who doesn't want to hear that equality exists and since the senate isn't doing poo,why are you still crying? cheesy
Why won't you breathe fine and relax?
Why hyperventilate at the mention of feminism?
If you cry so much at what happens in other countries,one wonder what you'll do if it happens here.
Hang?
Na wa.
TribalEAST: congress can keep uploading laws that favor feminism but here in naija, senate aint doing shit! Live with that!
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 9:56am On Sep 28, 2014
He's meandering smiley

No you said ignoring gay people will lead to a future where paedophilia will become the norm.

You were clear on that.

And so I pointed it out to you that your homophobic society is even more paedophilic than those liberal ones.
Hence that your analogy didn't follow or make sense. At all.

Now you're twisting it.I thought you would smiley

As for paedophilia,y'all didn't fight hard enough. Paedophilia is still very much the norm in the areas that practise it. And it is the same homophobic law makers who should vote it out that are sanctioning it and praticing it too.

If we put as much energy into fighting paedophilia as we do antagonizing gays,we'd have achieved a resounding success by now.
Seems paedophilia is a smaller 'offense' compared to homosexuality
Smh.

Let me get you right,registering your disapproval for the western gay laws wasn't enough in your opinion? What more do think you can do besides resgistering your disapproval(which they don't care about to start with)
You think you(nigeria) actually have a say in their law making process?

Interesting smiley


You're right. just because someone else is better doesn't mean you can't fault their mistakes.

But you have a better chance of being taken seriously if you can be seen ACTIVELY solving your own problems.
You can't sit on a pile of dung and offer others solution on how to get out of a layer of dung.

It looks ridiculous.

5minsmadness: Just washed my car hence my delay in answering you.

This your answer is like kicking the ball into your own goalpost. Its like you don't get what I'm trying to say here. Look at the bolded in your quote. If someone was bold enough to want to pass that into law, what's stopping other countries from following suit in the future? You think it wont come up again

And yes WE went up in arms and fought hard against it. If we had decided that it was none of our business and kwpt quiet it probably would have be quietly passed into law and become the norm by now.

When the gay movement was passed into law in the 'developed' countries we registered outrage but invariably left it alone, after all, wetin concern us? But now they are essentially shoving gayism down our throats and threatening us with sanctions if we don't comply! That's what I am talking about, when we see something wrong and say its not our business cos it doesn't affect us we err because soon it will be our business and it would have grown so strong we won't be able to do anything about it.


Just because someone is better than you in most regards doesn't mean you cannot call the person to order when he makes a mistake.
Family › Re: An open letter to Emma Watson and all feminists by cococandy(f): 9:38am On Sep 28, 2014
Me? I didn't go. I'm on sentry and record keeping duties today.
Na me dey write names of all those that went and those that didn't go.
Maka judgment day grin

What do women want? How can I speak for every woman?
But what I want is to not be mentioned when niqqas create lamentation threads. grin


oh I'm trolling

Truckpusher: Happy Sunday to you too.
I'm not a pagan sad
My church is in my heart grin
Who table my case before the Lord?.......leave that thing joor baba God dey by my side.In fact we dey yearn wella cheesy

Before I forget ,wetin dem preach give una today and how much you don't loose today again ? grin

FYI: Make women just krule for one corner make men dey run the shows abeg,wetin una want sef? shocked shocked
Politics › Re: My "Miracles" Are Not Fake, TB Joshua Cries Out: Calls For Arrest Of Journalists by cococandy(f): 9:33am On Sep 28, 2014
There are Human Beings and there are human beings.
That's all I can say.

For those brainless enough to be let themselves get hyponized by these magicians?
You know where you belong
Family › Re: An open letter to Emma Watson and all feminists by cococandy(f): 9:26am On Sep 28, 2014
Why not take it up with the congress and the govt? They are the ones endorsing laws that feminists push for.
What can I do to help your pain?
TribalEAST: aren't you guys tired of these tactics? When you come up with craziness and men challenge you, the next thing you do is say they are sadists with bruised ego. It has become boring.
Family › Re: An open letter to Emma Watson and all feminists by cococandy(f): 9:25am On Sep 28, 2014
Swear that you saw me swear one swear on that post. Lol

Happy sunday to you smiley
You've turned pagan shey?
No sunday church again.
Ok. Your case has been tabled before the lord.
Truckpusher: cheesy
Beautiful Sunday morning like this ,person just dey swear up and down grin
Family › Re: An open letter to Emma Watson and all feminists by cococandy(f): 9:17am On Sep 28, 2014
All these pained people can take their tears to the congress.

I still wonder why African based men cry at feminism when most African nations still have heavy discrimination against women.
What more do you people want?
For women to be further marginalized than they already are?
Sadistic much? undecided

If you've that much problem with women's lib,pls don't train your daughters. The more you do,the more they'll realize injustice when they see it and the more they'll speak out.

No sadist should quote me on this very beautiful sunday morning
Ain't gat the gall to stomach your bile.

This post is for whoever mentioned my name on this grief and pain filled thread.
I'm not sympathetic to your plight.
I can only offer a hand kerchief.
The rest of your problems can only be solved by the UK congress and American govt.
Take your sorrows there.

Maybe they'll be kind enough to revert the traditional laws of 'women are to be seen and not to be heard' .

So that your sadistic self can be happy.
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 8:48am On Sep 28, 2014
That's where you're still being ridiculous.
A 10yr old kid can't give consent. And so it is molest.
The so called societies who you seem to think are worse off prosecute paedophiles with very harsh consequences and give them a life time of misery than your conservative naija.

Oh I forgot,is not here that 12 year old girls are considered adults because some randy old man wants to fvck her? So she has to be 'adultized' so that he can have free passage to her punny.

No it's not a weird future that will crop up from gay societies according to your 'foresight' .
It is a very depressing present that is being sanctioned by our hypocritical 'conservative' nigeria.

I'm surprised men like you have said nothing about that.I don't see y'all up in arms and defending the rights of those innocent girls that the old beasts have gotten permisson from their equally beastly parents to 'love'.

One would think Nigerians will face their problems and try to solve it first before carrying the matters of other countries who didn't complain to them on their heads like pure water hawkers.

Nna let's remove the log in our eyes first before pointing fingers at people who've done better than us in most regards.

Thought you were going to church?
You're here furnishing me with your weird imaginations.
5minsmadness: Nobody is talking about rape here. I'm talking about a full grown adult taking permission to 'love' a 10yr old, 15yr old child. As long as the child consents there will be no problem.
Yes it sounds outlandish but so did gayism a while back.

There's this song they used to sing those days 'because everybody does it , doesn't make it right...' You seem to think that the more people that are into a thing , the more 'acceptable' it is. Read about the relationship between sailors and the women and men of the Hawaiian islands. Surely that was right. Or slavery, Even the church was engaged in it so it must have been right... What about the near genocide of the Jews by Nazi Germany? Oh, now you are squeamish but that is because Germany lost. I'm not interested in how many gay people you know now, I'm telling you NOT SPEAKING UP AGAINST A MOVEMENT you know to be wrong will definitely propagate its growth.
Health › Re: Should Molesters Be Castrated? by cococandy(f): 8:09am On Sep 28, 2014
Yea.
I'm with you on this
Ceasar1: No. I don't tag with this at all.

Think outside the box, there are many ways in which sex offenders can assault others. They can still use objects and other body parts or even take pictures. I mean, just about anything to derive cruel pleasure because they'd be angry with the society.

And with this, history also shows that chemical castration has been largely ineffective in preventing sex offenders from recidivism. They can get their hands on testosterone over the internet or in the black market. We can't rule that out.

So me think mandatory long prison sentences with close supervision after release is the only hope. Or else we'd be living in a false sense of security.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:57am On Sep 28, 2014
Madcow your noodles look good wink
See your kitchen top like a surgeon's table.
Kai.

Pls tell me you used the knorr cube in place of the noodle spice. If you added the 2,na war o for your belle o.

Nice work.
MadCow1: Dinner is served.. grin
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 7:50am On Sep 28, 2014
Of course I will laugh at this.
I'll laugh at your imagination for thinking that a molested kid will be regarded as someone who gave consent.

And no frowing at it never stopped anyone. Anyday. It only drove them underground.

I know some gay guys who people would swear for as straight guys.
And within the same locality. Quite a handful that I know. Imagine the ones that I don't know.and that's in our homophobic country where people woud imagine gays will turn straight out of fear.
5minsmadness: Yes it did. Its stopped them right until the 20th century when 'its none of our business', 'live and let live' became the norm.

Did you know homosexuality was considered a kind of mental illness until just recently? And now it is seen as normal more and more people are suddenly finding out they are gay or bi- or whatever? Just because a human being feels something doesn't mean it should become the norm for everybody.

One day paedophilia is going to be seen as normal. Kids are going to be given the choice whether they want a sexual relationship or not.

Children will be raised in a non-gender biased environment and given injections to delay puberty until they are old enough to decide whether they want to remain male or female. This will be compulsory for every citizen's child whether you like it or not because by then it will he passed into law.

And so on...

You will laugh at this and say its just plain crazy, it can't happen! Well, that's what the pre-19th century people would have said about our generation.

Will give further examples later, preparing g for church.
Family › Re: Men What Would You Do If Your Wife Tells You She Wants To Practice Polyandry???? by cococandy(f): 7:39am On Sep 28, 2014
That's the part their brains don't get to when they start reasoning that way.
All men are polygamous. Ok I agree. We all agree.

Since it is proven that men and women are almost the same in number (population) there simple can't be enough women to go round every man like 4-5 women per guy.

So when you're being polygamous and yanshing other people's wives and girlfriends,the same way another man is being polygamous towards your wife and girlfriend.

You can't take away another man's right to polygamy while you're exercising yours grin grin
Sophyrocks: grin grin grin

Master key a.k.a Reservoir of stds. So since it is a master key, why is it complaining that all padlocks have been opened by many master keys? According to master keys, all master keys are free to open any padlock. For you to be a master key, you must have opened many padlocks. So why complain?
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 7:27am On Sep 28, 2014
What is the relationship?
That applies When there's a social injustice carried out against one person or group and other keep quite because they are not the victims....yet
Until it gets to them.

Barring mob justice and lynching,(which Nigerians so delight in)

what solution do you have for gays/trans presence in the society?
Has all the protest and criticism and mockery and disapproval stopped them?

5minsmadness: For those who can't read between the lines:

First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out—
Because it was none of my business

Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out—
Because it was none of my buisness

Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—
Because it was none of my business

Then they came for me—and even though it was now my buisness, there was no one left to speak for me
.
Family › Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by cococandy(f): 10:51pm On Sep 27, 2014
luvablesam: As painful as ur situation might sound,I think u shldnt have gone thru his phone cos it has hurt u n ur trust for him is now on the lowest of ebbs...don't cheat too cos of this.its not worth it.
would you say that if it was the man who went thru his wife's phone and found such stuff?
Will anyone even remember that such evidence was found while snooping?
Abeg don't make it harder for her by blamimg her.
What's the need to preserve trust when the conditions for earning that trust hasn't been met?
Family › Re: This Woman Wants To Kill Her Baby! by cococandy(f): 10:39pm On Sep 27, 2014
Very very common in lagos.
That's where I saw it first.
When it begins to rain,all those hawkers and almajiri women will bring out theirs and wear.

The rain can't stop their hustle grin

The rubber bags are fitted with holes for the head and arms for the mother.
But the baby is covered entirely.
Not like what you have in your picture. Theirs is a neck to toe apparel.
Horrendous
They probably think the small open spaces from where the mother brings out her hands and head is enough to supply air for the babies.

Apparently they know more than us because I never heard that one baby died.
But it made me very very uncomfortable to look at.
5minsmadness: shocked shocked
You've seen it before? This is the first time I'm seeing. g such a thing o!
Family › Re: This Woman Wants To Kill Her Baby! by cococandy(f):
That's what they do. I was shocked the first time I saw it.
Hundreds of women. When the rain starts,they'll wear a waterproof bag over their bodies covering the baby they are backing entirely.

So that they can keep hawking under the rain.
One actually passed close to the shop were I was at one day and I called her to come in and wait for the rain to stop so her baby won't suffocate under the bag.she refused shocked

The shop owner said I shouldn't bother, that they can't rest for a second,so waiting for the rain to stop is not part of their plans.

They gat billz to pay. wink
And food to buy
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 9:12pm On Sep 27, 2014
Where do you get all these weird pics from grin?

I'm surprised the owner of those appendages isn't curled up crying in one corner.
She strong o. Still painting nails and taking pictures. embarassed
r231: Girls be like "I don't bleach,its my natural complexion"

Keep on bleaching, don't stop........Keep on bleaching don't stop now.
Keep on bleaching.
Family › Re: Husband Or Wife, Who Should Resign? by cococandy(f): 11:09am On Sep 27, 2014
I think so too.

Resigning is not the best option.
crackhaus: So they should hire a live in nanny/caretaker...problem solved!
Family › Re: Incest Is 'taboo' But Shouldn't Be Illegal, German Experts Say by cococandy(f): 11:01am On Sep 27, 2014
Ok
carefreewannabe: I just wanted to make sure that we all understand the discussion.
Nobody was discussing marriage between siblings in Germany.


I am very much against it. To remove the law that makes such unions / encounters illegal would make incest less of a taboo and this would have severe consequences for children and the society as a whole.

Sexual intercourse between siblings is very dangerous because they have a much higher risk of having disabled children. This would not only affect the children but also the society, which has to cover the costs for health treatment and education of such children.

Moreover, children need to have the security that se.x in families is illegal. A family must be a place of protection and the law has to ensure it. To allow se.x within families would open doors to se.xual abuse within families.
Family › Re: Husband Or Wife, Who Should Resign? by cococandy(f): 10:59am On Sep 27, 2014
No but I'm serious. wink cheesy
Average rent per year in owerri is 400-500k. Average means there are smaller ones and bigger ones too. I know some pay 300k too.
You ask how many civil servants live in such areas,well many I know.
You know how far for ph too.
Abi abuja or lagos.

Even that my BIL that I went to visit in lagos pays 2million as house rent.
And that's the cheapest in their estate. Some pay 5mil"
He's an employee too. Not anyone's boss.


Don't get me wrong o. I've not said 400k is small salary but is it enough for one person to resign with no concrete plans on ground to make more income?
How much more the woman resigning when her hubby is earning 150k

Before 3 months they'll come here bothering us with stories that touch.

My own is that the person who can handle business better should be the one to resign. Not the woman resigning only to find out she can't handle buying and selling

and they should make sure they have water tight plans to execute such a big project else na gobe.
Before one year hubby will start complaining that their savings went down the drain in her business bid but yieled no fruit.
He'll even blame her but forget he was the one who pushed her into an area she wasn't good at to start with.

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crackhaus: You really be Mbaise chic cheesy
Did I just read you type 1million naira rent? What will a person on salary, or not a government official, or not an oil worker, or not a big shot in one good company, be looking for in a 1million naira a year apartment?


You're not serious cheesy
400k is not all that, abeg how many average income people earn that much in Nigeria (excluding oil workers, bank managers, some doctors, or the highly placed employees in big companies)? grin

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