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Ladies don't have common sense?
I'm learning something new

Emmalot121: Maybe you were not opportuned to attend a good secondary school or because as a lady, you lack common sense(assuming) . Let me teach you some maths; Cococandy said men = women , therefore it is mathematically correct to say cococandy is a man, isn't it? Then Mrs Name Calling, tell me why a man cannot marry a woman. This simple maths is the reason for the ever skyrocketing number of lesbians in Europe and America.

When the boy is fully grown and successful,then daddy will come for re-union.
And someone will say 'forgive him he's your father'

No wahala

5minsmadness: I posted the statement before reading your response. Sorry, o jare.

This is too posh a response for the above.
Can you deal?

BananaBender: It's so ironic that feminism that advocates equal right is considered immoral.

I wonder why culture has become this supreme-invisible god that dictates what we do as humans over our common sense. Humans create their own culture. As humans evolve, it only makes sense that our culture also evolve.

Egocentric: "thinking only of oneself, without regard for the feelings or desires of others; self-centered". I don't think people realize that this is a negative word. A lot of mofos here are proud of it actually.
You mean "our" culture tolerates men and their egocentric behavior but finds feminism despicable? Jeez.

Do you understand that ignorance can also form people's culture? It was your culture to kill twins, it was your culture to enslave people, it was your culture to shave widows heads. Do you understand that culture can support evil ways?

To be honest, I don't even know where to start from with you. Moral, culture, feminism, religion, gender roles, or family institution.

Let me start by asking you this: how does feminism obstruct a woman from being a good ambassador to her society?? How does it make her uncooperative at home?

What is a 'good wife material'?

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5minsmadness: Not understanding the reason for the violence in the first place is like pretending the problem does not exist. Look for what provokes the men and curb it and the violence will reduce. We will now know that those who remain are the serial batterers and psychopaths.

Curb what?
The way women talk to their husbands?
But I've already told you it is a recognized offense for which you can be granted a seperation or divorce. It is very legal.

How else do you wish to curb it? Apart from teaching your kids right,there's not much anyone can do about how mannerlessly others speak.

One can't be sent to jail for mouthing off at another person duh! Unless it is a racist or homophobic slur for which they only get to pay a fine.

The best is to get away from that person if you can't bear it. Permanently too if they refuse to change

Lmao. I don't like it.

But I just like to be practical oh jare. Would you rather go to jail for violent assault?
She'll still leave before you finish your sentence..

You haven't met women who when you slap them will clutch the front of your shirt screaming 'you'll kill me today'
You'll kill ne today
Hehehe.

Just pray for a peaceful woman.
There's no managing an abusive partner.
Whether physical and emotional abuse. Those kind of people need help and if you're not a psychiatrist,it's not your job to try to cure them.

Hence when it comes to abuse of any kind,the D word is not always far from my mouth.

5minsmadness: You too like divorce, haba!

The truth (whether the white man likes it or not) is that some women are just plain stubborn and a well placed and memorable SLAP restores them to default settings faster than 5 long years of fruitless dialogue during which time you would have invested and lost so much physically, financially and emotionally.

I don't believe the op is married

Thanks

datalossvictim1: Thanks !
I watched and learned from a YouTube video.

3 Ingredients
Butter
Sugar
Flour

Measurement
I did not measure like I watched in the video
I just used eye measure not from the quantity I watched in the video.

I mixed the butter and sugar together until fluffy. Then I added the flour until it became a bit sandy.
Then I kneaded it until I could mould it.

I then put the moulded shape in a cling film and left it to cool down in the fridge for 30 mins.

I then placed the mould on the baking pan and kneaded it flat out. Not too flat. Then I made the lines and fork holes I'm so immature sorry..

Yeah, then I set the oven to 150 C and baked it for an hour. If you feel the heat is too much, you can reduce it like I did when I noticed it was getting too golden brownish at the top.

There you go coco don't mind me ...

Don't mind him.
He should thank God the holy spirit is my permanent visitor these days.
I can't cuss under the influence

babygirlfl: Why the name calling? Please put your point across without such insults.

The way the breasttfeeding is described in the OP makes it sound evil.
Kilode?

Nice
How did you make yours?

datalossvictim1: Inspired by tracybee

I was bored and decided to bake.

Before & after

crackhaus: Is self-control a quality only men should possess?

No

Not a new thing. There are 35-40 year old in Nigeria who aren't married because they can't afford to yet

tatiana009: Transgenders are generally frowned upon in sports because even with the hormone therapy as long as the person didn't start it until adulthood then his bones are already developed and the bone density is stronger than that of normal woman so that's an unfair advantage. It's stylish cheating

Don't mind pickabeau.

Personally I think this transgender guy here is a closet woman hater who has been looking for a legitimate reason to beat up women.
Or how do you explain enrolling in women fights right after his surgery?

I give up

pickabeau1: Yet u persist in your line of thinking

It is a disorder which can be corrected andshe has done it
coco.. open ur mind and read up

Emphasis on disorder!

pickabeau1: Damn... i cant believe this.. you call an established science a school of thought
Google gender dyspohoria

Let me help u

Meanwhile if you believe so much about that,why did you say amen to crackhaus' prayer?
So you're a bigot too?

jaybee3 Phew!

crackhaus: Lol...

Cococandy I rebuke you in the name of God.

Sexy girl. right?

I've taken a stance. I'm not going to celebrate it. That's my stance.
Does blowing all hot over their affairs change anything?.

TV01: At some point you'll have to take a stance either way.
That it's normal and to be celebrated is now being embedded in school curricula.

In my son's nursery, there were pictures of all kinds of "diverse families" and lots of meme of equality and inclusion.
At 12 months old? I had to move my pup to a "Christian nursery"

By the time they hit grade school they are introducing full-on sexuality - in all it's diverse glory. I wan tht esole responsibility to introducing my children to ssex and ssexuality. So what happens if we can't afford independent education or don't want our children educated far away?

Live and let live may be diplomatic, but it's not practical. They won't leave it until you celebrate it.


TV

pickabeau1: And there again.. you dont get it
Science says she was unfortunate to have been born a woman in a male body (gender mismatch)
She was opportuned to go to Thailand and change to a woman

So her gender and sex now match

She wants to fight.. u are discriminating against her that she is not a woman?

why??
coco

why?

what science? It's not a consensus.
Only a school of thought

So we were right. She didn't know at first.
Even though she believes she didn't necessarily have to know.
That's why I said it's based on the misleading conclusion that they are now fully women.
I guess Brent knows better now that she has felt the blow.

pickabeau1: If u read the original post you and shirley07 will not be going this line
Let me quote for two of u

She is saying even though she has disclosed below she does not even see the reason
She has always been a woman and will always be

Note this type gender reassignment she did is irrevoicable as she has cut off her deek

All this is new and at the stage where everyone is being careful to avoid bashing from theirs supporters' club. But I believe once enough deliberations and proof that they are still physically advantaged over natural born females is established,those guidelines will be reviewed. And it won't be mistaken for hate rather common sense.

TV01: Long short is that she was MMA board licenced to compete as a woman. That satisfies. Legally it's no ones business that she used to be a he. And contrary thought or utterances will be classified as bigotry.

Any born female competitor who refuses to face a trans oponent wil be labelled hateful and bigoted. Any board that tries to make the distinction - i.e. discriminate - will be targetted and lobbied against.

It's here already


TV

You're deliberatly not getting me.
I know.
If their acting out affects the next person,is still ok then?
Whatever they do as long as it doesn't affect the next person negatively,I don't care.
But when it does,then they have to answer for it.

pickabeau1: Very deftly worded... you noticed too
I dont care about what people do with their bodies yet concerned if they act out within the parameters of their new body
coco of the all is fair in love fame

That's the problem.
I was saying it on another thread. Aren't they stepping on our own right by forcing us to participate in celebrating them?

I mean you can be gay all you want and I won't insult or ridicule you but you're going that extra ridiculous mile if you expect me to be the minister at your wedding.

Which is what most of them do and I think it is wrong.they want to be let live but won't let others live. Some of them though.

TV01: And a stance that is true to conservative instincts mixed with liberal values. Deftly worded.

The problem is that those of us who don;t agree with such - transgender competing, "gay marriage" etc. - will be labelled bigots and forced to endorse and support it.

So for example a baker will have to bake cakes celebrating SSM and a photographer forced to cover "gay weddings". Your position is workable as a "live and let live" proposition, but that is not enough fo rthese lbbies. You have to endorse, if not outright celebrate.


I do like a fit chick sha!


TV

@ pickabeau,going by this thread alone,it wasn t indicated that his opponet knew BEFORE the fight.
Unless there's another article explaining that.
Even then,if she knew it before hand,her accepting to fight would be because of the misleading conclusion that a transgender man is a woman through and through.
I guess now she knows better.

I've seen sexier ones
Can you beat this?
Same person

crackhaus: Oh damn, by my honour I would never suspect this person to be once a man...see fine specimen

But God please never let me come in contact with a sexy fine thing like this who was once a man...I beg you lord in the name of your beloved son

How does this even make sense?

Someone grew up a man,so because he feels he's feminine and had a sex change to boot,means all the internal manliness he aquired while growing up doesn't matter anymore when he's fighting a woman?

I'm still re-reading the thread to see what equality has to do with the topic

Truckpusher: The topic didn't say she was harmed in any manner,it was a fight and it was a sports event and the he-she won not after pummeling her like a bag of garri

Like someone rightly said it was a lot easier when we had two genders yet some people will scream equality.
Equal rights,yes but equality no way.
The difference is clear.
Oya make una fight una fellow woman

pickabeau1: This was your first statement
You also said u were aware gender and sex are two different things


What is ur opinion on transgender

Yes anyone can do what they want with their bodies. Who says I've to be ok with it?
Recognizing that I don't have a say in what anyone wants to do with their body makes it easier for me to deal with seeing such things happen.

I don't consider gender and sex to be different. I only said I recognize that some people do.
For me being born in a male body or female body makes one inherently so.
But I recognize the fact that there's a different school of thought.

I don't have opinions about transgender folks.I don't understand how someone born female will think she's male inside.so I can't have an opinion on something I don't know how it feels.
But I respect their feelings and will regard them the way they want to be regarded.

Only that I'm not gay. So if a man who used to be woman decieves me into a relationship,I'll be mighty pissed. Or woman who used to be man comes to compete with me in a fight,I'll see it as deceptive.

pickabeau1: I ask again.. where is the deception you are referring to

You ar free to ascribe any motives to the post - your prerogative

However I find your posts inconsistent

You are ok with transgender but not happy she is fighting as a female?

If her opponent didn't know she was born male and as such not a fair match,then it is deceptive.
It can't be that hard to understand

Who says I'm ok with transgender?
Misinterpret much?

I read the post. You so love to misinform.
No where did it say she knew before the fight that her opponent was born a man.
Even the MMA wasn't aware.

I wonder where your glee is coming from.
That a woman got beat up?
Your topic says it all even.

And no I didn't say anything about being ok or not ok with transgenders. simply because it is not my place to be ok or not with what anyone wants to do with their bodies.
Not anyone's business.

But when they want to do something to someone else,then it becomes other people's business.

pickabeau1: exactly i dont get her grouse.. she is ok with transgender but is not ok with them fighting in whichever category they choose to based on their current gender



Did you read the post at all

She knew he was once a man... so whats your point

Is throwing the baby away with the bath water the next logical solution?

even if such movements have their downsides,is regulation worse than total annihilation of such movements?

For example in Nigeria where gays can be mobbed to death by an irate group,can you say a movement for their rights does more harm than one or two gays misusing the benefits of the movement?

Same as feminism.
Would you consider a movement for the actualizing equal rightts for women worse than a few women misusing the benefits of the movement?

Funny I knew it would be just a matter of time before someone mentions feminism
I think there a thread going on for that already on front page.
Let's not derail this one.

crackhaus: Is there anywhere in the article where the injured fighter (Tamikka Brents) say she didn't know of Foxs' sex change before the fight?

Another fighter said this:


Clearly, they already know about the sex-change thing...and like I said before, the reasons for allowing/disallowing a fight with her are mere technicalities @emboldened.
No one is deceiving anyone is what I'm trying to point out.

Alternatively, If you're now saying that the people who let the she-male fight only did it to avoid backlash, then we can't blame Fallon Fox for anything.
If we are to cast blames, it should be on the system that gives people the right to do with their bodies what they deem fit: Gays, Lesbians, Transgenders, Abortionists, etc.

Maybe now you can see that most of these movements while looking progressive, contemporary, and modern on the outside, actually cause more harm than they would like to admit.
This includes Feminism, pun intended...

Men and women depend on each other to survive. We would be nothing without each other.

ferdimako: It is by doing and not by saying. If u hugely depend on men to survive... how then do u claim feminist? Those women are the bomb...because they put their money where their mouths are.