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You’re just ranting incoherently now. Please keep in mind the topic of conversation. See the screenshot below.

Let me indulge you in this case and say that wokeness is insulting. Look at the screenshot again. This is what’s got you in a tizzle? Being called out for the nonsense you typed below. Got it. Next time I’ll be unwoke and tell you’ve done well.

And again what has my location got to do with this? I certainly didn’t mention it. You brought it up like it’s something that bothers you. Hmmm

You mean all Nigerian women resident in Nigeria are okay with your insults? Is that how they express their femininity to you? Allow you insult them?

Never mind actually. You don’t seem to have anything original to say. Just regurgitating nonsense
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Munzy14:
Long ago I have known you are just unintelligent with your antics.

You jumped into my mention with an indirect insult, when I figured and returned your BS in a language you will understand, you started playing victim..Typical pretender feminist of Naija origin..
Keep deceiving the gullible ones you hear!
All of a sudden it is now generalization according to Nairaland female prefect. When facts are glaring..typical naija woman taking to western side starting to feel fly

Keep deceiving them..ONLY if they realize you don't practice what you preach here.

Woke online, weak offline

Focused men seperate corn from chaff..

Feminine ladies with mind of their own, must be separated from feminist with her mentality.

Your bringing emotions only will endear the Big L to you here.

Keep your BS coming.

Obrigardo:
Well if they were making money off the hate I would say they are hungry peeps. But building a personality around hating Meghan is just pretty sad and pathetic. If she was a politician that would be understandable.

I don’t know if they make money from it but if you stay around long enough, you’ll see it

She’s a divorced woman who didn’t hide her face in shame while living out the rest of her life in loneliness/misery like she and all western divorcees deserve. Instead she dared to think she was good enough for a prince . How dare she?

The hate is coming from a place of ideology because they don’t know her personality and never will. But she represents everything they hate in a woman. There’s no logic to it

Imagine a slvt in who’s presence you can’t exist

Must suck to be in that kind of quandary

SilverOrLead:
He already did

He said King Charles told him to his face...

That's why he married that slut in a move to spite the Royal family.

Even his wedding looked more like an Oscar as it was filled with celebrities and zero royal families across Europe.

Obrigardo:
What did Harry do to you? Did he take your livelihood or made your family wretched? I don't understand this hate.

there are people who’s personality depend on hating Meghan and whatever pertains to her

Is this what you understood from that?

advanceDNA:
Nobody fit tell me say this guy no be omààlę


Wait...u want them to skip first born male and give u his younger brother, the throne??
Be like say Jacob behavior no dey finish every generation...

Meghan! Meghan! How many times i call u...no let overambitiousness kii you... u go just let ur husband bcome suspect if anything happens to Williams

All this because I called you out on your unintelligent generalizations?

Tell me what any of this nonsense you just typed has to do with location and place of residence. Predictable. Am I misleading them by telling you to stop insulting them.

Oh now you respect the feminine ones? You mean the ones that read your insults, ignore them? I’m sure that’s your definition of feminine. Next time I’ll be feminine and tell you that you’ve done well.

Just take your L and move on. Next time remember those ones you claim to respect before you start typing nonsense.

Una no dey rest. Monday to Friday, January to December.
Someone will just come and create a concocted story knowing it will trigger you guys into insulting women and like clockwork, you take the bait and start regurgitating the BS you’ve been bottling up inside.

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Munzy14:
As usual..Misleading some females with the false hope of defending them. Who even made you a defender/prefect for the females on nairaland?

I really pity the ones residing in Nigeria and taking you seriously..You will pollute their mindset and psychology with the western cancerous feminist abracadabra that has scattered more homes than fixing them.

Again, I won't be shocked if your type is under a firm grip of traditional masculine figure, but come online to pollute mindset of young ladies..Call it online "pretence ".

I put it to you that you are even putting emotion in response to most comment you've mentioned, not even pinch of logic came to play.

The beauty of GenZ age is that men are becoming more logical and aware to the females like you and the coded manipulative emmotional blackmails.

Much respect to the traditionally groomed feminine women out there..I hold them in high esteem...

descarado:
Will ripe one be good for fufu?

I’m not sure. I thought they were tasting like they were unripe because of how you described them

One of my dear friends is a Jehovah’s Witness. I have immense respect for her and how she conducts herself. Very admirable lady

Just use it to make fufu I guess

descarado:
For some reason, I tried one African shop online and bought a box of ripe plantain.
It looked like our normal plantain and quite big but tastes like unripe banana. Seems like it's a crossbreed.
How can plantain taste like banana bikonu?

The good side of it is that it's good for diabetic people as its not sweet. My family no gree chop am. I dumped everything in the freezer, thinking of what to do with it.

I bought wateryam from the same shop. I saw purple yam online, gonna get it. Ate it a lot.

I didn't grow up with White yam. It's either the traditional types we farm, (not good for pounded yam cos they are not starchy. Sometimes some are a little bit bitter),water yam, purple yam and òna.
I still prefer them.

Typical. Insult all the women you know and expect coolness in response from the one person who actually defends them.

Go and tell them to their faces that you think they put emotions first and only. No side talking behind their backs.

Munzy14:
I am not expecting anything cool from a coded feminists engrossed with western acclaimed wokeness which is cancerous.

Facts are glaring.

Even you, if placed in authority, Will soo much abuse it..Going by your online antics..
Let me start by telling you in your comment.

Dshocker:
Men don't abuse power, except from few.

But most women will abuse it.

yet we have more terrible leaders and power abuser who are men.
You see things right in front of you and decide to be blind to the facts of it.

Speak only for the women you know personally. Matter of fact go tell it to their faces.

These daily incessant misogynistic generalizations are getting ridiculous

Munzy14:
Truth.

But it will be tagged misogynist case.

A friend told me recently, his wife school ends the day he married her..No more upgrade.

If he needs a doctor or lawyer in his house, it should come from their children.

I think issues like this made him have this stand.

Women abuse power and authority..They place emotions first and only.

A man helped a common typist reach a point of almost becoming a judge..His compensation was a divorce letter . If not for the fact some of his in-laws are understanding, that marriage would have ended since.

Truth is this same man won't do this in his next life.

It is well..

deepwater:
Lol

I am more concerned about your friend's power and capabilities to MAKE or not make his wife or daughter a judge at will

Is that how judges are made in Nigeria?

Like Why didn’t he make himself a judge?

Has all that power and couldn’t get himself American citizenship to be with his family to the point where his wife is plotting a divorce just for a blue passport

BluntTheApostle:
I can't understand why good breeding is becoming rare.

You jumped into my conversation with someone else.

For your information, I made a subsequent post where I told someone else that it is not about religion, and that a professor may be fired for showing a painting of Jesus in such a way that they might be perceived as proselytizing.

There is always a motive for something.
Please, it is not hard to be civil.

Obviously was not responding to your “subsequent” post therein lies your dilemma.

And No I don’t maintain civility or play “nice” games when you’re asking loaded pretentious questions. Go play those games with someone else.

What I said was straight forward with no room for secondary interpretation.

See this one getting emotional because of vaginá

jahsharon:
You are a useless sinner, and you will rot in Hell Fire. Yul did not abandon his family as you jobless poke nosers are circulating. He only followed the foot steps of Abraham the friend of God, Isaac, Job, David, Solomon, Moses, e.t.c. by taking more than one wife. If you are not following the holy men of God that I listed, who then are you following? Lucifer or Judas? Because Jesus Christ had no wife. So, it's either you are following the great men of God, or you follow Christ and not marry at all. Any other option will lead you to rot with your father Lucifer in Hell Fire

Mryacks:
She kinda milking the whole ish too...enough abeg

SugarGirl44:
E don do hanty.
Seems you’re now enjoying the sudden attention.
Mtcheew.

Kobicove:
Exactly my thoughts also, almost as if she's doing everything possible to turn his kids against him

bluefilm:
Women and their dick measuring competition all the time.

Must she remind the other woman of what she already has?

Why always women?

So she should stop using her personal social media page because busy body bloggers won’t stop marking news out of irrelevant things? . If she posts her pictures on her personal page, that’s no one’s business except their who decide to make it their business

BluntTheApostle:
No one would have complained?

So, you are saying the United States education system is prejudiced against Muslims?

No one would have complained about a purported historical painting of Jesus Christ being shown in class.
Meaning the Christians are not sensitive about that kind of stuff.

I don’t know how that led to the conclusion you arrived at. Please go brush up on your comprehension skills

They ruined themselves.
All they had to do was find a willing and enthusiastic partner who is in the same age bracket as them.

There’s nothing great about old men who can’t get willing women of equal standing with them

Hendrixky:
Hmmmm

Great men way that hole don ruin nor be small

BluntTheApostle:
It is not about Islam.

If the professor had shown the picture of Jesus Christ in class, and a student complained, the professor would still have been fired.

First of all no one would have complained and she most certainly wouldn’t have been fired

Muslims will never insult other faiths

Then proceeds to call Christians pigs.

Your hypocrisy is sickening

Birniwa:
The problem with these pigs practicing this ill-conceived and half-baked religion called Christianity more especially the Nigerian goats is that they lack manners and respect for other faiths.

Muslims anywhere they are, will never insult other faiths, it's a teaching from the Holy Quran. Why can't you just learn from this excellent teaching but instead you jump into attacks anywhere you see a topic of discourse about Islam or Muslims.

Now look at what people with sense like America are doing to protect others. They think the teacher (as a Christian) has no right to attack any other faith and so, resorted to firing her instead. However, some adulterated pigs here in Nigeria are ranting that they should ban Muslims from entering their country. You probably do not think holy of your gods and do not care if any one insults them. Keep calm, no Muslim will ever engage in such nonsense with you.

is he helping them or is he giving them something with hopes for something else in return?

Is the reason why he hasn’t helped your colleague because he can’t get said thing in return from your colleague?

Stop sounding like the man is some philanthropist who favors women when you and I have an idea why he probably does what he does

Axis313:
I just got thinking right now, why some men are ready to offer assistance to women rather than their fellow men, even those men might be in real need of assistance.

For instance something happened as of recent, not to me though but my senior colleague at work.

There is this "baba alaye honourable", a married man that always visits this my co worker, and he is somewhat loaded, he owns some trucks and some other businesses. Whenever he visits this my colleague, he only comes because of one thing: women, and they are somehow plenty for my area. I mean housewives and single mothers, the man never do single ladies, and he always give them load of cash to support their small businesses, sometimes 50k upwards, even in the presence of this colleague of mine who he never deem fit to help financially except to take him to "buka" and buy food and drink for him. Even though he always promise my colleague that he will help him somehow, but nothing to show.

It is what happened recently that got me thinking, there is this woman beside us, she sells beer and other thing in her shop, ehe started recently and this is the first time this "honourable" will see her, but this woman, a housewife got all the package, and they got talking, this woman have no phone, the "honourable" bought her one new Samsung Galaxy phone and gave her some cash and provisions (even though the woman gave me some of the provisions ), but this my colleague never get anything from the "honourable" except food and drink.

And this got me thinking, why some men always ignore fellow men in need of help and help women.

I am not here to bash anybody or any gender, the thing just dey baffle me.

ElijahIme1992:
All dis one u are arguing doesn't matter, don't forget it is a man's world and you ladies are just there to make it fun and interesting for men... A word is enough for the wise, if u like u heed it or not, at least I tried to warn u... Don't go and rub shoulders with ur husband at home oo.. u no go like the outcome...

You think the people responsible for the life you have and the breathe you take are only here to make the world interesting for you. Tell me you don’t think without telling me you don’t think.

I mean if a woman didn’t creat you, where will you be existing to have the so called fun?

You only realized you needed a partner because you had an illness and no one was there for you.

All kinds of selfishness reeking from this post

Mille:
Let me share my own experience in Europe. Before leaving for Europe, I cohabited for the last two years in school. We continued our cohabitation when I finished school and returned to Lagos until the day I left for Europe. So I had no problem getting sex since I left for Europe.

I enrolled in a Masters program where I get to spend at least 6 months each in different countries. Then, I was a skinny average dude.

1. First Stop: Cluj, ROMANIA;
-Beautiful women all through. Student city. I think this is the country with the most beautiful women in the world. Matched with plenty people on Tinder. Went for some dates mostly with fellow students but I think they were more curious than interested due to the scarcity of black people. One even mentioned if Nigerians don't eat vegetable oil because I'm not as bulky as those black Americans. I think the fact that I wasn't staying long in Romania didn't help either.

Loved a Portuguese exchange student who stayed on the same floor with me and was taking her time returning the favor after dates and group clubbing (I was only clubbing because I liked her). Finally scored a Romanian/Hungarian girl after two months and mehn, she was a screamer. The whole floor knew what was going on throughout the night. Word got to the Portuguese girl and she became distant. The Romanian girl essentially became my girlfriend till I left Romania. Homely and submissive. Honestly, the best relationship I ever had. Took me to her parents, bleeped her there. When it was time to leave, she didn't want distant relationship and asked that I leave school and we can relocate to the UK as a couple. I rejected it (sometimes I regret rejecting that offer)

2. Next Stop; Kassel, GERMANY.

I think Germans are the worst women a man will ever date. Ugly, assertive, domineering and always frowning.

This was where I finally understand how hard it is in Europe. For the first months, I didn't even score female friendship with Germans (I think the fact that I don't speak German is a big determinant). I was always able to do so with Nigerian and African women but not with the Germans or other Europeans. On my multiple trips to Frankfurt, I thought about branching many of the multiple sex houses, but man, I'll never enjoy paid sex.

I was finally able to score a 40+ divorced German mom of 3 who stayed in a small City close to Frankfurt. This was the hardest I have done to convince a woman. Her daughter was 18+ and it usually felt somehow when I go there on weekends. But mehn, I was grateful for the avenue to cum.

I think if you're interested in African women, you won't have problems in Germany as long as you're above the same African woman in a social standing. If not, OYO. African Men have been here without having sex for years. African women have been lonely here for years because they want commitment. Both African Men and women are not having sex together because their needs are different.

3. LYON, FRANCE:

I want to forget my experience in France. It was so dry. I wasn't even scoring matches online. And the ones you meet face to face will give you their number and leave you in read. I was left with the opportunity of returning to Germany and continuing the final semester in Lyon, mehn, I ran back to Germany.

4. HAMBURG, GERMANY.

I finally stayed in a big English speaking city. Met many Nigerians here as I also rented a flat with other Nigerians. To get women here, you have to be ready to club. If you can deceive African and Nigerian women about your finances and your commitment to marriage, you'll get a lot of black pussies. Many Africans here have finished their studies and are finally in the big city to earn cash. They have also come to the realization that they are getting older without a partner and that the white men only used them to satisfy a fetish.

My Opinion of German women remain the same. Unless you like the challenge of masculine women. People don't even know Angela Merkel has an Husband. Fortunately, there are plenty of fishes in this city that are not Germans. So if you dress well, have your finance in order and outgoing, you shouldn't have a problem getting laid. To do less work chasing women, just target the plus-sized ones.

Unfortunately, I caught a bacterial infection which was causing a lump under my armpit. Before, during and after the surgery, I was all alone in the hospital. My roommates wey busy racking up shifts, my lays were not there during the time of need, I finally appreciated the communalism of Nigeria and the need for a partner and not random sex objects. I returned home to Nigeria, started working remotely, got married and had a daughter.

I expect to go back to the abroad this year or the next. I'm not in a hurry though as I earn USD from here.

If they are known to do all these, I wouldn’t sell to them either. No need increasing the risk to your personal safety when you’re already at risk in the sex industry work

Ibrahimcoomasie:
We can scream racism but who do you report to? The police or some other sex trafficking organization? Remember that is is an ilegal activity. It's like telling the police that a crack dealer wouldn't sell to some particular customer based on race.

I have done some reading on this topic. Some other reasons mentioned already and some not mentioned yet here. Reasons why escorts put up a NO black gents in ad listings, or will decline a black client:

1- Hygiene: there are stereotypes that black, and to some extent Indians are unhygienic. It is a common stereotype in the sex worker industry.

2- Black men haggle on price after initially agreeing on price before meeting up.

3- Some black men are endowed. A prostitute aim is to make as much money as possible without being hurt down there and recuperating.

4- Some black men try to love-vendor the girls

5- Some black men are violent. They will bring out a gun so as not to pay for sex

6- Some white men will not buy sex from girls that sleep with black men or do not have a no black gents note on their ad. (This is common in the pornography movie industry to an extent. The values of the alot of girls drop when they start interracial sex.

7- Outright Racism



Ps: some black escorts and hookup girls also decline blackmen.

I don’t think it should be illegal. It’s a very personal service and they reserve the right to say no to any clients that don’t fit their preferences.

1Sharon:
I never knew this was going on.

If a man has money and wants a certain service, he should be able to get it, what he looks like should be irrelevant and I think that should be illegal.

You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

Really? I thought it was only Nigerian women that are undesirable?

There are forums where certain phrases are blocked from getting through

Not to mention they push certain topic straight to front page . Maybe not him personally but the MODs can sense which posts will garner traffic because of the hateful nature and they shoot it straight to front page.


To me that’s intentional. It’s gives such posts more visibility and gives the impression that such things are tolerated if not welcome.

GloriousGbola:
2006 - 2010 - seun was very very very hands on. and he was run ragged.

and it was easier then, because internet was expensive. now internet is cheap and this is the real reflection of society.

there is a limit to how much you can control the misogny and religious bigotry etc

it is a problem all large forums face

i dont know how many mods you can get, as moddiing is mostly unpaid and the humanists are definitely in the minority.

how far do you think you would go as a mod with the hundreds of hateful posts everyday?

if you go through seuns post history, you will see he is a feminist/humanist/ mellow atheist

i am not sure there is that much he can do about the true reflection of nigerian society.

meobizy:
Picture two and three show edema. Was the pregnancy normal? The last picture shows weight gain from stuffing herself during pregnancy. If she hits a gym, she won’t snap back, but she’ll look a thousand times better. I will never understand why African women let themselves go after childbirth.

You’re ignorant if you think pregnancy related weight gain is due to food. Some of you just open your mouths to talk about things you’re painfully ignorant about

But he lets misogyny run amok

GloriousGbola:
Seun has carried this forum through four presidential elections.

The 2015 election was brutal as the site was hacked by people probably backed by state actors because there was too much anti government material

Seun has disconnected from Nairaland and is not really that concerned anymore. Why I can't say. But it is what it is. Seun is a humanist and in the past he was very hands on however that is probably impossible now

There have been multiple reports which Seun responded to that this platform is infested with pro apc bots. The bots apparently like and share pro Tinubu posts. Seun has promised to do something about this, so it is possible there is a filter in place that stops monikers registered after a date or with some particular traits from editing or changing themselves

It is not really fair to Seun to accuse him of cashing out or anything else. He has always been in a precarious position in one way or another. Back in the day muslim hardliners threatened him because there was so much anti Islam stuff in the platform.

Like I said in 2015 the site was hacked and wiped. It was a six month old version that was ultimately restored

Seun has called Tinubu a person who built lagos with drug money on twitter. He has attempted to be as neutral or as objective as possible as he has also referenced Obi's past controversies

Adakintroy:
14 is already ready for sex. Don't take a mans life away because you all are trying to dominate nature with reason.

shameless

CHoccolaTE:
Serves him right, his kind are on Nairaland here, they like claiming 13/14 year old are experienced olosho and it is OK to molest them. Serves him right.

they are notoriously quiet now

When he was questioned by police, Jimoh admitted he communicated with the profile, but claimed it was more like a “father-daughter” relationship.

Is that how his father treated the daughters?